Never invest on a girl who isnt ur sis. Anyway, Sorry about dat, God knows best

I don't pray to meet such come to talk of getting married to her. Why venture into an avoidable trouble

jhasper:
sometimes I walk round, I see guys with their ladies. and I look who is next to me, the only person I see is my shadow.
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I can't bear this pain any more!!!!

in this age where blind men have two wives... See ya life. Anyway having a girlfriend is not the ultimate

Why settle for that when there are more decent women with at least bearable past around? Continue with her at ur own risk

Chai chai.. I know it must be deeper life

Not enough justification for formication

We are watching... Wish them the best though

I see this development causing more harm than good.... Increase in crime rate

Lilteece:
If my own blood brother could said that to me then what will a stranger call me? I was struggling to speak out so he said why can't i stop this nonsense, he called me slowpoke, i have tired everything within my power to stop it buh i can't, i think he was influenced by others to call me that, they are angry because i stopped talking to them because they make fun of me, call me all sort of names, i couldn't bear it any longer so i stopped going close to them, now my brother at home have joined them, i have tired every therapy, buh i just can't stop it, eveything within my power, if someone want to make fun of me he will ask me a question, if i try replying to him he or she will either laugh or make a mockery of me, my father is okay with me buh my mother and my brother (recently) always complain, people call me mumu, mugu all sort of name, it hurts alot

I know a stammerer who happens to be the MD of a manufacturing company with over 500 staffs

2papa:
I was born in Port Harcourt, I Schooled in Port Harcourt, All my Family are in Port Harcourt, I worked in Port Harcourt. But am tired, I love Lagos and want to relocate. I don't have relatives nor Friends there but I felt I will make it in Lagos. Should I Relocate?

please I beg u in the name of God, don't add to the over population here. We already have more than enough struggles here in lag. Stay in ur PH. God bless ur hustling o'er there

She don smoke sabo weed

praxs:
May your 1st daughter pass through exactly what this girl is passiN by through in another womans hand when she reaches 13years! AMEN.
She will be asked to wake up earliar than normal andbath other kids. When the child in her wants to play, she wil be scolded and beaten mercilessly. The husband of her madam will join hands and beat her up for being a xhild she is suppose to be. This is my sincere prayer for ur 1st daughter when she is 13.

I'm tempted to say amen to that... She's a shameless woman

chiomaabigail:
Good morning mummies in the house. PLEASE THIS WILL BE A LITTLE LENGHTY. I was so angry this morning, so I feel like offloading the anger by speaking out. I have a girl of 13 years. She is good girl but at the same time she can drive me crazy some time. Several times, when she misbehaves, either I scold her or I beat her depending on the gravity of her offence, most times I expect my husband to atleast scold her whenever she misbehaves but he won't, he will just come and softly talk to her thereby making me look wicked . For instance, I have told her several times when she wakes in the morning, put water on the gas, go and take your bath, then go and prepare the children while I prepare their food pack and feed them. That way, we will go to school early. I have told her several times to do this but she keeps messing up. This morning I found out she has not taken her bath, I scolded her and told her to go and take her bath, she entered the bathroom and after wasting time, she came out without taking her bath. I beat her up, when my husband came out he ordered me to stop beating her and gently told her to go and take her bath. That made me look like the wicked one while he is the good one. At the end I ended up preparing the children, prepare their food, feed them, packed their lunch box etc. Mothers will understand how it is preparing the kids in the morning and the pressures involved. I really don't know the ways to handle this issue because I am angry with my husband for making me feel like the wicked one before the girl. Please mature advice please.

a 13 years old maid for crying out loud to put water on the gas and prepare the children, can she prepare her own self let alone another? And you can come here to boast of child abuse... smh

Chai... The bully enter aunty kemi no b small. She finally got her match

This woman is another were alaso

IamMissMarvel:
I know they are grieving and all but her English is a mess.

RIP to Henrietta, God rest her soul.

you are one of the problems of Nigeria...

victovrry:
It has been three years of our marriage now, I have been the one always saying sorry as a man due to the fact that I always want a happy home; she has been refusing kissing after our marriage which she knew I love most before we got married; she don't care about me as I do to her, can I say shes doing this intentionally to achieve something ? We are expecting the second baby now ; Men in the house I need advice that can correct this .....

pls lemme see ur teeth

MrNiceGuy79:
I am 37 years old. We got married 6 years ago and had two children. I come from a well off family so life wasn't difficult. I have always been able to get money from handouts from my family as well as some rental properties that I inherited. As a wedding gift my parents bought us a house that is now valued at about 180m Naira. To be honest, I haven't really been working very hard to chart my own financial path and I don't really know why. I have no motivation to do business, start any business or even work in the family business. I've started to believe it is because the person who is supposed to be supporting me the most, is always putting me down. Any time that I come up with a new business idea she crushes my dreams, telling me how bad that idea is. My father passed away a few years ago and everytime I tell my wife I have gone to do business with my mum, or I want to buy a piece of land with my mother and brother, she gets upset. Now here comes the abuse: when we argue and she tells me to get out of the house, I refuse and tell her its my house. She quickly replies "No it's your mothers house" "A real man works hard and struggles to make it" I have been called all types of names e.g. 'youre lazy" "you're not a good dad (mind you she's always screaming and beating on my son)" "you're not a real man", "Bleep is more of a man than you", etc. I got tired of all that so I decided to empower her, so a couple of years ago, I sold a piece of land worth 20 million Naira and gave her 10 to start a business. I spent my 10 on debts, paying bills, running the house etc. That 10 million has spawned 3 other businesses on her part while I am still stuck with no business of my own. She has never shared or offered to share any profits of those businesses with me, which is ok by me as I really don't need her money. I am still called all types of names, despite the fact that I pay all the house bills, school fees, electricity, DSTV etc. She pays for nothing. When she shops for items from the supermarket, vegetable market etc, she will give me a detailed bill of what she has spent and I HAVE TO REFUND. Refund? we are all eating the food, I don't ask for help every month, and I have to refund? She constantly reminds me that is what a man is supposed to do, pay all the bills in the house, and that I get my money for free while she has to work hard for it. But my question is, do I need this treatment? am I too nice? Please help.

u gave a woman ur power as a man

I must marry a virgin... So help me God

God, please have mercy on us.

amiskurie:

Who says introverts dont love people?

Introverts are the best,they just don't like fooling around.they would rather observe things from atop.
#views

love not in words but in deed. If u love then show it. U don't run away from someone u love. I hope you get the point?

Being an introvert doesn't stop me from doing wot I want to do. My job requires meeting people everyday and I love my job dia4 I have to love people. I think wot we introverts need is to learn to love people. No human is a monster jare

Eeyah... Me don't believe in lie detector woteva ooo. If u wan swear, come make we go our village.

Wetin con concern me, make I drink my kunnu jo

TweezyR:
Pls NL's i just need a candid advise..no insult n mockery pls i beg u all

my relationship wit my first love was d worst relationship i ever had, i dont know anytn about dating so everytn he did was all right nd mine was all wrong.
He said he is china based busines man. but he is living in one room wit a family whom he is sharing flat wit.i believ him n evertn he says.....
he wil always tell me his father has a mansion in abuja.his big brother living in malaysia wit family and all dat.his business is booming as wel. buh i was wonderin frm yr to yr he wil never gve me some money to take care of myself n my school...bt he wil always tel me never to deny him sex anytime he requested for it. and i always gv it to him anytym anyday. my relationship goal is d biggest respect i ill give to him is never to cheat on him ever..he wil always tel me dat anyman dat asks me out i should always tel him am in a strong relationship which i do.
we dated for four yrs. each time i want to go bk to skul he wil alwaz complain of biz failure. this was goin on for four yrs.at times conscience mayb wil prik him he wil gv me 2k to take care of my hair wen am bk home. to cut d story short i visited him frm skul one day n told him dat since hw many yrs avbeen datin him he doesnt take care of me upon my level of faithfulnes to him n patience. i told him u always boast of this and dat and yet av nt seen any of it at all. he quickly told me he is fed up. i started beggin him to fgv..for d 11 months i begged him he refused yet he wil subdue me to havin sex wit him in order to make me believe hes fgvn me.yet after sex he wil tel me he hasnt fgvn me.i wil kneel n beg him, he wil tel me to kneel and suck his dick which i always do to appease him so we can forge ahead.al this months av been d one calin.i dont discuss my reltnshp wit my friends cos i was afraid of him. d emotional and psychological trauma was so high dat i lost so many kg. i became as skinny as ever. ppl wil always ask me wat is wrong and i wil lie dat i av thyfoid and malaria which am treating.
this kept on hapnin until he sent a hrtbreakn text sayin dat i should never boda seein him nor calin dat he is sory for playn wit my emotions dat d relatnshp is officialy over..meawhile each time i cal him he wil always tel me to d hearin of his frieds to stop cryin and bugin his line.he wl invite me to his ofice n kip shoutin wat is my problm cant i leave him and forge ahead bfo his friends.
i did not know dat he was already cheatin on me and was already caln me an ex bfor his gfs.
he was teln a distant frend of mine everytn dat was hapenin btwn us d time he said hes fedup. givin her a run down of how i do cal 10 times each day to cry and beg him to bring me bak to d relationship.infact at d same time askn her out.
becos she knew me she fwarded the text mesge to me to confirm if it was true we hav broken up.
for real i need not a soothsayer to tel me its over....i fwarded d text to him and told him tanx for everytn.
he has been beging me to fgv that what he did den was out of amaturity..that he cant do dem nw..he is begin to buy me a car or pay me a huge amount of money to free his conscience but i turned it down and told him to gve dem to d orphanage nd less priviledge
realy i hated him til today.each time i remember wat hapnd den i cry biterly.
am in a sweet relationship which i love n cherish so much.and wil soon get married. bt my ex wil never let my phone rest wit cals n text even wen i told him i wil soon b getn married...
for four yrs we seperated we have not seen each other and he has been beggn to see me....should i see him or not...i feel bad wen i remember d past. nd i also feel it might spoil my relationshp wit my fiancee

chai...I pity that young man who is about to marry u

Some stories are funny sha... Well, since you asked us to call you any name we so desire, I'll call u mumu

Shy guys won't reply to this post bcoz they are shy. Lols...

The ugly feelings won't go away. He can only manage to live with them. I'm also in a relationship with a lady. I learnt she was intimate with just one guy. We've been dating for 2 yrs, neva did it with her but d bad news is dat whenever I remember she's been with someone, I detest her like shit and still I can't let go.

swetkay:
I need ur advice. Am 25yrs Lady beautiful nd smart. I hv dated this guy for 3yrs he is 39yrs. Our dating years has been filled with ups nd down but wat we shared was strong so after each fight we still made up. He cheats on me am aware he is aware. This was his only flaws i fought it but it was clear to me i cld not win the fight nd i gave up . He wants the best for me nd gives me the best too. Now things are changing some that used to love me cant stand me anymore he even said he now gets angry wen ever he sees me. He has paid my bride price nd our wedding is in one week. I moved i just last week nd since then it has been one fights to another. Am getting sick nd tired already every one thinks am happy but am not. Am not free to talk or chat with him anymore coz am sure it will end in a fight. I cant quit coz i cant face calling off the wedding. I keep telling myself he is scared of commitment and will relax later on as u know everyone gets this cold feet b4 marriage. I need experienced suggestions on how to deal with this. Am tired of crying à

lemme tell u the truth, 14 years is between you both and it is kinda difficult for u to look at him in the eyes and talk to him. Truth though. But what exactly do you expect from him when you chose to marry a cheat?

whirlwind7:
Well, look at it this way: If you had to pay tithe every three years or monthly, it still boils down to the same thing.
If you are someone who pays it faithfully, it means you have to bring 10% of your earnings over a 3 year period, right?

Paying it monthly only means that you broke it down to smaller installments.
Same comparison can be made if you are paying your rents monthly or annually. You end up paying the same amount, only that monthly payment breaks it into smaller, manageable portions.

Now, tell me this. If you were given the option of paying tithes monthly, or in bulk after 3 years, which would you chose?
Assuming you will truthfully pay the correct amount every 3 years (that is, accumulated monthly tithe multiplied by 36 months) would you choose to pay it after every 3 years? I doubt this.

By the way, I'm not an advocate for tithe or no tithe. Just putting your argument into perspective. Have a great Sunday!

they were not salary earners in those days, they were mostly farmers and tent makers. So, how could your perspective be right? They were to tithe the produce of their farms in the third year and give to the levites who had no inheritance, the orphans, the widows and the other less privileged. Hope that helps?

Introversion get Levels oooo. I pity some folks after reading their stories. Also an introvert myself but since I found out a bottle of star is awesome, no more qualms

He got automatic employment because his late father was a minister. May the good Lord save us from this government. Where did that job come from? So many graduates on the street without father or mother and still, no job. There is God oooo