Tor...this one na end time marriage abi wetin we go call am?? O ti imu sumi oooo..... Hmmmm

IamLEGEND1:
Abeg kip quiet

If keeping ur virginity will help u stay sane and improve ur useless self image,then by all means. No one is stopping you, it is ur vagína afterall.

But to then open ur mouth and start misyarning about stuff u obviously know nothing about is a travesty.

Just because you turned out to be a virgin on ur wedding night makes absolutely no difference to anyone but urself. it might make u feel like you've achieved some life long goal,but that doesn't apply to ur partner.

See this is exactly why virgins are useless. just because you managed to keep a thin membrane covering the entrance to your vagína intact doesn't mean you deserve respect. What dignity and love ur husband bestows on you has nothing to do with ur virginity.

.mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww, all these dumb bítches and their misplaced sense of entitlement.

#SmH

u don smoke... Smh bad influence

U b mumu

She didn't appeal to Nigerians when they were enjoying the loot....wetin con concern us now if the man ill. God punish every enemy of Nigeria including Mrs Dasuki

So he (Davido) is now a kid?? After he positioned u well and gave you the Bleep of ur life that resulted in a beautiful baby girl. A kid indeed!!

FTC for the first time...make I come read ur story now

I'll try all my best to pay her more than her 500k then, it's good bye.

Peterwilliams:
She had three guys before me, And she broke up with them because they asked for sex which she did'nt want to do because of her virginity, When we meet i promised her that i'm not that kind of person.,we have dated for 8months and she's demanding of sex from me or she go outside, She gets high each time we make love, What should i do, I dnt want another brother to hop in.Should i do it?Here is my number 08063221234

wetin concern me concern ur number? Na thru phone u go do am? See me see wahala oooooo...

thefirstborn:
Dear Nairalander,

Help out with your candid advice.

I have two ladies that are close to me. Lady A is more mature than the other and more beautiful. But she could be proud at times. I am crazy about her, she loves me but not as much as I love her.
Lady B, is younger than Lady A by 3 years. She adores and loves me deeply. And would do anything for me. But I don't love her as much as I love the first Lady. With respect to character, she is more humble and gentle than Lady A. But she doesn't excite me as much as the other lady

Who would you advise me to marry? The lady that loves me most or the lady I love most?

follow ur heart. I bliv ur heart has chosen one already

Rapmoney:
One who doesn't understand the qualities of an introvert does not write about it . Think about tha

you are right

Leilah:
Have you ever been pounced on in the middle of your sleep this has always been going on for me and i always just allowed it. The other night I just flipped out and made it clear I was not denying him it. But to wake me up from my sleep and expect me to perform ladies what is the naija position on this

give ur man a little respect. Every home has issue(s). Ur husband should be ur friend, one you can freely talk to not nairaland. Like nairaland is taking the place of ur hubby. Learn some endurance!

Mustiboy:
i'm a very shy guy and i think its high time i stop receiving insults from my friends. All kinda mockings my friends tend to create whenever we're together is always allocated to me all just because i can't conversate with a girl.
Sincerelyi, i'm 19+ and ever since i was born, i've never had any girlfriend. i coulda had one back in 2013 when a girl in my hood was interested in me. She exhibited all the signals she could but i couldn't comprehend any of em.
Now, my friends has decided dat if i ain't gonna be coming along with my own girlfriend with them to the beach on xmas day, i'd stay @ home jeje.
Now, there are a lot of beautiful girls in my hood and i'd be able to find interest in some of em but the problem is i can't imagine myself walking up 2 a girl and telling her "i ... This, i... That" i'm an hyperhydrosis victim n i think i'd just become watery in front of her.
Now, dear lovely nairalanders, what can i do to make talking to a girl easy. Doing this festive period i think its essential i get a bae to share with, thanks in advance.

face ur studies. It's obvious from ur post that wot u want is a sex partner. Life is not all about the opposite sex.

Rapmoney:
There are many introverted guys that are just so special in diverse ways that are hardly understood by many of our modern-day Nigerian ladies...this could lead to what I call a misrepresentation of attitude and character!

Psychologically, as humans, we all possess behavioural traits such as introverted and extroverted qualities. That's God's creation and whoever thinks that God's creation was senseless in the first place should better have his or her head examined!!!

Below are some characters of introverted guys in relationships. Ladies, you need to understand your introverted partner...better than the way you think you do :

1) Most introverted guys are creative: Ladies, because he doesn't talk much or brag about his exploits doesn't mean he is just another regular guy down the street! I tell you today, there's so much cooking up in that head of his that you might not know or never know. If you take a closer and more critical look at the lives of many great inventors and artistes, you will discover that they exhibited or exhibit introverted qualities wayback even before they ever came close to fame!!! I am not in any way saying that all introverted guys are creative but what I am saying in essence is that the number of creative guys that are introverted and those that are extroverted can be compared to the fans of Manchester City and Kano Pillars!!! Study him carefully and observe his passion; you just might be an instrument to push him to greater heights! He would rather think of how to create or develop something than spend time with you at the cinema

2) They are mostly shy: Even introverted celebrities are shy most times without you knowing. An assumed snubbing by a celebrity in an event or show might not necessarily be real! The young man might just be too shy to stand face to face, meeting folks he has never met before. So when an introverted guy doesn't feel like hanging out with you and friends every weekend, don't be too critical. They don't often like being in public places

3) They often love good women for real: Introverted guys are not like their counterparts who are fond of going out, meeting new people, talking and demonstrating a lot! They are mostly quiet and think deeply. They would easily approach a woman only when they admire, value and want her. An extrovert guy might just feel like talking which is a nutural aspect of his personality; this might send a false signal to the lady that she's being loved for real!!!

4) They need personal space most times: Many introvert guys hardly enjoy staying with a lady consistently for too long. They would rather need privacy to themselves so that they could merry in some creative imaginations! If you are coming to his house, you must call him on phone first! Failure to do that equals you putting too much salt in an already well cooked pot of Egusi soup with assorted meats!

5) They hardly entertain 'make-up jealousy': Don't try to make an introverted guy fall more in love with you by trying to arouse the spirit of jealousy in him! You might end up killing the emotional attachment he has with you and the relationship eventually! A lady can do this by answering suspicious phone calls in his presence romantically, telling him tales of guys who admire her and the rest

It is true that humans are dynamic in nature but learning about their psychological traits helps a lot in coping with them!

thanks so much for this but being an introvert myself, I dislike it when people see us as a case study. Introvert here, introvert there... Oginni

martinlooter:
I am dating a girl from Mbaise girl, considering her behaviour to see if she will suit what I want for marriage, but her problem is that she is from Mbaise, for my people in the South East, you know Mbaise people have a very bad reputation for being manipulators, deceivers and mischief makers.
For sure, if my peeps know where she comes from, they will surely raise eyebrows. I am very sure that my late mum will turn in her grave if she hears I am getting married to an Mbaise girl.
So guys, what's your advice, should I give her hopes, or just walk away from the relationship?

I served in Mbaise. They are nice folks. I have lots of pleasant memories and stories to tell. Don't know where u guys got ur impression from...

Why don't you consult orunmila. He knows more than Google and Nairaland. Try it, you will thank me later.

kaziblake:
Good day all, Please pardon my grammatical error if you observe any because as am typing this am not my self.

I finished my ND last year and proceed to work because I want to get my Bsc direct instead of going for HND. So I got a job at Palms lekki. Right from when I started, he was already showing me sign that he was interested in me but I just waved it aside. After working for about 1 year and 1month, the man asked me out but I ignored him and continued working, since that time he started treating me anyhow, shouting at me, but I endured. October this year, he asked me to choose either my job or I quit. I had no option than to quit. I used the opportunity to register for jamb and attend preparatory class. So, I told my mum I want to do part time job and attend lectures at the same time to get money, she agreed.

I started hunting for job and told my friends about it. Last week, my friend called me and told me about an opening in their organisation, so I went there on Monday. Immediatly I saw the manager I knew I was in for trouble (a manager with dread and ear rings drinking dry gin on duty). He saw me and smiled, ask of my name age and qualifications, I told him everything about myself. After the interview, he asked me to resume on Wednesday that's today. I prepared and went to work. After sometimes, he called me into his office and started saying silly thing "how he liked me from the first day he saw me, blah blah blah". I was just looking at him like ode, after saying his mind, the next thing I heard was "can we have sex now?". I was so shocked to hear it from him but all the same I played cool and started telling him stories of about my bf and how my mum will kill me if she found out. He still insist,i lied again that I was on my period, he said he want to see the period. I was shocked and short of words. I told him I wasn't interested, the next thing he said was if I was not interested I should go, so I got up, picked my bag and left his office, met my friend and told her everything that transpired at the office between me and her boss,on my way out if the building I met the security man who asked me if I was not working that day, I told him no and explained everything to him he got so angry and promised to do something about it. Just this evening my friend called me saying the security man told their boss about what happened between me and the manager that the man would like to speak to me, the man called me and ask me to come tomorrow around 8am. My questions are: did I go far by reporting him to the security or should I go tomorrow (although am no longer interested in the job) because the manager looks scary, he can arrange for me if the owner sacks him, am so scared right now pls matured advice, thanks.

u must be very beautiful. Beauty sometimes na wahala ooo

droom:
Forgive me Guys for my spellings and my english,not in the right frame of mind...I Have to Create another nickname for this i am about saying..I Will just go straight to the point,I Have Been dating a lady for a while now,my fiance, we just started planing to get married very soon, i work a little bit far from where she works too, but i make it compulsory for us to be seeing every month, so that she will not miss me so much, because she always cry on the phone and even call my family that she is missing me so much when ever i over stayed. She made me swear to her many times, that i will never cheat on her with any lady, which i gladly did so that peace will reign in the relationship. she always make me to believe that she can never cheat on me for no reasons, which i just pretend to believe. Just today, she traveled down to visit me in my house, we spent time together,have fun,eat and other many things. she picked up my phone went through it, but she never found anything implicating on it, so she kiss me goodnight and slept off, but she forgot to put on the security key on her ipad, so i went through it,saw a hidden folder. i was so curious to open the folder, what i saw inside it shocked me. she always use my dp on her profile, but i saw the chat she was telling 3guys that am her handsome brother, that she always like using me as her dp profile, that she is single and in search of a nice looking guy like the pics she uploaded.. another of her chat shows that she has been going out with one otungba guy like that..she created a folder for those hidden chats,but i was able to get to it. i just have to stop reading them because i want to be a gentle man, she sleeping next to me here now on the bed...This a lady that i have been faithful to her for over 8months now, we just got engaged to each other last 2month,marriage talks have even started. she always monitor me alot even on phone...Just confuse here,the whole things look funny to me...

eeyah, some ladies can be so wicked. Anyway, don't marry an unfaithful partner to avoid any future higihaga

trendystuf:
Readers Mail: I was married to my Ex Husband for 6 years but because he was not meeting up and was constantly in financial problems, my family encouraged me to divorce him. I ended up marrying someone else but now I am not happy anymore. All I think about now is my ex-husband. He is now the only thing I think about all day.

At the moment, I am breaking up with my current husband because I am no longer happy with him and he seems to agree that we go our separate ways. I have been thinking of contacting my Ex husband but I don’t know how he would react since i left him when he was really in a financial mess. It’s been 2 years since we divorced. I was told that he is rich now and has a wife and kid.

Please Help me, I love my Ex husband and I want him back in my arms.

Source: http://trendysturvs..com/2013/03/please-help-i-want-my-ex-husband-back.html

I'm sorry to say but thunder fire you

DoubleDeeX:


It's all lies! Nothing like that in the bible....

The sons of God referred to in Genesis 6 were the uncorrupted descendants/seeds of Adam through Seth, while the sons of men were the serpent seeds that came through Cain.

Cain was conceived through adultery committed between the woman and the serpent. The serpent was closely related to humans in everything, which was why he could speak human language ....the only difference was that the serpent was not created in the image of God (Image of God - Godliness) until he was cursed (Transformed to a snake) by God for misleading the woman.

Satan is a spirit, he has no physical body so he possessed the serpent who had no Godliness in him and used him to go after the woman.

After Genesis 6 the whole of humanity got mixed up and corrupted by the serpent seed; wickedness increased and Satan took over the world until God released His backup plan of sending his only begotten son, Jesus Christ (righteous and holy) to die for our redemption. His blood paid for the death sentence hanging on humanity so that through him, all who were once condemned with Satan would received the spirit of adoption to become the sons and daughters of God...with the gift eternal life.

stop saying what you don't know

Since I returned from serving my father land to my uncle's place at Lagos, I've always - at least for the greater part of the day remain indoor. It got to a point that his wife was like, "Uncle, are you okay? Don't u ever get tired of staying indoor?"

I've been there for over a month and their neighbours don't know they have a visitor. I enjoy the company of my phone and at least a novel to read so much than sitting and talking with people.

otimize:
No

ok

otimize:
Una too like details.. oloshiii

why did you call me dat over a simple question Don't u think that was too much?

sheyman00:
#team lag. finally, details rolled in! wfmc hall!

. Why na. Give us details

Please, help a brother and a fellow job seeker. Send the PBT to me. This is my gmail: Sundayolawale77@gmail.com

I just finished mine. It was a combination of synonyms and maths

I know the MD/CEO of a leading paints producing company and he is a stammerer! It hurts me when people don't see the good in them
SMH