ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
DICO111: Yesterday I went to the bank to get money that my uncle who is staying in the United states sent to me for use in paying for a Hisense deep freezer which I already told him the market price. He sent the money through western union and it was $400 in total. I was robbed at gun point in a cab on my way to beurue de change to change it to naira.... I have been crying since yesterday, dont even know how to start explaining everything to him. I'm so confused. Even going to the police is not a viable option because I dont have any reasonable information to give. Please someone should advise me on what to do because my mind is blank at this moment.
Did you know? There are robbers outside western union bank waiting so the only way you can avoid them is by going with your own car.. taxi or uber is damn complicated
shortgun: Can I report Uber and Bolt Drivers? They keep harassing my girlfriend whenever I book a ride for her to come to my place, meet up with me or go back to her house.
I am busy most times and don't have the time to pick her up or drop her off.
She keep telling me of the harrasments and how she will prefer I pick her than book a ride. I always overlook her complaints until yesterday a bolt driver who told her he's married came back to her house to look for her after a ride yesterday!!
The randy man picked her from my house, I spoke with him on the phone and she told him she's in a relationship but he still carry his poverty stricken blokkos to my girls house?
I tot guys that do uber are trying to make ends meet? I always tip them cos I tot they need help but this have shown me that they are just a bunch of unserious people.
needhelp909: My younger who is age 20 has been battling with a sickness for over a year now. His body is swelling up. Eyes, neck, legs and stomach. They all appear puffed. We have done all kinds of test and treatment, nobody has been able to diagnose the nature of the sickness. There is no pain whatsoever, just swellings especially after a nap. Also he sleeps more than usual. There was a period it went down for like 3 months. But now we are back to it again. He is having difficulty in breathing because of the throat swellings I will be attaching some of the drugs he is using. And will be available to answer questions.
Pls ignore the typos here.
Something related to internal organ diseases. Maybe kidney disease
Damn niggar you were the first to comment on saga and nini's news then i followed you as the second.. well on this post again i followed as the next person to comment after you. Shey we no go celebrate with a bottle of Gulder like this?
mbahdi: Please doctors in the house what do we call this?
My friend couldn't contain his joy,I can remember the night he broke the news to me,he was so excited, he took me to a joint where we opened alot of bottles in celebration of him meeting his wife a virgin, despite he was a bad guy.
The problem now is that each time the wife is pregnant she will have miscarriage, this has happened about two times cant endure it anylonger he took the wife for a test,and it was discovered that the wife have an infection which has been in her body for a long time.
Please how possible can someone you meet a virgin have infection.although before the guy married her she lives in face me I slap you apartment with the parents, it was out of the joy the guy have marrying her a virgin that he rented a 3bed room apartment for the parents. Please what could be the cause of the infection?
It's the toilet infection of where she lives before..
Good I read the article yesterday i think na sheik Gummi father get am.. islam doctrines don dey make me hate the religion.. i rather die than been forced to be a Muslim..
Three days ago I got a debit alert of 2700 naira from no where on my access bank account. I quickly moved the rest of my money into the other access bank account. I looked at the transaction description but I couldn't make any sense of it, so I let it slide... Since the card will expire this month.
Fast forward to today. I wanted to withdraw some cash, I have so many bank accounts but only this account has an atm card, so i would always move the amount I want to spend to this account. To my greatest surprise, I found out that this account has been thrown into negative with a deficit of over 3500 naira... How is this even possible... I checked my transaction history and I realised that I have like three different debit transactions today alone, I didn't even get an alert. Is Access Bank whining me or what? I don't even know where this debit transactions are coming from.
Bellow are the screenshots from my Access more mobile app. Please can anyone explain what's going on here.
The first image was the first debit alert I received. The second one is my negative balance and the debit transaction from unknown sources.
I swear person dey use your card.. i dey always buy something on Amazon so whenever they debited me this is the kind of transaction description they do send
In junior grade, during preteen age, I cried and begged one girl like that not to leave but she didn't oblige. I was weak. I couldn't walk home. I was sober. I wanted to run into the road at an incoming vehicle.. I couldn't even push myself at it. I struggled to walk..only for me to reach home and eat confirm plate of fufu and nchawu soup with achara, beef, snails and periwinkle to know say na hunger dey do me o no be nonsense heartbreak. Mehn, I chop snail sotey bite my index finger amid scratching my big head in this food happiness. O boy, I eat finish see as boning return my face en. I sat down with my protruding belly angry at how I embarrassed myself earlier.
Next day at school, I didn't even notice her anymore. Was all frowns and big boy.
It took a while and she was coming close but I think, I was fly then, I turned her down. Reverse psychology took place. She was the one begging.
I didn't accept her back because I thought then more pretty and brilliant girls were after me. It took until four years later until we bumped at each other.
How about you?
I once begged a girl too in ss1 but she no gree i even wasted my pocket money to buy her wristwatch and birthday frame she rejected it, it was damn humiliating.. but on getting to ss3 the girl con dey beg me make i date am i no gree too up till now she still dey toast me for WhatsApp ..