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Marcelo290:
Lol it's emotional for me cos she has been there for me since day one, I've been hurting her yet she still stick to me despite she's very pretty and have allota guys dying to have her.

Then do what you want. If you like keep hurting her. If she leaves, you'll still be the one to open a thread 'all girls are hoes'.

lol.... seen the video... she's quite funny

hmm Na so
FTC!!!

Hmm.... After some people will start shouting racism and xenophobia... Nigerians and stereotypes... something else. Have you ever thought of it this way? If there were no local governments and states, who'll be blamed? the entire igbos abi? lol. Whether some people like it or not, people from mbaise keep succeeding in all aspects of their lives. This depends on individuals you know. It's shameful to think that with all the level of education some people have acquired, they're still stereotypical. How has your stereotypes made the world a better place? Maybe people should pay more attention to educating their minds and see people for who they really are.

Pretty bride.. Congratulations to the groom and the bride

awwnn.... her nose

she's pretty either way

what reply are you expecting? vote of thanks?

It's not cool please... although if you do it ...oh well... but for me... ain't cool

Wizzy wee be finding trouble naw... ;DWizzy wee be finding trouble naw...

Yemi Alade

MIKOLOWISKA:
yes there was a time kitchen work was relegation.
now it's elevation.
my father won't eat outside so long as he's coming home that night. that's a compliment to any woman.
I don't pray to collect money from my wife so she can keep it as back up in case anything happens to me for the children. but I understand but these women should understand that men 'suffer' on their behalf every single day worrying about how to put food on their table and provide for their offspring so they don't have to. any day they're willing to change roles we're ready but will they?

What about a career woman that works just as her husband, knowing fully well that she also has to keep the home she does these
gets a washing machine for laundry and other appliances that makes work easier for her so long as she can afford it, does it make her any less of a wife?

MIKOLOWISKA:
are you willing to be the breadwinner in your home. how many of you can marry a beta. everyone wants an alpha. but y'all feminists are confused.go and find out, those empire builders first passed all these tests, why their husbands support them now

Don't act like you don't know women are no more relegated to the kitchen and the 'other room' There are women who work and help their husbands cater for the family, there are women who pay bills too. They are their husbands' HELPERS

MIKOLOWISKA:
please mention the duties. 5 of them. I dare you

1. She keeps the home..
2. she takes care of the emotional, sexual and other needs of her husband
3.She takes care of the children and brings them up
4. She assists her husband in whatever ways she can, financially and otherwise
5.She is his friend, his companion, his helper, not his slave!

You didn't have to dare me to say all that... I said this already,,, women know their duties!!!

MIKOLOWISKA:
so what will you be doing in the man's house. just sleeping and eating abi

Nope... that'll be too boring

The point here is a wife knows her duties in the home but ability to do house chores alone doesn't make her a wife material unless you're looking for a 'househelp' material.

nairanaira12:
While pretending isn't right, condescending is very important. In marriage, things can't always go your way or follow the pattern you were taught at home.

That's true because in every successful relationship or partnership, there's a leader. But there should also be a form of compromise and understanding on both sides as everyone can't claim rights all the time. Mutual respect is key.

GuyInNeed:
y e come dey pain u? If u don't like d test, Bleep off. Anoda woman go do am. Ook, but u know women requirement dey outrageous abi? No wonder, wen a man sees u re after money, they sleep with u , gv u d money in bits and dump u. Then we will see a naive, humble girl to marry without outrageous demands. I love d bank example earlier. Nonsense

Which way Naija? Looking for a naive girl to get married to... well whatever rocks your boat. But I know there are women who work hard, pay bills, rule empires and still have Supportive Husbands... It takes a MAN to keep a Smart woman,an ACHIEVER as a wife, as HIS WOMAN. I respect those MEN. THEY command the respect of QUEENS, They have a high self esteem... they are not intimidated by her success, THEY ARE PROUD OF HER AND MOTIVATE HER.. and still command her respect.
But like they say, 'shoe get size '.

GOneTV...tstv should not goan fall hand oo

Highly commendable and motivating. But after spending all those years in school. Well Thank God he decided to go into this. Who knows? He would have still been jobless if he didn't.

Nigerians should be educated to be employers and entrepreneurs and not employees, Job creators and not job seekers.

PearlStreet:
You have some requirements for whoever you wish to marry and you know how to test for them, same with your partner too.

If the test is annoying to you, it's not meant for you to pass. It's for someone else.

Someone that would meet and surpass your requirements is coming... ask Genevieve and Funke Akindele.

Ask them what exactly? It's funny how people are quick to mention Genevieve's name in threads like this. Let me not go into how silly that is. Here's what, when a girl states her requirements in her partner, some people are like"you go wait tire". I know that sometimes the requirements are outrageous but what of those men that set outrageous requirements for their partners like "she must sleep on the floor, she must pound yam by 3:00 am" and so on... Does that even make any sense? Bottom line is, be you and do you. If you go visiting and you don't feel like washing the pile of clothes set for you, don't go out of your way to please them. If being able to wash all the clothes of their family members and kinsmen put together is the requirement for a good wife and peaceful home then that's their cup of tea. Mind you, humility goes beyond doing house chores and all... for crying out loud women know their duties! A career woman can be very humble. It's her choice. What's not cool here is going out of your way to impress.

damesilver:
What is being tested is not comfrotability with poverty; I think the test is that of humility. Forgetting who you are, with all the allure of wealth, academic degrees and class of society whilst still maintaining touch with commonality is the deal. Humility and adaptability with situations, pleasant or unpleasant because life is subject to the law of impermanence.

Why should she forget what she is? She went to school or started a business, went through all the stress, possible humiliation and pain to get to where she is and she should forget all that because she is a woman abi? Yes, a woman who wants to be a good wife knows her duties but in a situation where she's being tested in such annoying manners as if the man is doing her a favour by getting married to her is wrong. As for humility and all, those virtues are there if they are there. Any girl can pretend to be anything just to get married.

Nice on OP. The way the society in Nigeria sets so much unrealistic expectations of the female folk is not cool at all.

It's not strange to want to make exes from past relationships feel jealous especially while still in the process of getting over them. Yeah! we want to show them that we fine without them, we don't really need them. Show them what they lost... uh-huh rub it right in their faces #pepperdem.
But honestly, how many people are truly happy? In a bid to make that ex regret the break up, you sacrifice your REAL happiness. All that energy you put into making your ex jealous could and should be directed into making yourself really happy, truly happy. Might not be easy at first but it's totally worth it. So whether your ex is jealous or not, you are truly happy and that's what's important.
It's easy to make many mistakes all in a bid to 'show' your ex. From jumping into another relationship you are not interested in to spending beyond what you really want to spend to stalking your ex making moving on harder. OK... what if your ex doesn't even care about your achievements and you are busy tryna get him/her jealous. So if you've been doing all that you might want to really MOVE ON NOT MOVE AROUND.

Two glasses..... one for himself and the other for the person who took the picture

That part about teaching those children a lesson though... So heartless

jaksmillioniar:
ur blood is not matured yet dat why u stay witout sex

OK Mr 'matured blood'

jakandeola:
u are still a kid dat why

wonder what being a kid has got to do with that. That's a simple answer to a simple question which anyone can easily figure if honest...

Nawa oo... it's true though

I just love this girl... she nor just send. Go girl!!!

Yes it does... as for those people who say 'no sex, no money and 'no money, no sex', ogini? no one is doing the other a favor by having sex with the person in a real relationship... Sex should be mutual, gifts too. No sex relationships can work especially when both partners agree and are ready to do just that without someone feeling cheated.

He looks good