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omoyeni37:
Yes sir, he is taking them

if he is too weak tell him to buy alabunkun or karaole and use it with lucozade boost sir.....he will share testimony like i did by GOD grace

omoyeni37:
Hi bro, he has started yesterday, and i must admit that it's been hell on earth for him sir

it wont be easy but if he can pull through,he will enjoy his life afterward,hope he is using that panadol extra

omoyeni37:
He will start immediately sir, thank you so much sir

hello sir

OnlyDeCapPlease:
First of all. Don't join cult. It won't change anything.

Shy people alway take themselves too seriously and think that everybody is watching them or has time for them. Wrong!

Shy people tend to think that other people are easily doing things but it's difficult for them. Wrong!

Learn not to take yourself too seriously. It's not that important. It's ok to be wrong or foolish or mumu or be rejected. Shy people have a problem dealing with rejection. So you get rejected? Fvck em all! You get told off? Fvck em all! Someone laughs at You? Fvck em all! Someone gives you "that look"? Fvck em all! Someone insults you? Fvck em all! All these things don't kill, e nor go commot anything for your body. People often do those things to embarrass you or get a reaction from you. They get annoyed when they can't get any visible reaction from you. That's not your problem.

Pick one day. Call that day you "fvck ya'll" day. On that day do or say anything that comes to your mind. Damn the consequences and just do it for that day. If anyone gets angry, just say I'm sorry, but in you mind say "fvck you", and then carry on doing things. Just don't break the law or physically fight anyone.

Try it and let me know how it went.

best advice

omoyeni37:
You are really a lifesaver sir, God bless you

if you need any help,quote me sir

omoyeni37:
He will start immediately sir, thank you so much sir

ok sir,but tell him to put his mind into it,although it may be tough at first,but drug is bondage,so free yourself by all means

Naijaguy12345:
Invite your dad to come and visit you or stay for few weeks. While your dad is around, ask her if she want to stay away for few weeks for privacy. Father in-laws sometimes intimidate women especially the young ones . Make sure your dad is always in the house , encourage him to wear boxers shorts with balls nearly visible and maybe those nets singlets with hairy chest also visible . Just about anything to put her off staying at your house and always discuss family matter while she’s around.

trust me bro,some naija girl no send,if care is not taken,some will even Bleep the old p man

TUNECHI86:
Boss connect me to that sure plug you were getting games from and please wats the meaning of this your booking pattern HT 2 no

they said something is destroy life,and you still requesting for it,why are like this

omoyeni37:
God bless you sir, I'm so grateful.

ok sir,start today,dont wait for tommorow

omoyeni37:
Since 2014 sir, yes, he's really willing to leave it, the drug is really draining his finances sir...
He is 36 years old sir

ok sir,first thing first,know that he will go through the withdraw syptoms which will be very tough,you will have to be jogging in the morning and before you sleep at night,another thing is try and get a packet of panadol extra,anytime you feel urge to take tramadol,or you are feeling headache or any pain,take two dose of panadol extra,it will relieve you,keep going this way for one week,after one week stop the panadol extra....then you are a free man sir

omoyeni37:
Brother mi, how did you break free from that demonic drug? My younger brother is neck deep in it right now, please help us sir....

how old is he sir?,how long has he been taken it?lastly ask him if he is willing to leave it

Uber11:
corolla , pointac vibe , camry 2.4

ok sir

Uber11:
call me na

which type do you want sir

Iovercame:
This is a lil story about my 7 years deep addiction to sport bet and in this 7 years I lost everything when I mean everything

and I beg you in whatever you hold dear, I beg you in your mother's name, I beg you in your child's innocent life, I beg you in whichever God you pray too if you're in sport bet or about to start or no matter how far you have gone you can still stop so you don't lose everything like I did before I got my salvation

I was 18 in 2014 and I had just finished from secondary school and Because I loved football so much anything about football intrigued me

I remember writing my jamb and came out in flying colors (260) and I was to proceed to take my post utme when I first found and heard about sport betting

Then it was Rapido I think and Nairabet. It started as fun, just wanting to waste that 100 in excitement of what you loved and I remembered my first winning of 14k ( I wished I never won that)

That 14k I won hooked me in till February of this year and because my close knit friends knew I won that 14k and my love for football they always asked me to "forcast" games for them

I was so hooked to sport bet that my spiritual life suffered because I stopped thinking about God all I wanted was to win that imaginary millions

I remember passing my utme and Mom was happy I passed my utme as all she wanted was for me to have a quality education

Unfortunately life happened and I couldn't proceed to school again as there was no sponsor so I had to get a job in apapa wharf

I was the quiet type, I never drank or smoked or womanize , I don't even talk much unless in my line of duty but all I did was sport bet. I was paid 85k per month because my job was high risk but before I get my salary I would have used it all on sport bet

One thing I never did was steal or lie or use someone's else's money to play sport bet but I was so addicted to this demon called sport bet

From 2016 when I started working in apapa wharf till we were made to stop working because of the pandemic last year I Lost everything I had and worked for due to sport bet

I always dressed well, even till date I still dress well with neat and good cloths so you never know but in between those clothes I was suffering, I was crying each day because I knew I was wasting away

I have never taken cocaine or no the effect it has on those addicted to it but I can tell you nothing beats that of sports bet

I would cry after each lose and say no more but the moment I got another money I was in it again

The bet9ja guy in my neighborhood could allow me play games up to 100k because he knows I would pay him when I get my salary. Each night I prayed and cried to stop this but I was never able to

I rather play sport bet than eat, I knew I was destroying my life but I couldn't stop

I was a good guy, a loyal guy, my boss loved me because I was hard working so he dashes me money but I never saved any, all I did was sport bet

I remember after the first week the pandemic was eased I went to him and told him I had a problem and he asked what's the problem and I told him you are like a father to me so I feel comfortable telling you this( I thought after 4 year's a loyal worker can see a boss as a father), I need help because I'm addicted to sport bet. Then he asked me questions upon questions and I was sincere to each of his questions and he asked me if I had any savings left I told him no that sport bet took everything, he asked if I have ever stolen from him I told him if I did Mr shonibare the auditor would have known but after that he changed drastically

It was after that incident of me telling him I needed help I lost my job.

I was told because of the effect of the pandemic I had to stop coming that I would be called back but it's More than a year I haven't been called but I blame me telling him I was addicted to sport bet

All I wanted was just help

Then I had no job again and had a mouth to feed so I decided to start working as a labourer or doing any menial Job just to survive ( one thing about me was I was hard working and never derelict in my work or hustle) but guess what I never stopped playing sport bet because I wanted that imaginary millions

I would be paid 1500 as a labourer and 1000 would surely go to sport bet that same day and I would eat with 500 and I didn't win

No one knew I was in bondage, no one knew I lost my job because each morning I would dress neat and go do labourer and come home neat like I was coming from apapa, no one knew I was dying slowly due to my addiction

I can't begin to mention in naira how much I lost but thank God today made it 4 months I last played sport bet and I remembered how I stopped

It was a game I was suppose to win 1.8M with a stake of 1500 which was my last money and Liverpool vs Fulham was the last game and I staked it over 1.5 goals and I was excited because Fulham scored in the first half and I said at Last I finally won today and would get a car to do Uber and stop this finally but guess what it ended 1-0 and oh I cried, I cried aloud, I cried and yelled and gnashed my teeth like a woman crying to bring forth a child or like when Mom died, I cried so loud my tenants came and I told them my brother died but that day was my day of salvation

I cried so much ehh and In my tears i prayed to my mother this time around to come and deliver me as I was overwhelmed and needed help and I slept hungry that day because I had no money and I had used my last money to bet and in my dream I remembered I was choking so I vomited I think 50k and a palatable food and in the dream I wanted to take the money and food to eat but I had a voice. Oh I had that voice I hadn't heard for years and she called me my native name that only she did and I looked up and I saw my Mom from afar and she said don't touch it and go back now, but I said to her I was broke and hungry and she said do you want to touch or carry back your vomit? And I said no and she said now go back and I turned and Immediately I woke up I knew I had won but I knew I still had to play my own part to win finally

I went out from all the telegram betting group I belonged too, deactivated my nairaland account because I was always in the bet section, deactivated all of my bet site account

I remembered I didn't play for 3 days and I had 3k saved for the first time in months and I got on Twitter and I saw a guy saying a game is sure and the devil wanted to play with my mind but guess what that same day I had to sale my phone so I don't think or see anything about football , I packed up my DStv and TV not to watch football and see the advert of any sport betting company and for the first time in almost 7 years I went a week without sport bet WOW I was happy. the following week passed and another and another and the money I sold my phone with I didn't touch it, I had saved like 15k from my working as a menial labourer and I got another phone and I thought I was gonna fall but this morning Made it 6 weeks that I got a new phone and I haven't played or logged in to any betting site thank you Jesus

Last night I had to go to Instagram because I was feeling sad because of everything I had lost and i saw my best friend picture, I felt so sad, I cried my eyes because we are Miles apart, he doesn't call or text again and I understand I was useless, I was the brilliant one that fell, I was the lil innocent quiet handsome one that lost his easy due to sport bet

He looked so good and I blamed my self for everything but I'm in the road to recovery

Sport bet Made me lose my job, my mom, my peace, all of my savings, my friends because I couldn't compete with them financially as I was always broke but thank God today I have a New beginning and a fresh start. I know things are so hard right now but I feel like a fresh Man, a Man born again, a Man like a new born. It's almost or More than 90 days now since i last played sport bet and oh I have peace, lol I have such peace, yes occasionally when I don't have somewhere to work or when I'm lonely and think of where I should be I sigh but I say Thank you Jesus, thank you my savior

Please I beg you, sport bet would destroy you, sport bet would end you, sport bet would make you so useless, sport bet would would take everything from you, sport bet would make you lose everything you worked for, sport bet would make you become so isolated. Please stop now. I know it's hard, very hard I have been there but if I can do it I swear you can, I have lost 300k in a day before and the next day I had 2k and lost it again. Please sport bet is devilish and a destiny destroyer. You can't win them, Come out of nairaland for a while if you have too, come out of Twitter if you have too, anything that makes you think about it I'm begging you now please come out of it. Just like yesterday I was 18, now I'm 25, broke, lost everything but it's fine I would rise again. Don't be like me ok

Thank you and God bless us all for reading

the same thing tramadol did for me since 2013,i later break free in 2018 alhamdulilahi,am working but i cant eat better food or buy better cloth only bk,a very tough experience

Uber11:
chat me on whatsapp or drop your number

am chatting with button phone sir,am not using whatsapp,which type do you want sir

Uber11:
Bokoharam and Iswap has merged together and someone said "don't compare apple to oranges" and many of us agreed with that .....bandist are in the forest , if you can't go into the forest why not mouth solders around the forest and sterve them to death, make sure no one goes in and come out let me see if they will turn to monkey , funy enough is that they buy new bullets but they don't produce any in the forest .....i don tire for this country .....pleas if you have a neatelly used nigeria car with complete papper call or whatsapp 0.9...011055758, you can get a commison if you know somebody that wants to sale .

i know who want to sell sir,

Belafonte:
I think a lot of guys are yet to come to terms with this truth

my brother some guys are doing that already,i know a man that marry blue angel ashewo that he met for hotel,

airminem:
Oh you feel When you give your man sex, you have given him everything... Even If you like let him hang your left leg on Lagos-Ibadan train & the right leg on Abuja-Kaduna train, if you nor love and value yourself first, na u sabi how dem go value and want u. This era of Men don't even fall for sex anymore(no go dia). What else can you give ur man aunty as u dey talk like this?!

i use to ask my self one question sometimes,if not for the sake of having children,what can i benefit from woman,that i cant get elsewhere.....

please who remember mosdii favourite word?

Tolu181:
i have never gambled in my life.. you dirty gambler

weyrey dey disguise,i just quote you so they can know the kind of low life gambler you are oloshi omo ale yoruba

Tolu181:
One way or the other, the criminal called igboho must be arrested and jailed.


Dude dey one country dey eat pepper soup, while useless men dey expose their lives for nothing


Yorubas wise up, we are better than this criminal...

abeg you get sure game,i need money

saphiere:
Rape is bad. Dear men please Shun this act.
A male child is a disgrace awaiting to happen.

if male child is a disgrace then be ready to be disgrace one day,cos you will get married to disgrace and born disgrace one day.....Take note

bigpicture001:
Yes...forty k. and she is only 25. Just open ur mind and find a way to make big money...her ways may not work for u..

Its business in the health sector which sh started at 22. 7months after return from NYSC at 22. Without connection or any kind

open my mind,this is how some people end up being jobless,it is easy to drop motivation quote when you are making money

bigpicture001:
Yes...forty k. and she is only 25. Just open ur mind and find a way to make big money...her ways may not work for u..

Its business in the health sector which sh started at 22. 7months after return from NYSC at 22. Without connection or any kind

half advice,half motivation word,which one is open your mind

Sirjendon:
Ori e ti pe

exactly sir

bigpicture001:
I repeating saving is not necessary....only survival and latter investment before savings in that order..

Who ever saves such amount is just a spend thrift...you can never save what you dont have...

My ex used to misunderstand this ..where she urges u to save save save..even when u can't even feed or clothe.....

She compares me den with herself that makes 40k daily and saves....

did you said 40k daily?pls where is she working?am asking for a friend

blockgeek69:
It's relative. It depends a lot on the kind of house you want to stay in Lagos, and also the distance to your place of work. Let's assume you are single and goes for a self con in the mainland, you should strive to earn 100 - 150k to be able to pay your rent and cover some other expenses.

The sad thing is that, most low and average income earners in Lagos have little to no saving. Whatever they make goes into immediate needs.

But the sad reality is that, more than 60% of Lagos residence earns less than 50k. You can easily see that in the standard of living.

it is time for sad truth,i hustle in lagos for 7years before i relocate to ibadan,but suprisingly,what have achieve in 8months in ibadan is bigger than my 7 years in lagos,but i use to thank GOD that i go to lagos,because i learnt a lot there

wiseone28:
No you have not fail..


Just that Nigeria failed you..


we were meant to believe that education is the key to success..


But now graduates are apprentice to people who doesn't even have a waec

this touch me,my boss that drop out of school at jss3 have like 5 graduates working under him,2 driver,2bakers 1 sales boy,he is one of the rich bakery owner in nigeria

sparko1:
Hahaha! You can lie, just say Nigeria government, if the British want to hide something in your village, 2000 years to come you won't find it.

You think they give a Bleep about Nigeria and any tribe.

I thought you lot said, Israel will descend on The Nigeria government if they lay hands on Kanu! Keep deceiving yourself, no foreign country is interested in another country without some kind of incentive.

i dont comment on post like this,but this your comment is of high iq homo sapiens,more brain to you

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BuyAndSellStuff:
Nigerian employers are wicked. They treat you like trash but the moment you want to help them take out the trash, they start fighting your exit.

Which means they know your value but are trying to paint you bad so you keep believing that you aren't good enough.

If you've worked in a multinational corporation, you will understand that 80% of them have nothing upstairs. All they do is wear clothes and sleep around.

If you know your worth, dump your evil employer once you get a job offer and never look back. Bastards.


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As for the OP, dump that useless lawyer. He is there to milk you dry.
Write a petition to the ministry of labour, copy EFCC, FIRS, PENCOM & crazy NGOs. Highlight how your former employer duped you for 5 years, show evidence of pension remittance (which is a grave offence), delayed salaries, show all the financial misappropriations they have committed.

Watch them backtrack. The fire those thieving organizations will put on their ass, they won't even remember you.

Lastly, play dirty. Take their names & pictures to social media with screenshots. Names of company, MD, Directors involved etc. Shake them!! They have more to lose.

Most of them are claiming deacons in their churches and forming leaders in their residential estates. Behave like a sokoloan agent with their integrity or you can sit there & continue to wallow in self pity.

if you want to do this,i can be of help,i know how to treat criminal in the language they understand....obams clothing just thank your creator that you dont reply my mention the other day,if you reply that day,by now you will be in shock and depression

MasterRahl:


Let us not make the mistake our fatherland made. Yes! Nigeria made the mistake of relying on crude oil as the only source of income. We're paying for that today.

As an entrepreneur, you should have at least 2-3 related side businesses to augment the main business. No be everyday market dey sell.

Promzy99, the OP, says he's an automobile electrician and the income doesn't come regularly. He can learn vulcanizing and start a business. He can also start a car wash. All three... automobile electrician, vulcanizing, and car wash are kinda related...at least two will pay each week.

All successful entrepreneurs follow this pattern...study Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, etc.

I wish all hardworking Nairalanders success

amen and you too sir/ma