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bukatyne:
27 is middle aged? Even 40 isn't.

According to Wikipedia, 45yrs - 65yrs is.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Middle_age

Leave Wikipedia. I'm sure you can relate to what the op is saying in this society we find ourself.

Sotland:
Oga this isn't a matter of tolerate. Most rel'ship problems comes sexually. If that's what he prioritized, it is better to break up and look for someone who will match his need.

Now he's complaining of what he needs but could not get from his partner. In the future it could turn into a big issue btw them. Then, he starts been unfaithful with different girls and the wife will probably pour him hot oil or kill him over a mere cheat.. It is best to break off and avoid that happening to be now.

I've often say this, that signs come people's way when they are about to marry but most people ignores it. If people give meticulous attention to such signs, half of the divorce cases will never have existed..

Forget the story. Your long post does not nullify my fact

CokeBar:
Lol!

It is either you're acting like you don't get it or you don't just want to get it.

Who is talking about tolerating or not tolerating something?!

Nigga created a thread to whine about his gf's inability, it shows that it is a bother to OP. I donot care how flimsy the 'bother' is.

If you donot like someone snoring next to you then you should not sleep with someone that snores. If you can tolerate it then you shouldn't create a thread about that person and the snoring habit.

People like you would make people jump into marriages with a lot of maybes just to prove a point that 'things are negotiable'.

You have a long way sis.

Well, such is life! Congrats to her.

But before people start casting aspersions on the guy, it should be noted that the girl too was insensitive. A guy took you to a restaurant, bought food for you. After rejecting the proposal, shame instinct shd have told her d guy wouldn't feel happy watching her continuing with d food he bought with his money, at least for that moment. That was an action of a hungry i-never-chop girl.

The feeling of rejection was bad enough, to make it worse is to keep eating d food bought by someone whose proposal was rejected as if nothing happened. If she was in his shoes, she'll be pained equally or even more.

kwinp:
........

Hi

etrange:
OK o... make I no fall your hand

Lol. Me no go fear. It could be prank from a sibling though

etrange:
The honour you're giving to an intruder? A ghost for that matter! It means when you see thieves (fellow humans) in your living room, you'll first boil some egg for them and then take your gun, enter your bedroom and swear to deal with them if they ever join you there!

_{Honourable scaredy cat}

No na. I'm too big chasing after it. My presence is enough to scare it.

Age most times(not always) determines experience. But for me, compatibility is more important than age. She could be younger or older than I am, if our personalities flow well as though we were friends, I'm good to go. Cus it's friendship that keeps marriage going much later. The I love you, I love you will fade away once children ensue.

CokeBar:
Honestly you're just typing English!

If he considers it a priority and she is unable to deliver, he should break up with her...

There are no two ways about it.

No one said his "wants" are reasonable but if that is what he wants then he should go for it.

You shd learn to tolerate others more at this stage. It's necessary than expecting to find a man to tolerate you

etrange:
Then why not just go ahead and pieces it? Why leave your room for it and then wait for it to come to the next room?

_{Sounds like you use style dey fear}

Lol. No be so o. It came to my house by itself, it's shd leave by itself too. That's the honor I'm giving it.

Adasun:
Teach her if u can.

This is a proper marriage-ready suggestion. Keep up the optimism and belief in your spouse. It's good.

CokeBar:
If it's a deal breaker for you, then break up with her.

You have a long way to go. If you keep this reasoning habit till marriage, you will be faced with a required level of patience you're not prepared for

vanida6:
Who is he pls" him moniker sef come be like my cat name

Lol

Go to another room and sleep with a Cutlass in my hand. Ghost or not, I will pieces it if it comes closer

Stephenomozzy:
Wow.... Not all younger partners are inexperienced. Some are very matured (brain, common sense and understanding of life) for their age that they can even floor a more older person with their wits.

Op, you know what you have seen in her, just make sure you both have alot trust in each other (asin you won't have trust issues because of her younger age/stature). And there is mutual respect for one another (that i.e don't ever play seniority card with her, else she starts acting out to fit your game). In love, age is nothing, equality is healthy

My dear is one thing to know the truth and admit it. It's another thing to make one poster look like what he's saying is wrong even when it isn't.

You emphasized on compatibility and you didn't even know which is good. It still doesn't cancel the fact that a 23 year old would act young at some point. But op being the older one with more understanding can handle it. If he can he's good to go. I don't see how that isn't a fact

Interstate trekking? Okada no suppose pass N200 na

Nawa o. Dem don use pricck terminate the girl destiny

divineuk:
The old one die?

Her time pass. This new one too go turn old one after 6 months, then another search go start. Lol

Even if it's fallen, it's in a hidden place unlike breasts that are up

So far you can handle her excesses and inexperienced childish attitude cus she definitely has no or little dating experience and she'll show it in her actions and reactions soon or later. If you can cope with it, you're good to go.

thorpido:
Ah no,not at all.
I'm not a banker.I'm a health practitioner.

Oh okay

thorpido:
Give me suggestions.

You work in stanbic bank, grew up in barracks, Lagos, have a younger brother, went to a military secondary school

I have a feeling I know you thorpido. I do know you

thorpido:
How come there are men singing the blues?

I wonder o

In lagbaja's voice: put a smile on your face no matter condition..feyin e

Those are the set of girls who understand that support and nuture is a 2-way thing. They know it's not only a man who shd pamper a girl, men too need succour from them. Especially if you lost ur mother at early age or u had a mother like you didn't have one, older girls know how to make you feel important. They think outside the box.

But those tiny unripe and underage cockroaches like those dominating this forum, only know one way traffic... Men must be the spender, men must be the lover, men must make the first move, men must care for them, men must pamper them, men must take them out, men must buy them all, men must recharge airtime for them, men must take them for shopping, men must think for them, men must do this, men must do that. At the end of the day what you get back is... Men are scum! As if it's a taboo for them to make themselves useful in a man's life in return

Let her offer her bf free sex. For such a girl not to have bf, something is wrong with her

Ejenavi18:
When will all these gender wars end on Nl?

I tire o

osaslord500:
8k for fuel from lagos to abj??
6k to transport back to lag??


Joker.. lmao

What's funny. At the present rate of fuel N123.5, 8k fuel is enough for a Toyota.

I drive a Peugeot 206. When petrol was N145, 8k fuel fills its tank from empty to full and it goes to akure from Lagos and back

Maybe your car transmission is faulty hence increasing fuel consumption and you're now thinking that's the normal thing

9jaHustler:
Thanks so much. Coupled with the fact that he may pick 1 or 2 passengers along to road

Exactly.