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Nothing bad there. If they're both about same age and compatible.

They have less drama and consider sense before emotions unlike those young jellyfish and salamanders that full this forum

9jaHustler:
Thanks but any chance I can get the deal for 40 - 50k?

Yeah fuel money-8k
His trans back-6k
Miscellaneous-6k
His workmanship-10k
That's 30k. So negotiate for 30-35k when u call him. Highest he'll end it at 40k

9jaHustler:
The person is a mopol (mobile police officer?) who works with my wife's company. He is into the business of bringing cars for people to Abj. It's a tokumbo car so no tracker yet.

60k should be for his transport to Lagos, fueling the car back to Abj and every other expenses including his profit I guess?

Yeah it shd. He won't spend much for police since he's an officer himself. So it shd be enough

ozoneymcm:
10k is too small. Every other thing is a must to consider

Yeah if he's someone he doesn't know, it's small. If it's someone he knows, it's ok

Righteousness89:
Unforgivness ,Malice and the Tongue are Major instruments that may Hinder People from Heaven..

If u can curtail these 3you can curtail the Rest

These ones are expensive sins. The cheapest sins are thoughts. If you can read people's thoughts, you will run away from d person next to you wherever you are now.

First is it a person you know or trust? Does the car have a tracker? Do you know the condition of the car before it leaves Lagos? Does he have a valid driver's license? Would you have him sign an undertaking before d deal? 60k is enough

Unique man who doesn't reply the opinions of social media ranters

Karlifate:
Oluromantic, the Choleric Temperament has various blends, which include; Choleric-Sanguine (Chol-San), Choleric-Melancholy (Chol-Mel) & Choleric-Phlegmatic (Chol-Phleg). Out of them all, the Chol-Mel is still the most difficult to relate with, you may not be able to live with an individual that has that type of temperament.
Even the Melancholy Temperament can be quite difficult to relate with, especially the Melancholy-Choleric (Mel-Chol) Temperament Blend; they demand perfection in everything & may NOT forgive you IF you offend them.
My point is you shouldn't generalize the Choleric Temperament as being haughty.
Au revoir!

What you're explaining to me is what I know so well. It however doesn't change the fact that a chol-mel is a chol and a chol is proud and doesn't know it

Carchoice:
There's no reason for cheating.

Any lady gives you reason why she opened Leg for another person is lying. She doesn't know why.

A man that leaves an endowed lady to sleep with another low level endowed lady doesn't know why he did that.


Cheating is human nature, cheating is like lying to fulfill your your "want" (pleasure)

When you are in that moment of disposing your excess akamu/scratch that big borehole, nothing else matters.

Cheating is who you are. ASHEWO.

Oga. Are you married?

Plead:
The things women pass through in this shithole....

African traditions are too primitive and stupid.

Honestly I pity them. But if you check it out, women are the majority of the upholders of such traditions.

RoyalBlu:
This doesn't make any sense.

This line of reasoning is too lame and basic.

Hi are you also florblu?

You have time o, you want to die young?

You think you can beat a woman when it comes to grudges, malice and unforgiveness?

You're a small boy

Ppl think of wedding than marriage. They do wedding with pride and enter into marriage with the pride. Whereas marriage requires a broken spirit and meekness which doesn't mean foolishness. Above all compatibility means a lot

Lol. As expected. It even came late

QueenSuccubus:


Im all good .. Of curz i do remember your moniker A hot bud with a great taste when it comes to women

Lol. I've PMed you, pls reply. Missed our chats

One hard truth is people confuse pride to mean high self esteem, especially the cholerics. They'll tell you they're principled, they don't take rubbish blabla. But if you look well, they're easily irritated, they have low tolerance (what they mean by they don't take nonsense), low patience, anger, rigid etc. But they'll label it good terms... That they are action oriented and unapologetic.. funny. When the Bible terms meekness as a fruit of the spirit. The bible says the sacrifices of the Lord that God will not despise are a broken spirit and a contrite heart.

The society also terms humility or a broken spirit as having low self esteem. A person who let's quarrelsome issues pass by is termed a fool. A person who forgives is termed a mugu and so on

My point is this. Self esteem has its place, but God's standard for humility supercedes personality qualities and societal norm for brokenness, humility and meekness. A person whose flesh is subdued will be patient and tolerant and be willing to forgive

QueenSuccubus:
It is really depressing if you worked so hard to be where you want to be and then suddenly everything seems falling apart

Why can't she fight back by suing her record label?

Being a while babe. How have you been? It's radicallyblunt in a new moniker.

In a barbershop sometime ago, elderly man once said, if you can have pet dogs in ur house for years, you can handle a woman. Another customer said, No a pet dog can differentiate between sense and emotions, that's why they will wag their tales for their owners and bite or bark at a stranger but many women young and old can't separate sense from emotions.

You're dating someone who can't marry you but giving you a good life cus of what's between your legs then later you call him scum. You who is thinking beyond the sex and fun agreement, what shd we call you.. The reality you knew from the beginning o, funny. When mouth don wide finish, to be a wife of a fresh graduate earning 100k go come hard

Lol words and opposite

Why fix 5million for 3 yrs. Anyway it depends on the interest rate though. Which bank is it?

Norahsthought:
0906782933. There you go

Ok I have anti-konji juju. I will give her

Norahsthought:
First of all, let me begin by saying this is the story of my friend and not me. I know you people will still jump to conclusions but that's up to you.

So early this week, my female friend came to visit and we had a really serious but somewhat awkward conversation. She simply said to me that she thinks she's addicted to sex and she needed help. Unfortunately, she's not in any serious relationship and she's doing well for herself but she thinks this lack of self-control could destroy her. She said she has tried everything, including trying to stay celibate but it just never worked. She asked as a lady what can she do? Bear in mind that it's much easier for ladies to get sex because, of course guys can barely say no. She has a couple of guys on speed dial.

So advice, please. If you're a lady and you were in a similar situation in the past, what did you do? And yes please reply as anon. Thank you

I've not been in d situation before but whenever the urge comes, let her blend fresh pepper and pour it with hot oil in her genitals. It will kill the urge like werey

What u listed are qualities that can make a lady single for so long. Those are perfectionist standards. You can make your man and not looking for a perfect man

Queenserah26:
Hmmmmmmmmm
{quote author=Oluromantic post=89863287]9) You should avoid guys that love you too much too. You're not the priority of a guy who knows where he's going.

Yes o queen

PatKing:
I wonder how parents get to have a favourite child and make it so obvious...very sad!!!
I have kids that I love equally, putting things like this into perspective, is there a time when this favouritism just have to crop up?
I have asked my mum... She stared!!!!

Live one day at a time ma'am. It will show when time ripe.

luvmijeje:
All parents are bias. Each and everyone of them are bias. So your case is not different. In my own case, my immediate elder brother is mum's favourite and unfortunately for her I'm my immediate brother's favourite. So imagine the clash. But I got older the resentment faded away.

So get use to it fast.

You na galant woman. You Sabi the bull by the horn

Eulalia:
Hmm... Will check.

Ok

Eulalia:
Oh... Ok.
Cool but its not very clear.

Yeah yeah I've PMed you just now. Let's continue the rest on WhatsApp or so. If you type ur number here, calls won't let you rest, that's why I PMed you

Eulalia:
Lol... I saw it but....read my signature. I have a very strong reason.

Is that you on your profile though?

Hmmm I knew you may not reply PM that's why I sent d msg in a quote.

Yes it's me by God's grace

Eulalia:
Yeah bro. Ride on! Lol...

But bae m I sent you one special message like that, you didn't reply. Why na?

Eulalia:
Its relative dear. Not all girls abuse privileges.

As for the order of priority you outlined up there, I don't see anything wrong if the man places the wife before career or vice versa as non can halt the other. Loving your wife so much can not make you lose focus except you chose to. Evrn the Bible says, love your wife as Christ loves the Church.

Mr Oluromantic, be romantic o. Hm

I'm super romantic. I didn't give myself the name. Ppl gave me the name having seen it in me. I will love my wife but not at the expense of my career. It's a career she shd helpmeet. I don't pursue the love of women. I rather make myself attractive in words n deeds enough to win their attention. If I'm not attractive enough for her, she's not mine.