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Ishilove:
My stowee is: he was hot headed and immature, I was stubborn and immature. We broke up in a flurry of rage and when both our eyes cleared it was too late.

We are still friends though. He is the only one who hails me with a high pitched ''biaaaaatch!!'' and I reply with "your left nyaaaaaash!"

Kai, Freezle my love.

He told me:Ishi, in my next life I will seek you out, and if we can't be lovers then, I will be your child.

Me too baby, me too...

The stubbornness still dey your blood sef.
And I expect you to prove it soon

Dirkcoyt:
Hmmm I will read up on them as I don’t like a docile person who also can’t think at my pace I hate repeating things many times before someone catch my drift

Ok but also know nobody has just one temperament. It's always a mixture of 2, although one is usually major while the other is minor. I'm mel-san. I've dated a phleg-mel before very peaceful and forgiving, hardly gets irritated (angry), knows I have other babes and kind of praise me for being masculine. Already believes a man is not meant for one woman so isn't too bothered (she is a bit though) about losing me. She also believe she can't force a man to love her and somehow shy. Funny enough she's not emotional, she's just calm and docile as u said. What made me not choose her yet is she's not challenging, aspiring, and not well educated but her stature is cool and she can express herself in simple English.

Now I have a new gf a san-mel, very lively, tender, emotional, talkative, initiates sex, initiates love and actions, educated, hardworking but stubborn on the other side, has pepper body(cannot withstand seeing u cheat), wants to go through my phone chats while the previous one is even ready to be my side chick. Her stature is not appealing like the previous though but I know childbirth will make her more round later. I'm in a dilemma right now on who to choose.

So I guess you're chlor- Mel. If I'm right, you're firm, rigid, action-driven, few talks, domineering etc. The Mel part of you gets you in deep thoughts sometimes. They say two action driven person engaged together will make fun die out in the home. Mel and chlor are the 2 action-driven temperament. One is just introverted and the other extro. While phleg and San are the fun-driven peaceful forgiving, recipients of others action, one is intro and the other extro also. So I think it's good to have a balance of the 2 together

Dirkcoyt:
What’s the best compatibility of a choleric man?

It's a phlegmatic woman

Choleric goes with phlegmatic
Melancholic goes with sanguine

Avoid snapping d number plates

favoryte33:
Lol,me i haven't gotten january alert. By thursday night i won't only switch off my phone,i'll swallow the battery&vomit it out by saturday. Me i don't have time for nonsense.

You shouldn't swallow battery bro. You shd look for a better job. By now ppl are looking forward to February alert already.

Besides wetin battery go do ur Belle, when u see d alert finish na sickness you go take am cure o

ojokolax:
there is surely something that these leaders are unto that the rest of us a slow to latch on to... the sincere willingness to work for the people and his undoubted loyalty to his principal. Admirable qualities if you as me that are usually lacking in most Nigerian politicians

To achieve this, he must have disappointed lots of mischievous south-westerners(his own people) by avoiding lots of south-western meetings and appointments he must have been invited to. They won't tell him it's an anti-northern meeting, he would be the one to be sensitive enough to know that this meeting would lead to mischief.

My uncle's friend was an inec admin sec... The topmost from his hometown. All his hometown low rank inec official decided to honor him by making him head of ogbomoso inec officials club. He absconded as he said that is d beginning of mischievous plot. It would be his falling point later as he would be seen as tribal and would be denied promotions or even dismissed from his FG appointment. He was able to sense the evil plot and fled. He remained loyal to his igbo boss(REC) who resides in the Southwest and remained official. They casted shame on him as immature and fake Yoruba. He wisely bore it all.

My point Is it takes lots of wisdom to achieve what ppl appreciate about osinbajo today.

Handbrake1:
This is my first car, I’m stuck between these options.

Venza 2012
Camry 2014
Lexus RX 350 2010
Lexus ES 330 2010.

My budget is 5 million.

Which is more durable, fuel efficient and problem free. Not totally free but not to give headache.

Thanks.

If you have 5 million, you shd enjoy comfort and class. Go for Lexus RX 350 2010. It's not low(can enter many places) Camry and venza are low.

I know of pple complaining about venza problems. Camry consumes fuel unlike Corolla. There's no difference btwn the fuel economy of Camry and the two Lexus

Get the best for yourself bro and ride in comfort

WaleFoto:
Romans 9:13 As it is written:
I loved Jacob but hated Esau

14- What then shall we say? is there injustice on the part of God? of course not. 15-For he says to Moses;
"I will show Mercy to whom I will show Mercy, I will take pity to whom I will take pity.

17- For the scripture says to Pharaoh, "This is why I have raised you up, to show my power through you that my name be proclaimed throughout the earth".

Deep!

It's a pestilence, it will go and another will show up. It's almost end time!

Lol

So soon. I remember the first picture. How time flies on nairaland!

sandyisioma:
Hi, Dag Heward-Mills is a Ghanaian Pastor.

Ok noted. Thanks

Tonyfj2020:
Point of correction, an abortion can become a threat to life in case of ectopic pregnancy. This is the reason abortion can be allowed. However, other human violation in regards to sex does not warrant an abortion. For human life is bigger than the shame or the trauma that's accrued to it.
[I know a church(name withheld) that says wearing tight(female underwear in place of pant) is a sin. That anything that looks like knicker or trouser whether in or out is sinful for a woman to wear.
In the Gospel of Matthew
On the contrary, according to Mark 9:42 thus says; "Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to stumble, it would be better for him to have a large millstone hung around his neck and to be thrown into the sea."
Whatever that can make another man or woman to objectify you sexually is a sin. Most of the revealing clothes women wear are worn to seduce men or that they may appear sexy. What used to be private have now become public. Most women both married and single have gone wield about their private lives. This is typified in the kind of clothes they wear. Some feel like to go naked than being responsible. All in the name of civilization or freedom but they have forgotten that freedom comes with responsibility. From women both young and middle age women wear today, you could see the contour of their private part. We all know that Christ taught to not look at woman lustfully for it is a sin for man to do so (Matthew chapter 5:28).

This is not a controversy based on Christian teaching for Christ categorically taught us all that we should follow. I think it is more controversial on the aspect of those who choose what they should hear and what they feel like doing. Today's Christian do not believe in what God is telling them that believe in what they feel like to listen to and how they select the kind of message that I listen to any message that has to do with purity of heart they turn it down.

You don't have to correct me. I wasn't wrong about anything. I just asked for opinions. Thanks

Ramos16:
When did God tell you abortion is a sin

Don't mind my view jare. Everyone with his/her own belief. Hold on to your belief and keep the abortion game rolling. Good luck!

kokaneprodigy:
Your bible answers all these questions but since you choose to believe men instead of reading your bible you’ll be forming confused.

The Bible clearly said divorce is not allowed unless in the case of Adultery,

God destroyed a city cos of Sodomy

Some of these issues can’t be debated cos they were unambiguously sorted in the Bible.

You're right when you appropriately back up your view. Kindly explain with bible references the answer to each highlighted points in the post.

I know the answer to some though, I just threw it open for discussion but I believe your proof will help me with answers to the ones I don't know.

Shugavee:
the Bible never fails!! It helps

Yes when you hold on to it always and not during heartbreaks only

I think a bigger question to answer is why God hardened Pharaoh's heart and led him to the destruction he prepared for him. Exodus 9:12

This chioma Jesus destiny is sweet. Just released a few tracks and the rest of her fame comes from outstudio. From concerts and gospel gatherings..

That abortion is really an issue. We know God doesn't approve it but what does one do when the pregnancy is a threat to the carrier's life or it's a product of incest/bestiality or violation/rape that comes with psychic trauma at the site of the child.

I know a church(name withheld) that says wearing tight(female underwear in place of pant) is a sin. That anything that looks like knicker or trouser whether in or out is sinful for a woman to wear.

Another issue is sex. Dag heaward-mills(a popular Ghanian pastor) said in one of his books that it's not sinful for couples to engage in orall sex. But many other pastors condemn it

Another issue is divorce. A particular popular church in Nigeria with its head pastor now a divorcee is said to have the highest record of divorce within its members among xtain organizations in Nigeria. In d Western world, it's even a normal routine among xtains. Which does one believe?

The Bible you don't open at all, you suddenly remembered and clung to it after a heart break..lol.

I'm sure d next time you will open it is when you lose babaijebu or nairabet game that you played with a loan.

Bible don suffer

Get him employment

Ladylite:
Shuuut up, companionship abi, go to your street and help the beggars or to an hospital and find companionship, it is in seeking relationships that you can't build that many of you make mistakes and claim to only be human.

Oga spend time alone with yourself, the universe wants to teach you to be alone.

Lol. Your heart break experience must have been brutal. The very reason you shd avoid being alone. It's already affecting your approach

An African millionaire, not even billionaire, shes humble o.

Type532:
wow, when you think you have seen it all.

Are you looking for husband?

The fact is extroverts don't have time for a forum like this; they're out there catching fun. For a person to sit down alone expressing him/herself through a blind media such as this, there must be a large amount of introversion in such a person. So it's not surprising that introverts dominate here

Lol. Nawa

dawnomike:
The rate of digestion in your stomach is pretty high... Simply chew a caffeinated gum once a day, that will trick your brain to think you're eating hence, inhibiting your cravings for food

Gum increases hunger madam

Thewriter2018:
But I didn't have time to be wasting on a cheating girl by trailing her; I have other important things to do. I told her that I could have easily pretended to have not read the chat and follow up the chat to know what she is upto but because I don't have strength to do that I just want her to know that I cannot trust her again.

You've still not gotten d message. Nawa

This guy mumu o. Is she your first love abi why u come turn mumu like this? I understand it may not be easy to let go of a girl that unconditionally gives you awesome sex. But now u don learn say nothing good lasts forever. From ur last write up, I see that the girl is still a very useful sex machine for you, you're still in control but you need to remove ur mind from this mumu dilly-dallying emotions weh u attach to d matter. Keep being in control, keep bleeping her but give her her space. Look out for another girl instead..girls plenty weh dey find dickk. This one na big time heartbreak bomb she go do you if u no cement your mind now