₦airaland Forum

Lol Nigerians always like stubborn and bitter women. Ceec almost won last year too. Does it mean it's only crazy people that shd be in the house yearly?

So we're buying body for almost a million

Apart from the name in this part of the world, Toyota shapes within and without are not fascinating. The 2010 RAV4 has a better shape than this one

Even me I cannot do it with my own baby talkless of whether my wife will allow me.

The fact is even the unforgiving has no peace!

Naughtytboy:
There is this girl we've been friends for some time now, although I wooed her but she said no, but on two occasions we've accidentally slept together at the same place and she let me romance her twice, the first time she said it was a mistake and would never happen again but it happened again the second time. Please what do you guys think? Is she giving me a green light? Just confused.

You don't need any green light again nw. Just ensure the mistake continues to happen. If you get the green light, is it not this same mistake that you need it for? So forget light and focus on mistake. You no sharp sef!

It depends on ur person. If I were you I will date both but won't put mind in anyone. The one that shows more concern with minimal attention, takes long to get angry(peaceful) and presentable is the one I'll finally choose, shower with love, groom her to my taste...cut her excesses and add up to where she lacks. Simple! Do you know there are girls who know as a guy u will have babes apart from them and they're just cool with you and still like you. I'm not saying cheating is right but choose a woman who will give u peace..that's my point!

Some remarried for good reasons while others did for selfish reasons. Stella Damascus was a young widow..her remarriage after abt 8 yrs is okay

Im sure she's not different from tacha; beautiful with no character. Tacha even has her fame n support speaking for her, this one may not have a job than to wear revealing clothes, show big yansh and sleep with men for money!

It's a shame to put over 80% concentration on ur body with the mentality of a man will provide all my needs. Put more attention in the virtues that you will be valued for and not this useless yansh!

Davash222:
So, what exactly is your problem or question

I just wonder too.

Op You know and you're sure he doesn't love you and you're waiting for him to give you approval to date someone else. He's not the problem o. It's you that's either not sure if your actions would be right when you take them or you're emotionally weak to leave.

Besides he doesn't need to know you're dating someone else. Once u start dating someone else, your feeling for him will naturally fade away. Simple! And if he wants to manipulate your emotions afterwards, just keep calm, if possible don't utter a word and don't pick up a fight with him. That's where you ladies make mistakes. Any little thing, quarrel. Never I repeat, never end up a relationship with someone with quarrel.

And how are you sure it's not ur familiarity that caused contempt in the relationship. Because a relationship that will last must be void of familiarity. They say too much familiarity breeds contempt.

This questions contains almost no sense. What if the lady you're talking about is 39+ herself or u expect a 39 year old lady to marry a 31 ur old man? It's not a balanced question

Cant work in Naija. It's ur fellow citizens that will pull those trees out

2.4million. Are you kidding me? Or u mean 240k

Expensive than 2005 highlander

Same price with 2005 highlander

donpedro11:
Black mamba, one of the most dangerous snakes on the planet

And yes it climbs wall

And fastest/swiftest

dejonathan:
One of the most hardworking governors in Nigeria

Honestly. Especially his willingness to manage the little funds in d state to achieve as much as possible. Repairing old official cars instead of buying new ones. Trying to cultivate cannabis to raise funds although wasn't approved. I really like his drive

Shouldn't it be a married woman giving single girls this advice? But somehow even the married ones are still been taught some simple things they should know.

One mentality I dislike about girls is always expecting to be taught everything (some of these things, even little children know them) but asking for money they don't need to be taught that one. It's inborne

How much

Hoodbilonia:
Nothing like factory seats
Daz y i prefer cushion to leather

Me too

bigpriik:
my advice for you bro, it seems you are not the social type well for now I will advice you to first start with making friends with people both male and female so you can overcome you social anxiety ,I will advice you to roll with badboys especially womanizers a little but please don't copy their lifestyle like smoking and heavy drinking just learn how they watch out for how they woo women,roll with them constantly ,go to clubs,parties with them and don't be afraid to ask questions from them ,I bet you with time you will get that bad boy mentality and you wunt know were girls will be coming from.

but for the moment I think you are desperate and needy women hate that shiii and they will sense it and reject you. most of us were once like you .what you lack right now is experience and emotional control ,learn how to control your emotions because the game of women is not for the emotionally weak.

It seems and you're advising. You're confused and unexposed. You offer advice when you're sure of what's going on.

Does being extremely social and mixing with bad boys cancel the risk involved in it? Socializing with womanizers does not cancel the news of accidental pregnancy after you just got visa. Ive had a lot of girls and having seen it all, I still advise that nothing compares to a bright career. Fuccking women up and down is secondary fun. It should not deplete your primary glory. For a 24 year old boy with such a plan, what I said is best for him.

Lemme share a true life experience with you. It happened to a deeper life church member who paid d dowry of a lady 5years older than him since deeper life members would rather marry older people or other tribes than go out of their church to get a spouse. They were yet to do their white wedding when he left for overseas. He got there and started lamenting to his family members so seriously that he chose not to come home again. You know why? He was coming across so many single young Nigerian ladies who just finished their medical and nursing degrees as well as masters and phd. He regretted he had married an older and fatter OND holder back home just before he left. He went there for masters. Out of fear that he may not come home since he had overstayed the time he promised, his mother in-law admitted later that she was the one that used juju to bring him back cus they thought he wasn't going to come back and his wife here is getting more aged. He was deployed back and now struggling to make ends meet.

Though you need the experience. In fact you can actually date girls without telling them your plans of career or to go abroad. It's d lie you arrange in thier brain that they'll believe but it takes a lot of experiences to do that and you're just 24 and inexperienced..you won't be able to handle it yet especially the emotional manipulation which they're all good in doing. You shouldn't experience any emotional problems at this stage that you need to stay focused cus they have no good to offer to say the truth. Nigerian girls only think of the goodies to obtain in a relationship and nothing to give or any sacrifices to make, including the so called churchy types. The sincere ones will even run away from you cus they'll say you will forget them once you go...it's always about them them them throughout life even in marriage... they have nothing good for you. If you hide your prosperity plans and prospects from them, that's when you'll see their real attitude, if they know ur plans to go abroad, they'll pretend, get pregnant for you, complicate ur tender heart and use juju to shatter your dreams.

As for the loneliness, get call girls or go to brothels to keep body and soul together at least for now (now you know one of the reasons why prostitutes are necessary in d society) To be frank with you, according to my relatives there and many other people that go abroad often, there are many Nigerian single ladies with great academic achievements in their early and late 20s, even 30s with thier families based there with them. My elder bro who was a banker here married a doctor when he got there. They just had thier first child and my parents flew there to congratulate him. So stay focused and whatever you need to learn from women, you'll learn it from women with the right mentality over there.

pensator:
Men are more jealous..... It's just our nature and we took dis act after our creator... "am a JEALOUS GOD"

I was about to say same.

See, the person who gives or invests more than he gets in a relationship is always the more jealous one. And that in all cases is the man. If someone is always giving me things and providing for me, and then stops, what I would feel is not jealousy, but the feeling that I won't get those goodies anymore.. that's what women call jealosy in thier own world.

Besides cus they know women don't cheat with their brain unlike men, they just carry all their body to the new man without considering what has been done for them in d past by the other man. The feeling of seeing all ur effort disregarded so nonchalantly is terrible. A giver's jealousy is real. A receiver has no right to jealousy.