₦airaland Forum

gmtanwa25:
Best gift ever

While supporting the motion that men should not do dishes in the home, Olusesan wrote that men are saddled with bigger responsibilities of providing for the home and they should not be relegated to do such tasks, except when there is the need to support the woman.

Down d road, doing dishes should become a trivial duty, as men pick up more burden to provide for the family. Except where the woman is over-laboured, excusing a man from chores is a courtesy and honour that will never be properly appreciated in poorly consummated relationships." he wrote

Yuceeluv:
This man is so handsome. Even in his old age, its still showing.

tiffanyfan:
Thank you teacher

nopretense:
Hi everyone.

Trust you're having a great weekend.

A female friend of mine just secured a self-contained apartment at Olasepe Estate, Denro (#100 bike to Ojodu Berger, #50 sometimes).

The estate is properly planned, highly secure and very close to the main road (I've been there).

She needs a decent female roommate who will only pay a token of 40k (rent expires next year June). She claims she needs a gist partner (lool).

She's cool to be with, I bet there'd be no hassle.

If you are interested or you know anyone who might be, pls send me a mail or call/text 08037891605 so I can link you guys.

Cheers!

Femi316:
But you will still drive the car under sun.....?

Elder0001:
Also stop being unnecessarily strict on your kids
There’s no reward for flogging or doing such , in the west parents don’t do that but their kids still behave .

If only most of them knew how being overly strict make their kids recent them , most Nigerian fathers aren’t well loved by their kids because they’re too strict , myopic and simply power toxic .

Mothers who are hated by their children are mothers who’re kinda strict and overly protective ,check well.

kennygee:
Ladies. See the comments in this post. The one that really saddened me was the sweet girl who got dumped cause she was "demanding". Were her demands really a necessity or were they vain demands?

If you can afford to help out a woman you claim you love when she was in need, not out of vanity, is that a bad thing?

Maybe she was poor and couldn't afford those things she needed, if you could afford it and you've ascertained it is a necessity, is it too bad to help her out?

I pray she is able to hustle, get through this poor phase of her life by getting a decent job or business so she can stand on her own.

If you hustle your way through and become financially independent, they'll say you won't be submissive. If you ask them for money for needs, they'll say you're demanding.

If you dim your light so they can shine, they'll say you lack ambition. If you go to school, gather degrees paid for by yourself and your parents, they'll say you won't be submissive.

If you're a working career woman, they'll say you are not fulfilling your wifely duties, if you're a house wife, you're a liability.

The Nigerian woman is screwed either ways.

Make your own money ladies, work hard to achieve your dreams. Carve a path for your self and observe and look out for the one worth committing to.

In all these, stay off fornication and live the kind of life Christ wants you to live.

Shalom.

jceesquare:
Did he say His Board?

lade007:
And where is your board? I can see you still have a lot to learn about nairaland since you joined late 2018. This is my thread and no one invited you here. Have a good day

Jayhazard:
What do you mean by "mental capacity" ?
Does gender define mental capacity?
If yes, why are some females more mentally capable than some men, and vice versa? The answer to this question should be based on your answer to the first question.

lade007:
I can also help you with the Toyota Corolla! Lest I forget, spread hope and mind your business

coolcharm:
I love Paul Kagame. Intelligent, bold and apt.

He is undoubtedly the poster boy for the kind of leaders African countries are in dire need of.

I can imagine all the itchy bodies and uneasy faces while he spoke

tiffanyfan:
Please oga ta ni bro e, am a female. Have a nice day

tiffanyfan:
No its not madness, blame it on some women that are married but still give men the impression that they are available, one is seriously on my brother's neck now...some girls are just a disgrace to womanhood