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Phones / Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by oluwatodimu1(m): 12:55pm On Jul 31
This platform has changed o
Where the guys that sell Umidigi phones?
What happened to Umidigi?
Family / Re: Should I Be Concerned About Marrying A 39yrs Old Woman? by oluwatodimu1(m): 2:17pm On Jan 24
I will suggest you have a heart to heart discussion with her about child bearing. As an introvert, psychologically evaluate her body language and draw your inference.

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Politics / Re: NLC: I Was Beaten, God Must’ve Taken Time To Create Me – Ajaero Narrates Ordeal by oluwatodimu1(m): 7:17pm On Nov 02, 2023
Yet the police came out to say they took him into "protective custody". May God deliver us from Nigerian Police. Dem too dey lie!
Romance / Re: Pastor Who's Married For 14 Years With 3 Kids That Are Not His by oluwatodimu1(m): 2:15pm On Jul 12, 2023
tonye33:
I have been married for 14 YEARS and 'we' have 3kids(all boys) but none of them belongs to me.

5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Lagos to Abuja and our car skidded off the road.
I was the only survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children.

I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.

In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process.

I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me.

6 years into our marriage, my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first child.

To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA and it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine.

I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife.
My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes around preaching to women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don't know.

I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about the situation.
I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.

What should I do!?

--Please advise him.
If you never told her of your impotence before marriage, then you are just as guilty as she is because there was no marriage in the first place.
You decieved her, and she decieved you in triplicate!
My opinion: pls confess and make her understand that you know the paternity of the children. As a Pastor, you would understand the power of genuine repentance.

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Education / Re: What Does Bsc. (hons) Means? by oluwatodimu1(m): 7:53pm On Jun 27, 2023
BSc: Bachelor of Science
Awarding BSc or BSc (Hons) degree is usually a decided at the inception of that course by the Institution. Your class of degree doesn't determine this.
Whether your certificate reads with honors or without honors, it doesn't mean anything to employers of labour. So develop your self...
Romance / Re: How Do I Free Myself From A White Garment Girl by oluwatodimu1(m): 10:08pm On Jun 17, 2023
Op, you need serious counselling and prayers too but at least your John Thomas is safely locked somewhere.
No extra expenses, you are even covered from STIs.
Romance / Re: How Do I Free Myself From A White Garment Girl by oluwatodimu1(m): 10:00pm On Jun 17, 2023
Op, you need serious counseling and possibly prayers too but at least your John Thomas is safely locked somewhere.
No extra expenses, you are even covered from STIs.
Romance / Re: . by oluwatodimu1(m): 1:35pm On May 26, 2023
Majorbankz007:
I have been having very heated arguments with my ex girlfriend. One time while having an argument, I got really mad and threw a glass cup to the wall.



Our argument and differences has gotten really bad and we broke up 2 days back. Yesterday, she called me and asked If I was at home, but I wasn’t. She came to my work place to get the keys to my apartment, claiming she forgot her stuffs at my place.


I gave her my keys and after 35 mins she came back to my work to return the keys, I did not suspect anything.

This morning Before going to work, I decided to use my eye drops. I opened it and it slipped of my hands and fell off, I picked it up. When trying to use it, I noticed the liquids immediately glued to my finger.

Someone emptied my eye drops and fill it up with super glue, I don’t know who to suspect other than my ex girlfriend.


I don’t know what to do, please advice. Mature minds only.

Should I report this to the police or discuss it with her family ?
Shebi you have broken up...
Politics / Re: Gov Abiodun To Ogun Residents: I'll Deal With Anyone Who Rejects Old Naira Notes by oluwatodimu1(m): 9:45am On Mar 13, 2023
TheNiceGuy:
Well said.

That, I support.
I hope other State Government do thesame
This is the second time he has said so!
We still have "everyone" rejecting the old notes!
Politics / Re: Peter Obi's Ondo Rally Vs Nigerian Wedding Reception - Reno Omokri by oluwatodimu1(m): 8:48pm On Jan 15, 2023
We as Nigerians need to understand that there is a life after elections. All this bitterness and politics fuelled division would not pay back our national debt (over 70trn) neither would it change the fact that Nigeria is in a very deep mess!

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Romance / Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by oluwatodimu1(m): 12:27pm On Jan 03, 2023
Bro it is like you lack counsel! Why would a lady compare herself to your mum? In summary, run for your life. She doesn't love you! All you will get from this is regret and bitterness!
Agriculture / Re: #poultrybusiness: The Secret Vet Doctors Are Hiding From You. As Poultry Farmer by oluwatodimu1(m): 11:00am On Oct 31, 2022
wehdone:


Thanks. They should take that advice and put it in a 20k poultry farm, and come and tell us the outcome. They should as little as use a vaccine whose coldchain was not properly maintained lipsrsealed
That was how one of these kind of "sooth sayers" advised a poultry farmers to stop antibiotics and promised to help him use herbs to brood 15,000 pullets. Na so birds come down with gumboro... The rest na story

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Agriculture / Re: #poultrybusiness: The Secret Vet Doctors Are Hiding From You. As Poultry Farmer by oluwatodimu1(m): 7:33am On Oct 31, 2022
tropaz:
This epistle is only for 20 birds farmers... not for serious investments...

You have no control over hatcheries and feedmills..so, you must take precautions...


.... 7 years in the poultry industry is peanut too. The industry can mess you up and give you hbd anytime any day.... get your facts right... and most importantly, never underestimate the importance of the veterinarian and your animal nutrition expert... thank me later...

Poultry business is a serious business oooooo
Uhmmm
Just leave those who are small scale farmers alone o! You can take such risks with small number of birds but in a farm with over 200,000 layers with a closed housing system. You dare not risk such!
Lastly, not every individual who is called a Vet is truly one. Kindly ask for such persons VCN number.

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Pets / Re: This Pussycat Was Killed By My Electric Transformer by oluwatodimu1(m): 2:47pm On Oct 26, 2022
Somebori's mfm prayer request don answer
cheesy
Family / Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by oluwatodimu1(m): 8:57pm On Oct 03, 2022
Almost every Nigerian woman have this mentality of entitlement. On your part you can try understand her love language to know what adjustments to make. Speak with her but if she refuses to change, switch to "cheap ration"- kind of gifts. Nothing extraordinary, so that you won't be pained if she doesn't appreciate them.
These are my own opinions

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Politics / Re: 2013 Video Of Bola Tinubu Working Out On An Exercise Bicycle by oluwatodimu1(m): 12:22pm On Oct 03, 2022
I don't know how true this is

Politics / Re: Aisha Buhari Apologises To Nigerians Over Economic Hardship And Insecurity by oluwatodimu1(m): 8:04pm On Oct 01, 2022
Religion / Re: Happy 68th Birthday To Bishop David Oyedepo by oluwatodimu1(m): 8:21am On Sep 27, 2022
Voiceofthestree:


But he was saying the truth nah. Although the truth is bitter but it also needed to be told. Are you a member of his church. If we check the list of richest pastor in the world from 1 to 10 he sure say Nigeria 3 pastor deh there what impact are they contribute to the nation?. Oyedepo is the richest pastor in the world not in Africa but in the world with over $200 million net profit. Jesus Christ has just 12 loaf of bread ooo but he was not greedy and share it to thousand of people if this man is a real man of God and not a business man that him school should have be lesser than a poor people can also avoid do you know as at 2years ago covenant university was paying 495k per session thats almost half a million how many of his church members can avoid that?. Why not give free education to his members?. Do you know the number one problem that is affecting Africa as a continent is Religion?. If Oyedepo, pastor Adeboye, Chris oyakilome if all of them deh help 200people every year and they make it compulsory for the same people to help 5 people every years this country will never be like this do you know how much some people are paying in church every Sunday and still yet they can’t avoid to send their children to the church school you think about it ?. If the school is run properly even some church members who are doing teaching job will want to teach student freely in the school.. People are too greedy in this country I swear. If all rich men and women way den Nigeria deh help atleast 10people every year I swear poor people for no remain for Nigeria again.... but just one man want to have 109 billion to himself only
Let us not be judges over another because we don't know how many persons he has helped and still helping. There maybe several flaws in us as humans. If our system was right, alot of our expectations would have been sorted. Finally, our value system as Africans in Africa are twisted. We are more religious than religion itself!
Politics / Re: COVID-19 Palliatives Discovered In A Warehouse In Osun 2 Years After (Video) by oluwatodimu1(m): 11:51am On Sep 12, 2022
When you hear APC, you better run the other way!
Pets / Re: My Puppy Has A Swollen Stomach by oluwatodimu1(m): 9:45pm On Jul 18, 2022
Papa85:


1. The vet girl gave it injection and told me that is part of deworming.
2. The fluid is white
3. It eats little but drinks more of water.
4. I do see rats but I don't see the dog close to them.
There was a time I kept it with one local dog like that sha.
Ok, let's assume that the pet has been dewormed. You will have to re-present your pet to a qualified vet in your axis. This looks like ascites and can be managed accordingly. However, it is a chronic condition and would require prolonged therapy.
Note: It is a medical emergency, please visit the nearest Vet. hospital

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Pets / Re: My Puppy Has A Swollen Stomach by oluwatodimu1(m): 8:36pm On Jul 18, 2022
Papa85:
I got this dog 3 months ago but I started noticing that the stomach is swelling. I have taken it to a vet and he drained the stomach but the stomach has started swelling again after 5 days. Please what is the solution ?
Hello, kindly respond to the following questions:
1. When was the pet's dewormed last?
2. What is the colour of the fluid the "Vet" aspirated?
3. Is the pet still active and eating?
4. Any history of rats interaction with the pet?
Just so you know, this could be.
Phones / Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by oluwatodimu1(m): 8:49pm On Jul 03, 2022
angiography:


I have, 20k.

The phone was bricked, so I'm selling the hardware. Get to me via samakinr@gmail.com

Oh! I got this late. I had contacted the other person
Phones / Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by oluwatodimu1(m): 10:40am On Jul 01, 2022
I want to A7 pro screen. Anyone who has for sale should contact me
Phones / Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by oluwatodimu1(m): 7:05am On Jun 30, 2022
Good morning everyone
pls I need suggestions for fixing my wife's a7 pro that just fell into water.
Phones / Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by oluwatodimu1(m): 8:02pm On Jun 10, 2022
Hello house, please from whom can I get umidigi bison X10 case from. I need one urgently
Agriculture / Re: What Kind Of Sickness Is This On My Chicken? (Disturbing Photo) by oluwatodimu1(m): 10:57am On May 09, 2022
This is Fowl pox! It could be worse than this... If the bird still eats feed and drink water, I will suggest you get Ampicillin- based vet drug or Pox proline.
If you want to prevent such from happening next time, ensure your birds get vaccinated against fowl pox by an animal health care professional.
Thank you.

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Business / Re: Bakery Or Poultry: Which Of These Two Businesses Should I Go For? by oluwatodimu1(m): 7:47pm On May 07, 2022
Don't go near poultry o!
A word is enough for the wise...
Phones / Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by oluwatodimu1(m): 6:15pm On Apr 18, 2022
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Politics / Re: Nigeria With Yahaya Bello: Is this the Best Presidential Declaration Video? by oluwatodimu1(m): 8:13pm On Apr 07, 2022
Waste of money
Sports / Re: Marcelo Bielsa Is The Coach Nigeria Needs, Do You Agree Or Not? by oluwatodimu1(m): 5:19pm On Apr 01, 2022
nairagood:
If we really need to see attacking play and clear pattern of forward thinking style of football then Bielsa or coaches that believe in his school of thought are the ones we need to hire for our national team.
We have the right kind of players to play all out attacking football but we don't have the right coaches or tacticians to drill that into the players so I believe a coach like Bielsa could do so much for Nigeria football as much as Clemens Westerhoff did in the past.
Many of the best coaches in the world have been influenced by Bielsa so it is only the wise choice to have such influence in our football.
This is not the time to waste money and resources on half baked coaches, we should spend our money on the right grade coach.
Abi una no agree with me?
NFF will not employ that kind of coach. Na all of those "abiku" coaches them they approach to employ. Abi no be NFF again?
Romance / Re: Dear Men, Please Do Not Make This Terrible Mistake In Your Relationships (photo) by oluwatodimu1(m): 4:17pm On Apr 01, 2022
siofra:
I just say make I tell una.

Never leave a good woman because she mistakenly slept with another man Thank you
Mistakenly?!
grin
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by oluwatodimu1(m): 8:08am On Apr 01, 2022
finson:
Good day all,

I was working in Lagos as expatriate. I am married and she was fully aware at the beginning of the relationship.

I had sex with my gf on the 6th day and I pulled out.

I told her that month that my contract has been terminated by my company and I have to go back to my country.

On 27th day I met her (5 days before leaving the country) and she asked me if I am sure that I pulled out on time when we had sex last time and I told her yes and she told me that she is asking the question because she has not seen her period.

When I left the country 2 weeks later I chatted her and I asked if she is doing well. She told me that she is not fine. I asked "why ?" And she told me that she is pregnant. I was very surprised and I called her. That day she told me that she was just joking with me she is not pregrant and we talked about everything.

Last week she told me that she is pregnant. She shared with me a test results on a paper where the date of the pregnancy perfectly matches with the date we had sex.

She told me that if her family is aware of the situation they will disowned her and she immediately shared with me some requirements to apply for a job in UK where 2 million NGN are required and she asked me for support. She also deleted the image of the tests results.

When I asked her to share with me she told me that she does not want me to be in trouble if my wife see that document in my phone. I insisted to get a copy and I told her that she can be assured I will not keep it in my phone. She shared back the document after cropped the letterhead. I insisted to get the full copy and she sent another one after striketrhoughed on her name.

I told her that I don't think in Nigeria the only option available for a woman who gets pregnant is to travel to UK even if her family will disown her. I understand that the situation is not comfortable but there could be other options. Even this process to go to UK can be unsuccessful, and if it is the case, this amount of money would have been lost.

I am not from Nigeria and this story seems suspicious to me. I am currently abroad, there is no way I can verify what she is telling me. I don't also want to open it some of my friends there.

To be honest, I never planned after I left the country to cut communication with her or to support her. But I prefer to support her whenever I have the opportunity to do. I don't know now if this story about the pregnancy is true or not.

If you have any experience in this kind of situation please share with me. Any advice is also welcome.
Please don't judge me.
Brruh!
She wants to scam you!
Let's even consider that she wants to process travels to UK, 2 million naira would not be enough to fund such

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