@poster

You've have created an interesting thread 

@sistawoman

That was a cute conversation. If this kind of conversation go on in homes, it will help the couple adjust where necessary and understand some things.

whitelexi:

I think instead of cheating [as it is now called], a man should just practice polygamy if he can afford it
That way, he is not doing anything wrong in the eyes of God and man!

Abi women, wetin una think?

keep thinking while others are flying all you who still belive that Christianity is poverty.

@poster
I disagree fundamentally with some of the above replies. First, studying for the job market will only earn you a meal ticket. Second, studying a course that you love and is compactible with your purpose in life make you a fulfilled person. You can study a course that will drive your passion to be what you want to become or a course that will get you a job but will take away your happiness. You need to look in-ward and see a course that is compactible with your passion and area of interest, it is then that you can find both the meal ticket and fulfillment in life.

By the way, there are some disciplines that are hot cake in the market today but will become liability in the nearest future. Technology changes the way we do things in this modern age, but when you study a course that is your area of interest, you will always find fulfillment in life.

Some people study some discipline for prestige reasons, a course that has nothing to do with their life and they end up being the second best in life. They may struggle but it will only make them second best. In view of this, if your area of interest in life is Geography or Sociology or whatever, please don't hesitate, follow your dreams. Studying for Nigeria market is particularly dangerous, because the evidence on ground did not support that theory again. Today, most bankers are Engineering based graduates, some banks sometimes conduct special recruitment for Management based graduates, because majority of the people that passed aptitude test are Engineering graduates, as such to have professionals grounded in the nitty gritty of the banking profession they recruits Econs, Acct, Finance graduate to supplement with special consideration.

The fact in Nigeria today is that there are graduates of Yoruba, Hausa, Igbo, English and French languages in the banking industry today. By and large don't allow environment to affect you. look inward study a course you are confortable with, it is better to be a Nobel Laureate in Street Sweeping than to be a second best in Physics, the two can not stand on the same pedastal, coming first is first anywhere.

For those of us that agree with this 'story' with our whole heart, which other country have you worked and by what standards do you agree with this report??

I am a young christian girl. I have always been fascinated with the way muslim women dress. I was so curious about islam that I became a commitee member for the muslims students asociation at university. There was something exciting about goin to my malaysian friends houses and seeing them without their hijabs or abbayas on. It made them look so beautiful. The act of covering up made them look so elegant. At this time I was going out with a muslim brother and I would admit that the only sinful thing we did was hold hands. I am now out of the muslim curiousity phase as I learnt enough to know that Jesus is the way. But somehow I think I was attracted to the modesty and sexual purity of my muslim friends.
Now Im back home, and though I try to dress decently enough to church I cant help but notice the kind of clothes some girls wear to church. I miss the fact that we dont have a kinda of sisterhood like muslim sisters have that promote decent dressing among christian women. I know it would look a bit hardcore if I begin to dress like a muslim sister. But in my heart im pulled to doing this.
Anyway to keep this short, what are your views or experience on this issue.
Do you think this is a problem (societal)? Or is it a matter of changing churches?