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ibkayee:
He’s answered some questions but we still don’t have the full story in my opinion, all the best to him though, he’s the most familiar with his family dynamic so I guess he’s just doing what he needs to do for his own personal reasons

Yes o, I also asked that he modifies his post so people are not misguided.. He can do whatever so long he gets peace, and he knows his family better. It is well

ibkayee:
Ok I see, thanks for clearing the part about the parents up

With the lots of comment up there ehn, if I hadn't gone through the pages viewing interesting comments I would have jumped on as well. To imagine the people vexing are vexing on something like this?.?

IceColdVeins:
Dont be quick to judge.
I am the only one at loggerheads with my dad, my other siblings are not. And I neevr demonised my mom, I love her and I have showered my care on her. I'm just trying to make peace within myself and make the family balanced. MY mom and dad are still together and happier than before. But the wounds dont ever heal.

ibkayee this was what I saw ooo and why I said what I said.

Zukky123:
I really commend your efforts to reconcile with your dad, it takes great courage and serious ego-breaking to that. Don't listen to anything anyone would say on this platform, cos I'm sure you are an adult and have taken time to put many things into consideration having thought this through. This is a bold step, I just hope that your mum would also benefit from this reconciliation and hope your dad does not relapse again, cos it would become another cycle or even worse when you interfere in their matters again. Just know this means you cannot meddle in the affairs of ur family hence forth as you've sold the rights to do so, unless you want to keep sucking up to him.

Me myself I'm a victim of this paternal negligence.
Since 2018 marchl haven't been able to talk to my dad simply because I tried to make peace between him and my mum when they had their usual rift. I tried so hard no to pick sides, I tried so hard not to be rude, I tried so hard not to challenge my dad,, but yet we have become strangers only because I said ""daddy please it hasn't gotten to the level of using curse words".
Because I want peace I've tried severally to apologise and reconcile with him but to no avail. I call, he doesn't take my calls, I text but still no positive response. Even when I got paid my first salary during my housemanship I went with his favourite wine, and again before my service, I went with another wine and he kicked me out, the second time leaving me in front of his officce and driving off at night. Few days back I turned 26 and messaged him, but still no response. I know some people would say certain nasty things, I just need sensible advice regarding this matter because I don't know what to do again. And I want peace and also don't want to sell my rights to resolving family conflicts as I'm the first child and son.

He must have gotten over that and maybe needs time to completely get over it.. I can bet he smiles whenever he reads through your texts and smiles when he sees your call. I can bet he looks through his side mirror at your reactions whenever he drives off on you. He only wants you to grow tougher than he sees you to be.
My one piece, don't stop texting him, He'll come around.
When you go to his place or office, send in the gift with a note, I bet he'll smile while he reads through and jejely sip his wine.
I live your spirit, do not relent.
Even his conscience pricks him when he sees you.
It's his shakara time, one day the PURSUER WILL BE PURSUED

ibkayee:
Not entirely clear on whether he just heard it from his mum or witnessed it himself, that one aside, he also mentioned experiencing negligence

Yes, tho he stated that due to what he perceived his mum is going through... Also they could be under the same roof and the father would decide to overlook him cos of his strong will against him(dad). The parents are fine but the impression I his head stuck on for quite a while and would definitely make it difficult to relate even if under same roof. It would also make him feel he needs dad less...
I pray God helps him to settle all

ibkayee:
I’m kind of annoyed that you even apologised

Seems like both parents are cool together while he is the one at loggerheads heads with the dad cos of things he has heard from the mum.. The post is a lil bit misleading

IceColdVeins:
Dont be quick to judge.
I am the only one at loggerheads with my dad, my other siblings are not. And I neevr demonised my mom, I love her and I have showered my care on her. I'm just trying to make peace within myself and make the family balanced. MY mom and dad are still together and happier than before. But the wounds dont ever heal.

BRATISLAVA see this..

BRATISLAVA:
Thankfully you get my point. I'm not saying women are angels, but most of these family issues are caused by men full of the stubborn male ego who believe they can never apologize and that they are always right.

In one of the Op's post, he said he is the only one at loggerheads with his dad. His siblings and mum are cool with him asides the Op himself...

IceColdVeins:
Dont be quick to judge.
I am the only one at loggerheads with my dad, my other siblings are not. And I neevr demonised my mom, I love her and I have showered my care on her. I'm just trying to make peace within myself and make the family balanced. MY mom and dad are still together and happier than before. But the wounds dont ever heal.

Op clarify these and edit your initial post cos your post has brought out all sorts of judgment from Nairaland court of law. Edit your post and let everyone understand the message you are trying to pass.. Not everyone read through all pages and not everyone will see the above. Let's not misguide others

Its just 1 F

safarigirl:
Is Cindy more important than Frodd in that house? Does Frodd not equally contribute to tasks? Why should Cindy be voted for, over Frodd, that brings both his A-Game to tasks AND provides entertainment? Man will work his ass off in the Arena, provide us laughs, bring drama and will still bust moves on the dance floor.

Frodd is creative, entertaining, ambitious and dedicated. Cindy is only alive in the Arena.

Give me 2 reasons why Cindy is a better choice than Frodd. What does Cindy bring that Frodd does not bring and more?

The person I quoted supports Frodd and I just did same as against people dishing out pity votes again to Cindy

safarigirl:
then he should have left.

Better that, than for your every move to be monitored by "He saved him"

Team Ike should just Vote for Frodd is all. I don't even know why they are bothered with Cindy. If you save Cindy, two people from The Legends will leave. The Legends will be short by 2 housemates, Biggie may reshuffle again, what is Cindy is not on his team?


Abeg, na to Vote Frodd.

On point... Then the regrets will start rolling in just like they did after Joe was evicted.

Well, am still using gb whatsapp till now

hisexcellency34:
I see her marrying an Alhaji las las

Oshey, Seer

BluntBoy:
Yes, that was what I heard. That the school was so horrible that nearly all the boys were diabolical.

I have heard about the bad of many other maligned schools like OSU, LASU, but that of LAUTECH always stands out.

When I was doing my Master's at Ife, I had a classmate who finished from LAUTECH. He told me many of these things. Perhaps, he exaggerated

Definitely, there's exaggeration

callmeVIBRANT:
mararaba is now in pandemonium... people are confused.. gunshots are heard.. Shites! oh shites! tension! oh tension!

OH boy, see running up and down ooo... Some people don't even know why they are running sef, they are just following the race

That's Mr Chef na, see the cap... Photo edit sighted

Congrats

He's talking too much already

I saw a YouTube video on the history of Yoruba land and the historian when talking about Ife Kingdom said that of the 365 days in a year, only a day is sacrifice free in the palace. Meaning every other day has one sacrifice or the other attache to it.... I pray God sees the queen through

BluntBoy:
I have heard a lot of bad things about that school. I even heard that there is a cult quarters on campus. How true is this?

Cult quarters Well, every institution has its own flaws.... Also in life, you need to know that nobody will talk about the good you do because all they want to point at is the bad you will do.

LordTrezy:
Which Set and department?

APH Class '15

Lots of kids here and there... I'm proud to be a LAUTECH Alumnus though

genius43:
Sent it

God bless you....

Accountantobi:
I'm still waiting. Please help a sister out. Thanks

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genius43:
I will send you some now

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gud4real:
Pls, i also need past questions

Please forward the past questions to me if you have gotten it.. omokoredeogundele@gmail.com

ojijoebrain:
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Sonu ooo, God will heal you

See his gay head

elibaba11:
Hey guys, if u got the invite for Abuja this Friday kindly drop ur email address or phone number lets unite and help one another...

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