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Recardo:
Is there any organization in nigeria that can help these twin sisters engaging in prostitution and rehabilitate them? especially in abuja?

I want to get them the help they need from the addiction. They are still young and promising but it seems their family have not done enough to bring them out.
Please i need constructive ideas. Please don't justify their prostitution, your sister is not doing it.

Thanks

Allow them. The problem with nice guys like you and I is that we think we can salvage any girl including a damaged one.

These girls will not value you nor what you want to do for them. I suggest you use this effort of yours and put it into the motherless homes if you so wish to help out.

It's quite a pity we failed to see that this girl kept doing the wrong thing for a really long time that it felt right. It was just a matter of time for her to take correction, which she did, but can no longer implement it (rest her soul and may her killers be brought to justice).

To those arguing the existence of God on both sides (whether he exists or not) should understand that doing the right thing, in the right place and at the right time goes a long way in keeping one safe. And like physics taught me, nothing is ever 100% work efficient. But 60% one puts goes a long way in keeping one safe.

Our government failed us in providing security does not mean we should fail ourselves in giving ourselves security.

Modified
N:B Please if you are an emotional train wreck that will come here to call me names or accuse me for what I do not know, don't mention me. Ignore this post. I am not blaming the girl for being raped, nor am I blaming her dying, and neither will I absorb her killers of any blame or sin, but rather pointing out where you and I can take correction because it's late for the said girl to take correction. What is that correction, NEVER TAKE YOUR SAFETY FOR GRANTED. True it can happen to anyone, but let us first do what's in our hands and leave the rest to whoever we believe in. And those saying people do get raped at home or wherever, need I remind you that people also die at home and even in the hospital, does that mean we should stop taking care of our health?

Thanks for understanding me and not attacking me instead. And to those who asked a reasonable question instead attacking me in the likes Bukatyne, kudos to you all.

RealLordZeus:
Try Hostmane.net

I did try it, and when I click on a package to buy, it redirects to hostmane.com which does not exist.

SweetCunt97:
What's that?

Not saying nothing.... Ew.

Bartork:
I'll be back

You tricked me but I'll come back stronger

Till then sucker!

bedfordng:
uploading any plugin should not be an issue with most hosting providers be it foreign or local except you bought managed WordPress hosting.

as for cheap hosting, what is your definition of cheap because in Nigeria, there are lots of cheap hosting that goes for #500 per month.

I want a foreign reliable cheap hosting from #500 a month

I don't want blue host or hostgator or hostinger or even namecheap. Plus I want a hosting where I can upload my own plugin. Because I bought an elementor plugin I want to use on my website.

StubbornGENIUS:
Bartork, this case is seriously getting out of hand.Am out!

Hahaha bow before your king!

Bartork:
Haaaa

Am not winning again


This accusations can move mountains


Win today me I'll win tomorrow

Yes! Yes!

Bartork:
Am not taking this likely anymore

I wont accept this

This is bullying

I won't take it

Bully? Let's both hit the report button and see who gets banned for sexually assaulting me.

DNA9:
You are the only intelligent person i have seen here. Thumbs up bro

It was easy, but they are clouded by emotion, they couldn't think straight.

Bartork:
Knows I ought to win the game

It's unfair to push me off what's mine

He is a good friend and I'll compensate him for his....

Win which game? Never gonna happen. It's either I win or I win.

Bartork:
Bros relax

Order for your drink

Where is the bar man...

SweetCunt97:
To the illiterate.. Yes. So you abuse kindness huh? Or u too big to b shown kindness huh? Retards

Oh no... It's not about what you typed. I saw you and just remembered what you typed here yesterday. I still shroud at the thought of it.

SweetCunt97:
Me I'm available for kindness o. I don't abuse kindness

Disgusting.

aameyah:
You are mad. Buzz off.

Like I said. Slow thoughts. Poor neck. It has to carry an empty skull full of pulse.

I do not wish nor do I wish any of my enemies to be your neck rn.

StubbornGENIUS:
Oya Omar09 come and sit down make we settle this case

I deh here.. But if na to win that game.. Na me go win am. Period.

Bartork:
I dey your side noww

Make me you and StubbornGENIUS go hang out discuss this matter


You na my guy that year

Which place? Beer go deh? I mean Heineken?

aameyah:
Any girl old enough to have sex should know how to protect herself. Or is he saying girls should get pregnant just to prove fertility?
There is nothing to prove to anyone. People should go for comprehensive tests if they have concerns.

P.S I don’t judge single mothers, or those that aborted. They will live wth the consequences, not me.

You just missed the message here because you wanted to sound right. I want to ask, what do you think the op(his friend) is arguing about?

He only said, the women who stigmatize other women because they just happened to be SM should stop because that one decided to keep her baby doesn't make her forbidden. But no you just want to show us how slow in thinking you can be.

Bartork:
But you na my guy that year noww

Just do normal make we for clear things for here

I don become your guy bah? E no go work.

cococandy:
8. Don't post false information on Nairaland.

You don’t know who reported you. But you’re convinced it was me (Probably because your post was not a response but an attack on me. That’s why you’re convinced it was me who did the reporting)
now you’re saying it like it’s a fact, thus breaking rule 8.

Here we go again.

Acidosis:
You play too much gender card. I always stand up for rape victims, way before the days of Dakolo v. Fatoyinbo. I stood up for Ese Walters even though she was never raped but a victim of manipulation by a higher authority. I spoke against Apostle Suleiman v. Stephanie Otobo even though the case wasn't related to rape but sexual manipulation by a religious/moral figure.

One time you and that coco of girl had a clash and I replied your comment and she reported it and got me banned. Be careful of her. And yes she plays too much gender card. I don't blame her anyway because reality always stares at us as soon as we log off of this platform.

Well I wanna chip in.

You can get fired from a job by what you do in your private life. For instance, being a racist on your SM which you do in your private life could actually get you fired in your work place.

That a woman reported you for harassment can get you fired in your work place.

Nothing is really private. We live in a world where every one must be politically correct and right which is the bases of all human judgment on every activity.

Now having said all these, and back on the issue at hand, might I remind every one on the "mind your business" train, that the boss stumbled upon her inbox, not like he deliberately went for it. If for any reason, the girl broke the mode of conduct in her workplace by using a public asset for private use and should be penalized for it.

She's 21 and should be responsible for any action she takes. That said, she deserves to be set aright but not at the expense of whoever would do so.
There's an adage that goes like this in Igbo language: otu onye anaghi azu nwa (it's not just the parents responsibility to train their kids, the whole community should help out).

We should be our brothers keepers. If we keep minding our business, we all will be burned.

Bartork:
No joooor

You are not gonna win this!

Bartork:
Bros relax nowww

Just let me win

I'll tag you when I do

Why don't you let me win and I will tag you?

Bartork:
Because you won't win

I know your excitment is borne from the tot

You won't win

They didn't allow me I won't allow you

What is your problem? We are gonna see just about that. I will win and there's no stopping me.

Bartork:
Sorry

For what exactly?

SweetCunt97:
Lol, do u know how many times your babe done use am garnish ur stew?

Fvck off with your ugly thinking.

SweetCunt97:
Personally I wash off mine o, cos times are evil.

Ew. You are disgusting.

Why don't you guys do everything here so that others can learn.

I'm so excited.

OritaIbadan:
I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.
Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.
After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.
I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter? Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it

One problem with nice guys like you and I is that we always think we can salvage any girl including a damaged girl. Your sales girl is damaged, you want to relieve her of her work, sure go ahead, but you can never save her. She's gone too deep. Avoid that stress.