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Rekhina:
Sensors ?

They have a great sensor that censors words. Get that?

fayded:
I like your story telling prowess. which is why I'm offering my advice.

First off, you've lost your balls to her, whenever you start doing something with a girl, never you ask her out, let her be the first to ask the "what are we" question.
2nd,...she said no the first time, you should never have tried again.
and 3rdly ...Stop giving her so much attention, goddammit is she the only girl in your side?? Just stop. find other girls, invite them over, have fun, gist, laugh.. and all that.
just ignore the edidikang girl or something.
oh and she shouldn't come to your house this Friday. cancel it. that's a wrong move, bro. a very wrong move.

oh and lastly as a bro. NEVER YOU LET A GIRL DECIDE THE TERMS FOR YOU. YOU SET THE TERMS. YOU'RE THE MAN.

@op abge follow this guy advice. Shun my advice follow this guy advice.

Rekhina:
rooster sucker or turkey licker ,the norms has changed over the years ! That I suck it dosent mean I won't take the responsibilities of seeing u guys brought down to beg for your sins against the mother of the sea & the roses

Blame nairaland for their sensors

Rekhina:
Let's say painful game!

I leveled up

teragenesys:
I hope that your prospesed miseducations will not be geared towards countering what Ubunja has spoken about, or about a way for females to develop new strategies to further MANIPULATE men, or an antidote for the redpill. Women face a lot of problem in relationships like some of you rightly pointed and I expect that your miseducations will focus on identifying and providing solutions to these problems.

They'd do what women do best.
Play the Blame Game

Rekhina:
Don't allow all this boys intimidate you remember you have backups
Show them you are from nigerdelta we are equals to men ,we aren't below ,
It's a game! Let it begin !!


hahahaha hahahaha

You are correct to say it's a game.

Rekhina:
Don't allow all this boys intimidate you remember you have backups
Show them you are from nigerdelta we are equals to men ,we aren't below ,
It's a game! Let it begin !!


hahahaha hahahaha

I have seen the way you rant here on nairaland. This may be disappointing given the fact that you are a cock sucker in the real world n come here to whine about how you'd deal with men. Let's not forget you might be eating shit from a dude you so much want his attention. Cheers anyway if it's the opposite tho.

I feel this thing... In my heart. Is it.... Is it... What they call it?.... Is it....'Hiccups*.... Love.... I mean... Scam?

mamagee3:
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My Goodness!

Daviestunech:
Kasali God punish u ooo,u think say I no know u

Who give am weed weh him don smoke?

Ufedolove:
No vex for me bro. Na my heart dey do me

Get it under control or lose it.

[/quote]Until you do the right, you are no different from missghosted and Rekhina. Perhaps, you aren't outspoken but just being passive like many. I await your miseducations.[/quote]Exactly.

Rekhina:
That's the spirit ,We ladies aren't just a useless soul in a shite hole ,but a being of wonders !
They said is a game ,let's play the game .
Women rules men psychologically, nervously , embroidically , spiritually and in the secret of the mind while they rule ceremonially in the house and politics nyamah

Not a man who's gone wild. Who's lost all ability to love again. As love is the platform for deceit

Blackivy29:
you dont understand me then. My post has nothing to do with romance. Thats a tiny piece of it. Its a girl help girl thread that deals with lifting sisters up. My last relationship was a mess. Heartbreak and depression. It was my first. The person/moniker who helped me out was an alphamale here bigmic111. Who i owe much to. He helped me love myself and i want to help others too. U.bunja's helping you guys. The females need a shoulder too.

That's good. I won't lie. As much as guys out there who's going through shit called relationship there are equal females too.

Blackivy29:
its not a competition dear. I have no problem with the red pill neither the blue. So purple, a mix of both. Besides after a terrible relationship, i want to help women through the darkness...

Funny how y'all will create a thing n want out of it. It's like imagining God creating the world n becoming scared of it n wants out. Don't fool yourself mate. Be you, do you, n let he who loves you love you. Forget all this red pill, blue pill and purple pill. Once a red pill man sees a girl worthy of his love, everything about the red pill becomes dust.

Modified.

I'm still taking my red pill till the day I die.

Ufedolove:
Lmao

You are a bad shaid

Life changed me. To the point where a girl who truly loves me n wants something real with me I told her I just want us to be fvck buddies. You needed to see the rage.

JoeMaddog:
What the hell is wrong with you guy? After all the rants of ubunja and co on this site, you're still bahaving like a puci. She's in her hoe phase and you tryna take her off the market... You're doing something right and thats the only reason she's coming back to you. She'll soon get fed up with you if you don't do quickly and give her the D. Once she's invested in you, you're the champion. Harden up nigga

Have a bottle of beer with me why don't ya?
Heineken to be precise.
Nohomos

Ufedolove:
Omo, this one get as e be o

Bro. Whether or not you sex her which I'm 100% sure she won't let you. Still talk to her. Tell her you don't wane such in your life n mean it.

Mine ended when she asked me to teach her math n I asked for a Mouth Gig which she refused n I refused too.

Ufedolove:
Wow! Someone said this too.

But about age, she's a year older than me. I'm 21

Just like looking in the mirror. The same exact situation. I'm in my final year in the university. Tho I have called her bullshit n she's respected herself.

IceColdVeins:
You composed what?

Song. Na so I mumu

Ufedolove:
Thanks


I really want to. I already feel humiliated. My heart, please heed to my words!

Look man if you get pass this one which you will eventually, the rest will be a walk over case.

Allow her to come over to your house, enjoy the smoosh even make an attempt to fvck her. Sweet tongue her make sure you bleep the hell out of her but don't rape. Then in the morning have a brief meeting with her. Tell her you can't continue the way you two are going. It's either you two are dating or you are not even friends at all. I have asked you out several times n you said no. I don't wanna continue like this. Then let her leave. Watch her reaction. Thank me later.

Ufedolove:
FINAL PART

This left me in a heartache but still, I don't want to draw a conclusion.

What confuses me now is that this girl, just some few days back called me, telling me that she missed me and needed to hear my voice to be calm; this girl is so excited to come over and we even planned how we are going to smooch (before I asked wooed her o). This same girl doesn't want to be my girlfriend and I'm hearing saddening things about this particular girl.

The thing is that I like her so much but I also think I'm becoming more of a disturbance to her. 5 times wooing a lady. On to which level na?

That one aside sef, I don't know how to go about it when she arrives on Friday now. Which kind wahala be this?

Is this girl giving me attitude or she's just not interested? Should I even still think about her?

Guys, tell me your opinions.

NB: This is a real story and I'm not asking or telling for a friend. I'm the character.

Thanks.

This is the same situation I found myself in. In fact I loved this girl eh. She was initially crushing on me oh. If I had known I would have let it be at that crush. I asked her out three times. She refused it each saying I don't know how to ask a girl out. Should I fry beans n serve her? To the point I composed songs just to ask her out. See where my mumu reach? Free that girl even if she says yes later, it won't worth all this your effort. Talking from experience.

MYDEBBY:
Thanks Omar

You welcome sir

LilMissFavvy:
Most women would be happy to marry the man they once had a child for, so if she is doing otherwise, it means you have been a bad partner. You mentioned that she brought up your past deeds. You cannot control her like a robot, accept her dressing, or let her be.If you wish to keep her, then change your character for the best.

I'm afraid you are insane. How many times will he apologize? Even God forgives, then who is she? One thing I hate particularly about you women is you all are the same one and ten pence. What do you mean he should change? He already asked for forgiveness doesn't that alone say he's already changed and he does love her no matter what? You are typically insane.


To @op, leave the bitch, look for a younger girl who loves you for you. Plus there's no such thing as love. Look for a wife and a mother who can give your kids home training. Tankio

Ubunja is never wrong. Women are always attracted to those guys who treat them bad. This is a perfect example.

Blackivy29:
Very inspiring.
thats life for you. Apart from wisdom, strenght is the next best thing. And determination to conquer any difficulty in our way.
Fall 99times, stand up a 100.

Exactly.

So all this n not a single commandment?

LillyVal:
She is not being emotional. what is the % in Nigeria?

It is equal to the percentage of women who are abused maritally.

Savvywriteprene:
You are correct. There are marriages where the men are staying because of the children but they're not as common as that of women.

Also, the OP wrote about women and my writing was in that direction.

Cheers.

So because men don't speak out means they are not as common as women abuse in marriage? Pls stop being emotional.

And the second type of chat is guaranteed to keep her, or get in her pants?

LillyVal:
When you chat like this with your Spouse or Girlfriend:
You: Hey
She: Hello
You: Xup
She: I'm fyn & u?
You: Gud
She: K.

There's another guy online going like this:
Guy: Good morning beauty, how's ur pretty self doing 2day?
She: Lol. do u'av to make me blush dis early morning?
Guy: You deserve that my bestie, U always look more beautiful whenever u blush.

She: Wow! stop flattering me jhoor.
Guy: i'm not Baby, it's just that I love u & ur happiness matters a lot to me.

She: I'm in a relationship dear but the truth is that u've a way of making me happy whenever I chat with you.
Guy: U deserve 2 be happy, enjoy ur day my Angel, got 2 go now, chat later

She: tnx Sweerie, i'll miss u, can't wait 2 av u back online.

You may say she's too cheap to fall for mere words, but that's how women were meant to be. They like soft words from their spouses. Give it to her & watch her melt into your arms. The greatest mistake a man can make in a relationship is giving another man a chance to make his woman happy. Some guys can't even remember when Last dem tell their babe sey, 'baby u are beautiful'.

The highest na "baby when we go see naa?" Learn to make your partner happy and cared for, before it gets too late.