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Lamanii22:
It's not a lie.... Sex shouldn't be the basis of a relationship in the first place...

So does money too.

Pettyprincess:
You sound pained nd pathetic
I hope whatever is disturbing your miserable life be solved.

So when someone says the truth, he becomes pained? So every nigga out there being truthful and plain and doesn't mix words is going through a heart break huh?

So typical.

maynation:
Thank you sir.

Babe you for summarize this thing for us that has phobia for long articles ni.

Lamanii22:
It's seem you've been friend zoned... It's more like friendship.. But if you truly love her, you can wait... Relationship shouldn't always be based on sex...

At the bolded is a freaking lie.

Pettyprincess:
Im talking about if she's a virgin!
You can spend on a virgin girl because you know she's keeping herself for you!!
Bt if she's sleeping with someone else nd denying you sex then it obvious she's just using you as mugu

Lies from the pit of hell.
Even devil is not aware of this lie. In fact he is in hunt for it so it can be added to his store house.

AstroG:
Why not tell her that you no want make she chop ur mulla? Why the stress

As in eh. This thing simple. Not just mulla, time too. Cause my last relationship, I no spend shishi.. But na time I invest n it pained me I didn't get nada out of it.

RedCreme21:
don't be.

Denreledave changed monikers

I thought I lost you for a second. Not really a second... Actually for weeks.

Anyway meh

RedCreme21:
why the exclamation??

Cause I was surprised?

RedCreme21:
very weird guy. I tried to be nice.

I pity the teenage girls around him.

Fuc.k! You really is Blackivy29.

RedCreme21:
can't deactivate from our society

You did it once, so a second can't kill ya

Vulcanheph:
Give her like one to two weeks before asking her again, if her answer isn't "YES" or She gives You the sign that She has agreed , Forget her and move on.

A week is too much.

liver123:
I toasted a girl yesterday and she said i should give her time, My confusion now is how long could the time be. I really love this girl

Bro go back to her, ask her again n if she says give her time as she will still give this same answer, then move on.

supercase1:
... .. I have a hit on a new chick and I am currently partially happy why. My new babe say she no want Bleep!!!!!!!! Which kind wahala be dis na just I love u chat and chop money na I'm she wants do
Abeg nairalanders guys help a nigga how I if take enjoy this girl romantically as she say she no like sex!!!!!

Oga how you start with a girl is how you end it with her. I think you started on the wrong side. Since I don't have much details, it's best you let her be n move unto the next one.

DenreleDave:
You have to give these categories of girls a head or headies (new Slang)

A: beautiful pussy, tight, colorful, smell nice, but she has an std

B: ugly pussy, express lane, discolor, smell bad but she is free of any diseases.

Guys, it's compulsory you give headies to one of them, u can't say no.

So which one would you choose to give a head?
Choose wisely

A or B

Cc: pussyhoe QuietHammer AstroG1 flyca Omar09
Blinking001 Blueair Martinez39 Mannabbqgirlls offpoint stupidity midnighter

I'm going with the first one. At least I get to enjoy it n not die of odour before the std kicks in.

RedCreme21:
I don't work miracles. Love does.

Love can do that in a nation that's very big called,

Wait for it....

Wait for it....

[color=#000000]IMAGINATION[/color]

RedCreme21:
trust me, things might change.

You gonna make things change?

Martinez39:
When will boys man up and learn to assess and handle simple relationship issues by themselves instead of coming to nairaland to ask for help? If this is how most boys are, then they can't be leaders and heads of their home.

Read my topic about setting standards in a relationship. As a man, you must not hesitate to call your girlfriend to order and give her stern warning about her foul attitude. If she refuses to listen and sit up, you can always show her the exit door. Remember that no girl is special, irreplaceable, indispensable, or the best thing to happen since slice bread. As far as relationship is concerned, all girls can be replaced and dumped.

It is sad that you are willing to swallow and put up with her bullshit. When she is behaving, you don't placate her instead you call her to order. Man up jare.

Omar09

What's the worse that could happen? She leaving me and me starting all over. Mehn this bitches ain't worth my stress. Even me go tell the banny if you walk out on me then don't ever return. If she continues, it's good bye.

MissGhosted:
My brothers and sisters in Christ forgive and my shout here on Nairaland. I was wicked to all of you. The truthe is I don't know what happened to me. Maybe it was the Satan. Bad Belle made me to act like that. Biko!
I was in mountain of fire church yesterday. The pastor told me that my sin here is prevent good things in.my life. No husband no children and I'm going to 37. Im doing fasting and praying. Please find it deep in your souls to forget.


My Chuch is having prayers need week. Come please too

Is this really you, MissGhosted? I think someone stole this handle.
Mynd44
Lalasticlala
Seun

Fineboigossip:
Hello Nairalanders!
Pls I Have A Question To Ask...
There Is This Girl That I Love So Much And I Wanted Us To Date, I Toasted Her But She Refused,i Tried All My Possible Best, Yet She Refused,telling Me Dat "Shes Not Ready Yet",from That One To "She Already Have A Boyfriend " I Was So Confused....I Stoped Talking To Her,and We Stoped Seeing... after Few Months, Her Mom Opened A Bar Close To Our House And We Start Seeing Again..This Time She Became Friendly To Me,always Asking Me Question When I Come To Their Shop, Teasing Me Also....
Does It Means She Now Love Me
And
Should I Toast Her Again Or Forget?
I Dont Want 2nd Rejection
Please Nairalanders Help Me

After reading a couple of posts and comments here on romanceland, I have been able to deduce that 90% of us here don't even know what love really is. How can you say you love a girl when you have not spent quality time with her. Just like that you saw her n boom you already love her. I think the right word here is 'like' and not 'love'. Love is a process, it doesn't happen immediately. It happens over time. You like her n you have asked her out n she said no, move on don't try again no matter how playful she really is. There's no "I'm not ready yet" and "I have someone" it is all a game so that she can weaken you. To make sure that when she says yes, she's the only one you have. I just don't know how to explain it, but it's a trap move on. If she ever brings it up be a big boy n tell her that ship sailed a long time ago.

Michellekabod2:
Redpill is a path chosen by some. It explains reality not fact. And reality is dynamic,it changes because we shape it
The extreme she talks about is not letting a movement overrule your desires and passions...
The extreme she talks of it's not letting you see a movement as a way of bullying and shaming others..
Be yourself, nothing should define your life wholly.. be a master of your self and don't be a slave to the movement you follow....as a feminist, the day I desire something that contradicts the concept of feminism I will gladly dump feminism!

As a redpiller, if you fall in love with a woman,don't limit yourselves from being close to her because of the redpill movement..

You didn't crosscheck this before posting.

RedCreme21:
screw blue/red pill. As a human, you cant be defined. Dont limit yourself to a colour. It would get boring with time.

Not when the color is RED

RedCreme21:
extreme: thinking love doesnt exist, in the romantic sense.

Romantic love, i agree with you is buried under exploitation and selfishness. But like precious stones, one can discover them. Its a matter of digging deep.

And you think it's everyone that has the time to dig, because we are all excavators right?
@the bolded.

ProfessorHank:
My testimony on this article should be a big book.
I read this post everyday. Frankly for educated simps like me it took me lots of discipline and hardwork to imbibe the ideas I learnt from this post.
Now it's saving me money really.

Ubunja is a saviour of the world.

It brings tears to my eyes when I look back at the silent mess I was. Tossed and mauled by the female ilk. I freely fell in love with any girl. They gamed me mercilessly.

I paid thru my nose to Bleep.

I have taken the red pill. I'm drowning in p*ssy. Now I have f*cked four girls I love and have evacuated three when I ran out lies or got fed up.

I'm on the fourth girl now. I've also learned to bury my ego and f*ck two ugly girls who love me madly. One even proposed to me after some rounds. Twas so disgusting.. Lol!!. I didn't reply her(partly because I want to Bleep her again)

The joy of these whole thing is that I'm richer now without having to earn more income. Ubunja formula jumps right at me at every moment the cheap golddigging starts.

The biggest obstacle to being a player is the ego. It's such a f#cked up thing. Frankly I was used to keeping my word that I found the idea of lying to a girl terrible. But now I've realized that those who run the world run it with lies. And it's only thru lies that you can control others most easily. It's one huge beautiful game this earth.

I've combined ubunja miseducations with some psychology I read back in school. The effect is magnificent!

Ubunja God bless you! Thank you for saving me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Take your pills everyday. It doesn't hurt to swallow a pill. We are all grateful to him too.

Martinez39:
The concept of an alpha male is a universal one. It's only ignorance or dishonesty that could yield any misrepresentation of the concept.

I made it clear to you that when I use the words "feminism" and "feminist," I mean them in their contemporary sense. The feminism you are talking about, the one that advocates gender equality, is the classical type. It's the type I am pleased with. I have no choice than to speak of feminism in it's contemporary sense since the feminist movement has GLOBALLY become a machinery of misandry, foul and immense ego, entitlement, victimhood, hypocrisy, and women supremacy. Also, the impacts of these feminists are extensive and show great potential for further damage to society, especially the family unit and men-women relationships. Contemporary feminism eventually destroys any civilisation it dominates hence the need to call it as it is.

Until the so-called "good feminists" can put these toxic women in their place and become the face of the feminist movement once again, then I, and many smart men, will continue to regard feminism in it's contemporary form. Ever wondered why feminism is concerned in waves? Because the movement and it's goals are different with generations. The feminists and feminism of the early 20th century is very different from that of the 21st century. Go figure. Feminism is cancer.

Oh well, it is not in a woman's position to determine who is an alpha is or not neither is it incumbent on men to fit into your description of who an alpha or a real man is. We men, not women, get decide what makes us alphas or real men. The redpill community is a manosphere and the opinions, suggestions, and complaints of a woman on red pill issues are not regarded by us. We leave them for the trash can. This is not misogyny, it's a man to man thing in which women are not allowed participation.

Omar09, AstroG, healthserve, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE,

So she tryna compare the red-pill to feminism, Lmfao. Red-pill actually is not a movement but an attitude we develop for the sake of survival in the hands of feminism and manipulation.

sleekch1c:
How to be an alpha male in Nigeria:
1. Never clean up after yourself- yes,after a meal,just leave the plates right there.Leave the mess right there for benevolent spirits. Same applies when you use the loo.

2. Never, ever lift a finger to make a meal when you are hungry especially if you are married. Why cook when you can remain hungry till your other half comes back to do it. And if she fumbles with that? post it on the internet. The 9Ja marriage e-police will declare a war on your behalf. God forbid you cook indomie while waiting for your meal.

3. Never do your laundry. When you are out of clothes to wear, throw a tantrum like the big baby you are. Abi that woman wan reach her papa house?

4. Pant after and stare at any female derríer you see. You are a man, it is your right. Feel free to hang out your tongue as well.

5. Blame every body but yourself for those little acts of stupidity. You were driving like a drunk? No problem,it is that darn road and the other drivers. You can't be a bad driver,after all you are a MAN. You cheated on your spouse? Don't mind the yeye woman,it's her fault not yours.

6. Every female around you must be submissive. How dare the recharge card seller refuse to sell to you on credit and on top of it talking back at you?or is it the colleague who refused to To you on credit and on top of it talking back at you?or is it the colleague who refused to allow you pass off her idea as yours..is she mad,doesn't she realize that you are a man?

7. When you propose to a lady and she refuses,ask her if she knows how hard it is to land a man and if she wants to be unfortunate in life.

8. When your woman calls out your BS, come out on the internet and tell everyone what an adultress she allow you pass off her idea as yours..is she mad,doesn't she realize you are a man?

7. When you propose to a lady and she refuses,ask her if she knows how hard it is to land a man and if she wants to be unfortunate in life.

8. When your woman calls out your BS, come out on the internet and tell everyone what an adultress she is. Mind you,this doesn't have to be true.the marriage e-police are solidly behind you.

9. When your woman gets too mouthy,slap sense into her,it is ok as long as you only did it out of anger and still love her after the beating. Has she forgotten that you are a man and that a man shouldn't bear the cumbersome burden of controlling his temper?

10. Always remember that a woman who disproves your lame points in an argument isn't smarter than you and make sure you tell her so. Men are created to be smarter than women so how can she dare when women are supposed to have only fishbrain.Unacceptable!

Add yours

Just look at you being all stupid n shit.t

Cybertext:
I spot Sarcasm at its best....

What's the sarcasm here? That she decided to spew her stupidity here says she's sarcastic?

Boringdraw1:
Every woman in life wants two things:

1) A man
2) A man
Without men in the world the whole episode of women doesn't exit.

They had to put the word "men" to "we" to get them

Someone should please tell me why I keep reading that Crazyemberr girl comments with a gay voice in my head??

KingErnesto:
I don't want to fool myself neither do I want to play games. I feel the emboldened are for those who just want to be sex mates, other than that ,there's no need to define the relationship or ask her to be your girlfriend. A girl that would turn me down doesn't know what she wants or rather doesn't want me. My problem is initiating the convo that would lead defining what we mean to each other... I dont have a problem kissing her, but I don't want things to change between us either , and that's my fear .

The greatest fear is actually the fear of the unknown. And the beauty of life is exceeding the limits of The Fear of the Unknown. You do not have control over how things work. Man always make the mistake of controlling things that can't be controlled and trying to predict the result of something without actually taking action. Come out of that shell of yours, I'm not saying you have sex with her as you do not want such, all I am saying is stop predicting things, stop having control over things and most of all embrace change. She could say yes to your request but I want to let you know that you yourself will never know unless you try.
If and when you try, place it in your mind, memorize all the time, sing it all day She saying yes does not mean she is irreplaceable, the moment she is not giving you what you want, unto the next one ese

Martinez79

Martinez79:
*bring out my belt and deliver 24 lashes on your back*

You boys must learn to muster the courage and common sense to handle very simple issues in your relationships and dealings with women without the need to importune nairalanders for advice. If you are this weak, how can you be the head and leader of your household?

Ask her plainly "I like you very much and I want you to be my girlfriend. Do you agree to be girlfriend from henceforth?" She must give you a direct, clear, and unmistakable answer. Her response must be either a Yes or No.

1) If her answer is indirect or ambiguous eg. "Okay", "Whatever", "Very well then" etc. Don't assume it's a "Yes" because she is leading you on and when you regrettably discover that she has just been using you, cheating on you, and draining you off your hard earned cash, she will defend herself, to your dismay, with "but I didn't agree to be your girlfriend." If she gives an indirect and ambiguous answer, press her one more time for a direct answer and if she persists in not giving a direct "Yes" or "No", take it as a "No" and bounce.

2) If she says "No", respect her answer and bounce. Never be desperate and try to force the issue.

3) If she says "Yes", then you have a relationship.

4) If she wants you to give her time, grant her a period of two days to think about it. If she says that 48 hrs is too short a period of time or she insists on a longer time period (definite or indefinite), still insist on that 48 hrs deadline. If her allotted time elapses without any direct answer from her, take it as a "No" and bounce. Never be desperate and try to force the issue.

Get some spine.



Omar09

Right after I modified my post I just saw yours to be the exact of what I typed. Except mine is shorter and doesn't have the "what to do if she says No."

KingErnesto:
I'm not a typical f**k boy, I'm neither a saint and I've got raging hormones. In my previous relationship my girlfriend tried initiating the romance of which didn't really go down too well because I'm kinda spiritual.

Well go on ahead n be the nice guy n watch this one slip away
Modified

Quit being a pussy boy n tell her how you feel. Dayumm!