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udoekere:
Hi Nairalanders Please what's a smooth way to get talking to someone you're interested in but don't see on a regular basis?

Lalasticlala

Seun

Mynd44

Fynestboi

MissyB3

Roctation

Psalm2423:
The craze is in Delsu . He no want make them use car carry him babe if she walks barefooted. Waytin Ochuko no go see for Abraka?

He’s kinda doing the right thing (which is wrong), but if he’s the boyfriend, then why is the girl ashamed of walking barefooted? After all, she’s only trying to look good for the person eating the kpekus.

Las las, they might be family, the sister is the oldest and she has kolobi the footwear from her brother. It’s not a big deal.

But don’t do mister nice guy for anybody o. I once jumped into a dirty pond to push the tricycle my girlfriend was inside. My loafer that day could’ve paid her school fees, but we still broke up.

So today, let’s just say that boy is a relative and wants his sister to look normal. After all if girl no wear slippers for Abk, I go join people talk say them done use her do money so she done mad. So in Abraka it’s normal. In Abuja, no!

makeherscream:
not true .the truth is true is hard to find this days but love is everlasting if you find it

makeherscream:
It must be love it might be love it may be love

Love they say is everlasting

pansophist:
Firstly, mate guarding is not a gendered phenomenon. It is practiced by both males and females equally. Secondly, a woman may be non-monogamous, or polyamorous as you called it, but this is practiced usually before securing the best male she can attract, as she can only get resources from a single male. For men, it is quantity, for women, it is quality.

As an analogy, men are like Bluetooth, he is connected to you while you're nearby, but searches for other devices when you're away (quantity), meanwhile, women are like wifi, she sees all the available devices but connects to the strongest one.

victorian:
That's not true


I like sweet guys

Im still watching him. If he's consistent with his sweet caring nature ? Then I will gladly move with him unto the next level.

So its not a problem , don't make it look like one .

He's too sweet mouthed , coupled with his cool career .

Hes brilliant upstairs and easy going .

Lemme just make shakara small , its allowed biko

victorian:
Maybe ? Maybe not?

I'm not certain yet .

victorian:
True , but its cool and special when someone close to you sends the meaning of your name and what it means to her . don't you think?

Blackivy29:
Alrighty dearie.

Funmmyastic:
That's nice dear.At least you will be able to focus on things that matters now.

Blackivy29:
lol. Like sandra, you know the moniker? How much the guys here hate the word dears and dislike kisses. I wouldnt be able to pull it off. Im sweet and gentle but not when annoyed. And people do just that.

aminugambo:
Alright we can talk on whatsapp. Drop your whatsapp number let me add you.

Nat404:
Promising a woman something is counterproductive. Women love men who are unpredictable.

funmisticqueen:
You don't know his history, check his previous threads and you will understand what i am talking about

fykes:
Ur wife married u bcoz u said u will give her a car? U even willed a shopping plaza BUILT BY UR MOM, to ur wife??
Dude if ur mom ever gave birth to girls, u have completely embarrassed all ur sisters...u probably married someone u should have dated or even fvcked and moved on.

Fountainofyouth:
When a guy equates his school fees with pùssy, that should tell you how shrinked his brain is.

islandmoon:
I rather read other people's own

peterangelo:
I won't laugh its damn funny

peterangelo:
Laughing out loud... Pls gist me more abeg of u

Jordanbelfort07:
once bought a 50k phone for a chick all because of pekus
Las las the relationship wasn't worth it.
Got to find out that the girl was fucking her boss at work.
Women aren't worth all the sacrifice guys.
The juice is never worth the squeeze.
Being red pill aware will save you a truck load of time and money.

before you give a girl any substantial amount of money, always make sure you f**k her.
If she doesn't agree, my brother dump her!! She is is just out to use you!!

always be prepared to leave any girl no matter how beautiful you think she is.
There are 7 billion people on this planet so you will always find a girl who is a %1000 better than the one you are currently seeing.

Cc
ubunja
Ilekokonit
martinez39

Blackivy29:
Hi guys. Been busy with my admission but here it is.

The issue of marriage; my take.
The essence of this post is to tackle the prevailing issue of marriage as there as been a significant number of threads created this address this subject.
Whether I like it or not, my primary purpose as a female is to be a wife and a mother. It is the fixed ideology the a woman's priority should be starting a family; that means finding a man and conceiving. Preferring success in terms of realizing my ambitions is deemed inappropriate.
There's no denying that any married woman can pursue her career, education etc, but the reality of things is that in the society we found nd ourselves, by tying the knot of holy matrimony a woman most often forfeits herself to raise a family.
Ours is a traditionally rich country and in each of our numerous and diverse cultures, it is generally agreed that a woman's duties in the home are domestically based while a man takes care of the finances. But we bear witness to series of developments that gradually sheds away this mentality and while normal change quickly over time, a longer period is needed for people that adjust. Less than two centuries ago, the idea of a woman working as any man was plausible. Even though that initial barrier, that prevented an entire gender from being who she wants to be has been broken down, the concept of women having equal rights as men is globally recent, most especially in Africa. So it's no surprise that majority of men born two-three generations ago prefer full time house wives to a working class lady. And I hat older woman born during that time would generally agree that the ideal wife/mother, is a stay at home woman.
The second reason any woman would devote herself so sacrificially to her family is plain love, majority of which is maternal. And as much as a mother appreciates her responsibilities, it does affect her sense of 'self' as I here is this other individual she now places above her.
For several reasons, marriage alters a woman's life (whether for good or not). The problem though that stems out of this is that it is now so highly regarded as a necessity. True happiness is found within one's self so while marriage is a source of bliss, it should not be, because it is not, the sole reason.
Nowadays, the pressure a woman faces to get married is heart breaking. Love is part of the foundation on which a stable marriage is built, but rather it's now a fustrating affair that's do or die. A woman is her thirties is ostracized by society for not finding a compactible mates with whom to share her life.
Marriage is now forced. Directly, like those prearranged by certain families for social status, monetary gains ect. Indirectly in the sense the women who don't want themselves married at an early age, single mothers, feminist (an advocate of women Empowerment/Rights), are stigmatized by the society.
Single mothers are generally branded as irresponsible and wayward, regardless of story. Whether she was a rape victim, made a poor choice inlove (a runaway Beau) or a separation from an abusive partner to save herself and children.
Feminist, women who believe in being financially self sufficient, are criticised and attacked using the same, old line, "You won't get married, and you'll die unhappy." Personally I find two things wrong with that statement.
First of all, what has being an activist got to do with love? Feminism doesn't do away with romance.
Secondly, marriage doesn't guarantee happiness. The gracefulness behind aging is looking back with satisfaction. Marriage should be regarded as an extension of a woman's life not the reason she lives. And women who find it difficult to settle down shouldn't be labeled and given names but understood and encouraged. The same goes for those who simply feel they ought to be prepared first. And those ladies who don't consider themselves the "marriage type". Who would rather spend their lives travelling round the world, being business tycoons or just a multivational speaker as she feels more content inspiring others than building a home. As abnormal as they may seem to you, they are individuals who have FREE WILL. They shouldn't have it drummed in their ears that they need to we'd to fit in. We are all different and the sooner we each realize this, the better it would be. That's the logic behind civilization.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
exactly
stinking homos everywhere

Funmmyastic:
This post is even funny to the extent that I forgot to laugh.

Martinez39:
Believe me, this woman I met is not like other girls. She loves me for who I am and is very nurturing. She is not materialistic and she is willing to be there for me through thick and thin. She is also beautiful and angelic in character and looks. Her smile is gold. She is committed to our relationship that she has turned down other boys. She treats me like a man, doesn't weaponise sex, let's me lead, doesn't manipulate, and makes special sacrifices for the relationship. She is always willing to admit that she is wrong and she faces the truth. She doesn't feel entitled, she assists in paying the bills, she doesn't do "my money is my money, your money is our money", and she was a virgin when I met her and we plan to get married. She let's me operate her phone because she has nothing to hide. So truly not all women are like that? So ubunja was wrong all along? Oh, I am in tears right now . My true love and magic pussy . My NAWALT . This girl has promised "for better or worse" with me and she has shown that she can take on motherly roles. She is a very neat person and her vagina has no fish smell. She doesn't play power dynamics and won't brainwash my children against me if we quarrel neither would she make my children believe that I do less and love them less. I repent of my red pill ways and won't follow bad influences like CAPSLOCKED, ubunja, lukui, MJBOLT, JONNYSPUTE etc. I am a happy man, finally.

As I was cuddling my princess, I heard a loud noise screaming
"wake up, Wake up!"

It was Haruna waking me up from my sleep. So I was dreaming about a NAWALT? I have work to do today but I have to shake off the marijuana I smoked while we partied last night. Jeez. Good afternoon guys. *searching for my red pill basket*

afolabiay:
On top how much oga...na me put am for HND o so if am not capable I won't have try it