₦airaland Forum

blackberlin:
If money grew on trees, ladies would date monkeys.

ok sir, that us so not fair.stop the women bashing

khalid6ix:
If actually what u said is true u should av been dead by now...animal like human being

why should he be dead? tell me your reason..is that what your religion thought you guys to do? your religion reeks of terrorist and are threat to their host community as well as the world..you guys should continue to look the other way when your guys & Ladies continue to commit various attrocities.will you now come to lecture us about what is and is not?

banki:
You guys should continue!

It was reported widely that a girl from ebonyi was raped and died from rape complications...none of you including the op said a word! I guess "it's ok for christians to rape and kill other christians"

Some even came to support rev king!
What yanusa did with ese was wrong morrally and by all standards wrong, it has nothing to do with religion.

We hate Sanusi because he spoke out against jonathan and nothing else if not tell me his crime in all these that he officially tried to settle a problem, we quickly turned him into an accomplice to suit our story.
I am a christian and I hate falsehood

I believe you are a muslim..and from the north....if it was the other way round where christain men kidnapped young muslim women , molest and force them for into marraige,I am sure by now your brothers in the north would started killing christains and beheading them in thier hundred....look at you here talking..when your people lack what we call religious and moral tolerance...they kill at the slightest provocation of anything that is not even close to this issue on ground...and you have the mouth to come here and spill out this rubbish...northern muslims really think they can toy with other poeple life and get away with it but no body can toy with them isn't it.? arrogance at its peak and i can see that in you..your arrogance is sickning....no wonder Boko haram are realing dealing with you guys..the monster that you guys created to hunt the christains are now coming back to hunt your region...you guys should continue with your radical and violence activities...until its chokes and consume you all in your wicked and heartless world you live in.. Things that you guys cannot even take for a second without spilling blood of chrstains is what you are joking about....

Hypocrite..una never see anything yet..this enemy you are talking about is within the party..as far as i m concern it is a family affair..so APC had better put its house in other and stop sniffing enemies up and down.

mynd1:
U sit at d comfort of ur room typing rubbish,What have u ever contributed to dis country Dis are people who lay their lives for me and you to live and telling them to be faithful to nigerians. How? Look,it is Nigerians that should be grateful to dis people. Mtchewww.

dont mind him...

SON OF A THIEF..

Tycoflu:
One thing I like about this guy is his foresight in business and we Igbo's must emulate him by moving gradually away from importation and focusing on establishing industries to produce what we import.

I Concur

OP..I thought this thread was opened for tHE South East and South West people here to reconcile thier differences...now you see!! these poeple can never get along without passing blames among one another..it is pathetic.this is what the northerners are using against you guys..divided and rule tactice and you will continue to fight and chest beast among yourselves without any meaningful development in your region...goodness.

how can any one in the Nigeria even date a Lebanese man..those stingy and wicked set of humsn beings..

abdulkayus:
Hypocrisy, illiteracy, bigotry and hatred are ur problem. Islam never exempted the rich ones from wearing hijab and Islam doesn't differentiate between the rich and poor. Everyone does his/her own in his/her own discretion. Everyone go answer him name for hereafter. It is their cup of tea whether they wear hijab or not.
Although, the rich ones tend to dress more classy than the poor even with the hijab

oga i am not a hypocrite but only saying the truth...how come the rich men that have stolen money do not face sharia court but are charge to our regular court? why aka..babangida, abdusalam abubakah etec..how many hands or legg of these northern politicians have been cut off.Has any one ever been drag to the sharia court for persecution? hell no.. meanwhile thesame law that persecute the common man that steals a loaf of bread will turn its face to the other side when a wealthy personality is guilty of thesame crime of stealing....and you are telling me religion does not descriminate...its does and its smell to the high heavens..pls dont quote me again..i am done here.

how come non of all these Hausa/Fulani's rich men children wear hijab...religion is very funny..the rich are exempted from alot of these ugly an unattrative pratices while the poor are made to reflect how the religion should be seen and practice.

3rdlegxxx:
ok, am taking notes, so that is what you ladies call BAAD MARKET, ok now i kknow, so when u come to see me, i have to remember to buy credit and call you, ok and also doll out cash for you to return home, so you don't go empty handed, i have learnt a thing or two today, thanks you..

you are just been sacastic here..a stingy man is a stingy man..to him, to call someone is a luxery such men are hardly responsible...but from the op case..she has herself to blame...how can you invest your time and money over a man that has not even showed her that he is serious about her.....A real man does what ever it take to get the relatioship started and not the other way round..anyway. that is it..abeg no quote me.again..i don tire.i am done with this silly topic..it pissing me off.

3rdlegxxx:
Now you just made me pissed as my day ws just getting better..
On a lighter note, this is the kinds of things that annoy me to bits, it's because of things like these that most girls already have their minds made up about meeting guys they met online, when some fools somewhere will just like with heaven and earth just to get a girl altho you girls are also to blame too, you obviously lead him on, it's abit hard for a guy to keep up with those lies if you also sound real but if u are the type that falls easily for material things (don't most girls ) OP you are both at fault, he lied just to see you maybe because you led him on and u sounded more fun or looked so good that he had to lie, both of you have no excuses but pls pls and pls don't use that to judge other guys too

Now dear you also skipped the juicy part, what went down between when you saw him, went to his uncles house and you left with out getting a naira?? baby be honest oooo i am watching you from here with my eagle eye....

the very guy that could not spend money on credit to call her cannot possibly doll out any cash for her to return home empty handed na...this is what we call..BAAAD MARKET

DonBenny77:
so dats how u reason because he didnt call means he dosent av money for card....who can b dat broke
some girls av fish brain indeed
u really need to change ur golddigger menality

It simply mean that the man in question is either too stingy or too broke to call..100 credit..does that ring a bell? to buy? pls boys should leave dating business for men abeg.

AdeOluwaTomiwa:
Lalasticlala obinoscopy please take this post to FP so girls can learn from it oh,a friend of mine travelled to Benin in search if her online bf too,she never come back till now and her phone is still ringing,who knows what has happened to her?? Please move post to FP Abeg cc lalasticlala @obinoscopy

is this really true..for how long?

TeeFeh:
LOL it was a funny experience for real,I never imagined it to happen and end up this way but it did..

I met this guy on palm chat ni oh,and he was the one that asked for my number. I wasn't even eager to give him but as he refused,I couldn't resist too because his profile picture isn't bad,he's presentable too..

After that day this same guy sent me a message that I gave him a wrong number and that's not true because I don't think so,maybe he doesn't have card to call and he's lying yeah I told him that and he said how could I say such oh,that he stays in falomo in ikoyi,do I know how much he's renting his house, i sha told him "no vex" and told him to retry the number.

We were chatting for hours that day and this guy said he wants to meet me that he owns a car, owns an hoverboard, uses premium phones..errm He even said he's planning to order the S7 edge once its out, that he's using one phantom 5 or something. He also said he has a drone in his house and all those things sha and he talked like the kind of guy I've always dreamt to be with, not because of the car tho he was just on point! I got interested immediately!!

We picked a date for our meeting,I dressed up,bought new clothes and shoes with a new perfume,I just wanted to look good too,you know what I mean na? in fact I took a cab from Mushin to Ikoyi I gave the cab man N5000,I called him that I'm already in Ikoyi around falomo,he said I should wait for him around the bridge side.

When. I saw him I wanted to die because he was not the one i saw in his profile picture oh,he looked like an idiot!!I endured and when we got to his so called house,can u imagine!he was squatting there with his uncle and he's a kabukabu driver!!!

I got so dissappointed in myself that day ehn because I heard Ikoyi, Car and expensive gadgets,when I was leaving self he didn't give me one Naira,I was thinking that what if I get raped or used for money rituals?eh

But why are guys liars??I'm not saying all but majority of em' do that, must you fake?its unfair sha

As girls too we have to be careful and try to work hard to make a life for ourselves. The truth is most of us are dating edited pictures...I learnt that day, Not all that glitters is gold.My friends laughed at me so hard I just deleted the mumu boy from my life not just my phone and moved on and I blocked him on palm chat.

I still cry in my 3500 till today.


People should learn from my mistake and foolish error

you should have gotten the red flag from the moment he started bragging about all the stuff he has acquired and the ones is about to get..you for don know na babe..empty drumps make the loudest noice..guys that are boxed up will never display thier wealth before you like that, except if they are dealing with a billionaire's daughter and are feeling insecured, that is the only reason some can start flaunting what they have to tell the girl that they are capable..babe..go and get a job or find somthing doing that can give you financial independence..it will make you independent physically, pschologically and emotionally...i am telling you...its fun when you do buy stuff and spoil yourself with your hard earned money than from a guy....man money get as ee be..pele ooo.

signz:
I have been reading bad things lately about Konga not paying their merchants. Pls can you confirm if it's true or false.


I just saw your profile now and found out you use Kaymu. Please kindly advise me on the best platform to use.



Thanks again

That is sooo not true..I am a merchant on Konga..there is no sales sold through them that they have not paid me for..the only thing is that payment will be delayed 7days after customers payment becos of the return policy.This you can track on your kong wallet/pay platform.Konga rocks abeg.

She was killed by a stranger she met on Facebook. Like seriously girls you shouldn't be first one to meet your Facebook guy, let him find you in a place you think is safe, make sure your family is aware.
And also Facebook is good and bad, without Facebook I won't have met lovely, wonderful and nice people that impacted positively in my Life. We all need to be very careful of people we met on social media, people shouldnt condemn Facebook because of these. The girl is at fault too, May her soul rest in peace.
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=1015973115136382&set=gm.1050826508294069&type=3&theater

blaqoracle:
this shows that the hausa-fulani are more civilized than those chestbeater that will noisily complain that lagos is no man's land.

More civilized abi?...let me give a situation analysis where you confronted two people one a an southern/esterner and that a hausa/fulani for breaking a particular rule in Lagos..you will only argue and fight with the southerner but you would not live to tell your story when it comes to the northern Muslim man we all know as ABOKI.So i believe you would rather prefer some one that will massacre you and your people over a slight provocation than the one you will chest beast with..this is a food for your thought..I am not Ibo but from the south south region.some times let us but aside our prejudice and face the real fact at hand

anigbajumo:
u cnt generalized this assertion, da nigga used nd dumped the OP nd come here on NL to talk shit about naija guys.

We are unique nd different in our ways of life.from yer comments, it shows u are dependent lady,always looking for nigga to milk dry.

nop..i m independent...seriouly am.

anigbajumo:
Typical broke ass lady, what u are now doing on NL if u are not jobless.All guys on NL are jobless shey??

Why do most of u ladies out there think wif no iota of sense.....

is not by calling me names.Oga.just agree that you guys are guilty of these things the Op mentioned.

will you African stop all this "I am better than you buohaha!! what is wrong with we AFRICANS...haba!! cant we live togther without chest beating among ourselves..we African are all chest beaters...we dont like one another..Hate is what we have toward each other..that is why the white man is better than us...far better than us.even Animals of thesame kind live together and agree among themselves..are we coursed or what Nigeria is better than South AFRICA.SOUTH AFRICA IS BETTER THAN NIGERIA..KENYA IS BETTER THAN NIGERIAN AND NIGERIA IS BETTER THAN KENYA...where has this chest beating landed us...anytime any day, we Africans remain Africans, weather you like it or not...we are all black people and before the white man eye and view we all suffer thesame derogatory statement or impression from them...no AFRICAN IS Better than another...people can be disadvantage as a result of thier country poor leadership but it does not exempte any black man from any African country to be viewed as a different race from the other...we all suffer thesame racial descrimination in the white mans land ...then why are we now descriminating against ourselve while we are together...let us change the way we reason..NO BODY IS BETTER THAN ANOTHER..WE ARE ALL BLACKS.

MrCork:
^^^see this togolian from Togo talking any how to a Londoner like an on her level...sweet hatt..may I remind you I drive £28000 (cash) range rover spot...are you lightskin?..

I am a Nigerian ooo no, not Togolian..as you mentioned!

Fabulocity:
For the last time, I didn't generalise, you did not read the post completely before you jumped to attack Pls read the disclaimer.
And it's only the guilty ones that would be quick to tear me apart. I must have hit lots of nerves though.

op..you dont need to apologize for generalizing...men on nairaland have always generalize that we girls are all gold diggers and Oloshos..we got tire of defending ourselve that not all girl are like that but they refuse to listen..we decided to let them be. so..let them also feel what it means for the good egg to be included among the bad egg...we women no longer answer them as they continue to generalize and bash us unecessarily..let them take the bitter pill also as we always done,so that they will know what it means to be called something you are not.

Zceesneh:
mode a mugu money spender for yourself, why will u beg me for money? While your fellow woman are hustling to make money and help her broke husband or boyfriend

stop dating students and come her to generalize that all women beg for money...if you date students you are bound to give them money..but when you date a working class lady..its rearely happens, except for few gift at different occasions..stop generalizing...no man has ever bought any phone for me...starting from my first phone to this present one..i always had a phone even when men come to my life and leave .. i dont ask them for money..becos i am content with what i have..so you guys should get over yourself and come down from your high horse..

MrCork:
..you come to nairaland looking for nigeria man to maary(read yorrr last post)) ...sweethatt...the question is who's gonnno marry you witthis kinnnda atitude?.(SHAME)

the thin pain u well welll, so tey you go dig her previous post....you guys should learn how to swallow the bitter pills that you have always been giving to we ladies to swallow ever since..ee never pain you reach...this is what you guys are and that is the fact..why put your head in the sand as if what the op is saying does not exist among you Nigerian men..this what we women both Good and Bad come in contact with while dating you guys..it horrible.

Stupedinluv:
You are so stup1d i dont even know where to start from. Which yeye statistics, they one conducted by pink swollen white american men? who no black woman wants. LMao. For your information, hate to say this but real whities/europeans have this fetish for african women. And guess what these ones are 100 times more attractive than those fat pigs.

Have you forgotten the only white women black men can "afford" are usually fat or obese? We see it all the time. The left overs of white men are your pride. If they were slim and good looking they wont even look at you twice BECAUSE MOST DON'T FIND BLACK MEN ATTRACTIVE. Sorry but that's the fvcking truth right there. You asked for it.

You should have kept quiet if i were you

One more thing white men often go for dark/caramel black women if they are going interracial. Now kill yourself monkey.

Black women are really doing black men s favour. Normally they should be the last pick of every woman.

you are right on point...they call us gold diggers mean while most of the white women these Nigerian men get married to, are either very old ladies that are qualifies to be in old people homes or the overly obess mamas that no body want..these black Nigerian men are nothing but sex tools for companionship and they will be feeling cool with themselve.Imagin a balck pot calling kettle black

Maxi112:
some body should call this op to order,

Am not just in a good mood this morning

ooo my God ..so ee dey pain abi?..when you guys were busy bashing on we ladies..it was like fun but we didn't find it funny and amusing.....now you guys should take some of the bitter pills that you have been giving us to swallow...honestly...95% of what the op said is true..i have dated men. these are the traite..always feeling they are God sents to who ever is dating them...even when you are independent and you dont ask them for anything.

Babe thank you very much..give them back thier own bitter pill to swallow..you are sooooo on point about no 4, 7 and 9..God in Heaven. i have given up hope on these guys..honestly. Their naustiness is appauling..even when they meet women that would never bother them for anything, they will still misbehave and feel they are God sent....Secondly op..remember the matured and responsible guys are not here..they are busy with work and would never spend thier quality time to bash women..most guys here are are students from secondary schoool to polytechnic/ University ..We aslo have the guys that are employed with less task to do at thier work place & Unemployed..these guys are pretty immature ,fustrated, broke, insecured and heart broken..they lack respect for women that is why they always end up getting thier fingers burnt..you cannot be nausty to a girl and except her to give you joy and affection..it can never work. you must show a lady respect, love, &affection before she can commit to give you that joy and affection you ever wish for...you cannot be a dragon and be expected to be treated as a lamb..it does not work that way?..op you do well.every day you guys keep bashing women as if you all do not have your own flaws

Musa Gowon paternity needed to be called to question becos of his behaviour..i am if he was a calm and responsible man Gowon would not have carried on with this doubt for long..this is what happen when a Lion give birth to a curb and its start behaving like a goat...why wont his paternity be called to question.