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adetwin:
Its total lie! u don't need to change d screen, ur location pls

You go fear that engineer. Chnage screen because of a game.

Moral of the story.

Stop chasing and trying to keep someone who wants out.

It's a complete waste of precious time and energy. Forget that fight for what is yours talk. It never applies in most cases. If it was meant to be, it won't be a one man show. Both of you would be turning stones and rolling mountains to make it work.

This is an Old story though but guy even if you forgave her, the trust issues would never let the relationship last or be the same. Its something subconscious and you cannot wish those thoughts away. You may say you have forgiven but truth is, you would always view her from such prism and this would make you act differently. I hope the op has finally moved on now.

andromida:
Almost deal.
But first what should I expect?

Almost 6 hours of site work mostly indoors(Cabling, troubleshooting etc). If you are lucky you run the scripts and the command runs fine else you may have to pull out each strand of cable like hairs trying to figure out where the hell the bug is and JUST 4 hours or more inside Lagos traffic.

There are benefits though, you don't need valium 5 to fall asleep. .

is that descriptive enough?


So deal?

andromida:
Fun day? Hard day? Just there day?

I am doing just fine Nlding.

Wish we can swap places. Deall?

andromida:
I know. I know. Just teasing you.

Like you knew I needed more of that.

How are you doing?

andromida:
Hey Onegig, hope you didn't buy any weaves from that number.

Weaves ke? No need for that anymore joor.

You should know I was taunting you back then.

MizMyColi:
The key is humility and mutual respect.
Being Calm, Collected, yet Strong, not feeble.

Yeah very true. Firm but humble.

@op.
Nothing wrong in having a mind of your own but it becomes an issue and irritate most guys when you carry it on your head and not learn when to take a break and stop challenging every single decsion and actions all in the name of trying to assert yourself as a strong woman or a lady with a mind of her own. Nothing beats a strong woman with wisdom. Balance is key here and same even applies to the male folks

bellong:
Johnny, Who the cap fits, Rat Race etc....

Bob was a prophet sent to emancipate people from mental slavery....

Positive vibration and three little birds are two lovely pieces.

sholay2011:
Wow. Well, I am not really throwing a party, just buying some stuff for my family members around. But you're always welcome sir.

I'm at Ogba Ikeja.

ok..No issues...

I will beep you.

sholay2011:
Are you actually serious about this? Well, I dey lag...Ikeja.

Ok..not far from my place.

I am damn serious. Is it in the evening? Maybe able to close early. Don't want to make a promise but I would try my possible best to be available. Just add my name to the roll call.

Bro..I want to pray things work out.

I don send message jare..

But I hope we are not causing more harm than good. You should remove her number now. I for one hate unsolicited calls and I understand what you are trying to achieve but this is not something she can just turn her eyes off from.

If it were just your friends or a Radio programme. It would have been fine and lovely ...but anyways this is sweet.


Wish you guys the best and maybe its time you reach out to her personally.

sholay2011:
Lol.

I dunno where you stay sha. 'Would have invited you to my birthday bash.

I don't know if I would be free on that friday but I dey lagos.

Lets see what might happen.

sholay2011:
Yes ooo....na me oo. How u dey? Thank God for another year.

Yes o..I hope this time around you are willing to share.

What would you be doing?

sholay2011:
I'm 17th.

You again. ? Sup bro?

xteve:
am Oct 16th, anybody born 16th too?

You in lagos right. ?


16 here...not a big fan of birthdays but willing not to sleep in this time around.

Guys at least for offer him help. How sure are we that you even know what's wrong when you won't give him tips to fixing it. Nothig wrong with asking him to bring his system in but outrightly saying it is not too cool.



@op.

It is an hard disk issue. Your operaying system files is located om the hard disk and once the hard disk starts to fail its hard to retrieve files from it . that is why you experience slow response wheb trying to get files. Just picture it has a dvd disc thats is damaged, yoi know how it displays while you are trying to watch a movie? same thing is wrong with your laptop. Fix the hardisk and you would have your system back.

Yomieluv: One of the reason I left an Ex was because she held my shirt publicly,I told her its over,she thinks she can beg her way back.

Till today,e dey do her like say na dream.

We still talk on whatsapp,she stylish wants to come back.

If a girlfriend can hold my shirt publicly,only God knows what she would do,if she becomes a wife.

Op,you friend is IN it,only miracle can save his marriage.

Exactly. ..What you can't accept in the long run better you state it clearly now and break it apart and move on than to be sorry. Na bottle she for dey use break your head down the line. No one is perfect but there are some things one should never compromise on of which abuse is top 5.

At op....anyone who believes they are never wrong and states such kind of laws that she knows it all and would not listen to advice from anyone is not fit to be in a relationship with let alone a marriage. She would only get worse.

I am at a loss on what to advise seriously. I am a big advocate for open communication between spouses but how do you achieve communication with someone who has a preconceived perception and rules?

Gboliwe: Ok. Thanks

Welcome. and good morning

Gboliwe: How much will it cost sir? A price range will be fine.

Depends on the system model. Most time the speakers are not readily available so one has to remove from a scrap identical system or order from aliexpress which is more expensive considering cost of shippi g.

So I can't give a straight answer about price. I can only give a range 3 to 6k depending on the model.

9janinja: My goals r pretty much and its confidential

We all do have lots of goals. One of mine is staying happy. I am currently working on it . I have not totally achieved it but I am still striving. It is a continuous thinga dnd I Also still got many others.

I wanna visit Venice, I wanna be successful, I want to be responsible, I want to build a one stop shop IT solutions centre ..etc

You can see my goals are pretty much and those are just ones I can recall now.

It's an open forum. No need to be scared about confidentiality. I doubt if anyone can identify you by your id. However you can send anyone a pm. Take care.

Gboliwe: Are the speakers in a laptop removable/fixable/changeable?

Madam . Good evening. How was service today?


Yeah. they are very changeable. Once it gets spoilt best thing to do is to change it.

9janinja: .....if u want to help ,fine just help me achieve my goals , by doing dat , my goals n success'll avenge 4 me .

What are your goals?

Sorry for the late response

RichardSheddy: no.
it will just shutdown.
If I power it on and did not boot to desktop, it will not shutdown.

Virus I guess. Have you updated the anti virus in a while?

And which do you use?

9janinja: ....yes but no 1 is willing to fine a lasting solution to dis problem .even d society is worse Dan hell, not to talk of family members. There's more my prayer iz dat none of ur peeps won't xperience it , cos rite now I'm alone in d crowd . Thanks 4 ur concern .

You are never alone. There's nothing new under the sun. I may not understand your pains because I am not you. I just believe talking is a first step at solving things. You never know who's reading and may offer you help . A problem shared is half solved bro. You are an old timer here and should know better.

9janinja: ...inears Typing it and also admitting dat It.(being 1 of them)

Can you please explain? There are people willig to listen.

RichardSheddy: somebody should please help me in this issue.

Does it get hot?

9janinja: ......I'm 1 of them *intears*

How please?

wheewww....


Let me try and clear the cobwebs in here. lol.


Been busy and moving around but I am back to base now.

andromida: Not to derail the thread but i didn't post this advert. I don't sell wholesale human hair, do not own this airtel number and have no email like this.

Lol. To think I had already dialed the number thinking I was calling you.

Kanwulia: When a spark ceases, it can NEVER be rekindled.
You only learn to STRIKE A NEW MATCH STICK!
Enjoy it while it lasts!

And when that one goes off. What do you do?

Strike another one abi? That's very good.

germainediva: tell hubby ke........dats sucidal

I guess you didn't see the word in quote

"That's if you guys communicate well and deep and you agree to such open discussions from the start. "

Since nothing works for you and since you dont wanna take the hard lane and cleanse your heart and mind from such thoughts but prefer justifying your current situations on someother things then all I can say is "JUST DO IT". That should help you get over it.