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baba11: Any guy that is serious and so busy should never waste all his energy on one particular lady.If one option fails,one should readily grab another one.I don't see this happening to me sha!Wasting all my energy and financial resources on futile attempts.If i have invested such wisely,i know what the results might be!!!

deols: Does it even make sense that any form of defamation is used on someone who likes you??

maclatunji: Male relatives, a newspaper advert, blog post, naming and shaming are all polite options. A thing of the mind I says

maclatunji: Rudeness is the basic defence mechanism for 99% of women including you Sissie, you lot do not want to be caught blushing and give attitude to prevent that.

maclatunji: There is a feature called "call barring", after politely telling a suitor off and they keep calling, you bar their phone number. They keep calling or pestering after that, you file a complaint with the police or your male relatives. You can even pick their call, say bye and let them keep burning credit at the other end.

Rudeness is a thing of the mind I say.

A lady can be confrontational without being rude. You think say na beans to find a lady? They are available but one needs to be patient or more appropriately blessed with one.

baba11: ........supported!

deols: The shouting part. I only gave extreme examples just to present my point.

How to fend off people? There is no one-way. The circumstances determine that.

In some cases, you may have been talking interestingly and after a while a drop in conversation and a final no talking would tell a smart person you are not interested in talking anymore.



Some guys are scared of the No and want to talk to you stylishly or make statements like 'you know what I mean'. In my mind, I think, I dont know what you mean . Those ones are easy to let go off..very easy.


On the road, I say things like, 'I am sorry, I have to go now.'....simples.



Some men can be funny o..There is a guy who has sent like 14 salam repeatedly as a message to me on facebook.. b4 d unresponded 14, I used to answer just so as to be 'nice'...but now you can understand that someone who continues for that long isn't a smart person and not one deols would like

There is a stooopid man I told my mum I would sue..she gave me one kind puzzled look. The silly is married and embarrasses me anytime I see him..I told her it is sexual hatrassment. She told me to be calm.

There are all kinds of creatures out there. and so, yeah..a rude girl is a good girl..sometimes

maclatunji: Nope, they do not. You decided to let them bring you down to that level by your agreeing to. It is like those who blame crimes on the devil.

Be firm and uncompromising if that is what you want but never decide that "I am going to be rude to him".

When you do so out of anger, quickly calm down and regain your composure.

You see what I mean about wanting a lady is no joke from my position on this issue.

Ladies are difficult to find but women are plentiful.

fatito1: pls, hw much cn i get it and is it compulsory dt i most go wit my system?

ddddon: plz how much does it cost to upgrade one's video card

fatito1: Cn someone xplain wat s meant by CMOS......wen ever i on my system, it write CMOS s wrong/not set.... And i notice dt d time s always 19/08/2008 , even if i set it n switch d system off s stil set itsef to 19/8/2008

tbaba1234: You can be polite with a stern voice. I didn't say rude. The kind of voice that ends a conversation before it even started.

deols: Yes. Everyone is naturally bias. A man who won't shout at his younger female boss goes home to claim rights over his older wife...and that is because, of course he has the rights.


and the woman boss, tough and all that at work might be getting doormatted by her low self esteemed husband.

It is about whom they are to you and how you want to be seen and regarded by them
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Some men are very very rude and I do like to put people where they belong. I can be super nice too..I can be nicer even when the rude now knows how to behave.

tbaba1234: Have a firm, stern voice. It is a vital asset for a sister in this age. Nothing scares a man more than that .

lizzlix: Thnks a lot 4 ur reply......I tink it's d former,BTW i do use power dvd nd VLC media, bt mstly power dvd.

babylolaroy: thats normal. Even i do it too. My attitude depends on who is talking to me and how he/she is saying it. i can be nice or super nice. i can be irritating and i can be rude. Buh d last applies to persistent guys who come and refuse to go.
Besides ds days, i think guys dont 'deserve' good face and smiles. they just take advantage. A certain man was a security guard in my school hostel and i saw dat he was a muslim so anytym i passed by him, i smiled nd said salam. he probably got intoxicated nd took dat for a 'green light'. he became a thorn in my flesh till i adopted the 'slightly rude' attitude to shed him off...

Sissie: @deols true, the more beautiful a lady is, the higher the probability of meeting more men and the attitude helps keep some of them at bay.

lizzlix: Pls expert in houz help! When usin my pc to watch movies, afta lyk 20-30 mins, it shutsdown automatically.

Puffy T: i got this laptop(Hp pavilion dv6-beat audio) dat m currently av sum niggling issues with like 5month ago...experts in the house pls help out
1.the pc takes forever to shut down(happens like once in 2 or 3 dayz)
2.the dvd rom tray works abnormally too(bt after restarting the system it works perfectly again)
3.also noticed something recently after starting the pc...the homescreen atimes ll go blank..buh the task manager do open...av scanned for virus malware on the system e.t.c buh the p is still hangling all around....seriously confused af

leunamme93: Its on the motheboard o. What can be done o?

Input: Hello Gurus,my laptop(hp compaq) refuse to start after I left if for about a week when I travelled.Though the ON button and wireless button shows light,nothing shows up on the screen.Not even startup sound.I need help about it.Thanks

lymelyte: Please gurus,how to I check the memory of my video graphic card. I am using Hp pavilion i3

Hoyeenz: Pls, when I switched on my laptop it was on,
my desktop was there n all but it was hanging then, I pressed d switch button to switch it off. I tried putting it on but d start windows stayed 4like 10mins I switched it off again but wen I put it on it showed a white and blue screen. I have tried using the safe mode but its still the same. Please, help a sister because my project is on it and I have no back-up for it. I use a Compaq Presario CQ57. Thanks.

leunamme93: @onegig
My laptop hdd connector and d socket where a new
connector should be fixed is burnt
. I recently got a new hdd since the former was nt working. How much is it going to cost me to repair the damage
. Its an hp pavilion dv6t laptop.

Debeloved87: Ok, thanks.. Stil on d matter. i av a mini zinox smart laptop, 8gb, 504ram. for over a month now, i av a prob wit my mini laptop..ystday i took it to computer village and a guy was runnin a bootable window XP cd on it and later it stops and couldnt continue, then he uses a window XP proffessional cd and it was booting then later stopped and was asking for a file "asms" before it can continue, and d guy said, he cant do it, that the RAM seems faulty...now what am i to do.. How much can i get a RAM for, or can i still resolve d issue without buying a RAM.

Debeloved87: Ok, thanks.. Stil on d matter. i av a mini zinox smart laptop, 8gb, 504ram. for over a month now, i av a prob wit my mini laptop..ystday i took it to computer village and a guy was runnin a bootable window XP cd on it and later it stops and couldnt continue, then he uses a window XP proffessional cd and it was booting then later stopped and was asking for a file "asms" before it can continue, and d guy said, he cant do it, that the RAM seems faulty...now what am i to do.. How much can i get a RAM for, or can i still resolve d issue without buying a RAM.
asms not loadig means the cd is either faulty or he needs to use another format type for the ssd. he should have reloaded it but this time using fat format not ntfs

Debeloved87: Ok, thanks.. Stil on d matter. i av a mini zinox smart laptop, 8gb, 504ram. for over a month now, i av a prob wit my mini laptop..ystday i took it to computer village and a guy was runnin a bootable window XP cd on it and later it stops and couldnt continue, then he uses a window XP proffessional cd and it was booting then later stopped and was asking for a file "asms" before it can continue, and d guy said, he cant do it, that the RAM seems faulty...now what am i to do.. How much can i get a RAM for, or can i still resolve d issue without buying a RAM.

tbaba1234: A stable marriage is not one where the husband or wife is incharge. A truly stable marriage is one where the husband and wife put ALLAH in charge. -

AbuHafsah AbdulMalik Clare

Adolak: ok. You mean something like reinstalling another OS right? I expected such anyway. Thanks for ur help so far. I'm in a small town now and i dont think there is any competent computer engineer here. That's why nairaland was my only option. I'll get back to you in less than 2 weeks when i leave town. Thanks once again. God bless. Plus can i have ur digits?

Adolak: yea. I have an external dvd rom plus i use the recovery disk(of thesame system type but not the one that actually came with mine) to do a system repair for it. But still no noticeable changes.

sexymoma: hmmm Prayers do work even when you think it not necessary... There was this day that i had a chronic stomach pain, my twin sis jos went to bring a cup of water and she prayed in it and read some psalms in it... she gave it to me and i slept off. even when she was praying in it i was like that and dey do you now na prayer me need ni' not until i slept off peacefully... my dear don't underestimate prayers o.

Adolak: No sir.

Adolak: That's what i got from the advanced menu. I'm sorry it's not clear. I used a phone