Celebrities › Re: ‘You Are Just An Olodo’: Mercy Aigbe Slams Fan Who Tried To Correct Her Spelling by Only1mi(f): 9:58pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
MelaninGold: Too much aproko no good.. how can you call a dress"jersey'? It's a style of a dress, but not what she was wearing. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Runs A Govt With No Direction – Financial Times by Only1mi(f): 10:42am On Mar 09, 2019 |
omohayek: If you could actually afford to subscribe to the Financial Times, you'd have been aware that they already do precisely what you suggest, publishing in-depth criticism of leaders like Theresa May and Donald Trump every single day, as opposed to the passing mention they make of Nigeria every once in a while. If you have nothing substantive to say in rebuttal of articles like this one, perhaps it would be best not to write anything at all, instead of so blatantly showing up your ignorance in public. My sentiments exactly. |
Celebrities › Re: Princess Shyngle: I Removed 5 Ribs And Small Intestines To Achieve My Tiny Waist by Only1mi(f): 5:25pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
IdeeEsperanza: I understand about the ribs,but removing your small intestines? Haba! How do you survive? Do you eat anything that needs digestion? Surgeon told her that he removed it, she believed. Finish. Placebo effect tins. |
Romance › Re: Pre-wedding Pictures Of A Nigerian Captain His Beautiful Fiancee by Only1mi(f): 10:05pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
NLModsAreStupud: See knuckles... 9ja ladies with low sef esteem Omg, not every one with dark knuckles has bleached. I have dark knuckles, the rest of me is not necessarily light, and I certainly don't bleach. |
Celebrities › Re: 'Lionheart': Genevieve Nnaji Thanks Nigerians For ‘Changing The Narrative‘ by Only1mi(f): 10:14pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
Chan1: Lol.......na wa for you. Most reviews have been positive, the storyline was meant to send a message about the value of the Girl Child, and it did very well......I enjoyed the movie. Promoting the girl child isn't something we're accustomed to, that's why the message is lost in some. |
Politics › Re: Omobolanle Sarumi Ashabi Aliyu, Oyo First Female Governorship Candidate by Only1mi(f): 3:12am On Jan 08, 2019 |
jaxxy: Nice I like smart ladies not smart ass ones. There’s a difference The real slay queen!!!!! |
Celebrities › Re: Yvonne Jegede Returns To Nigeria Months After Giving Birth, Steps Out With Baby by Only1mi(f): 10:22pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
bobokeshington: but why she carry the baby put for inside basket She should have tied the baby on her back abi |
Romance › Re: Feminist What Do You Asay About This Picture by Only1mi(f): 9:06pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
dazzlingd: So what's your interpretation? And u haven't addressed the question. How do you reconcile gender equality with a book that ridicules the female gender and called you a weaker vessel. But I answered your question, it was written by men and is subject to interpretation. |
Romance › Re: Feminist What Do You Asay About This Picture by Only1mi(f): 8:47pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
dazzlingd: So how do you feel about the Bible ridicule of the female gender? How do you enjoy reading passages that says women should be submissive to men, women should keep silent in church? Or bible verses that appreciates virgins as spoils of wars? This does not in anyway appreciate gender equality. For it even says specifically that you are a weaker vessel. Aren't you confused yourself otherwise you pretend not not see all these? All good points. By the way I'm not part of any feminist movement or anything.... So, the bible was written by men and yes it was as a result of anointing, but still men. Its contradictory to say I'm made in the likeness of God but a wesker vessel, unless God has a weak side. I believe that everything is subject to interpretation. |
Romance › Re: Feminist What Do You Asay About This Picture by Only1mi(f): 8:07pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
dazzlingd: You are very correct... I'm looking for a religious feminist. I need to find one. Thank you for your time. Hiya, I'm a Christian and I believe in gender equality, in so far as if I do the same job to equal or a better standard then I should be paid the same. I should also have similar opportunities as men if I meet brief. |
Sports › Re: Rape Scandal: Cristiano Ronaldo To Sue Der Spiegel, German Magazine by Only1mi(f): 1:21pm On Sep 30, 2018 |
oluswaggz: Not really a yardstick to judge, people can be crazy atimes. Forgotten Michael Jackson’s scandal too? Were ladies not even fainting anytime he went on stage, yet it was not enough he still went ahead to molest children. They are not predictable that’s all. People don't understand. Sometimes it's the thrill of it. And because women throw themselves at you, you don't understand why some won't allow you, so you take it by force.... Crazy world. |
Family › Re: Children Surprise Their Dad With The Car He Sold To Pay For Their Mom’s Treatmen by Only1mi(f): 9:34am On Sep 20, 2018 |
vizkiz: So all these years, the car is still in good shape?
#Laughs In Nigerian Roads
******** Nevertheless, I feel they should have gotten a better car  It's more for the sentimental value than anything else. |
Celebrities › Re: Regina Askia Slays In One-Piece Swimwear (Photos) by Only1mi(f): 12:40am On Aug 05, 2018 |
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Celebrities › Re: Regina Askia Slays In One-Piece Swimwear (Photos) by Only1mi(f): 11:31pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Bluezy13: Your initial post was about it being her personal life, that she put the pictures on IG and did not send it to anyone. It wasn't about what she is wearing or where she is. Stick to your initial comment.
I maintain my view; if she didn't intend for the picture to be a public view, she should have left it only on her phone without taking it to IG and from IG, it came to Nairaland for me to see. She asked for the public's opinion, she has it. Dude, this is not an argument worth having, take it as you please. |
Celebrities › Re: Regina Askia Slays In One-Piece Swimwear (Photos) by Only1mi(f): 10:41pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Bluezy13: She put the picture on IG, how then did it get to Nairaland if it was not for public view What's wrong with taking a picture in a swimsuit? If she's on a beach or by the pool side what should she wear? Nairaland added the title to get the comments flowing. All I'm saying is each to their own, how do our comments affect her life or that of her kids? |
Celebrities › Re: Regina Askia Slays In One-Piece Swimwear (Photos) by Only1mi(f): 5:49pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
safarigirl: herself.
What is wrong with you people? Someone cannot look good because they want to feel good? Must they be doing it for the approval of strangers?
She looks good for her age, acknowledge that and move on. Some of you think because someone is fairly old, they should be clothed in rice sacks and should be miserable.
That is why Nigeria is filled with miserable people. Regina looks great, she should keep slaying mbok. E no easy, her husband is treating her good I tire oh, she put the picture on IG, she did not send it to anyone... |
Romance › Re: A Nigerian Couple's Scottish Inspired Wedding In The UK (Photos) by Only1mi(f): 2:18pm On Jul 28, 2018 |
englishmart: Scottish men wear skirts? Kilts. Lol Yes, skirts. |
Travel › Re: 155 Nigerians Stranded In Russia After World Cup Return Home(photos) by Only1mi(f): 6:46pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
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Travel › Re: 155 Nigerians Stranded In Russia After World Cup Return Home(photos) by Only1mi(f): 6:29pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
1stolax: Cold wan kill the ediots 
Russia a rasist country... I won't even think twice No cold this time of the year, it's summer. |
Romance › Re: She Finds It Hard To Wash Her Undies - Nigerian Guy Exposes His Dirty Girlfriend by Only1mi(f): 10:50pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
Wtf |
Career › Re: Things You Should Never Share At Work by Only1mi(f): 7:19am On Jul 19, 2018 |
About sharing your career progression plans with your boss, I think it depends on the type of boss you have. I shared my plans with my boss, we found suitable roles together and the same boss helped prep me for the interview... |
Business › Re: Stock Market Investors Lose N11billion On Trading Floor by Only1mi(f): 9:14am On Jul 18, 2018 |
Ellixlimswag: whose fault tho cos me no understand stock market. them go de ontop computer morning till night come loose our billions.. baba works there too? Your comment made me smile. |
Business › Re: Stock Market Investors Lose N11billion On Trading Floor by Only1mi(f): 8:40am On Jul 18, 2018 |
Ellixlimswag: there salary go still come Wasn't all their fault tho, so why shouldn't they get paid? |
Celebrities › Re: Daddy Showkey Shows Off New Look by Only1mi(f): 2:41pm On Jul 14, 2018 |
benedictac: How he wan come take sleep na? Styling locs is a pain. There are a handful of styles that afford you good sleep. |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Jailed For Sexually Assaulting His Female Roommate In UK. Photo by Only1mi(f): 12:20am On Jun 29, 2018 |
doeeyed: I agree that should have been his prerogative.
However these agreements are oftentimes verbal or quite suggestive but open to interpretation, with no records.
I will be surprised if she made any payment, either by way of a deposit prior to the tenancy starting or afterwards. In addition, she slept there all night, only to report at the police station the next day, when you have a phone at hand to call for help and possibly sleep on the benches or pay handsomely at a motel / inn. There was cold-blooded calculation on her part.
You also have to factor in certain generational or cultural slants. With the older generation Africans, your intense flirting with a heterosexual man is often considered an open invitation and not harmless as seen by today's millennials. This ?derogatory patriarchal attitude is often criticized by the younger ones. Its not an excuse but just providing a backdrop. I'm not describing molestation or other deviant behaviour in my generalization, BTW.
Its all about being aware and protecting one's self at the end of the day.
. I kinda agree with you. Thankfully the rules around renting out flats, houses or rooms are being tightened to avoid these situations. But the truth of the matter is that if someone is illegal or on a very tight budget they'll often avoid the overly legalistic process as it'll cost too much and it could potentially be out of reach as well. But your observations are spot on. |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Jailed For Sexually Assaulting His Female Roommate In UK. Photo by Only1mi(f): 10:45pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
doeeyed: I doubt it.. Rent for sex was a popular thing in most UK cities last year... Male/female.... Male/ male... Some allege its an import from EE climes?? It was further glamorized on tval as an urban trend. What was not robustly discussed was the jail term it could carry..
In this case, the lady described it as harassment not a rape. What he should have provided was some evidence of prior convo to indicate the girl had s foreknowledge of what she was getting into as opposed to being a victim of opportunistic crime as made out on the public gallery. But if he had the evidence you think he wouldn't have provided it? Some people enter into consensual agreements to stay rent free for sexual pleasure, but the majority of the time people legally rent with people of the opposite gender. |
Romance › Re: Can You Date Females Who Drink Beer? by Only1mi(f): 6:21pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
MrCork: .WOMEN SHOULD NOT BE DRINKING. ...PIRRRRRRIOD. ...lightskin females are exception though. ....are u lightskin?  Hehe, I'm so dark it's almost unbelievable.  |
Romance › Re: Can You Date Females Who Drink Beer? by Only1mi(f): 12:23pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
Saff: What’s wrong with drinking wine? Watch yourself ohhh I tire |
Romance › Re: Can You Date Females Who Drink Beer? by Only1mi(f): 12:22pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
lefulefu: yea maybe if its drinking wine on few social occasions thats ok but a lady consuming beer everyday like water or running to the alcohol beverage sidebar to gulp down two or 3 bottles of alcohol when she"s a little stressed is a big no no for me. I don't drink when I'm stressed, only when I'm chilling with my hubby  |
Romance › Re: Can You Date Females Who Drink Beer? by Only1mi(f): 12:19pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Can You Date Females Who Drink Beer? by Only1mi(f): 10:57am On Jun 22, 2018 |
MrCork: ^^^^EXCUSES. .EXCUSES. ..EXCUSESO! !!!  Lol. Talk your own. |
Romance › Re: Can You Date Females Who Drink Beer? by Only1mi(f): 10:15am On Jun 22, 2018 |
lefulefu: cant date a female alcoholic Having a glass or 2 of wine over the weekend doesn't make you an alcoholic.... |