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TonyeBarcanista:
Marriage as designed by God was good but the mortal man has corrupted it.

Spot on

TonyeBarcanista:
I did mention that I never knew how sweet single life was until I ended my last relationship.

I don't want to play the blame game but there is this thing about marriage these days that makes me believe that it isn't worth it. Nagging, troubles, wahala, infidelity, disruption of peace and other associated problems.

That doesn't mean I won't get married though (heck! my parents, especially my sweetest momma always remind me and want me to marry ASAP) but if I have my way, I Won't marry.

I don't understand the hype marriage carries these days, especially when you see how bad it can get.

Kooldon:
Yes! She Was Flogged By Her Husband Which Not Cool At All But What Did She Do?
Incomplete Reporting

What she did or didn't do is irrelevant. There's always another way.

juanjo2:
people now thank God for having a child outta wedlock... issorite

She thanks God for the child. Simples.

ninetiethcrown7:
Madam, surely she intruded. His post was neither abusive, patronising or lacked taste, yet she jumped in with insults. I and I believe you (if you were in his shoes) would not be happy.

For example this same post I am quoting, imagine if responded, telling you to shut up... that you don't know what intruding means and all that, I bet you would be crossed.

Fair point about the tone and approach, but unfortunately that's the world we live in.

NOC1:
The girl dived into a post she probably knows nothing about and got the reply of her life, Let people try to mind there business. But Bello choice of word is sickening, but that's his cross.

When you put stuff on social media and people respond or call you out, I don't think that's intruding. If you want to avoid comments and keep it private, keep it off social media.

Home cooked dinner for two, I'll bring the bottle. Netflix on and we're good to go.

When you have more than 2 kids, you automatically have to change your car, potentially get a house with an extra room, planning family holidays become too difficult to negotiate, I agree, 2 is the ideal number

Swissheart:
Where are the babies? Smh for him o. See him carrying the kids like a grocery pack about to be delivered to the owners.

Haba, how do you want him to carry the babies?

Come on hillsong

Lalas247:
you know how I feel about this ...
lol ladies don't even like when I say this but here goes .....

I detest Lazy females who feel entitled to a mans money when they have done absolutely nothing ( earning wise)
my motto is to be Independent! the respect you get from that is bliss.
I will support my man any way I can to make sure as a family unit we a comfortable .
now will I marry a guy with no job : Yes on one condition he is actively looking for employment and has the tools to secure a good job. those types of guys are gold even if they may be broke now . those are the Ines you build a future with from the bottom and you both rise to the top.
but most females don't see beyond the exterior look.

my advice to you always date hard working females also b hardworking yourself
giving gifts and spending on each other is a two way thing ...nothing wrong in that it is wrong when it is demanded and one sided and sole responsibility is on the man . 2018 stay woke

me just want beard and good shalom

God bless you.

prechbills1:
you're not your dad's responsibility.
you're your parents responsibility.

out..

But you got my point right? Whatevs

OfficialAwol:
God blessed you with a girl who reasons rationally and making an understandable argument, and you had the got to call her shitty brain.

What would you say when you meet girls with shitty brains?

I've said it before and I stand by it, if I'm with someone, I'm in a partnership. Until I got married, I was my dad's responsibility, after I got married, my husband and I decided how we'd work as a unit. If I don't look good, I fix up myself, same thing for my very vain hubby.

phayvoursky:
I'm not my girlfriends boyfriend.

I'm her church member,

She thinks I'm a fool,

After every service I prove to her that I'm not a fool.

How so

The last time he asked

hennylove:
I am happy for her even though I expected Donel to win. I know he will go places and for Belle voices I am disappointed with JHud for her choice

I thought Donel was a good performer too, he got my vote, but the voices on the final day was clear as 7up. Ruti sounded better in my opinion.

Ghost01:
You guys should stop arguing unnecessarily about her nationality and just watch her awesome performances and take it all in. She's British with a Nigerian Father.
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From her rendition of George Ezra's Budapest, to her cover of The Cranberries' Dreams, to her duet with Saskia Eng covering Florence and the Machines' Dog Days Are Over, to her performance of "Waiting For A Star to Fall" in the Semi Finals, to her performance of Daniel Bedingfield's If Are Not The One, to her "What A Wonderful World" duet with Tom Jones... She was absolutely awesome!
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Her last name made me watch her first performance on YouTube but her voice made me watch her other videos and I knew she was a favourite to win after watching her perform "Dreams."
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Let's just enjoy the moment and stop arguing unnecessarily. Life is short and, with voices like Ruti's around, beautiful!

Her voice really got to me too.

Twoclans:
I listened to her sing, beautiful voice.
Waohhh

The first day she was introduced her dad was on stage with her if I remember correctly.

And he's a proper Yoruba man. Love her voice too, very husky.

peacettw:
I wish our women will understand that less make-up equals more..
Don't get this trend to cake the face with a lot of cosmetics of different colours and shade..

That's how I went for wedding trial makeup and gave the makeup person a brief to make it light and natural, 10 layers of paint later I told her not to worry.... I looked like a masquerade, my family made fun of me die.

abiodunalasa:
You hardly see pictures like this about men...
Men die earlier than their wife.

Yep, cos they're usually much older. I've seen lots of posts here advising men to marry women much younger than them, well that's what happens.

GloriaNinja:
I WONDER HOW HE WILL BE COMFORTABLE WITH THAT DREADLOCK.

Very easy. Dreads are very comfy

librangyps:
'HAPPINESS' doesn't have to be another man, dick or marriage. Think outside the box

I understood perfectly the first time you said it, why they think happiness has to be linked to a man, I just get...

kennygee:
Wow. All I'm seeing is money, if you're seeing anything else, book an appointment with a optometrist.

Chisus.

Booking a trip to ibiza

Sagamite:
AAAAAAHHHHHH!

Only1mi, true talk?

Say the truth and let the devil be ashamed pata pata.

You go return wetin?

Swear down

Sagamite:
If the ring was worth £400,000 and the law says you don't have to give it back it is yours (an absolute gift), would you?

Remember: If the ring is worth that much, and your engagement just got cancelled, that means you are no more marrying a multimillionaire. Probably back to normal guys.

Would you still return it?

Haba, ask me a reasonable question naw. But truth be told, if it cost that much, I'd still return it. Anyone who knows me knows I don't like any hassle of any form.

Legally the courts see an engagement ring as a conditional gift that should be returned in the event of a break up. I'd be more than happy to give it back, who wants the reminder of a failed relationship hanging about?

mvem:
...christains are confused...it is sin in many churches, is that not right?...he brough at interesting arguement...someone said it is cold in d Us/Uk thats why dey wear trousers...he now replied , women in those countries those days dont wear trousers....in essence all these are just man made rules that many defend as God words...

A sin to who though? Absolutely man made.

Raxxye:
Someone asked if it's because the woman can't spell her own name!
Lol

I know, based on his writing, maybe she genuinely can't.

Thoniameek:
I’m not saying it’s a sin, I wear trousers

I was trying to say that since it’s preached here as sin it should be a sin there too... Fornication is a sin even in countries where prostitution is legal. Why should this be different?

Ah so, now I understand. I don't think it has anything to do with the cold either. I think the only church that maintains a strict rule on your physical appearance is cele

Thoniameek:
Ha! Bros e no add rara

What did the women in the UK and US wear in centuries when there was no trousers? It was colder then because earth is getting hotter

Modified

Sin is sin irrespective of geographical location

How is it a sin for women to wear trousers?

Turks:
Unserious element. We all know you won’t.




Take a cue from your predecessors; KSA, Sir Shina Peters, Orlando Owoh to mention a few.


A popular Yoruba adage goes this: Omo bere, Osi Bere.

It's Fela he's following na