siofra:
Jeon
Magnoliaa
Ahnie
Goodlady
Persephone1
Virginprincess
jennyclay
Cococandy
Ishilove
Banilla
Folake4u
Bratislava
Uyaincomparabl
Pocohantas
Hathor5
Shaybebaby



These are the ones I can remember If you can remember more, please mention them.

Are you sure..
Or more like members of an eternal coven..

mariahAngel aka mariangeles
OfeAkwuPrincess

mariahAngel:


For real? Na WA O!
I never knew there was such a place in Lagos.

No need to sound surprised..
Do you know anywhere in Lagos aside your street?
Common Magodo Shangisha, u dont know..
Ur asking which state...
Its in Mississippi..

Onmyrise:

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMYkRARMU/

Prolly cos i watched my parents, i didn't regard people, i didnt know how to give respect to people.....

Prolly cos i watched my parents, i didn't regard people, i didnt know how to give respect to people.

So these were..
I was very stubborn and highly opinionated
Thats the combination
And i loved to argue,
I could argue
Oh,you cant win me in an arguement.

And i was always offpoint
No matter what you are sayiing, i can't understand you, and i dont even wanna understand you.....

And these are things i grew up with, and i didn't even see it as a problem....

I think when i found out that i had a problem was when i met my husband.. Cos i didnt know i had a problem..
I thought i was good, and i loved to smile, it was only when u got close to me, that you would see anger cos if you met me, you would never know...

So its was when i met my husband, we went out for 5yrs..
In our going out, he starts to point out things .
I was like, what is it, i dont see it as a problem..
Cos when i was arguing, people used to hail me.. for my arguing skills..
So it was a apparemtly a strenght.
So, how do i now meet a man and he tells me its not a strength....
So its was terrible,.it was a lot to battle with.

By the time we got married, these things started to put a strain in our relationship..

It became so bad....
Cos the man i married was such an amazing Man,he is very peaceful, till date.
He doeent like problem, trouble.
While i came from a background that doesnt know what peace is..
..........
I could make him so upset, i didnt know the place i put him in..
Its now that i am into ministry that i know the place i put him in...
So imagine what i was doing, i think the devil was just using me at that point and these things were things that put a lot of strain.......
to the extent that my husband at a point stopped talking much to me.. He wld just be quiet.. I can say everything i wanna say, he would just be nodding his head..
And i didnt expect him to just nodd..
Cos i dont know the next thing i wld say and you would just flip...and i wont be able to control you....

Now the truth is that angry people most times when they do the things that they do..they dont even know what they are doing.. they dont remember, cos they do it in the heat of the moment of anger..
Its an emotion that is uncontrolled and cos you react based on that emotion, by the time you are calm, you tend to forget things you did in the heat of that outburst..So its the people that u offended or hurt..that can remember what you u did..

My husband had also reminded me of when i threw plates in the heat of anger..

And i can't believe i did that...asking him
"are you sure i did that"..

In Marriages, What is breaking homes today, are these little little things, as opposed to infidelity..
They look little..
Anger, being highly opinionated, being disrespectful, unforgiveness, etc..
These things are eating into homes..
Thats why u hear people say
irreconcilable differences.
People ask, i dont even know what happened in our marriage....
They cant pinpoint what happend..
Its those seemingly insignificant little things...

He was so patient, he took a lot from me..
God blessed me..
There were days i would slam the door at him...

Host cuts in:
I told my wife, whenever you are angry, please dont bang doors and yell..
Just come into the room quietly, so we can talk.. Our kids must never hear us bang doors at each other or yell or fight.
And it has been like that, We Thank God..
Our kids have never heard us yell or band doors.


Guest contunes:
Sometimes when we talk, and prolly its not going my way, and i have had enough..
I be like
Whatever wanna happen let it happen..
I walk out on him and slam the door..
He wld remain there, he wont come after me, he wont chase me, he wont raise his hands at me, he wont yell..
I didnt know any boundries, i made him suffer.
It was when i made him cry, i realized what i did was bad and i would go on my knees an begin to beg......... CPD

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Prolly cos i watched my parents, i didn't regard people, i didnt know how to give respect to people.....

Promzy99:
Who can guess dis correctly Nairaland Academicians Over to you.

FINAL ANSWER

BODMAS ANSWER- 8
3 + (1*1) *5
3+ (1*5)= 8

SIMPLE ARITHMETIC- 20
3 + 1 * 5 = 20

Babara1994:
We met on Facebook, exchanged numbers and few days down the line, she asked for a date.

Fine, I obliged, but she didn't know I'm always on Dutch mode when it comes to dates. LOL

So we got the place. A very expensive eatery. She was well-dressed but was all bleached - a big turn-off. I actually like light-skinned women, but not the bleached ones.

Okay, fine. She ordered a plate of rice, a bottle of champagne, a cup of ice-cream and three pieces of meat-pie. I began to wonder if we came for national eating competition. Anyhow sha, I ordered a plate of rice and a bottle of malt.

When it was time to pay, I paid for mine ONLY and told her to settle her bill. It led to an argument and all eyes were on us. I left the place and insisted she settled her debt.

A big lesson to all women out there. If you come across me, I won't pay a dime until you're my wife. Why should I act like I'm your husband when you aren't my wife?

And if you're a guy reading this: Spend what you're OK with and don't make yourself a fool. If you go broke tomorrow, you'll be forgotten.

PS: I'm not a redpiller and I'm not a feminist; I'm just human. Humans THINK.

The emboldened is the only sensible thing you have said here..

In life we are all free to act according to our sense.. But nature and karma wld always be there to balance accounts for us and make us have a good taste of our own medicine, as many times untill we learn to treat each other better.

virginprincess:
When we tell people to strongly seek the face of God before getting married they won't listen,now see what you are going through,i pray you find help sha.

Face of God or not..not everyone is destined to be fortunate in marriage

Many that did sincerely seek are divorced today.

In synthesis, seek the face of God it dont guarantee a happy marriage..

Accept whatever you get as your cross while it lasts, grow from it

If you have the fortune of finding yourself in a relatively happy marriage.. Maximize it.

The earlier you realized and accepted that life is full of uncertainties the closer you are to reality and a relatively peaceful life.

VlamesIffect:


i know that feeling. It's still better you hold till December i mean worst case scenario it maintains this rate till then. Or if the money usage is a matter of urgency sell and count your loss.

As much as we hope, we can't predict tomorrow.

Next time when you want to buy make sure you plan for this thing by investing in a fixed income something. It will hedge the exchange rate risk.

Let's say 1$ = NGN 750 Calculate the risk exchange up to $1 = NGN 1000

the difference of NGN 250 use it invest in a fixed income. So of dollar rises you still make money. if it sells the fixed income profit will help you balance the loss in value.

Whats fixed income.profit

Ayojb:
but will this new baby be aware that he/she has existed before in another life? Would they know details about their past? Their previous parents, loved ones, town etc?

Yes..Many babies are born with a high level of consciousness.. And remember many details of their past life.

Many of my good friends from my past life dont seem to remember me and the promises we made to eachother... But i remember them very well deep in my soul.
They are so enmeshed in the current of this life that they dont remember anyrhing..

I personally know of peoples, men , who remeber every detail of their past life...
It has helped them understand this life better, their purpose and the roles they are to play..

Onetenth:
I have never believed in reincarnation but my eyes did saw one yesterday

Nice story, But it has nothing to do with reincarnation.

Reincarnation is real tho and it has to do with the Soul taking a brand new body, being born with a a new physical body in a new family as a new born baby.

This paranormal phenomena you narrated is common in every culture.
I cant remember what its called in yoruba culture, i dont wanna say Abiku..

But its a universal paranormal phenomena where the once dead person materializes with the same personality, same body, in another location, but away from those who know them.

Its a deep topic

OnionBandit:
Well, whatever floats everyone's boat. My point exactly is, if you keep an animal as pet, treat it with the highest level of kindness possible.

Absolutely

Samantha123:
Lol..They're both females..

A mother and a daughter.

Okay.

I am cat lover too.

I owned a cat as a kid and i used to have one, about 10 yrs ago. I am ganna get an all black cat soon.

My story is for another day, and i can relate to all your story..

But, know that Cats are like the most psychic domestic animals. They are spiritually powerful and protect their owners in the astral plane from all forms of dangers.
Which is why its important to have a strong bond with your cat and be nice to them.

Samantha123:
I always make sure that their bowls have food.

I have 2, but it's only one that is begging.

So they are married..

OnionBandit:
My dear, take this from me. Feed it your own food. If it doesn't reject it, it means that it prefers it much more. Continue to feed it and I assure you whatever you spend to feed it will come back to you in multiple folds.
Be extremely nice to animals. God is watching!

Cats are lovely
But
We all kill for food.

When marriage has turned to an opportunity to fornicate and adulterate

No one respects the sacredness of sex

Our society applauds moral and ethical decadence, no one has any respect for anything that has a flavour of divinity.

Teenagers and youth have as role models, celebrities who are perverts, who are social and spiritual misfits..

Social media revolves around the lives of many youth, they dont care to use it in its positive aspects but just to learn and do rubbish.

So what is left of a lady? a Guy? All that garbage intellect with no authentic spirituality equals a scoundrel.
An experiment in natures laboratory gone wrong..

Its a very Sad world.


Peiple should make sincere efforts to find the true meaning of life.

candidbabe:


My dear mariahangel I beg you in the Name of the Almighty to stop eating that poison called kilishi

I saw the way the northerners were making kilishi in year 2004 since then , I vowed never to taste it again till the end of my life .

Do you know that after slicing the raw meat they will dry it under the sun for some hours where millions of flies will perch on the meat even lay eggs on them.

When the meat is dried, they will coat it with red mud sand gotten under the soil

Then put the coated dried meat on top of fire for 2 minutes.
Voooom kilishi is ready

She has no idea.
You missed the part where they batter it with some cowdung...
I stopped it too

ahnie:
That heavening feelings kilishii gives when it's in my mouth

Its the pigs of steak... Stick to suya

mariahAngel:
What are the ingredients that they use in making kilishi?
What gives it that mild sweetness?
Someone help me unravel this mystery o!

I only know a few of the ingredients, and I'd appreciate it if someone who knows, shares the ingredients of the spicy stuff they use in coating the meat.
May God bless the soul that came up with the epic recipe.

Like you said catfish is the pigs of fish..
Kilishi is the pigs of steak..
Why not stick to Suya

Reincarnation is 100% real.

The soul reincarnates from life time to life time coming back to pay what it owes, its karma(punishment) and get its dharma(good rewards)

One of the reasons you hear of dejavu, is that feeling that you feel you already know someone when you just met them.
Its cos you knew them at a soul to soul level from a past life

Everyone has 108lives to live and if after that, you dont transend this mechanical life and become an Angel, then you descend to Hell, for hellfire to help purify you since you couldnt do it yourself.

Only a few people remember their past lives.

Well, its an interesting and extensive topic and there are loads of stories to prove this in every culture and lattitude.

@ naptu2 please organise an old school party in Lagos and play all this throw back hits so we can relive them good old days..

All these songs helped us enjoy life as kids back in tgem days..

Feel like having a Baby girl..maybe twin girls with uyailncomparabl

Happy birthday to this beautiful baby

Rozross:
I wish i can share and save lives, something that i'm tired of is what some ladies are killing themselves for.Sad

What are you tired of, if i may ask

In the final analysis...
Almost all posters on here are right in one way or another.
Even the OP is right to a little extent.

Yes, Some guys are to be blamed for deceiving and misleading some ladies, and some ladies are to be blamed for passing up on good opportunities.

But i like to think for every Guy blamed, there are like 10 ladies to be blamed for willfully and unreasonably rejecting so many Guys who would have made better hubbies.

Many ladies dont even dare to give a humble and nice Guy a fair hearing not to mention freindzoning.

The facts speaks for itself. Its not about a gender blame game.

Every lady is usually engulfed by the fire of youthful exuberance at ages 18-28. Its hard to find many ladies that escape that fire unconsumed.

Its not bad for a lady to have choices and to refuse 1,2.3.,4 Guys who approach them, there can be very valid reasons for that. But if nature keeps bringing relatively good guys your way and you keep being mean to them and keep chosing the ones who are clearly toxic.,then, you would prolly end up a lost case.


Any serious, focused, unbiased and intelligent lady, should have captured and kept their sweetheart at age
30,max 31 32 max.??

Ladies need to be more profound minded.

Kobojunkie:
You don't get it, do you?

Chastity has absolutely nothing to do with self-discipline. One doesn't have to be chaste to have self-discipline.

Okay dear..

Kobojunkie:
High level of chastity? See all the tags una dey accord common self-discipline abeg!

Do you know the meaning of chastity?
Yes or No?

Kobojunkie:

Ask them! Look, in developed countries , self-discipline, even of the sexual kind is regarded as common sense, and those who lack it are treated as if mentally disturbed.

Seems Nigeria has a long way to go where commonsense aka wisdom is concerned.

It appears you dont know, so its wise not to assume.

Dtruthspeaker:


He who walks with his eyes closed will always kick buckets, crash into walls and fall into a pit.

Notable words of an intransigent megalomaniac..

Dtruthspeaker:


This is A Lie meant to soften you men so that you can submit to them exactly how Satan softens you up so that you can open up to him.

Women belong to Satan. See how everything in this world attacks men whether porn, or music videos or movies or home training, advertisement etc. All is geared towards getting men to soften up and open up to women, so that they die while still being alive.

And as some men have noticed, their lives became worse when they opened up to a woman.

How many times have men cried out that women and Satan are 5 and 6?

As I said, see how the Bible is mostly men centred. it is not a mistake or a literary device that it is written that way, It was deliberately and willfully written that way, so that you would notice and see.

You need to put your brain more to use, go further, study and meditate, so you can flush out very silly concepts from the den of your mind, unfounded concepts that only portray stark ignorance.

Kobojunkie:
So, you slept in the same room with a woman and you came here to have us pat you on the back for what even unbelievers do regularly without much thought?

You are not even ashamed that mental/sexual discipline isn't part and parcel of your being at this stage in your development as a human being
..something even Buddhist monks, who don't even believe in God can boast of?

You must have attained a high level of chastity..

Kobojunkie:
So, you slept in the same room with a woman and you came here to have us pat you on the back for what even unbelievers do regularly without much thought?

You are not even ashamed that mental/sexual discipline isn't part and parcel of your being at this stage in your development as a human being .... something even Buddhist monks, who don't even believe in God can boast of?

And who do they believe in?