₦airaland Forum

slavary of the mind.to the extent that to you it is not normal to wear an african attire to a function.my friend wake up

t0bbY:
the white dude at their back be like..." who are this ones again"

my friend please study history before you speak,do you know how many people were killed that brought agu to power

IamDino:
And TY Danjuma still walks about the nation scot free.Igbos really need a saviour.The next expository article should be on Don Jazzy's stick.

what do you mean by that question.somebody gives you award back stage,while the Americans get front stage,what is he trying to tell you?
black men wake up,if you respect yourself others must respect you
WIZKID big up to you,God bless you,you are already what you are BET didn't make you,if they don't respect you or are shy to award you in front abeg tell them to keep there award

osaslord500:
What is this dude feeling like?

the thunder when go fire you still they do press up

kalindaminda:
[size=68pt]IJN, NIGERIA WILL ONE DAY GET THERE[/size]

you most be crazy,remember 14 years,if i get you unto another man

Psylas:
you are just ignorant about life, so Nigerian govt or nigerians get sense pass those oyibos and their govt baa? Hehe, the whites are wise and right. Damn Africa

You love your present man,yet you want to keep old fire wood as a friends,hum trouble trouble makes monkey eat pepper

jayfolarin:
Hi nairalanders. I have been around for a while but this should be my first topic/post in the romance section. This incidence is a long epistle but i'll try and summarise.... I need urgent and reasonable advice here pls..

Just about an hour ago, a girlfriend of mine (a buddy that is a girl) came to me with tears and lamented with the hope that I can offer a 'do not worry yourself, it's a small thing' advice like I usually do.

It was about a boy she dated in d university who bumped into her again about 2weeks ago. As they didn't end things on a sour note back then, she was glad to have met him again and could not even wait to announce to him that she was now engaged with wedding plans underway.

According to her, the boy acted all good and even offered to pay for d stuffs she got at domino's. They exchanged numbers again with d promises of keeping in touch and expectation that d boy will be attending her wedding later in September.

To her utmost surprise and dismay though, the boy has been calling since last week and telling her all sort of things like he has been out of naija since after nysc, has a wife and 2 kids in d US, he still likes her, wants them to get intimate again while he's still in the country, bla bla bla...she wasn't interested in anything more than being friends, she said.

The heartbreaking part here is where the guy has now threatened to post a sex video they made together back in school on the Internet coz my homegirl said NO. The attempt at the cheap blackmail just to getdown with her disgusts me to the bone but i'm still at a crossroad on what to do to this guy.

The question now is she thinks the guy is serious, she acknowledged that they recorded intimate sessions on more than 2 occasions back in the uni, she loves her husband-to-be and could get suicidal if he leaves her (her words), SHOULD SHE TELL HIM ABOUT THE VIDEOS??

May God bless you

nortcentrallord:
Don't mind the hollow headed illiterate. Can any African country dare arrest 1 single American citizen for anything at all? Which nation on earth has ever committed the crimes U.S ever committed? Who did anything to them. This is just a clear sign of destroying the African Union. If leaders can not be guaranteed the security of going for an AU meeting and returning in peace, how many will turn up eventually? South Africa better not be used as a pawn to destroy our African Unity and the growth we are trying to build.

I am happy at the event playing out.this is modern day politics,Nigeria is now moving forward

i keep saying it,the Nigerian embassies are mostly useless,in fact they are against Nigeria and Nigerians,i have never seen such a thing.in all the embassies and High commission i have visited nobody can tell me what exactly is Nigerian foreign policy.can somebody imagine that.Aside the man in new York and i hear he has been moved,i don't think i have seen any other high commission or embassy that actually helps Nigerians

ijustdey:
Another Nigerian lady who travelled abroad for greener pastures has been murdered by her Russian boss.



http://pulse.ng/gist/gruesome-nigerian-lady-murdered-in-horrific-manner-in-russia-id3831631.html

A political analyst who claims to know more than a General that took on both chad and Cameroon,my brother abeg stop been a hater wake up smell the air ,it is time for change,left for me all the service chiefs should be deployed in the region not in Abuja

ifedubatoochukw:
President Muhammadu Buhari on Friday in Abuja directed the central command of the military to relocate to Maiduguri, Borno, to intensify the fight against Boko Haram insurgency.

Buhari, who gave the directive in his address after his inauguration, said it was impossible to achieve victory against the insurgents if the command continued to operate from Abuja.

He said that the command center would relocate and remain in Maiduguri until the insurgents were subdued.

No where in the History of world military History will the military central command be located right in the combat zone it is the height of unprofessional-ism which is about to force me to revisit the issue of Buhari certificate scandal. let us use the United state of America model as a case study .

Military Central command are non combatants they are not infantry units but expertise from various field of course


Structure

Central Command headquarters staff directorates include personnel, intelligence, operations, logistics, plans & policy, information systems, training & exercises, and resources, and other functions. The intelligence section is known as Joint Intelligence Center, Central Command, or JICCENT, which serves as a Joint Intelligence Center for the co-ordination of intelligence. Under the intelligence directorate, there are several divisions

In the United State the Central Military Command directs four "service component commands" and one subordinate unified command and no fighting units directly subordinate to it:

The United States Army Central (USARCENT), and the United States Air Forces Central Command (USAFCENT), both headquartered at Shaw Air Force Base in South Carolina, the U.S. Marine Forces Central Command (USMARCENT), headquartered at MacDill Air Force Base, Florida and the U.S. Naval Forces Central Command (USNAVCENT), headquartered at Naval Support Activity Bahrain in the Kingdom of Bahrain. MacDill Air Force Base also hosts a Sub-unified command called the Special Operations Command Central (USSOCCENT).

In 1983, U.S. Military Central Command was established to succeed the Rapid Deployment Joint Task Force, formed at MacDill AFB, Florida on 1 March 1980, to handle US national security interests in Southwest Asia, Central Asia and the Persian G

The USA Central Military Command main headquarters is located at MacDill Air Force Base, in Tampa, Florida. A forward headquarters was established in 2002 at Camp As Sayliyah in Doha, Qatar, which in 2009 transitioned to a forward headquarters at Al Udeid Air Base in Qatar to serve American strategic interests interest in the following countries as the Area of Responsibilty.



Area of Responsibility Countries for USA Central Military Command Located in Mac Dill Air force Base in Tampa Florida..


Afghanistan
Bahrain
Egypt
Iraq
Jordan
Kazakhstan
Kuwait
Kyrgyzstan
Lebanon
Oman
Pakistan
Qatar
Saudi Arabia
Tajikistan
Turkmenistan
U.A.E.
Uzbekistan
Yemen

Tactically its a great Blunder for Mr Buhari to relocated the Military Central command right into sambisa forest when he knew quite well that these people are non combatants they are not infantry soldiers and their area of responsibilty covers a wider area than just boko haram. they monitor , deploy and protect both Nigeria air land and water from both internal and external aggression.

Relocating Nigeria military Central Command to frontline war zone is the most senseless decision any president have ever taken and such action is capable of endangering Nigeria external security an outside force may invade the nation of Nigeria in time like these..

This wrong decision calls for us to revisit Buhari certificate scandal and how he come about his title of Major General when he is incapable of simple kindergarten Military Decision

Ifeduba ThankGod T ( political Analyst writes in from Anambra state)

it should be after all he is the one taking care of them,abi is that not what you women demand for when you are taking care of the kids

emeify:
What do I do?

Separated from my husband. He is insisting I pay for the children's upkeep or I cannot see them in his house.
He has insisted on collecting part of their school fees from me. Despite that, he wants me to pay for their upkeep in his house or I cant see the kids

Is this normal?

Does anyone know a lawyer that can help?

was still a foolish person

osifred:
I have no word for a graduate who knows how to raise 5 million as a target given by his employer who therein will pay him 25k and don't know how to raise 200k to start up his own business.

Wait

I think I have got the word now such a person excuse me to say is a slowpoke

when we were warning that Mrs Harvard is on a mission for western exploiters,people thought we were making noise please look even closer we have borrowed 18billion dollars that nobody sew and yet we are paying over 5billion dollars every year to service the debt can anybody just imagine that.i kept asking that Mrs Harvard should make the terms of such loan public.

i urge G.M.B to immediately detain Mrs Harvard as his first official order,so that economist can extract from her the extent to which she sold out Nigeria. what an evil woman (slave mentality is the problem with Nigeria)

OilGas:
http://dailytrust.com.ng/daily/top-stories/54386-nigeria-s-debt-rises-by-18bn-in-4-years

Best way to deal with a woman is to ignore her totally best still leave the house for am and less i forget cut out the cash flow and don't eat her food

SleekyP:
Guys wat do you think?

now please tell me if not for slave mentality how do you dare to defend somebody who committed a crime in your country,am guess because his skin is coloured abi?nonse some of you need to travel,so you have an idea what they do to your kind in there country

sukkot:
explain the slave mentality ? i am listening. dont fold on me now. you got two big balls so now its time to wear those balls. what is slave mentality in what i said ?

ARE YOU ALRIGHT.SLAVE MENTALITY THE MAJOR PROBLEM OF NIGERIA

sukkot:
i dont get it, they did not smuggle in drugs. they smuggled in textiles which will be beneficial to nigerians. why arrest them ? makes no sense

John is a successful footballer and business man,we all know this yet somehow na you dey kick am out of your house and na him dey thief your money.this is the same woman that nearly ran down her daughters home.i am really sorry for yobo because now his problem are double.
I keep advising men be very careful who you marry because a bad wife is worse than the devil himself.check the family like our fathers use to do. don't fool yourself if the family bad just know there is no way that child can be good because even if she try to be good her family is there to influence am other wise

chibecanglobal:
Story by Maryjane Ezeh/Nigeriafilms.com
news
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After trading few words with her estranged husband, Adaeze Yobo's mum, Abigail Igwe has fully responded to the allegations of her ex-John Fashanu.

Recall that he initially accused her of being a lesbian, a greedy wife and being violent. she has again cleared the air on allegations in a recent chat with Encomium magazine.

“All the things he told you are lies. No media house that wants to survive should listen to John Fashanu.He’s a chronic liar. He’s a drowning man who is looking for another person to drown with. Is it a man that should be ranting or a woman? He’s the one that is hurt that I kicked him out. Who does not know him?

I was ashamed that I lived with such a man. I didn’t know what to say. People will say were you not told? Is it a secret that he’s like that? I’m not such a loud person. That’s why I quietly closed the chapter.", she said.

Slamming the ex-footballer more, the embittered woman continued, “I’ve kicked him out so many times. He kept doing a lot of things. It was about fraud initially. He was continually defrauding people. That he had a wife that is a lawyer.

He defrauded many footballers, we saw him on TV. N2 million from them, from poor families.He threatened them with guns. And they’d be crying.I kept kicking him out of my house. It was few months after, about a year. That I first kicked him out.”

The pretty divorcee who is spotted recently with her daughter and Grandson, narrated how she caught her ex-husband with her maid in bed.

“The first one was in my house red-handed. I was travelling, and he said he wanted to live in my house. That he would miss me.

I came back, accompanied by my friend. She was driving. I was looking for evidence. I told her that I was getting ready for divorce. When we came in and opened the door, I caught them naked.

The house girl is Igbo, and she ran. I called her came back. I spoke in Igbo. I told her that this man is shit. I cannot go back to him, that she should not worry. When the girl asked if I had forgiven her, I said yes. I said she should go back.
She said the cook had warned her to stop sleeping with John.

How can a man say his wife stole N1 million? He should be ashamed. He used to steal my money. I never asked him.
I told my friend to pick the maid’s trousers and slippers…

They were all ashamed. My friend picked the items and ran.
John chased my friend and in the process, bashed my car. My friend kept running. I needed the evidence to go to court.

He later called my pastor. That he should calm me down.

My pastor said I should forget about him. That I should leave him. That the trouble was too much.

He told my pastor that I should not go to court now. That I should allow the separation first. He went to pastor to ask him to beg that I should come back. My pastor can testify.”

www.nigeriafilms.com/news/33103/28/divorce-saga-gets-messier-as-abigail-igwe-takes-jo.html

some times it does.there is a parable,if the bird would learn to fly without landing the hunter must learn to shot without aiming.
A relationship without disciple is a disaster in waiting.
For no reason under the sun should you allow a woman lay her hands on you

godoluwa:
but sir, 2 wrongs will never make a right

Rubbish,any woman who raises her hand at a man should get the beating of her life

godoluwa:
It's absolutely wrong for a man to beat his wife no matter whatever.

***FTC***
Dedicated to all men that will never beat their wife

Dont mind her she can't try it in an american court,she was to come here to disrespect out court

ozoigbondu:
Silly American that thinks she is in yankee land

define real men and fake men for me,also define real women and fake once for me,the majority of men really didn't want to go into marriage go and ask married men,they would tell you.and for the record in this present day good women are like 5% of the population,as for true love that is a ferry tale the white man brought for you,ask yourself your fathers and mother and the once before them where they looking for true love as you call am or good partners?once you get the answer you would know why it is difficult in this modern days to find good women.
finally anybody that just meet you and tells you he or she is in love with you that is scam,love is a process in continuity ,so you grow into it and the real time you can totally declare it,is on your dying bed

mamaope:
O. Not all men, Real men want so much more than just sex, believe me I know. And if you are fortunate to find yourself a good woman that truly love you and you are good to her you will know marriage is one of the best thing that can happen in people's lives. It will always come with it challenges cause you two were raised differently, but everything will eventually workout.

I am a man and i can tell you men are forced into marriage by women,its either your mother,your sisters or your girlfriend or the combination of two or more of the above,so drop it.
if men had there way they would prefer just sex without the complication

bukatyne:
We can say same for men also

AS a matter of fact,i am a strong supporter of the fact that the national assembly should elect its leader by itself without the intervention of any external force.this is what the law says and that is how its should be.this issue of tribalizing ever issue hasn't helped Nigeria one beat.if external forced select there leaders then trust me they wouldn't be able to do there job,let us take cue from the present national assemble,one can see that David mark was appointed with the aid of the party and he ended up always doing the parties bidding not what is in the interest of Nigeria,while Tambuwal was elected by the house and the house stood to challenge the government anytime something was seen to be done wrong.

zik4ever:
As the unlikelihood of the All Progressives Congress (APC) being able to enforce a zoning formula that would ensure the equitable distribution of key posts in the incoming administration becomes more apparent, there is a major likelihood that the Northern section of the country would account for the four topmost positions in the country.

These are the presidency, which will be occupied by Major-General Muhammadu Buhari (rtd), the post of Senate President, that of the Speaker of the House of Representatives, and the Chief Justice of the Federation (CJN).

Should this scenario play out, the entire Southern section of the country would end up with the posts of deputies starting from the vice-presidency to the deputy speakership, which could create a problem, as it contravenes the federal character clause enshrined in the constitution.

Sources in the APC informed THISDAY that with the “Tambuwal syndrome” gathering pace in the National Assembly, the chances are very high that the legislators would jettison whatever zoning formula that may be determined by the party and decide on key leaders of their choice.

The Tambuwal syndrome arose in 2011 when members of the House of Representatives ignored the zoning formula of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), which had zoned the post of speakership and the deputy to the South-west and North-east geopolitical zones, respectively.

Instead, its members – Hon. Aminu Tambuwal and Hon. Emeka Ihedioha – respectively from the North-west and South-east, contested for the posts and emerged speaker and deputy speaker of the House with the help of their colleagues from the Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) at the time.

An APC source said that as it stands, with the party unable to determine a generally acceptable zoning formula, this has provided the leeway for legislators to close ranks and back candidates of their choice.

He said that while the North-east and North-cental zones are angling for the Senate presidency, the South-west and North-east have entered the trenches in the battle for the speakership in the House.

The two main contenders for the Senate presidency are Senators Bukola Saraki from the North-central zone and Ahmed Lawan from the North-east, so should any of them emerge, the North would have clinched the post, the APC source explained.

For the speakership, the main contenders are Femi Gbajabiamila from the South-west and Yakubu Dogara from the North-east, with the latter having the clear edge over his South-west rival for the post.

The APC source said whichever way one looks at it, the North could end up holding all the four key positions in the incoming administration if care is not taken and the South, particularly the South-west which played a vital role in Buhari’s victory, playing second fiddle.
http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/north-may-end-up-with-four-top-posts-in-govt/208527/

Nothing made her change there is a saying YOU CANT CLAIM TO KNOW A WOMAN UNTIL YOU MARRY AM.women pretend a lot just to get married,i don't know why

bukatyne:
What made her change after the wedding? Any incidence the husband can pinpoint to? Can you give specific instances of her 'stubbornness?'

Thinking divorce because of stubbornness, strange.

Bring another woman into the picture and totally ignore her while at it,or option two pack out of the house for her.if she ask tell her you don't need to stay with somebody who knows everything

netsurf:
How best to handle a stubborn wife...when I say stubborn, I mean very stubborn...she doesn't listen nor take any advice or order from her husband...doesn't respect the man's opinion about anything...

On the few occasions, when she accepts she was wrong, she also want to be the judge in her own case. If the husband airs his opinion about any subject, she would insist she consult google for her to believe. It's no exaggeration...this is how exactly she behaves.

Please note that she was the epitome of an humble woman before the wedding but as soon as the wedding bell rang, she became another thing entirely.

Please anyone with good idea on how to handle such women before divorce option?

Is this all you and asari could come up with,my brother if you know you chop Nigeria money go return am peacefully,nobody go touch you but if you one show us say you smart,i swear jail na him get you and no be Buhari go send you there,na judge go do the job

here talk ,i laugh.south south are the last people that came into PDP,the founding member came from the north,south west and a few prominent elders from the south east but since south south took over the party.well we all know the story.go and tell them tribalism doesn't pay. ijaw agenda can not supersede Nigerian agenda.if it is pdp you people want we have given you people the party,and if you don't change the way you think and learn to respect others i fear by 2019 there would be no more PDP

flybiz08:
Yes you are! One mistake Jonathan made was trusting this present PDP leadership. Adamu and his cronies must leave our great party. A chairman who couldn't win his state.

#diehardPDP

abeg who be PDP and who be GEJ,i thought GEJ was the head of PDP.see talk oh

Nazeeboy:
As far as I knw pdp is responsible for GEJ's loss because here in the north people were busy shouting; "we are tired of this pdp and we will vote them out" rather than saying they are tired of GEJ.

and the white once seem better to you because they are white,i think you should ask your relatives abroad how the white police behave towards blacks.if you dont have relatives go and google how many black people police as set up and killed in america.
Like i said slave mentality .your father is the worse and other peoples own is better

MARKone:
Mistar! forget about that thing, these guys look smart and professional, even with the extra pound. Nigeria policemen and women are another creature entirely, whether they are fat or slim.

The problem with Nigeria is that we have too many people with slave mentality.they just love to make Nigeria look like the worse when actually Nigeria is one of the best