Family › Re: Should Parents Find Wives For Their Son? by onyinye2(f): 4:04pm On Jul 11, 2008 |
lucabrasi: that is why i said don't generalize,so because a lot of nigerians are yahoo yahoo,419ers does it mean we all are?i said in my reply many of them are but the fact remains that majority of them don't go out and murder their children or families,besides the asian community who do arranged marriages are broken into diffrent ethnic compartments the pakistanis are less perceptive to other cultures and more likely to do the honour killings,check the statistics and u ll see you ll rarely get indians doing so, so donth they have a strong family support?google it and see the marriage statistics and which of the minorities have the closest family network most of these ladies arent even happy with their marriage. they just suffer in silence. and "the strong family support" you are talking about is just the women trying to convince the young lady that there is no way out so just bear it. |
Family › Re: Should Parents Find Wives For Their Son? by onyinye2(f): 3:26pm On Jul 11, 2008 |
lucabrasi: that is not the only reason please don't generalize on negative perception,many of them do but the reason is because most of their arranged marriages actually strenghten both families and makes their family support network stronger,so if a couple have issues they have enough people to intervene before it gets to the stage of divorce,and they do not pretend to embrace western cultures when it conflicts with theirs recently in the state of Chicago, Illinois a Pakistani man murdered his own blood daughter just because she longer wanted to be married to her arranged husband. so dont tell me anything about strong families support. |
Romance › Re: Guys - Would You Consider Dating A 19 Year Old If You Were In Your 30s? by onyinye2(f): 3:01pm On Jul 11, 2008 |
HECK NO!!! that is so weird and i just couldnt do it. i rather find a guy my own age than with some little kid straight out of highschool. |
Celebrities › Re: Usher And Chris Brown by onyinye2(f): 2:46pm On Jul 11, 2008 |
Oh chris brown is so cute and adorable. i love his dancing skills and performances. But i have to give it to my man Usher. his music is crazy and is dancing skills have been perfected. |
Romance › Re: Does Age Really Matter In A Relationship: by onyinye2(f): 2:05pm On Jul 11, 2008 |
age matters alot. |
Romance › Re: What Is Your Idea Of The Perfect Girl Or The Perfect Guy & The Perfect Romance. by onyinye2(f): 1:59pm On Jul 11, 2008 |
whitelexi: Which takes us back to the same old question: "What does a woman really want?"  the answer varies from woman to woman. |
Culture › Re: Why Is Nigerian Society So Damn Corrupt? by onyinye2(f): 1:53pm On Jul 11, 2008 |
@hero
i know where you are getting at. this is one of those situations where the truth hurts. no one wants to hear the bad or the corruptness of their country. they rather be deceived with just comments on how beautiful the country is. but you have understand where they are coming from. i know you are from the states like i am and i know you wouldn't want any of them coming off as they know the country and it situations more than you. it is a pride thing. |
Family › Re: What Do I Do? Pls Help. by onyinye2(f): 1:48pm On Jul 11, 2008 |
aderonke12: I am happily married with a beautiful son. I suddenly stumbled on my ex and he keeps tailing me all around and telling me he still loves me even though he is married. Funny enough, he married one of the girls he dumped me for. What do i do? how many girls did he dump you for?? also you should just tell him straight up that you have no interest in him. because if you keep this up, there is a possibility you will commit adultery. |
Family › Re: Should Parents Find Wives For Their Son? by onyinye2(f): 1:45pm On Jul 11, 2008 |
lucabrasi: the indians and pakistanis do arranged marriages and they have the lowest divorce rates of all minorities and even whites, lowest crime rates and the sons are accomplished,independent in their chosen field of endeavours,ill rather marry a girl from my parents recommendation than marry a girl i met or got hooked up with by friends who s more or less a prostitute the reason why they have low divorce rates is because they believe strongly on family honor. so if a woman tries to divorce her arrange marriage with her husband, she has the possibility of being killed or disowned to restore that honor. |
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Crime › Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives? by onyinye2(f): 2:11am On Jul 11, 2008 |
funny how nuttykachi logged off when i told him to answer my questions |
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Crime › Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives? by onyinye2(f): 1:56am On Jul 11, 2008 |
nuttyKachi: whats ya questn? 1. You would allow someone to beat your sister?
2. You would allow someone to beat your daughter?
3. You would encourage your son to beat a woman? |
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Crime › Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives? by onyinye2(f): 1:43am On Jul 11, 2008 |
nuttyKachi: am laughing my butt off ova here,kind of liked ya spirit oyin,but you never answered ma quest you answer my questions that you have been trying to avoid, and i'll answer yours. |
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Literature › Re: Role Play: Reloaded by onyinye2(f): 1:27am On Jul 11, 2008 |
@ gold finch you are starting to scare me more than usual.  |
Literature › Re: Role Play: Reloaded by onyinye2(f): 1:24am On Jul 11, 2008 |
LadyT, next scenario please  |
Crime › Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives? by onyinye2(f): 1:23am On Jul 11, 2008 |
oh shut up you freaking stalker. as you can see im all over the freaking world. |
Literature › Re: Role Play: Reloaded by onyinye2(f): 1:22am On Jul 11, 2008 |
GEEZ LOUISE!!! seriously doyin, that was some freaky, strange, abstract, weird, i dont know any other words to say. but it was quite entertaining. |
Crime › Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives? by onyinye2(f): 1:18am On Jul 11, 2008 |
nuttyKachi: im sure you'll be very good in beating,u gat soft body shey?
have you been beaten before? I meen really beating never have, never will. |
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Crime › Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives? by onyinye2(f): 1:13am On Jul 11, 2008 |
nuttyKachi: oyin
maybe ill have you as my wife then N we'll see what happens in da house.Hmm First, i would beat the hell out of you. then i would deliver you to my father. and let him have a whack at you. |
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Crime › Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives? by onyinye2(f): 1:06am On Jul 11, 2008 |
studentetc: @ onyinye.
You and i know the guy was unsure of where to kick around your body. I mean which guy will want to kick a woman's boobs or ass? i have no time for your rantics tonight. |
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Crime › Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives? by onyinye2(f): 12:58am On Jul 11, 2008 |
@student
this is no ordinary gym. i kickbox and compete in tournaments. and have beaten a guy before. |
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