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@mesmerize

it is not Husband season. it is the season that men are desperate for wives and feel that it is not there fault they are not married but the women.

YOU GUYS ARE ROMANCE KILLERS!!!! so you are telling me when you marry that woman was not meant for you to be with eh??

Sisikill:
You know what, forget the stubborn ones jare, we have the money. . . we'll get ourselves Trophy Husbands. By the time the stubborn he-goats have trekked in their patch-patch slippers. . . they will be begging to be married.

that is a classic statement. but i dont know why it is so hard to see women as their equal??

[quote author=made.n.9ja link=topic=146637.msg2438246#msg2438246 date=1214789015]yes u're right Hannibal, it's mostly about a person's current situation,

but guys, we can expect to see eye to eye with Onyinye, remember, "men are from mars and women are from venus",

i can't even believe i read that book from back to back, one of my most boring reads ever,

but anyway, O is just speaking like most gals would, in that 'knight in shining armor fashion', that girls always talk about,
[/quote]oka no need to bring women down with that comment. we dont live in fairy tales. im just a very romantic person who believes that there is only one TRUE soul mate.

eldee:
The average nigeriand bloke wants the chick that'll stand by his side, but still knows who makes the final decision . . . c'est finis

well i grew up in a household where my father treated my mom as his equal. sometimes he made the final decision and sometimes my mom did. and it worked out great for them.

let me put it this way. it is not just a special feeling that you know that person was meant for you. it is a gut feeling. like i bet you have never been stabbed with a knife but are pretty sure it is going to hurt. but remember you havent experienced it before but you just know it is going to hurt.

davidylan:
the man represents everyone

im going to remember this for later

oka you guys are impossible. it is just a gut feeling that you are among the person you are suppose to be with oka. when you talk to that person and get to know them, they stand out from the rest.

why do i even bother with you men some times. face the fact that women are equal and that is the end of the story. who wants a puppy to follow them every where?? no one. you rather have someone you can stand by your side.

@made.n.Nigeria

hannibal has no emotions when it comes to relationships so don't bother asking.
also go to enugu state for vacation one week. i bet you will find one girl who is fit to your liking.

@hannibal

oka i never felt tipsy with anyone so yeah.

well debosky because i just know that is why you should take my word for it. and you guys might feel romance no longer exist but im going to bring it back from extinction. it does exist and it has nothing to do with no romance book.

@sisikill

how can we help them when they don't want to acknowledge it?? and plus to help them they gotta except the fact that they are among a new generation of women. that they can't see us as their inferior but their equal and right hand.

@hannibal

oka i have dated here and there and to tell you the truth none of them made me feel "special" the way i knew it was suppose to feel. but your soul mate will give you a feeling that no other can give. you are denying this because you have yet to meet your soul mate. but come holla at me when you do. watch your responses change.

echelon:
Onyinye = Gift

i think i know what my own name means.

[quote author=made.n.Nigeria link=topic=146637.msg2438171#msg2438171 date=1214787086]@Onyinye, I work in Lagos, and by 'Lagos girls' i mean the girls IN Lagos, not necessarily girls FROM Lagos,

Ah, why Enugu, are u from thre, i've never even been thre, Don't mind Hannibal, brother, trust me, u'll soon lose the zeal for all that 'adventure'

@ Davidylan, true that, let them know, because they all thnk otherwise,

@studentetc, i'm not your traditional player, i mean that's not the plan, but it just happens, sometimes., it is what it is ma, but i'm always honest with them, so i'm not a bad guy,[/quote]yes im from enugu state. straight from the best.

Hannibal:
Nah. . . . . . . . . .
I listen to 50's "get in my car" way too much.

Just kidding. . . . . .
All i was trying to say to Onyinye was. . . . Chics that makes one feel special is just a myth.
People say that on wedding days to massage the ego of their spouses . . . What can one possibly say on such day??

romance killer. it is so not at myth. i feel that when i meet the person i was suppose to be with that it would be more than special. more on the grounds of magical.

@Nubian

there is some truth in what you say. there is truly nothing wrong with staying single and focusing on your life or job. but the only problem is that you job cant comfort you at night when you are weary.

@made.n.9ja

i truly feel that you should do some soul searching because im getting the sense that this is more than you just getting married. or settling down. and why do you only mess with lagos girls. not saying they are bad or anything but try something different. go to enugu state and see the women there.

Hannibal:
Is that how to tell one's flesh and bone??
What if i tell u i have met over a dozen chics that made me feel this way??

then i would say you have been listening to 2pac's "i get around" song way too much

TOH:
Lmao Nairaland boys wnat to get marriage and their best plan now is blackmail

LMFAO!!! i know. i guess they are tired of begging like puppies so they have moved on to blackmail. what is next??

studentetc:
@ Onyinye,

There's no double standard. A woman can marry at 40 provided she finds who is ready to marry a 40 yr old.

Cos at 40, she's like Africa. battered and bruised everyone knows where she is, but no one wants to go there.

wow i wasnt expecting such a response. could you please break it down for me cause im at a loss for words.

i dont want this to sound like a cliche but you will know when you meet her. i mean you will really know. you will have a feeling for this girl that you havent experienced with any other. she will make you feel like the king of the earth and also make you feel below it also. just let God lay his path for you and your wife shall be given on to you.

hannibal is right about some things. this being one of them. you shouldnt try to rush into marriage. it is more than knowing you have someone to love you for life but also being able to really get through the good and bad times. especially the bad. i suggest you do some soul searching and really think about why you want to rush into marriage.

a woman can have a child when she is 50. the chances are slim but she can.

@stillwater

because these so called men can not deal with their insecure issues so they blame women for it. and get the attention from fellow male Nairaland to back them up so they can feel better.

@eldee
What!! you make women sound like gold diggers. and where in the world do you get you data from?? cause something tells me that you are basically making it all up.

i really dont understand the double standard. a man can marry at the age of 40 but woman can not. but i feel that love can come at any age no matter which gender you are. so keep your head up. but i must ask are you more worried about getting married or having kids??

TOH:
More like rejected losers making threads trying to blackmail females into considering them.


"Go out with me na, else you will end uip old and dry like that one Nairaland thread I saw"

LMFAO!!!! that is so true!!!

eldee:
@Poster
That Fear Of Commitment point is not really our fault
Look at the rates of divorces initiated by women . . . abeg, it's safer to stay smart and enjoy

what do you mean?? you sound like men dont initiate divorce at all that is the women's fault.

doyin13:
Imagine. So she cross the Mediterranean for that vertically challenged brother

when people like Jack Black dey there

you know you are wrong for that.

you should listen to what i say. your time will come. soon you will be taking your son to football games and romancing your wife with fine wine and dining. so dont fret your soul mate is out there and when you find her, you will know she was the one who was put on this earth to be with you.

Mesmerize:
Is this husband season or what?

No, this is desperate season.