₦airaland Forum

Mymynd4u:
She made this promise yesterday and I want us to protest that she should keep to her promise.

Maynation pls deactivate your nairaland account now.... Be a woman of your word

You have been stripped of YNWA

You now carry YDWA - YOU DON WAKA ALONE

SPORT LOVERS PLS COME HERE
Cc: iwtbab twieker firstbornwds moratafc Franchasng openmine rowland545 crazyman liposure


Liverpool fans shud follow the same step

Always a red man...
#YNWA#

Expert17:
... You have bn forgiven.....go and sin no more

donoro
Openmine
Ebukahades10
Timileyin1234
Masterflowx

Come outside

Expert17!
Expert17!!
Expert17!!!
How many times I call you?
E b like u never know say you get match today abi?
If u attempt to troll me or my club,I go enter ur matter this evening

Chi59:
Say it again

Cityfirstborn:
Sorry bro, hope you sleep well

Always sleep well....
#YNWA#

Lovexme:
Suspended or not, Liverpool would be given the league title.

Dont respond the the guy...he is still feeling the pain from the loss to the elder brothers manutd

Cityfirstborn:
EPL will be suspended soon

and the UCL will also be suspended

Cityfirstborn:
You will soon go empty handed by the time EPL is suspended indefinitely cos of corona virus

I guess you are forgetting we won the world club cup and super cup!
Hating has a way of blinding one esp a city fan!
I hope u win the UCL!
As for the EPL,its not yet certain that the EPL will be suspended!
If that happens,it will also mean that the UCL will also be suspended....so what happens to the chances of your beloved club to win that elusive UCL?

yassinattah:
Liverpool had every chance of winning this match but their errors was just too obvious.

let them go and drown on their sorrows and [b]use premiership to compensate themselve[/b]s

We will with pleasure!

maynation:
YNWA.

The boys tried...though it wasn't good enough!
Lets shift our attention to the EPL!
We have won the UCL last season...lets allow others have a feel of it!
#YNWA#

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mtinfx:
I hope you will have the balls to come back here

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#YNWA#

Lucid1:
Hahahahaha i am really a clown man

Indeed!

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Cityfirstborn:
Hope you good..
Hope you have accepted your L in good faith

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#YNWA#

Lucid1:
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@maynation

paxonel:
another goooaaal!!

paxonel:

#YNWA#

paxonel:
where is the atletico beating, I'm looking for it right now

#YNWA#

acedsportsng:
Where's openmine, OloriLFC and ebukahades??


Come and support maynation before she starts crying blood o

Make una start to dey walk alone

Haters moving in like

chatinent:
Buhari no go travel again for medical checkup?

Kingrefreshed:
Why is it that NOTHING GOOD EVER COMES FROM "APC?


Nothing good! Even their Good morning is counterfeit!

Tecord1:
so you could not read between the line to see the lies in this write up. Buhari was right when he said Nigerian youths are lazy. Take your time to read through critically and see how this story fall apart like a pack of cards

Exactly!
Don't mind some petty folks here!
They only know how to do is to react to an information without verifying its authenticity!

To be a good listener, you need to follow and master these great habits; they are as follows:

1. Be attentive; don’t interrupt, listen until the speaker is completely finished.

2. After the speaker is done speaking, pause, internalize, be sure you understand before responding.

3. It’s possible to have an idea or clue as to what the speaker is talking about, don’t say what’s on your mind; what you’ve heard or what you know about the matter just yet; respond only to what the speaker says first.

4. Ask questions for clarification; be sure you understand exactly what the speaker is saying and what he means.

5. Give a clear feedback in your words based on what the speaker has said not based on assumptions, insinuations and speculations.


Your ability to listen will greatly improve your relationship with others. It will keep you involved with other people and frankly, you’ll live happier and longer. Learn to listen, my dear friend. Enjoy your day.


Culled from Frankly speaking by Muyiwa Afolabi

Many marriages have crashed because of unconfirmed suspicion and the refusal to listen to the way things really happened, many employees have been unfairly dealt with and fired because their bosses wouldn’t listen to their own side of the story.

Generally speaking, our poor listening habit has been a major hindrance to individual and collective progress in life.

Paying good attention is the antidote to several conflicts, misunderstanding and even wars globally.

Your inability to keep friends and maintain good relationships may be traceable to your poor listening habit.

When you hate to listen, you assume so many things and create your own version of what you think happened which on most occasions is not the perfect picture.

Listening is as important as speaking, great communication must balance the powers of speaking clearly and listening attentively if you don’t listen, speaking has lost its power to produce.

Being a good listener is one of the best favors you can do for you. When you listen, you become very wise and intelligent; you make brilliant choices and decisions, you win the confidence of others and enjoy the approval and admiration of many. Suddenly you become a superstar because you have your own ideas and the ideas of others!

This archaic mentality some have transferred to the office environment where their subordinates should never speak while they’re speaking. Some bosses hate to listen to the views, opinions and ideas of their subordinates; they feel they know it all and nothing worthwhile or useful can come from the mouth of a subordinate.

They run the office the way the homes they come from is run. Sadly, many very wonderful ideas, solutions and ways out have been missed because of our inability to listen to others.

In our traditional lifestyles, women have no voice and children have no say, men hate to listen to women or children, they feel it is demeaning and unfortunately many selfish and abusive traditions have been enacted because women and children were not allowed to speak.

Even in some homes in our societies till now; I’m talking about very civilized, educated people, when there are squabbles or misunderstandings amongst siblings, some naïve parents insist the younger sibling must not speak and only the older one should speak and whether the younger one is guilty or not, has been cheated or not, he mustn’t speak, it is termed disrespect for a younger person to express views and prove an older person is wrong.

Many of us today have lost great friends, missed great opportunities; destroyed our families and children because we don’t listen. We hate to listen, we love to laud our views and opinions over others even if it kills us; our will must be done! Our position must prevail… laughs.

Another very sad tradition prevalent in our part of the world is the pride and sense of superiority that makes listening to women and children belittling.

We also hate to listen when we are guilty about a matter and we don’t want to accept our guilt or take responsibility, so we choose to argue and refuse to listen. We also hate to listen when we suddenly discover we are wrong but feel too proud to accept our wrong because we are embarrassed about being wrong.

Many relationships have broken down, friendships destroyed, clashes erupted, and settlements and communities totally destroyed not because people can’t talk but because people do not listen.

It’s particularly interesting when you hear discussants in an argument in real life or over the electronic media the number of times you hear them emphasizing the word ‘listen, listen, listen first’ to one another is amazing!..

As mankind, we love to talk, we find it hard to listen because we always assume we have superior answers, we just want to go and sell our view without considering the other party’s.

We also hate to listen and would reject the views of others because we may have guessed they have a superior argument that may affect our personal wish, interest and position so we want to block it out and pretend it’s not in question.

Many matters that ought to be resolved in 5 minutes can take 5 hours because the discussants are not listening to one another; they are busy trying to sell their opinion and view through oratory power.

Because winning and having their way is more important to them than welcoming and submitting to superior arguments, they keep looking for a loophole in your submission and they interrupt every time they feel you have said something in your advocacy they can use against your position.

Listening is one of the most difficult tasks men find to do. Many of us have not mastered the art of listening and in fact don’t even think it’s important to learn how to listen.

The greatest of our relationship challenges stems from our listening weaknesses. The reason why many argue and drag issues for so long is simply because during a dialogue or a negotiation; when they are quiet, they are not actually listening, they are waiting for their turn to talk, their silence is to give you an opportunity to be done so that they can express their opinion and not respond to your submission.

Because this is their frame of mind when you are speaking, they have blocked out whatever you’re saying, hence won’t consider it or see your point.