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Many today still covet that gift if it can be called a gift, many want to learn and know how to speak well, many want to learn to influence others by great speaking, we all want to improve our ability to speak clearly and be understood but, very few of us are actually interested in learning how to listen attentively and efficiently.

The communication process is a cycle where the ability to listen well is as important as the ability to speak well. No matter how good the speaker is, if we do not learn to listen, the whole process and purpose of speaking gets defeated.

The ability to express opinions expertly and succinctly has made audio and video coaching a viable approach to learning these days, thanks to the excellence and perfecting of expression.

All around the world, the power of speech and of speaking has made men relevant, popular, and even scored them as great leaders. The ability to influence people with oratory power is a must-have for any leader who wants to go very far quickly.

Many have thus learnt to speak impeccably, clearly and eloquently. Our dexterity in conceiving ideas and conveying it in the most excellent manner has grown and is still growing globally.

We have in our world today, professional speakers, who have perfected the art of delivering ideas, concepts, opinions and views, so very clearly without ambiguity or confusion, even over electronic media where the opportunity for immediate feedback, response and clarification is not even so much in place.

Communication for years has been and still remains a major subject in academic provision. Students and scholars must learn how to communicate effectively. The ability to conceive information, encode, relay, deal with interference, decode and respond correctly remains very important and relevant as a process to all, if we want to take maximum advantage of improved communication as mankind.

Beyond verbal, nonverbal communication must also be well understood for all to be carried along in commonness and clarity of purpose.

However, for many years, many of us have learnt to express ourselves to the best of our abilities. We, by default activate the communication process and seek to obtain the desired feedback from our respondents each time we speak.

Efficient communication is the most essential aspect of sustaining a great and enduring relationship. Communication is the oil of relationships. Without an efficient communication in place, there’s bound to be frequent friction and misunderstanding amongst people and teams.

Many theories and thesis has been put together on this subject communication. Through history mankind has sought to understand how to better communicate, as the importance of clear, unequivocal communication would rule out retrogression, stagnation, slow pace of activation and minimize conflicts and wars with mankind.

APCHaram:
Aminu Bayero was the first nominee on the list sent by the District heads for Kwankwaso's confirmation and appointment.

Sanusi was a distant 4th on the list.

Kwankwaso then did a Tanko and voila, Sanusi became the Hope Uzodima Emir of Kano.

All to spite Jonathan.

I guess that's what she has to offer!

chibike69:
MANCHESTER UNITED 4 LYF


#GGMU



Bruno Fernandes for Ballon d'Or

What about Dr Ameyo Adadevoh?
If not for her timely actions,half of the south would have been wiped out!

Special praise to madam Dora akunyili and Ngozi okonjo-iweala!

Not surprised that we don't have any proper emergency for npl players....
Most of our leaders and organisers are simply reactive rather than proactive esp when it comes to the health of someone!

If you really want to know human lives are treated here in Nigeria,go to a Morgue and you will weep for our nonchalant attitude towards human lives!

Why would a dangote or any interested soccer investor put money into a league where their leaders don't even know the basic requirements to run a league?

....and you will expect a naija player to give his best on a rugged pitch under this hot and unbearable sun....smh

TheGoodJoe:
REM sleep (sleep paralysis). He was half asleep, probably feeling and hearing everything. Just can't wake. Happens when someone goes long time without sleep. Probably opening early and closing late.

His body is shutting down.

He needs a break and lots of sleep. If not, stroke. God forbid.

True!
He may have deprived himself of some good sleep for some time!
This is purely due to the situation in Lagos....you go to work or business by 4am to beat d traffic,arrive by 9 or 10 am....close by 4 or 5pm and get home by 10 or 11pm...then still sleep by 12am from Monday to Saturday....and the vicious circle continues...

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Skmoda360:
swerve pls

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Next time learn to mind your business!
Now park well...

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Skmoda360:
2-0 is not a luck abeg.....wetin you dey talk now? You talk dey give me stomach bug

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Oga if you never know the origin of a convo no put mouth

Korllami007:
So, you mean all the people that go to church are morality upright because they preach morality in church.

This one turn human behaviors that can change at anytime or be concealed to logic. Nothing we no go hear for nairaland.

No mind her!
She thinks everything in life is black and white!

emkz:
Bros, I think it's time to stop propagating the myth of virgin ladies. Cheating must be examined on a case by case basis.

There was a story of a guy who married a virgin and was transferred to Dubai after. While processing the relocation for his wife, he ensured she was well catered for and visited him periodically. Six months later into his relocation to Dubai, his purported virgin wife was been gbenshed on a regular by his gateman.

He found out and was confused as to what to do.

PS: If some women do not have sex for some time, a chimpazee with a penis becomes attractive, virgin or non-virgin. If you look, many of these cheating wives/girlfriends do not cheat with men better than their husbands/boyfriends, they step down to their actual level. We were here when a girlfriend decided to have 3some with her man's jobless best friend whom he housed, and the man decided to make a video to humiliate her instead of fleeing from her, and the girl was answering questions on camera; what does that say about her? Therefore, if any woman cheats on you as a husband or boyfriend, it reflects poorly on her, not on you and don't let it. Don't fight her or the man to prove that you are a man. Yes, it is hard, but the best thing to do to such a wife is to forgive her (which most times you'd regret) or leave the marriage and grant her freedom to continue her waywardness.

Simple!

RisenPhoenix:
So why are the men fighting? What are they fighting over? To be honest, if it is me I will walk out and let them finish. I'll even say 'sorry' to them for accidentally disturbing them. When they have finished, I will conduct mini marriage ceremony for them, collect dowry from him and give them my blessing. I will even help his new wife pack her things inside his car and if his car doesn't start, I will help him push it.

Nice one!

Cityfirstborn:
ATM says hello, I will be cheering you up

You have started again abi?
Rather than accept your L in peace,you are looking at Liverpool!
I hope you wait until the final whistle so that you dont goof like you did yesterday

Expert17:
To the Chelsea fans supporting Man city today, .sorry ooo

Manchester is RED..
- Wan bissaka, is something else
-Maguire, money well spent
-Matic and Fred- bossing the middle

You get luck today!
Nice one from your team....

Cityfirstborn:
season has ended already, nothing to play for again...Champions league is the aim

Please which team has ended the season?

Self defence is allowed!

lovemaths:
Man u 0 - 5 Man city

Manchester is blue.

Vamos city

Come on city!

The one you played in your dreams abi?

Cityfirstborn:
They have been winning with luck and help of Var, luck has ran out and the parks are crumbling

Hope you enjoyed your L today?
Next time worry about your club instead of liverpool!

6 more points and its over

where is cityfirstborn

Hmmmm....i am shocked that Matic has not collected his usual yellow card!

NextD18:
You saw Ederson's stupidity, didn't you?

can that be compared to the howler de gea has been making of recent?

MadeINchenzen2:
next... this one is a baby nairalander

And you are what....A teenage nairalander?
Guy go take your encephalon tablet!
You are making zero sense!

NextD18:
Lucky goal!!!!!

still a goal!

Yesss

What the hell is martial's problem?

MadeINchenzen2:
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smh....i should have known that you had other nl monikers that you use in liking your comments

donoro:
Lol man u is looking for counter city go kill una today

Nooooh
we need united to do us a favour to further widen the gap...at-least a draw or loss will be good enough!