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Fighting in this situation is the most stupid and self disgracing thing to do....just take all pics and vids of evidence you will need, go back home, pack all her stuff and put in a clean Ghana must go bag, keep the bags safely by the gate side of your house, lock your house properly, keep enough transport money to take her back to her parents house in the Ghana must go, call her parents and tell them you are no longer in custody of their daughter as you have divorced her, tell them all that happened and let them know you have made adequate provision for transport to get her safely to them...

Get on with your life as though she never was part of it.

Also make sure to give thanks to God for delivering you from the shackles of untimely death and a destiny wrecker.

Case closed.

These people are planning to finally nail the coffin they put Jonathan in...if he is dumb enough to accept this poison decorated like cake, he will later realize it was the worst mistake he made in his political and social life both nationally and internationally.

When it comes to government dealing with the Niger Deltans, the Ipobs, peaceful protesters, and other ethnic nationalities, the evidence is seen in body counts, blood stained cities, military lockdown and brutality, cries and tears of the bereaved families.
But when it comes to dealing with Fulani herdsmen (the president's brothers and partners in crime), the evidence is to be seen in a cooked up list..
And you think Nigerians are foolish...

Continue....

Daily news in Lagos...city of cultists, touts, agberos, criminals and hoodlums...

A day without violence, bloodshed and robbery in Lagos is an incomplete day...

Jesse6:
For your own safety dey your house oo

Na person wey dey alive dey fight for justice oo

This your comment is part of the reasons Africa is where it is today in backwardness, underdevelopment, lack credible and responsible leaders who are accountable to the people and not seeing their selves as emperors.

If Martin Luther King Jr thought like you, blacks will still be living like slaves in America today.

If Mandela thought like you, South Africans will still be suffering Apartheid in their country today.

If Mahatma Gandhi thought like you, India would not have broken free of racial and British oppression.

Nothing scares an oppressor more than determined and fearless oppressed masses who are ready to lay their lives for a just struggle, the only language that brings an oppressor to his knees is the language of fearlessness even to the point of death.

STAND UP and BOLDLY FACE your oppressor or run and remain a SLAVE for ever...the choice is yours.

Envelopus:
There's money in this Nigeria. Let nobody deceive you.

Even the blind can see that and the deaf can hear of it....we just have the highest population of dare devil criminals in positions of handling the countries finances.

This is the only country where you can sleep as a beggar and wake up to becoming a multi billionaire just because you were opportuend to be in the corridors of power or you are a friend to a friend of someone opportuend to be in the corridors of power.

Yet another day, yet another story of touts, hoodlums, agberos, cult clashes, fights and violence in Lagos...

A day is never complete in Lagos without violence, bloodshed, cult clashes, touts and agberos fights...

Lawless state overrun by cultists, touts and hoodlums..

iwaeda:
Where will the money come from?

Where else does money come from in this country called Nigeria?? Where else??

Are there more touts, agberos, cultists, criminals and hoodlums than normal human beings in this Lagos State?
Every day must have one story of violence, cult clash, agbero clash, NURTW clash, one killing or the other in this state...
How do people survive in this state?

God Forbid!!!!!!

Na so...no be Lagos? Na their way. Touts, agberos, thieves, cultists everywhere harassing innocent hardworking people and supported by their government..

Lagos State and cultism, agbero, miscreants, hoodlums and gang battles Everytime and everyday....God forbid.

Michelline:
far from truth my dear, even if you no date married men while single, your bobo go still cheat on you...99.9% of men have side chicks even in marriage..infact, married men cheat more than single guys of a fact i can tell you..u go just do 2-0 ..enjoy yourself while you can..these guys aint loyal!

I pray all responsible young ladies avoid your type of persons...you can go ahead and give this your advise to your sisters and daughters if you believe it is a good idea.

adadike pls avoid this lady's advise so you don't ruin your life.

Chii59:
It's not about celebrity. It's a matter of SELF DISCIPLINE.

True! but being a celebrity especially a rich successful one makes SELF DISCIPLINE very difficult to maintain. You are always on the spotlight with thousands of fans crushing on you and wishing they could as much as just touch you, It takes extreme grace to not fall for the promiscuous life when in that position.

NaijaFutbol:

200m to buy bullet proof cars, e no reach wetin them take clear grass under Buhari.

How much again Buhari budget to cut hair?

The worst looting is going on under Buhari, so I will advise you not to go there

He has not even heard of the most expensive clinic in the world (cost over 3billion to renovate) and yet does not have even ordinary paracetamol, and this is not beer parlor talk or a talk coming from opposition party, it's a confirmation coming from the supposed user of the clinic - First Lady Aisha.

thatigboman:
didnt u see govt officials disagree in public with trump. Highest he would sack them

Sane government officials even resign when they are convinced that things are not going right.

Nigerian politicians are just dead men walking.

InvertedHammer:
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I wonder where they did the rehearsal before the show.

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You are very thoughtful jare...smart guy

When an uneducated cow herder is ruling the country, how else do you expect his kinsmen to reason?

Imagine what a presumed sensible human being is spiting out from his mouth in the 21st century.

The devil cometh but to steal, kill and destroy....if you sow a wind, you will reap a whirlwind...not surprised at all.

A country where quota system is used instead of merit in the 21st century, religious extremism is valued more than competence, what do you expect.

You cannot give what you don't have... good leadership can never be gotten from a skewed mind.

BluntCrazeMan:
You see..
You're saying something that is not supporting your own argument.
..
So, if the State doesn't support Sharia Law, why would the Hisbah Police be enforcing the laws on people who are not under their authority??
(Hisbah Police is just similar to ushers and church wardens in the churches).. Was the Hisbah Police authorised by the State to enforce its Sharia Law on every residents in the state?
..
If parts of the Sharia Law is accepted as a State Law in some States, then it is the work of the Nigerian Police in that State, or constitutionally state-drafted police that should enforce such laws.
NOT SOME RELIGIOUS POLICE.!!

You are too intelligent..

Jerryherd:




Sharia Law doesn't cover non Muslim, however State laws on ban or regulation of alcohol is binding to all residents as long as 2/3 of the state legislature passed it and the Governor signed it

Like in Saudi Arabia, Alcohol is sold at places and camps were Oil workers and Foriegn expatriates stays,

In UAE Ajman industrial has one of the biggest Liquor shop I have ever seen, everything is there from RedOx to Hennessy



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Is it right for states to make laws governing everyone in a state based on a specific religion instead of based on the Constitution in a secular country? Saudi Arabia you quoted is an Islamic nation, their Constitution is based on Islamic tenets so it is understandable if they make their laws governing everyone in their country based on Islamic rules irrespective of any other religion any other person living there believes in, anyone going to Saudi Arabia already knows clearly that he or she is going to an Islamic country governed by Islamic rules, so they get prepared for that, now the question is, is Nigeria an Islamic nation?

It is common sense that a house of assembly with Muslims as majority will always have their way in voting for any issue that benefits Muslims, but that does not mean everyone in the state are Muslims and should be forced to live like Muslims in a secular country with freedom of religion and association boldly enshrined in the Constitution which is a superior document to the state house of assembly by-laws.
State house of assembly by-laws should never go contrary to the supreme document governing the country which is the Constitution.

The Nigerian constitution itself states that government must not adopt any religion as state religion. Even the penal codes exempts non- Muslims from being subjected to sharia penal codes.
If the state house of assembly decides to make Islamic by-laws, then it should be clearly made for only adherents of Islamic laws which are the Muslims because Nigeria is a secular country and not an Islamic country.

Imagine if states down south with Christian majorities begin to enact Christian doctrines and laws into the state by-laws and force everyone irrespective of their religion to abide by it, don't you think that will throw this country into a civil crises situation ?

Can anyone here just imagine what would have been the case if it was Christians in the south destroying a northern Muslims business here in the south just on the basis of Christian doctrine?

All the leaders, emir's , politicians, Islamic heads etc in the north would have been spiting fire and brimstone, even the federal government and all its security agencies will be boiling and issuing strong warnings, sheepish Lily livered leaders down south here will even start visiting the affected northerners to pay compensation even as they will be condemning their fellow southerners...Meanwhile, have you heard the leaders, emir's, politicians, Islamic heads etc in the north say anything to condemn this act? Have you heard the federal government or it's security agencies make any statement or issue any warnings condemning this as going against constitutional freedom and inciting violence? Have you heard or seen any of their leaders speak against this or visit the affected traders to pay compensation?

You can now see how the laws are applied, interpreted and executed differently in the two regions of the country.

A group is destroying peoples property, the people rise up to fight back, the entire government rises up against the people fighting back to save their lives...another group is living peacefully and doing legitimate business without destroying anything, their investment worth millions is continuously destroyed Everytime on the basis of religion in a secular country and the government does not say a word.

Only a LUNATIC will see nothing wrong with this.

FalseProphet1:
I see the fulanis leaving the south in Mass. I see the south being tired of them. I see them being chased out. I see peace returning back to southern Nigeria once again. This I have seen.

Legend of the seer a.k.a The Man Who Saw Tomorrow ...continue

Abeg help me check when naira go rise abeg

northvietnam:
When they burn igbo shops in the north , don’t cry Oooooo

They have already been doing so using religion as a covering. Drinks owned by igbos worth millions are destroyed every year in the north because of religious hypocrisy in a secular country called Nigeria, it's that not trouble? Is that not injustice? Is that not madness?

And this is not done because they destroyed any persons farm or property or anything wrong for that matter, just purely because some religious sect or group just decided that they will not allow that, and this is supposed to be a secular country with freedom of religion oo, no one has ever screamed war, no one from the north either their traditional rulers or politicians or elites have ever condemned this.

How difficult is it for a group of people to just live like their fellow sane humans? All your host is asking for is for you to live like every other sane human and stop causing problems..stop destroying your hosts properties, stop destroying your hosts farms, stop raping your hosts daughters and wives, stop killing and maiming your hosts, stop terrorising your hosts, is that too much to ask from a normal human being?

Even wild animals have laws and rules they obey that enable them live with each other, I then wonder why a whole human being will want to live lawlessly and without rules for control. GOD FORBID.

And people still wonder why Fulani herdsmen have been boldly terrorising different communities with impunity and without fear of prosecution.

LMS1:
AM PROUD OF THIS PUFFY WOMAN
SHE MAY ONE DAY EMERGE Nigeria's First Female President!
I Swear I For Use Two Fingers Vote Am!

Unfortunately, she doesn't have the qualifications to be a president in the current Nigeria..

Nigeriabiafra80:
In Oyo state, one man, Sunday Igboho, is marking & tackling the Fulani herdsmen, but I am yet to see Yoruba intellectuals bash him & remind of how he is beatng drums of war. I am yet to hear anyone remind him Nigerians deserve to live anywhere. I will keep pointing it out.�


If this was done by igbos ,hope they won’t betray us here

Someone should analyze this hypocrisy

Typical attitude of the average Yoruba man... inconsistent with the truth, especially when the truth does not favor him...

GamalNasser:
If Buhari was doing his job there will be no Sunday Igboho

What do you think Buhari considers as his job?

Believe me, he is doing his job and doing it perfectly well, but as directed by his Fulani oligarchy not as directed by the Constitution he was elected on and swore to protect..

To Nigerians, his job is to be the president of the country and uphold the Constitution which he swore to protect without sentiments be it religious or tribal....

To Buhari, his job is to actualize and accomplish the desires of the Fulani oligarchy by all means and at all cost...

It's LAGOS na, no surprise about that....den of thieves, touts and agberos

Lagos again!!!! The insecurity in Lagos is alarming!!!!

Okijajuju:
Na wah..

By 2022, Samsung and iPhoned will cost over 1million Naira.

e be like u jus don finally give up on hopes of our naira appreciating in value

What if this administration do some economic wonders to strengthen our economy and make our naira get up to at least #250 to a $dollar by that 2022 . That time top of the class iphones and Samsung phones will cost less than #300k

RisenPhoenix1:
The age of consent may differ from the age of majority. Even in the US for example, anyone may marry below the age of 18 with parental consent; some states permit marriage as low as 13. In some countries in the EU, such as France and Belgium, there is no minimum age for marriage with parental/public authority consent. Google it.

You are right about differing age of consent and age of marriage... However in Nigeria, Under the Child Rights Act 2003, the minimum legal age of marriage is 18years.

What I can't tell is if there are legally acceptable exceptions to it.

RisenPhoenix1:
Yes. But still minors. The age of adulthood in Nigeria is 18.

Sometimes I wonder how many Nigeria we have in this Nigeria....

The age of adulthood is 18 in Nigeria...in the same Nigeria, young girls of 14 are giving out in marriage...

It's Ok.