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Outstrip: You just come across like the kind of husband that hides in the bushes and puts tracking devices in his wife's car. Anyway maybe you guys need to be at the very least separated for now. The fact that she just walked out quietly shows that she has already checked out of the marriage. She was even shopping for replacement daddy for the child. That is really bad. Your marriage has been damaged for a long time and it is not what happened even a year ago that caused it. Everything about you shows that you are over bearing and sneaky. Even this last fight was a conversation you were eaves dropping on. Bottom line is she does not respect you and you do not respect her. I feel bad for the child.

you just pissed me off. THE ONLY THING THAT CAN MAKE A MAN LEAVE HIS WIFE IS INFIDELITY , WE ARENT BUILT TO TAKE IT, EVEN THE BIBLE SAYS THE WRATH OF A JEALOUS MAN IS VERY BAD..SO SFTU AND USE YOUR BRAIN , SHES A LovePeddler!! MR POSTER YOU MISSED THE SIGNS, I WILL NEVER BE WITH A WOMAN WHO MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE AND ADMIRE OTHERS GUYS ..IT SUCKS.

weep for nigeria? who said that rubbish ? abeg if you want weep go aso rock gate go weep for the trillions dem they steal there....dont come here and do holier than thou, this idiot poster would rather prefer his brother begging for money at maryland round about or washing windscreen! bshit.....

they better look good in a bikini ! odawise !

if youre a single lady above 25 and you comment negative on this woman that hooked a good fish GOD IS WATCHING YOU!

Jesus

if all this man does it talk about doom , i am not going to his church

uk girls are shyte...wanna know why, they have too much on their list they wanna see in a guy, i had a few experiences , was skyping with a girl and she was all about herself and didnt care what i was thinking , like it was all about her , i just told her off straight, girl i am in the naija and i am a doing fine , i ride a bad ass car that guys in uk cant dream of, so why are you forming for me .. to even think of it i was the one calling and paying for the calls, i told her to go Bleep herself ! GIRL HERE IS MY ADVICE ..DONT LOOK FOR MEN , THEY WILL FIND YOU AND PLEASE DONT OVER ACHIEVE CAUSE NAIJA MEN WILL FEEL INTIMIDATED, i know a lot of people will disagree with that but thats the nigerian man mentality and no western education can wipe that, we wanna be in charge and your masters degree will be a bad vibe if i dont have one ...so be easy ! i am being realistic here, most naija guys in london wanna Bleep..they are busy proposing to naija girls over here on facebook and they come back to marry them while naija girls in london are busy forming i am in london and a big chick..lmao

educated fools will always come here with their western bullshit , you dont own her , you dont do this or that blah blah , hiding behind the computer and acting urban , you useless piss of shyte as if you can take it, a responsible woman wont do such, at least without discussing it with her hubby, what if he loathes her body after that and doesnt want to touch her, then we will get another topic on nairaland saying my husband doesnt want to touch me help, GIVE REAL ADVICE FOR FACKS SAKE ON NAIRALAND , WE ARE IN NIGERIA ! my woman gets a tattoo i will beat her senseless because she starts thinking of piercing her puessy

Area_boy: me no chic, but i've heard about a similar case.

turned out she broke the damn thing ridding a horse .

so it'll always be nice to find out if she was in any sort of sporting activity prior to their marriage,



but if u ask me, GOOD FOR HIM, "i wana marry a virgin" son of a b***h

always sample before you buy

this girl is seeking attention jare, this virgin thing is so old school and overhyped..i dont want no boring virgin rubbish in bed.. if youre Hot its normal, sex is normal, its even overhyped, go and Bleep and get on with it.. next

dynamite2012: Why do women tell themselves stupid lies about love and marriage? Why would anyone think women should get pickier at the age of 30? That's pure foolishness. Sorry, at the age of 30, your days of being choosy and selective are over for two reasons:

1) The pool of suitable men for you (i.e. men between the ages of 28-45) is now significantly smaller than the pool you had when you were 25. Men that might have looked your way a few years ago will look away now because you're no longer age-appropriate. The pool gets even smaller if you're hoping to marry a man that's at least on the same level with you educationally or socio-economically. This is just the hard, unvarnished truth.

2) Even given your now limited pool of eligible bachelors, the very best men are already taken! The age of 30 is not the age to start being picky over ultimately irrelevant things. At 30, your criteria should be rational and not emotional/idealistic. You should be looking for traits like hard-working, intelligent, emotionally stable, loving, respectful, self-disciplined and spiritual instead of focusing on ideal traits like doctor/engineer/banker-tall-dark-rich-and-handsome-with-a-6pack-and-a-big-kondo. If you could pull those kinds of "ideal" men, you would have done so at the age of 24, 25 or 26. Now that you're 30, you had better cut your dreams according to reality. If you need a reality check, go talk to the thousands of stunning, successful Lagos mamas that waited too long until they turned 37 and ultimately had to settle for ANYTHING that produces viable sperm (or worse still, a married man!!!!).

It's so tragic that Hollywood/Nollywood has sold us all a bag of dreams that's based on complete and utter nonsense. Why do women still foolishly think a successful marriage has anything to do with love especially when research shows that temperamentally-suited couples tend to grow in love together, AFTER marriage. That's why arranged marriages still work well, even in this day and age! It just makes me sad when I see foolish, old maids still looking for thunder-and-lightening romance at the age of 35!!!! Puhlease!!!!! That shit is just plain foolish and unrealistic. The sooner we start telling ourselves the truth, the better for everybody.

Please tell them oo , with that their i am single and happy rubbish ...if you at 30 and no man or children, who go bury you? your mama don born you and if you don reproduce na third mainland bridge those corpse dey end...i have forgotten wat yorubas call such a corpse

there is something wrong if youre 30 and single , because if it is not wrong you wont be discussing it on here, ive seen girls all act a fool in the club like they are everything and i be like see them oo after a while they will start getting desperate cause theyve allowed their beauty get into their head and wont allow guys talk to them or scrutinize every guy in their life using money and good life as measurements, get off the facking Love Machine and get a man in your life ...if you dont have issues you will have a man ..its easy, find the guy, definitely he wont fit all your dream man requirements thats when compromise comes in , slowy accept his faults cause trust me you have yours...single at 30 wtf have you been screwing since 18?

smoke some weed then go ask your friend if you can touch his wife because thats the only way you can forgive him and if he says no..beat the hell out of him for daring to touch yours!

What's the size of my dick....seun pls make my post on home page since useless topics make front page these days

you facking biatch, you didnt know before you married him abi or he didnt Bleep you before you married him bi , i mean what tha Bleep is wrong with you biatches these days, i mean youve had children with him and now youre complaining , its either youre crazy or you want traffic on this topic or you wanna intentionally annoy me this morning ! wtf

mO cHEDDAH...i have seen your boobs on twitter..why not go naked and make waves again...love you die

Kim these guys arent handling you well sebi u like money abi...come naija make we big boys Bleep that your yansh , u go run ! o ni duro

30mins to open the door, is he casting the evil out of her? hes fucking it ..reality bites girl, i repeat hes fucking her .

yawns and goes to the backyard to start my gen

Goldieluks: Talking of a 'negative' mind.

i swear ..guy got issues men

I have been dating a girl for 7 years now ...still yet i dont know her enough and never will. all i can say is that once you can tolerate someones imperfections then you can live with them , sometimes the problem is from us and we dont know and we act all like she is the problem, if you like date 100yrs , you can never understand a woman totally, tolerance is the word

chmod777: Please young man, this is obtained by asking the computer to give you the number of applicants nation wide who are citizens of any state. Do not cloud your reasoning with poor mindset. This trend has been there for the past 15 years. A lot more people from IMo are educated.

Youre wrong, a lot of students migrate to place where you can write the exams and cheat easily, my sister went to a village in ijebu to write waec, migration occurs i am sure of that

clintwine: You've made one already which is always sending her money
she has bragged about you to her friends
In her mindset you are the meal ticket.

You are an equivalent to her young aristo senator.

How many times have we seen this kind of things
a man from here goes to Nigeria marries a selfish woman or gives her an impression of who he is not
only for the woman to turn up abroad to get a reality shock that its a hard life

Then they wreck the mans life or the man ends up killing the woman.
You are a nice guy and family oriented, she is not, stay clear off her or you would be back here asking for advice on how to make your marriage work

pls tell him oo ..if he like make he hear word.

if she ever opened her mouth to tell you that she wants to keep her pay..then she is a crazy biatch...who does that? shit like this makes my balls cringe when i think of marriage...

continue, one day the ride go take you go hell fire.

So if they didnt bomb and kidnap back then govt will never listen to then, ok when others start adopting this style to get govt to sponsor them una go hear word

ABEG pls commend the guy at least he is trying , even if he builds classrooms as long as he his giving education a priority then every one should shut up, nothing ever satisfies us,graduates will come out of that school and become someone in life..appreciate little changes .

ONE DAY HE WILL GIVE YOU AIDS...SHUT UP AND LEAVE THAT MARRIAGE ABI ARE YOU FAT? THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE THAT WILL ADORE YOU, HE HAS DEFILED THE MARRIAGE VOWS SO WALK AWAY NOW AND GET OUT THERE

must everything be about tribe..every tribe has its own faults ..so dont be stupid by coming here and insulting one tribe over the other...come on guys ,grow up !