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SteadyGrinding:
I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

Infections can be gotten from dirty toilets. there are virgin who have infections too.
Relax bro, don’t let any wannabe redpiller deceive you.
Don’t dump a good woman because of your assumptions


One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

I hope you know nairaland has a section for politics and political talks

JackDaAlienz:
Tell them. Ignorance will not allow them learn something new. They think Hiv is like malaria that spread easily.
If Hiv spread easily 90% of nigerian guys will be hiv positive from barbing sarlons

Yes oh
A lot of people who were told they have the virus were diagnosed wrongly by all those online medical students

I even saw a post here on nairaland of a woman who has been taking hiv drugs for 8years or so. Unknown to her that she was never positive.

LadyD22:
You're definitely a weirdo , it's apologizing to inanimate objects for me

But I also talk to animals , anyone i see , I expect them to understand , I talk to fish sef

You're a farmer? What's with all the animals

The dog understands partially but the rest are too stubborn

Lol
I’m a gym instructor, a crafts man, a crop farmer, a boxer, a reggae artist and a trouble maker.

I’m an animal health technologist
Most of the animals were abandoned by my clients, for being to stubborn or loosing hope on their survival after getting really sick. So I started rearing them, it’s expensive af but a man has got to do what a man has got to do
I almost cried when i sold my lead ram for ileya
The whole flock now look at me one kind

Konjiboi:
That lady most definitely got HIV + few days or weeks or months before the test


If na lie, tell your guy to go and bleep her raw again after the test make we know whether him no go catch!!!

Brother man
If you make finding about HIV, you’ll know that the few weeks or months you mentioned, that is when the viral load is usually very high, that’s when he can easily catch the virus, but he didn’t

JackDaAlienz:
There was a case of a man who was hiv positive and he dated a girl for 3 years banging her when she later found out that he was hiv +ve she panicked then went to do hiv test.
She came out Negative, she even did couple more test from different hospitals and she was still negative.
Someone that has been sleeping with hiv +ve person for 3 years.
The truth is Hiv is hard to catch, if it was easy then by now 80% of Nigerians would have been dying from hiv.
Scientist say the risk of having hiv is 1 in 100 unprotected sex encounters.
Then you have people who have strong immunity, its very complex matter

Sure
Nonchalant barbers would have given it to every customer that comes their way
Yes
Some people have strong immunity and some are even immune to the virus

BeatriceM1:
They're not lazy mbok, they're also doing their best...What then will you say about the police or their elder brother (Nscdc)?
Something tells me you're in the Army�

Lol
Police is more active than navy
Do your findings and quote me later

I support you man, I support you dawg
Who eats biscuits with the sachet? Only babies

And yes, HIV is not easy to catch ( especially for guys )
I know of someone who dated his ex for 3 years
Maximum knacking here and there, when it was time to settle down, they went to do some check ups, babe was HIV positive and dude was negative.

One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

Asceleb16:
Lol... The first unfortunate ass to get kicked by this will regret it's existence

I swear, he’ll kick bucket immediately

Asceleb16:
Mad oo

Wahala be like weirdo

Problem con be like rain boot

Oga e jo
It’s too early abeg
No let me laugh here

Asceleb16:
Is this a new one? Coz i haven't see dis one before o

Yes it is new
I got it in Cambodia
It’s still fresh because I haven’t kicked anyone with it yet


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

Asceleb16:
My papaya poraro is pawpaw potato

Shey mo gba?

Exactly
That babe dey give me joy

Did i hear somebody say weirdo? I’m in

1 I talk to my animals, especially the young ones, i always tell them not to be stubborn like their mothers, but they never listen
2 i feel comfortable being unclad when I’m home alone ( make person no go dey reason my gbola size oh )
3 i tell non living things sorry when I hit them
4 any day I didn’t do well in the gym, i slap myself when i get home to motivate myself
5 i ask a lot of ladies out and don’t follow up the next day ( I wonder the kind of juju my ex used to hold me for 2 years )
6 i have 10 sheeps, 15 goats, one dog, 8 chickens, 4 cats ( some are stray ), 4 ducks and countless guinea pigs ( the cats are not friendly to them at all )

I guess i have left the level of weirdos
I’m now in the level of freaks


One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

Babalegba:
Sadly a lot of Nigerian university students are just plain idiots.

Very true

damilarea2:
You have spoken my mind...
I still dont understand how it could have happened.. So he waited for the guy to get matches/light after he has poured petrol on him? Was he tied down and cant japa or defend himself..


He need proper care cos have seen a situation where someone with a burn injury died a year later due to the burns

He probably doubted the guy.
I wish him quick recovery though
Next time when he hears PET he will run before he hears ROL

Hehehe
Robbers be terrorising our community lately
I’mma hide in a bush and pluck them down like paw paw


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Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

He who fights and run away, lives to fight another day
Was he tied down?
He poured fuel on you, you didn’t run
He brought out a match box, you didn’t run
He struck the match, you didn’t run
Who you wan impress

The accuser is a very heartless fellow but the victim is a very stupid fellow
He deserves a very hot slap across the face

Had it being he died, within 2weeks (max), they would have swept his case under the carpet

Mumu student
If you no dey pity yourself, pity your parents

Thonia69:
I like your abs.

Awwwn
Thanks

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I don’t know about ph
But here in the west, you can start selling cassava, agbado and corn


One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

BeatriceM1:
I have this problem...Like I'm attracted to military guys, Naval and Air force guys especially even when Nigeria is not safe. My siblings will be like 'are you not scared he can die anytime?' and I'll be like anybody can die anytime and it's not like they all die,like hell people serve their complete years and retire at the end of the day and his(whoever he is or whoever that will be) won't be different � I heard they love a lot and I need to be loved like that���

Sofa it is navy and airforce you are attracted to, you have no problem, they are the lazy part of the military, especially the navy
If you talk about army now, I’ll advise you not to date any. As they are the ones that face the insurgence head on ( they are the real heroes )



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Two teams and one substitute


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I remember dragging rubber ball with our neighbour’s child. I was only 2
My mum confirmed it when i asked her


One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot


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Think4Myself:
Whallai, shut the Bleep up, or kick your god dam self with your stupid rain boot

Watin dey happen here nau
You just escaped abi

Israeldan1:
Is that ur name too
Israel Daniel?

Yes

tayo60:
That's cool,abi, ibile lawon eleyi

Ibile confirm
Eran shiken is everywhere

Israeldan1:
Israeldan

Israel Daniel happens to be my two names too
I’ve never seen anyone with that combo

Abi you own dan is danjuma?

There is difference between chubby and obese
The ladies you post are obese not chubby

My love for chubby girls is 1000%

It’s not cool body shame people


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tayo60:
Fine, happy holiday

Abi oh
How are you spending yours
As for me, I have been forcing food down my throat since morning.
Black amala and abula is bae

Datboredberri:
Your kids aren't obligated to serve you... You aren't their responsibility... If they do, it's fine... If they don't, it's also fine...

Your kids might hate you... Might fall sick and pass away before you do... Might just be selfish...

It seems foolish to invest so much in other people... Humans aren't reliable...

So your reason for having children is so they clean your poop and feed you?

Not for companionship?

Explaining this may be really hard for you to understand, so I won’t

My lil advice
Screenshot my first comment, make a frame of it and hang it somewhere
When you hit 70, you’ll understand