After reading your previous post, I discovered that you deserved to be in the mess. However, God still love you because this diseases is curable. I believe it will appeal to your sense of reasoning may be u can amend your way. I wish you quick recovery.

The current Ooni of Ife is a disgrace to the Traditional sit of Ife.

Tntsi:
Tinubu will not sit on the seat of president.
He is heading to a disastrous fall.

This year 2023, Peter obi and Datti ahmed will kick start the new Nigeria

Idiot

Chai.....bad ass

placeofallure:
The first time I saw an adult male cry....He was begging me not to leave, and the crying was much, the type that tears and mucus will mix together and your face will look like a bad concoction.

He left and we didn't see again for close to a year, then he returned when he bought his first car. He wanted us to continue. Of course we went to a club to celebrate but I told him no getting back cause it's not about money for me. I have another relationship.

Thinking back now I must have been very wicked cause all the time the crying was going on, I felt nothing, not pity, just bland. Oh my gosh! I broke hearts those days. I'm a shaild of God now.

olamilarks:
Anytime I hear this "let's get into farming" slogan used by our political elites, I just burst 😂. Only commercial farming can save the day at this point, not the subsistence farming of old, no child will follow you to do slave labour anymore, we're in the age of the brain over brawn!

You are on point bro. Even our Political and Business elites are into Agriculture. Mind you, no one is talking about Old system of farming here. Technology has changed the phase of Agricultural practices. All you need to do is to develop passion for it and work toward actualizing your goals. Agriculture is the panacea to sufficient food in our Nation.

From 1700 in Delta state ( south- south) to 600 in Makurday ( North centre). One lesson to learn is taking Agriculture practices as one of our daily activities. Food is cheaper in the North compared to the South. Let us go into farming.

b0rn2fuck:
They have finish their presidential mumu rigging , nothing impress me about Nigeria anymore. The South East people are right, Yoruba are the real problem. I'm sad being a Yoruba man.

You can kill yourself and reincarnate to ibo

Am sure you will remember this thread in the next few years if you eventually marry her. In the first instance, she is just a girlfriend and with that she doesn't have the right to control you or make attempt to detach you from your family. She is already demonstrating what she will eventually become by the time she become a legal wife. I think you need to man up so that she won't succeed in manipulating you.

manchester4lyf:
I really do hope u read dis
1st ,I wish we could hear ur husband's part of the story so we could be sure u are 100% telling us the truth cos no one tells a story that nails him/her in a situation like dis . But den ,if all dis are true ,I still felt u need to fight more for the marriage ,ur story shows u both have gone through so many challenges ups and downs together 4rm him schooling inside d relationship to starting a business that is now well productive,it shows u guys have been through a lot together ,u need try visit the love of the past and do not let d present situation overwrite the past
2ndly , U ppl really need to see a marriage councillor ,or ur spiritual leader or anyone u think ur husband respects and obey so much and tender dis to him/her ,. Dey can sit both of u down and it could solve so many things .
3rdly ,. U said he is home of late but someone is pregnant for her already ,. My sister ,that story of the pregnancy might be uses to make him come back to his senses if well managed ,. I really feel u might have some little ego or pride cos u are a boss lady already which u don't know ,pls take cognisance of that

I wish to say many more ,but the fear of u not reading it and making it just end up being an effort in futility will make me stop here ,. If u really want me to continue cos I really have more to say ,just quote me

You are dayong the truth...pleaase continue, shei will rwas it.

Jovialjune1:



Pained full, the senseless advices of men plunged this country to where it is today, bunch of daft corrupt fools, the stupid logic you all deceive yourselves of having destroyed everything in this country, e say na allow ode, women will rule you all very soon dolt, you can't stop the inevitable, oaf.

Chai... everyone in Nigeria is angry. Pleaase calm down.

Alusiizizi:


Why don't you go jump off a bridge you stvpid bitch!

Why this

Life2020:
Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.

The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.

The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.

Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.

Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.

I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.

Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.

Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids

Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy
little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.

I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos
honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.

You need to calm down. Many people May advice you kick your husband out of the house but i tell you, you will regret it in the long run. There is no perfect marriage. Am not supporting this man, of cause, he has not fine well for his family but i tell you, there are underlying issues that need to be looked into later.

I will advice you don't just jump into conclusion on this case. A woman under the roof of a legal man is worth tenth of the rich woman Who jump fom one man to another. If you do, the damage done to your family and the Children in particular will be beyond repair. If anyone tell you that you should let go because he impregnated a side chik, tell him, a side chick cannot become a legal wife. Only you can turn the situation to her favour.

Don't make the mistake of raising your beautiful girls alone because no matter how you try, fatherly attention will still be lacking.

Involve Elders in the family, draw a line between your family and any side chick. Go on the holiday, Engage your husband on a serious heart to heart talk. Visit the foundation of your marriage, don't depend on your strenght, pray and commit it to God and God will direct you......pleaase don't throw him out.

Am sure Ndume will be regretting this statement by now. Ndume will be like how does this Bleep came out of my mouth..

Peppysco:


Hmmm, you will so cry and never find anyone to console you when the time is right. This one you're doing right now is just to 'test to the microphone '. You think the Yorubas are daft to fall for your gimmicks, blackmails and manipulations? Make una nor worry, everybody eye go soon clear after the election, make una nor sha begin dey shout 'Biafra' sha

Even if they shout their "dot in a circle name" they will only end up killing themselves

zrealjaheal:



I totally understand your plight

I rather die fighting than leave this earth as an idle soul. Atleast when I leave they'd know i tried

I love this bro. Tough time never last but tough people do.

I was in your shoe before. I can say for the past 11years, I have been up and down but I keep fighting. My brother, am a living testimony of grace to grass and now grass to grace. Never lose hope. The number of failed trials does not matter but your success story is the ultimate. You don't have good testimony until you win.

zrealjaheal:


No be lie

No condition is permanent but for how long. Ever heard the phrase "hope is killing me"

this grass to grace thing kinda make one a reproach

anyways I wanna hear about people's story on how they got back on their feet

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for me it feels like every right thing I am doing now feels wrong

Keep fighting and never give up. There is no permanent Condition in this world.

Someone like to print his admission letter from his portal after clearance but the portal has changed. He only printed from his portal for clearance and so he did not download it.

How can he do it. Any help plsss?

Or anyone with contact in ICT dept of PG school.

I have a kwese engine unused. Please can someone tell me how I can make use of it.

Give me the one million naira and I will be given you 80k every month for two years.

UjuJoan2:


The way you describe her as cold-hearted and disrespectful is shocking. She acts like she truly hates you and that is very deep. But if she were that way when you met her, would you have married her? Except you want us to believe that your wife has gone completely mad, because there is no smoke without fire.

Also, raising young children abroad alone can be very very depressing. Unfortunately, some women also take out that depression on the kids and that’s the sad part, and your wife sounds like she is going through severe depression. No one in their right mind will keep to themselves for 9weeks. That’s a big sign to let you know that something is wrong.

When people act irrationally it’s easy to assume they are evil, when in reality they may be very sick and need mental and emotional support.

You may work hard too, but being responsible for young children all on your own, and working as well is very very difficult. I know because I’ve experienced it. And yes it can lead to depression and a lot of resentment for the spouse.

Your wife is very sad and resentful. She is a very unhappy person and I bet my 10 cents she wasn’t born that way. Being married to you made her into that person.

We all talk about love but the truth is that we know nothing about it. True love is sticking through it, and being there for someone when they are at their worst.

It’s okay if you want to leave her. It’s your life, your decision. But she’ll get better someday, and remember how you let her down in time of need.

seems you are not getting the plight of this man. The attitude of his wife is not a out raising the kids alone. She has been like this for the past eight years in the marriage. It's just her attitude and disposition to life.

Which FTA channel can I get epl game in the weekend. 90cm dish .

Do not conclude yet even when she is cheating. You have no evidence to prove this. You need to be the man by holding your emotion as you run underground check up on her. She is your wife, you have the moral responsibility to demand reasons for her recent action. If she cannot give you more meaningful reason apart from the one she gave you before, I will advice that you pretend as if you are cool with her.

Hire a private investigator to monitor her movement.

Enter a code on her phone that will forward her call to yours whenever her phone is not available. This will help you to know here caller.

Finally, do not lose guard as the man in charge of your home. Ire o.

UjuJoan2:


..... I think the man has some owing up to do in this matter.

yea...they both have their flaws however, she has crossed the Rubicon and both will ber the consequences.

UjuJoan2:


For all I care his wife can sleep with all the men in the neighborhood, he deserves it.

I wonder why you are justifying her wrong action with sentiment. Am sure If you eventually find yourself in her condition, you will do worst.

UjuJoan2:


Maybe she came back to you because she wanted a father for her child. But I hope she has seen now what a big mistake that was?

This is your version isn’t it? Unfortunately your wife is not here to give her own side.

Anyway I still blame her. She should have known that men are unreliable after her experience with you.

I hope you know the real victim here is the little girl, no matter how much you cry you are responsible for what happened to you. It’s the little child who didn’t ask for any of this.

Must you give comment when you don't have critical argument to present. If men are irresponsible as you proclaim, am sure you will not be here to say this. The honest truth in life is that any human being can display some degree of irresponsibility at a particular stage in life and that does not mean he/she is grossly irresponsible.

I thank God because am going to be part of a better Nigeria.

Intellectuall01:


Ask me here

August 8th, 1983. A man

Johnnyjohnnyman:


True my younger brother has also said the same thing he ask me to come over to his house and stay until the meeting. I will go and stay with him until next week Sunday.

This is a real test of your strenght as a man. Be strong as you take serious decision that will define the fate of your family. However, I read through the story very well and I ponder on it. Truly you made some mistake in this journey but this is not the time to talk about that. Meanwhile you need to think about the remaining three Children. They looked like their mother doesn't mean they are not bastard. I wish this issue should be discussed in the family meeting on Sunday.

Intellectuall01:


The lady is very temperamental and bossy oh. I knew you were married to a bossy lady from all you wrote. She can do anything when she is angry oh. And being that she is very young, her brain is not mature enouh to understand things. She keeps malice like her life depends on it. She can give you the cold treatment and deprive you of sex when she is angry. She keeps malice too much.

Abeg divorce her. She always dey do like who nor dey cheat and she is very vengeful. She like revenge die. Na revenge when she won revenge you nai she carry belle so.

She doesn't forgive easily. Cut her off oh.

I love this. Can you do same for a friend?

I like to congratulate you on this revelation. It is heart broken to father a child that does not belong to you. However, if you still love your wife and accept her past mistake, you can tell her to return the baby while you fix things in your marriage ( I doubt this anyway).

sammirano:
Which kind wife be this one bayi

She talks like a baby mama. She is not a wife.