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Icecomrade:
Abi. I learn to mind my own busines and let people live their lives
Wondering why other people cant

yes! Its their lifes their business! Their body , their pu'ssy!

Icecomrade:
@ops
Whats your own nah.!.
Its her body. Its her life not yours. Am sure u ve done worse things. Whats the difference? You choose to hide your attrocities
Still wondering when hypocrites will learn to mind their Business.

Absolutely! There is nothing wrong with 2 guys forking 2 girls a lot of people have done it, i have, atleast she is honest unlike some hypocrites/ sanctimonious so called christians

Their lifes,their business! Why are you guys castigating them? I can bet my ass some of you have done worst

Nothing wrong with what they have done

Yea! Sounds like, give them bread and circus! And that will divert their attention from the real problem or make them forget their problems!

daretodiffer:


If that is what they want, na their lives o

What have you done with your own life so far?

i hope you came to this topic with one of your 12 cans of your pepper spray , just in case any wee person winds you up or is it you who is winding people up?

I think perhaps men believe these women will be high manetainance thus why not approaching them for marriage

Oghenekohwo1402:
Excuse me!!!?!! Done an immoral thing today!?? I don't want to argue with you ok! I'm a married woman and I attend mountain of fire church. We don't take alcohol period

why the anger? I was just making my opinion, so you think its only unmarried women who engage in immorality

Mountain of fire? Yea right! Keep telling yourselve that, is it one of those fake churches? Any way believe what you like. Happy christmas!

Oghenekohwo1402:
I know that but in this contest, drinking alcohol is not that good especially being a Christian. In other words morally speaking it's a bad habit and I advise people that drink alcohol to stop

you seem to be ignoring every other immorallity and concentrating on only alcohol.

You so called christians always pick and choose what is justifiable and what is not. Just to perhaps make your selves feel righteous than others. Always taking the moral high ground, nothing wrong with drinking alcohol as long as you know your limit.

I suggest you try a small glass of champaign you are gonna like it, trust me it doesn't make you a sinner or a bad person i can bet my ass you have done/did some thing immoral today.

ebeneade:
Believing in Jesus who died for ur sins makes u righteous, it is not bout what u do or what u don't do but it is all about what Jesus did on the cross, a believer is 100% righteous, it all depends on the percentage of ur consciousness of this fact

in other words just believe, do not worry about your behaviour right? Go out and commit murder! As long as you belive in jesus, you are okay! Just wondering o!

If you people believe that hell exists, abeg tell me what is it like in hell? Who has ever been there to know or testify to what hell looks like? Or were it is? I mean, which part of the world? Africa, india, europe or America? Or is hell another way of brainwashing and dumbing people down via religion? If the bible says we were all born in sin, why do some so called christians believe they are righteous and will go to heaven? Were is heaven located? Has any one ever been to heaven? Or is another way of so called pastors/preachers confusing people? Are these pastors even sure they will go to heaven? What is the different between a pastor and an ordinary man? Why do people believe pastors when they claim they pastors without prove? should pastoring be a proffesion? Can a pastor not have a job and be a pastor at the same time? Is pastoring suppossed to be about making money? Is pastoring not about saving souls? If pastors claim they ve being ordained by God should they be able prove that? Hence no one was there to witness it.
Just asking o!, Because i am confused on what to believe.

Oghenekohwo1402:
really?? Morally speaking taking alcohol is bad!!

is that the only thing that is bad morally you know people do or haven't done? Some folks do not drink alcohol but they may be more dangerous/bad than folks who do. You don't think?

Rephrase; There are people who do more immoral things even though they don't drink or have never drank.

So these inadequate looking people is what folks call stars , then again what do i know?

daretodiffer:
Wow!

I have been planning on taking self-defense classes. I get into trouble a lot

i don't think you would need a self defense, just empty a whole can of one of your 24 cans of pepper spray on any wee person who troubles you . I believe that should do

Oghenekohwo1402:
devil entered the police man. That's why I why I stay away from people that drink alcohol .I wander what his wife and family will do now??

stay away from people that drink alcohol? , look! I drank at least 12 bottles of champaign at my residence with my friends and families this festive season, and we did not got out shooting people okay? Some people can handle their drinks and knows their limits too just because you dont drink doesn't mean others shouldn't

Harnny:
Jeje was drunk and wanted to bring hemp to the premises.. The security ,drunk as well, refused to let him back in and his friend who is a naval officer...came to harass the mopol dragging his gun ( a drunk mopol)...the drunk mopol obviously feeling threatened and outnumbered shot them and kehinde came charging and he shot him too. You don't even argue with an officer with weapon letalone a drunk one

shi!t thi s sounds like a terrible combination of booze, hemp, pride, power struggle and weapons (guns) as a result, 4 lives has being lost.

daretodiffer:
Taser..... Check
Stun gun...check
Wasp spray....check
Pepper spray...check.

you must think they are in england? nigerian police has never set their eyes on those things you ve mentioned in infact even if presented to them they still would not recognise them

owummy:
Please has the Nigerian police change uniform?

i wonder o! Because that uniform looks green to me

ebira12345:
I have discovered that police all over d world are enemy of d world, wat we are experience in Nigeria nw, America face It too, may God help us.

i can assure you that police are not all the same, because this things do not happen here in england, police here in england do not even carry guns, talk more of shooting some one

The police here don't drink while at work either and whats a police man attached to an individual hotels for? That should not be part of their job, he should have been at the station were his job is not a the hotel.

One time i was in nigeria i could not believe the number of police personnel i saw doing private jobs (with guns) that are not part of their police job, they even offered to escort me in my car for £100 but i refused

theshield:
Apology anyways, you are right but why must they keep flaunting anything they acquire on social media?

thats because in nigeria if you have a range l or any car you are seen to be rich, even though some of us own properties/houses worth millions but we do not own a car

theshield:
Apology anyways, you are right but why must they keep flaunting anything they acquire on social media?

thats because in nigeria if you have a range rover or any car you are seen to be rich, even though some of us own properties/houses worth millions but we do not own a car

Besides this range you can buy higher purchase, its no big deal

I ve always said it that so caĺled african musicians/rappers are mentally ill, infact all africans have mental illness waiting to manifest.

misspicy:
lmao

was the spam bot

about selfie,sorry you go old there
merry Xmas and long time
guess you have been busy

thanks! old ke? I just began, not too long ago i was born, no wahala! I still dey wait (as long as it takes) i ve gat time

Not really that busy its holiday time!

misspicy:
yeah I was

happy christmas! , why dem ban you na? abi na because say you dey feisty with nairalanders? anyway were is your own selfie? * rubbing hands together and waiting in anticipation* oya me wan see your fine face

Some so called christians wants to kill her just because of her opinion, though they claim they are christians and are defending God were is the love then? I thought christianity teaches love one another regardless, I am sure that God in all his might can defend himselve .
Most people claim to be christians but still hate, insult and wants their fellow human created by God dead because of their opinion..it boggles the mind.

Religion very complexed and humans are allowed to believe what they like, if folks who worship idols are accepted why can't folks who do not belive in God be accepted?

missKiffy:
I feel he should leave with the child, if he leaves without her, she mite injure or kill her to get back at him

he is not even sure the child is his (i suspect the pastor) either way he should still vanish with the child, child is not safe with the woman

I ve noticed that most females commenting on this issue are not supporting what the OPs wife has done unanimously Agree that the OP should quit the marriage,which tells me that there are still a lot of Good women out there

But wait o! We have not heard from the core feminists, i wonder what they would say

queenfav:
Give this man one chilled orijin,a full roasted chicken to go with it and crown him king of his community.You have said it all bro!

Absolutely! That man should take over from buhari, i believe he can do a better job running the country .

holahmihdeh:
Am I reading a nollywood script or it happened for real? I don't believe an average Nigerian man will tolerate all these for four good years. To hell with xtian terms in marriage. Even Jesus permits divorce where infidelity is involved. Wisen up and take necessary actions before it is too late. Forget about pastors or churches. This is ur life at stake!

Good! Advice, especially coming from a female, so this means, i guess, you don't believe all the gibberish coming out of some pastors/church mouth? Unlike most females who believe their pastor is invincible, trusts pastors with their lives.

greatcrown:
I find it hard to believe you.

But then let's assume u are saying the truth.

These are my conclusions about your wife:

1. She has mental issues. Very close to full blown madness.
2. She an ex cultist
3. She is diabolic
4. She is an unbeliever even though she attends church or rather place of worship.
5. She is stubborn.
6. She is an adulterer
7. She is an opportunist
8. She is dangerously smart and can go any length including murder to achieve her aim.
9.She was not properly brought up even though her parents were pastor.
10. She is not trustworthy. Not fit to raise any child for you.
11. She is a devil in human flesh
12. She is worse than everything I have said.

About your daughter:
1. There is a strong tendency that she is not your daughter. You may need to check to be sure.

About the pastor of the church where you wedded:
1. He is manipulative.
2. He is inexperienced in marital issues
3. He lacks the right qualities to provide spiritual guidance.
4. He is guilty of your wife crimes by association.
5. He is biased and will continue to support your wife for God's known reason.
6. There is something devilishly secretive that connects him and your wife.

About the parents of your wife:
1. They know the truth of their daughter but will never support you publicly.
2. They are praying and hoping that their daughter will change for the better.
3.They feel sorry for you in their closet but can't admit publicly.
4. They are equally baffled and surprised that you are still in this marriage.
5. They are surprised that your parents are so soft in their handling of this issue.
6. Like most parents will always stand by their child pubickly

About your parents:
1. They are soft.
2. Their sense of judgement has been altered by indoctrination rather than by the truth of God's word.
3. They are praying and hopeful that things will get better.
4. They are worse than your wife parents by still supporting u to remain in that house.
5. They are confused and don't really know what to do about this issue.
6. They are expecting God to do something whereas God is expecting them to do the needful.

About you:
1. U are stupid!
2. U are foolish!!
3. U do not value your life.
5. U have what it takes to manage banking operations but alas you cannot manage your home.
5. I don't know your age but you are not ready for marriage.
6. U know how to employ experieced mechanic, plumber, etc to work for u, but unfortunately u don't know how to get experienced pastor to handle your marital issue. Listen not all pastor are qualified to handle most issues they claimed expertise on.
7. You are fearful.
8. You are closer to the grave than u knew.
9. You are senseless. I think u need to buy some sense.
10. For close to four years you have being have being contemplating divorce and yet you still do not know whether it is right or not (Please read Kenneth Hagins book on marriage, divorce and..)
11. You were born into Christian home but u do not take time to study the bible rather u were feeding on the crumbs from here and there.
12. How can a grown up man expect all family members to collaborate with him before sending out a killer out of your house.

If after all this, u still ask what should I do: I will say it is better u commit murder now than allowing your wife to murder u the very next second.

Gbam! the best comment i ve ever read on this whole nairaland, it sounds harsh but it is the TRUTH and truth always hurts, i am %10000 sure that daughter is not his (i am suspecting the pastor) perhaps thats what the pastor is trying to cover up by supporting the woman, i am so glad i cam across this your comment, i ve picked up some rellevant ideas from this comment. Lastly, man, do consider psychology/counseling as a job i believe you will make a good one.

My camera no get phone o! SO i no fit opload my ugly selfie

henryhemon:
What's special about the shirt ?

tell me when you find out i wanna know too, it looks awful

femi4:
UK used shey

omo see yabbing