Foreign Affairs › Re: Biden Vows To Respect Guilty Verdict In Son's Gun Trial by Otogah: 7:55am On Jun 12, 2024 |
englishmart: We all know the law will surely be twisted to accommodate his son, just as it was twisted to convict Trump. The USA is by miles more corrupt than Nigeria. in this platform it is easy to spot Tinubu supporters. Easy to spot those that showcase evil as ange. This case cannot even stand in Nigeria. Even if it does, the judge will simple bribed. |
Family › Re: Married Woman Justify Her Secret Affair After DNA Reveals Real Father of Kids by Otogah: 12:03pm On Nov 26, 2023 |
poshestmina: Why not leave the marriage and gather as much bastards as you want.
Shameless woman! . Thanks God you are a woman but you condemned this evil act. |
Romance › Re: Video Of Single Ladies In Wedding Gowns Praying For A Life Partner (pics/video) by Otogah: 7:04am On Oct 15, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Ghanaian Man Accosts A Nigerian Lady For Dressing "Indecently" (pic/vid) by Otogah: 4:20pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Stupid country
Stupid English accent
Ghana is the most useless country in Africa. I wonder why sane Nigerian would go stay in Ghana . . Am not surprised of your comment. I know ashiawo will always support ashiawo, or a person who normally dress like a prostitute will also support her fellow prostitute dresser. |
Celebrities › Re: “You Are Lucky You Will See Burna Boy & Rema”, Daughter Tells Bill Gates (Video) by Otogah: 4:54pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
mariahAngel: Enticing words. When they want to penetrate Africa, they use enticing words to make Africans feel good and relevant.
I won't even be surprised to know that he and his daughter never discussed about Burna and Rema. Exactly. That was what they adopted before they colonies Africa. They came like a lamp and turned like lion when they got what they wanted. |
Properties › Save Money Now! by Otogah(op): 6:13pm On May 25, 2023 |
Stop wasting your money just because you refused or you ignored quality surveyor in your project (house). You can save from 20% to 50% money by employing quality surveyor. Call 09154622279. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Otogah: 6:04pm On May 25, 2023 |
PepeXKermit: Hello. You just sent me an email. I will not be able to see it. Whatsup? stop wasting your money just because you refused or you ignore quality surveyor in your project. You can save from 20% to 50% money by employing quality surveyor. Call 09154622279. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Otogah: 6:03pm On May 25, 2023 |
mufutau55: Off-Topic Thread - To Discuss Anything and Everything that doesn't fit into an individual thread. Let's discuss everything pertaining to Building Constructions, Real estate and some more.
Note: Please no products or services advertisements... there are plenty of other threads for that already. No buying and selling on this thread. stop wasting your money just because you refused or you ignore quality surveyor in your project. You can save from 20% to 50% money by employing quality surveyor. Call 09154622279.
Hajji M. |
Family › Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Otogah: 10:09pm On May 15, 2023 |
Ireportlive: Na why their kids are wayward wayward but controlling us |
Crime › Re: UK Father & Son Jailed For Killing Wife's Lover Who Was Hiding Inside Wardrobe by Otogah: 8:55pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
saphiere: Men are evil by nature. you have not condemned a married woman that brought his lover into her matrimonial room. If not Ashiawo life she had, all these will not have happen. |
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Politics › Re: Picture Of Obi Interacting With Students At The Airport by Otogah: 9:18pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
SmartPolician: Since we missed Yemi Osinbajo, we cannot afford to miss Peter Obi!
Nigeria deserves an intelligent president who will work and educate the citizens!
Someone we all can be proud of, not some push-and-quench skit maker 😡😡 am telling you. I miss Obinbajo more than you do |
Properties › Re: Kindly Help Me Critique This four Bedroom Bungalow Plan by Otogah: 8:13pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
iduzebaba: Pls leaders and professional here , kindly help me criticise this 4 bedroom bungalow house plan that I intend to work on.
I will appreciate all the criticism. The pourch (sit-out), visitors toilet and foyer (anti room) are too complicated. nicebuilder. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Reduce Your Expenditure By Using Quantity Surveyor by Otogah(op): 3:20am On Feb 12, 2023 |
By using Quantity Surveyor you have saved more money. Call me on 09154622279 |
Family › Re: Every Woman Needs A Husband Like This (photo) by Otogah: 4:16pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
siofra: God! I love this man so much for this. He's one of the last brave ones we still have in this world.
He knows what true love is and I respect that.
Such a supportive man. God bless you, sir.
Modified;
It seems my post is annoying some people, well, they can die for all I care.
I see topics all the time on front page telling a woman not to leave her husband just because he cheated on her.
But here I am praising a man for being brave enough not to divorce his wife for cheating and they are coming for me like I'm the devil?
Fūck all of you insulting me, what's good for the goose, is good for the gander.  no one is annoyed about your post. Because in this life "ashiawo" will always support and love what others ashiawo does. |
Crime › Re: Kenyan Gayright Activist Chiloba Killed, Body Stuffed In Metallic Box (Graphic) by Otogah: 8:15pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
Johnthejohn: That serves him right. I hate Gays and Lesbians with passion You are not alone |
Romance › Re: Kenyan Blogger Blasts Nigerian Men After One Filmed A Kenyan Girl Dancing Unclad by Otogah: 10:20pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
[quote][/quote]I pity the person that paid school fee for you |
Family › Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by Otogah: 2:32am On Dec 18, 2022 |
[quote author=piecuntie post=119229215]HI NAIRALANDERS ; I am about to seperate from husband who sponsored me in school because I am fed up.
I came from a very poor family. I met my husband when I was 19. He wasn't doing well either, he told me he was an engineer in a public hospital but as time went on I got to know he was a level 3 plumber in the civil service. These are what I noticed about you. 1) you listen to stories outside too much that can influence you. 2) Men outside are telling you what you want to hear 3) you respected him when he was talking care of you in school but see yourself more better than him now 4) you pay for your children school fee is not a help to your husband, is a support. Even if you get married to an angel, if you don't respect him, you will still come back to this platform for a complain. |
Business › Re: CBN Drops ATM Withdrawal Limit To N20k/Day by Otogah: 8:21pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
Akinsete19: Na to keep money for house, sure pass How you wan keep moni 4 house when they wan do away this moni |
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Politics › Re: Pictures From APC Gubernatorial Election Campaign Flag-Off In Lagos by Otogah: 8:28am On Dec 04, 2022 |
PureMe01: How scanty 
Thiefnubuu's loss will start from Lagos landlord wasted 20% to 30% of their money to Engineer, tilers carpenters and others workers because they refused to call attention of quality surveyor. Call me for your quotations on your building projects 09154622279 |
Sports › Re: Sam Adekugbe's Mother Overjoyed At Her Son's World Cup Debut For Canada by Otogah: 7:38am On Nov 26, 2022 |
Divija: Every mother wants to see their children succeed.. May we all make our parent happy and proud not every mother or father my dear. Some parents are like a hell to their children. What we will say is every "good parents want the best for their children" |
Sports › Re: Qatar 2022: Groups, Fixtures, Stadiums, Squads, Tickets And More by Otogah: 5:52pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Cibel59: Ghana to leave after Group stage. This I have seen  "bad bele" |
Family › Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Otogah: 8:48pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Life2020: Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.
The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.
The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.
Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.
Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.
I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.
Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.
Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids
Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.
I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce. your problem is you like listening to "amibor" and you have bad friends. Good friends will never want you to hear something that will make you feel bad or hurt you. |
Family › Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Otogah: 8:38pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Life2020: Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.
The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.
The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.
Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.
Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.
I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.
Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.
Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids
Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.
I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce. so we should be clapping for you that, you drive your husband out. Good, you are a hero, you kill lion go and get married to an angel. See some women are confused. Nobody is perfect. If men are telling you sweet words, or praising you, you people shoulder will be going up. They are just coming to eat your money and use you. |
Crime › Re: Abimbola Adelakun: It’ll Be Foolish Of Tinubu To Attend Presidential Debates by Otogah: 9:42pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Domipraiz: Facts
What baffles me is how some of my Yoruba people are packaging Tinubu. Before this time many of us from south/west condemned him because of his criminal, corruption and God fatherism ways in Lagos. I live in Lagos for good 2 decades, most of the real infrastructures began with Fashola, Ambode and down to Sawon-Olu. This man called Tinubu has milked Lagos than u can imaging. That's remind me of the those days of Senator Olushola Saraki (Bukola's father) in KWARA State.
But PMB nepotism makes every region in Nigeria now supporting their own. But to move this country forward we have to choice competence and loyalty. Someone that can delivered, someone with straight record, some who is healthy and fibrant.
That's why we all need to vote that one man, man of the people, man that is willing to transform the nation and not that one that thinks is his turn (emilokan).
Vote wisely Vote for better tomorrow Vote for competence Vote for PETER OBI
You are a good man. True is better but, preaching the truth all the time is good. |
Crime › Re: 64-Year-Old Nigerian Woman Stabbed To Death By Her Son In London by Otogah: 2:14pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Rishi Sunak To Become UK PM Tomorrow, After Meeting With King Charles by Otogah: 8:18pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Kizyte: What's going on? Why everybody dey fear to become the U.K Prime Minister? that is what we call pure democracy  . In that type of democracy you must work for the people and account for them. If you can't work for them, you will be forced to go. Not African democracy where they put their failure on previous government or opposition. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu: I Will Withdraw Police Escorts From VIPs by Otogah: 6:24pm On Oct 21, 2022 |
NuclearReactor: Whether u like tinubu or not, u have to agree that this is a good idea!! is not good idea if it's just empty promise as he normally do. If at least 40% of all the promises he made in 2015 campaign were to be achieved Nigeria will be more develop than USA by now. |
Romance › Re: I Almost Murdered My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me. But GOD Stopped Me. by Otogah: 6:37pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Edopesin: you almost killed her because of 21k? Are you mentally stable like this?
One of the most important attributes for being an adult is the ability to control one's emotions and not be thoughtlessly impulsive I think it's not even the money. Is about betrayal. |
Crime › Re: Anyone Who Commits Abortion In Nigeria Is Liable To Imprisonment — Police by Otogah: 12:19pm On Jun 22, 2022 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Friend Paid N400k To Secure A Job That Pays N50k Monthly by Otogah: 6:32pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
Look! this sounds stupid but I think the Man knows what he is doing. Candidate of APC will be spending 100 million to just buy ticket and also spent more for campaign but their normal salary for a term may not be up to that. But they fighting to go |