₦airaland Forum

Mc4larin:
That is to tell you she's not like some people who will give their bags to their security

ikwubaba:
So true. Just that Naija girls still go to school, not learning anything. Majority just do runs and sort out their academics and buy expensive things not commensurate with their background. At the end of the day, they are still half baked and cannot fit in. They become leper seeking help. And to take this help in strides is still difficult. All manners of pride still accompany them in strides. Men are willing to take care of their babes, but they can only do that according to their various abilities and general preferences.

amokeme:
I have a little company alrdy, thanks for the advice may God bless us all

MrsChima:
Awwwwww. I see many pained Nigerian boys!

Never tell a broke nigga, he is broke! He knows he is broke and doesn't want to hear you tell him he is broke!

amokeme:
let me start with the bold, true I'm below 25 but may I remind you that it has nothing to do with age.. We have Nigerian ladies of above 25 and not depending on any man for nothing.
We also have girls of 16 alrdy depending on a bf or just any man for stuffs(in most cases iv seen, not that their parents are not financially capable. No, some girls just see it as a right which is totally wrong. And I don't blame guys who treat such girls like trash. I mean, what do you expect??) No man can look me in the face and say "I got this for you" never. And if you got a gift for me and you feel it gives you an edge to disrespect me, ill buy you double of what you got and that's it! I always say this life is simple we humans just tend to complicate it by all means.
I don't see anything wrong in my parent still providing for me before i can stand on my feets. I am their responsibility and not any man's responsibility. And when I get married I will be responsible for my own self and my parents and not depend on my husband. It's that simple!


And the second part, please can everybody stop generalising??! Not all and I repeat not all Nigerian women are men dependent! I can speak for myself and some of my friends too. Men are alrdy domineering by nature. I always tell ladies, giving them the opportunity to buy stuffs for you is like fueling their alrdy alrdy domineering spirit.

The OP went off with her number 1 point. She speaks for herself and not every Nigerian lady.

zeongeon:
What these girls fail to understand is that there is an awakening to the double standards, greed, selfishness and hypocrisy of most women...Men are beginning to realize that when women call a man a "true man" is when they love the man for what he is i.e rich guy, business guy, celebrity, successful etc.

Whether you date Nigerian men or not tonight and going forward till will still be many Nigeria women and non Nigerian women warming our beds and being baby mamas the write up doesn't change the fact that many babes will be laid tonight and going forward for just 500 naira and roasted fish, while some will be laid for like 5k, some 500thousand and some laid for 1million, a house, contracts, jobs, cars, shops etc.

The Irony is that the men you Nigerian women screw with, get preggo for and happily become baby mama for used to be jobless, some use to do some menial jobs, some had body odour and bad breathe but all off a sudden when he became successful most of the women will be happy to get screwed by him.

You say Nigerian men are polygamous but why is it that you women are happy being wife, girl friend or baby mama 3, 4 or 5 when the man becomes a success.

The men are just treating some women the way they deserve to be treated after all when he was jobless, struggling with his bad odour and breathe most women didn't see what he could become and now that he is successful they see him as the ideal man...why didn't they see him as an ideal man when he was still a raw material...The rough time some guyz go through coupled with the treatment of neglect and disdain girls give them cause they are still struggling make them wise enough when they make it that the women just like them for the success and so he would just treat them as Mistresses.

The girls should truthfully answer this questions and then may be you will give the guyz reasons they should date you probably wife you and not turn you into a screwing material.

- Can most Nigeria girls on this Nairaland and even beyond date and stay with a jobless dude, menial working or meagre salary dude?

- Can you girls date a jobless or broke dude and still remain faithful?

- Would you be happy being approached by a broke dude or jobless dude?

- The girls your bf or whoever cheats with are they not attracted to the success or money that attracted you to him?

- With the rate of baby mama and desperation of women I.e 3 women clinging on to a man just to answer mrs, booming porn industry, prostitution isnt it enough prove to show that men are the best things to happen to women?

amokeme:
no guy has ever bought me any of those things you mentioned

Fabulocity:
In other words, we're just fůck buddies. I can understand the financial support aspect, a woman should be independent and all that but what else is binding us in the Relationship?

pucelle:
Mr Eminentsaint,you just agreed with me that Nairaland may be or rather is anti-women,
The number of female respect inclined men is dwindling by the day,all from what young boys/men learn and assimilate from most media forum as this.

theGistsonline:
Who wants a woman who's always at the receiving
end of favours? Nigerian women always beg for favours!

Very true! You also forgot "hoeism" (even the richest biggest Nigerian girls expect money for sex) even after you've spent over N2million in the course of getting to know one of these whorez!! The op wrote a clear perception of herself & most Nigerian women! Ranked number 1 Most promiscuous among cheating married women in the universe! Lord, please forgive Nigerian women!

Fabulocity:
Disclaimer: This thread is not to insult anyone, it's just based in the few observations I've made and it doesn't also apply to every Nigerian guy. So take a moment to read before you release your venom(if this write up refers to you).

1) He is broke: The average Nigerian guy is Broke! Yes. It's either he has no job or he has a ridiculously low paying job. As a result of this, when their girlfriends make demands on them, they come on Nairaland to pour their anger and frustration over their inability to meet these demands. They tag them as hungry, money loving, gold digging sluts. And one way to know the jobless ones is that they spend a lot of time online on various social websites and it leaves one wondering when they actually work. The answer simply is, they have no jobs!

2) He is most probably a fůck boy : Most Nigerian dudes are fůck boys. You just meet a guy and you've barely talked for two days and he's already asking for nudes, like, Wth?? Or he's already trying to initiate a sex chat. That's how one of my friends got introduced to a guy online by a mutual friend. They had barely talked for a week and the goat was already asking her for X-rated Skype video Calls! Hian! You see them on social media, sending PMs,sliding into DMs, inboxing on Facebook to different girls hoping to get lucky with one of them. And from a lot of stories I've heard on NL, they want nothing but sex once they meet a hot girl. They strategise and plan all sorts of ways of luring a girl in to their homes on order to have their way with her. Guys, please stop this fůck boy behaviour of yours, don't try to get into a ladies panties without first trying to get into her heart.

3) He is polygamous in nature : "All Nigerian men Cheat! " This was implied proudly by one body builder who impregnated his ex girlfriend whilst still married to his celebrity wife. I can't count the number of times I've come across that statement both online and offline. I don't know if nigerian guys should be given a pat on the back for admitting their 'weakness' and saving lots of girls from heartache and high blood pressure from wondering if their boyfriends are faithful or not as they would already know there's another chick somewhere, or if they should be shot in the head for admitting such foolishness. And it amazes me that they always admit this with a tinge of pride. Well, it's up to you. It seems the spirit of our polygamous forefathers have not left the Nigerian men as they cannot cope with having just one woman in their life. Smh

4) Thinks he is God's gift to women : He thinks you're lucky to have him as there are several other girls that would kill to be in your place , therefore you should be grateful to God almighty for making you find such rare treasure like him . He thinks he is the black adonis fallen from heaven. He thinks you are highly fortunate to have someone like him and most of this time, they ain't worth shįt Girls, please find someone who would appreciate you, not someone that would depreciate your value

5) Poor Personal hygiene: Nigerian guys Stink! I don't know if they think it's manly to walk around looking unkempt and smelling nasty but please, that's an archaic way of thinking as we're in the 21st century. Nothing turns most ladies on more than a well groomed, nice smelling man. Most nigerian dudes have terrible body odour and bad breath. Please please and please deodorant or body spray is not that expensive. For those of you who actually take your bath, you should also think of deodorising as you tend to sweat a lot and bathing will not be enough to mask unwanted odours. You don't have to use expensive perfumes to smell good, no one is asking you to be a metrosexual, just practise simple hygiene and you're good to go. And please, it's not a crime to change your boxers and socks everyday instead of repeating them and creating horrific odours

6) Would most definitely cheat on you: Do I really need to talk about This? Number 3 has explained this.

7) Super inflated ego : All men tend to be egotistical, there's nothing wrong with that but when you have a super inflated ego, there's a problem. Yes, these group of men feel that we ladies should worship the ground they walk on and if that they leave us, that would be the end of our lives. They are very proud, arrogant and they tend to look down on ladies. They would never call you first, they believe you should be the one scrambling for their attention, you dare not argue or disagree with them If not your own had finished. In fact, it remains for you to start calling them 'sir'.

A big, fat liar: How do you know when a Nigerian guy is Lying? The answer is, when his lips are moving! Even the devil is flabbergasted at the way these men lie. They lie about everything and most especially when they are cheating on you. They can also deny for Africa, even when they are caught red handed. You see some very steamy and compromising text messages he sent to another girl and they swear to you it's their sister. Ndi okwu asi

9) Take you for granted: They tend to take their women for granted. They feel the average nigerian woman is a desperate gold digger looking for a man to ensnare into marriage. They don't know that you should be loved, respected, appreciated, treated like a queen that you are.. Instead, they disrespect, violate, abuse and demean their women. It's a pity indeed.

10) Very immature : Finally, they could be so immature! I always shake my head in disgust when I see grown ass men behaving like babies. What would make a grown ass man who has gone through formal education and the four walls of a university do immature things like releasing the nudes of an ex (again, fůck boy syndrome), beat up a woman, ask his babe to return everything he got her while they were dating after they break up. Like Seriously?? Just because they might have a penis and they grow beards doesn't mean they are mature individuals. They are just kids in adult clothing.

In conclusion, I did not do this to offend anyone oh, just for you guys to get a taste of your own medicine when you open your numerous female bashing threads and rain all sorts of profanities on nigerian girls. no one is perfect, even we ladies have our own imperfections.
Note: feel free to insult the Op, get offended, spew profanities,have hypertension because of this post. You're all welcome

The truth about life:

Number 1 #FACT. Broke ladies with good heart, respect and humility always meet great men


Number 2 #FACT. Broke ladies with pride, arrogance and disrespect usually end up meeting broke playboys who borrow expensive cars, wears to disguise as rich guys


Number 3 #FACT. Rich or financially average ladies with pride, arrogance, lack of respect and high taste usually end up meeting young handsome gigolos with empty pocket, who package themselves as rich guys...


Number 4 #FACT. Rich, financially independent and classy ladies who are humble, respectful and calm usually meet very deserving young men that end up treating them like rare gem.

If at all the poster is a female, she must fall into Number 2 or 3 class of ladies above.

dyn1800:
Aim achieved to get attention and as well haul insult on anyone that try to say anything contrary..... My dear your caption ought to read some Lagos guys

Jadekitana:
O boy keep shut and stop disgracing yourself here! Where did u see I borrowed a guy money, do u think i'm foolish? Go and read the thread properly and use glasses if u can't see well. I never mentioned lending any guy any money, I only stated the questions I'm being asked everytime, do u understand now? Btw advertise where? Here? You must be kidding me! If u opportuned to join my league of friends u would change this your myopic mentality! See him pained about where we hang out. Egbon if u can't afford those places you can enrol in the university of gold diggers, you may just be lucky! Otondo

Jadekitana:
And you think you just made sense here? Smh this young man needs to get laid by a stripper to reset his senses. I wonder when hanging out in exotic locations became a crime abi na fela shrine we go hangout? Gerara here men

ourchoice:
with all due respect ma, all you wrote up there are concocted lies....tales by moonlight! Mills and Boom story!

You probably had one silly experience and then over blew it; usual with women- when they see a goat, it becomes a big roaring lion!

And if at all what u wrote is true, then u and your female friends/colleagues have very repulsive attitude, with too much ego and pomposity that end up attracting only gigolos....those jobless boys forming Jim Iyke and doing jerry coil.

The most hardworking, marriageable and reliable guys in Nigeria are found in Lagos....they love to be financially capable on their own before going after any girl.

True Lagos guys hate to ask a girl for favour talk more of depending on a girl financially, ah ah....which Lagos guy does that? where in Lagos do u meet these useless gigolos u have been dating, huh

I am sure, u are too pompous and probably one those Kim Kardashian wannabe ladies that daydream about dating Drake look-alike and only give attention to those jobless gigolos forming 'Mr handsome', and your kind of ladies hang out at The Place Lekki, Elegusi beach, etc....look into your life critically, u will find out y u get these kind of useless gigolos as toasters!

Jadekitana:
I'm quite disappointed seeing the way guys in lagos behave these days! This thread is based on stories i'v heard from friends and my experience as well.

Recently a friend in access bank borrowed her boyfriend 800k to start a business but got the shocking news that her boyfriend of 3years has eloped to UK without a trace.

As a pretty tall lady I get to have a lot of these guys as "toasters" even though i'm not always interested but I always have one or 2 things to add to my smartness. These are the questions an average lagos guy ask these days:

1) where do you live? Island or mainland
Once they hear lekki, oniru, ajah the next question is "do u live alone" if the answer is no, you would instantly see the disappointment but if it's yes, the next question is "when am I visiting, hope u cook well, is it a flat or self-con, I would sleep over o......... you can imagine!

2) where do you work? If they hear kpmg,gtb,acceSs, chevron etc instantly they become available for dating! They discharge any side chick to avoid complications as they wouldn't have to spend a dime on you.

If they hear: sorry i'm an applicant or a company that pays 40k e go be later for that babe

3) Do u have a car? Dude seriously? U wanna be driving my car? I buy fuel with my hard earned money while you park yours and you think i'm gonna release my keys to you to tour round lagos? Have a re-think.

4) what's your net worth? How much do you have in your account? How much do they pay you! Trust me they have other ways to check. I once dated a guy who called his cousin in my company to confirm how much I earn. Next thing he started complaining about low funds,how he needed to get a house bla bla bla. I kicked his ass to the curbs!

5) what do your parents do? Are they retired? Does your dad have companies? How many are you guys? Are u the first daughter(to know if u entitled to properties) how many cars do they have? Does your dad play gulf? Is he a member of polo club? no be only polo club na palmwine drinkers club e dey, rubbish!

Have you been out of the country before?? Yes dude i'v been to Somalia, that's abroad as well

Ladies who have no experience in relationship matters or those who are blinded by love tend to talk too much and become victims of these scammers. Next thing u hear is baby we must get married this year, I must settle down with you, this is my last bus stop, u are everything I want in a woman, meeeeen u'v got class babe, and the mumu would be blushing and putting his pics on BlackBerry and instagram with #mybooforages

Fast forward 3months later, u start hearing stories like I borrowed the ediot 300k he eloped, he took my 500k and when I asked he threatened to release my nude pictures etc

So these days it's all a game,the smart ones scale through! It not just ladies who do all that,guys have now adopted this new style and a lot get away with it. So y'all should not come here weeping and wailing about ladies, guys now have a degree in gold digging although some just enrolled in the university of gold diggers, others now have masters and phd.

ORACLE1975:
God bless ABACHA

JOSSYAA:
hi , interested in buying ur ebook, update me on my mail- cooljoe2021@gmail.com

Dolypson04:
Bruv I am also interested in a business of 30-70k online as far as its not networking and betting. I passionately hate those two.
I will be a corp member this month by God's grace. Hope u become a part of my success story

Lionhearted:
Show us the online business opportunities.

tonzo:
10 more trucks needed

Olutola88:
People say there are 1001 profitable businesses to invest in, but the only problem is capital. As far as I am concerned most of the people in this category just blab as they might not even know what to invest in when such capital comes their way. I have asked for business ideas on this forum before now but it is so pathetic that I didn't get something outstanding.

This time around, I want to be precise, maybe that will help.
1. I am a Banker (my schedule is tight)
2. I need a business that requires not more than 1Million naira as capital
3. A business that can fetch me a PROFIT of 4k per day(say #100,000 per month). I am sure I'm not asking for too much
4. I want a business that requires little supervision as I won't be on ground most time.

Note; scammers, don't bother trying your luck on this thread cos if you do, you'll wish you never knew Nairaland.

Thank you.

success10:
Thank U...
I dont think someone can scam me...

I have been following this thread from the beginning to this very page, and I have digested some facts in comparism of both the ebook seller and the buyer...


So, my point is dat..
Since he said, anyone dat wants it for free, send him message on whatsapp and like his post...



Now, tell me if he will ask for money?..
And so far we have been chatting on whatsapp, He is matured...



NOW TO YOU..

PLS SORRY, THIS QUESTION AND OBSERVATION MIGHT HURT...


How can someone be making money and still wants to sell the secrets/ebook to his fellow in which he wants to close the gap between the rich and the poor?...

I.E..someone will claim to be making (assumption) $18 daily and still demanding for mere 4k to let the secrets out?.


IF I WAS OPPORTUNED TO GET A REAL ONLINE MONEY MAKING SECRETS....
I SEE NO REASON TO SELL THE SECRET, BECAUSE IF ACCORDING TO MY WISHES....

I WISH ALL NIGERIANS SHOULD BE FINANCIALLY BOUYANT..


THANKS.

success10:
MESSAGED U ON WHATSAPP

deyemia:
[size=18pt] I cant help but wonder why no one that commented on this post shares that same mentality or support her view! This is more serious than I thought[/size]

Bookiemart01:
I bought the book already. I've been readingsince yesterday. I've already taken a few steps.
I'll evaluate the book when I'm done. But for now, I'll say that I've gained alot. I can now do What I'll have paid some guys here on nairaland about 20k to set up.

Ourchoice, I'm stI'll reading link to this review>>https://www.nairaland.com/2946071/staldek7-fedupnigerian-must-read/4#43532115