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she has really grown big since the last time i saw her

nice tips, that display of blank avatar is common. sometimes you check someone out and you see their profile pix, then moment later the profile pix disappear, with only the avatar on display. I think that is an indication of being blocked or someone who has left the messaging app.

why are people shouting police killed this pretty lady, so ugly ladies deserve to be killed by police right? we should express our disgust with this police brutality not the outward look of the victim. Nigerians are too insensitive with their comments on incident like this, and in most cases they don't even know, I blame civilization for this.


then comes the big question, what led to police open firing on woman like this? I think the truth will come out in the coming days.

that this woman is 50, she must have a lot of anti aging measure in place, she looks so young, like 30 something.

congrats!

world's largest? this is just two planes joined into one. I see there are two cockpits, so all pilots have to be in sync while driving this plane, if the pilots drive a different course, this could cause a serious problem. or maybe there is a way everything is auto-synced together.

always beware of childhood friends, they always look at you with this naive child that they used to know, especially if you are now doing better than them, this can be catastrophic like this one. if the person has lost contact with you in this age of technology and is now coming back to pretend as a friend, beware! it means he doesn't really care.

Guestlander:
The US where you could be shot just standing in front of your door and minding your own business?

even you can be shot by cops inside your own room. such as the case of Texas cop who shot a black man inside his own apartment because she thought he was an intruder in her apartment whereas she was the one who entered another man's apartment, so she blew a hole in his chest with her police pistol and she called the cops that she has killed a burglar. I heard she was charged with only a manslaughter in the end.

nice info

nice info. but the main thing is job, how many of those renting those flats are getting high paying jobs in Lagos? Good jobs are very scarce in that city these days.

I need job honestly

nice info. but the main thing is job, how many of those renting those flats are getting high paying jobs in Lagos? Good jobs are very scarce in that city these days.

OboOlora:
How do people have over 100 unread whatsapp messages? I get uncomfortable once I have more than 10. It’s either I read n not respond or archive without reading

she might be in groups, if you're in WhatsApp groups, you can even have thousands of unread messages

which code do you use to stop receiving notification after checking your balance with MTN?

Nigerians are only good in one innovation: corruption! No matter how perfect the system seems like, they will always come up with a plan to perpetrate corruption with it. we are better ruled by robots than these animals in charge. civil servants are the worst kind of people you want to deal with, they will frustrate your life in order to make you beg them with your money in the end. And these are the same people asking government for minimum wage as if they are better than young graduates who cannot find the job

basket mouth president, he once called Obama 'son of a b.itch"

after being accused of spending hundreds of millions on that yellow pawpaw girl, I see this as a public relation management manoeuvre.


kind gesture, anyway!

nice tips, those guys at yaba dey try

mrNEMZY:
How does someone strife for years, makes money, only for one lady with holes in her legs to come and collect a large chunk of it?
We men, are the ones doing ourselves.

these people don't strive for anything, they amaze their money via illicit means, that's why they can afford any amount to spend on hoes. how can you say someone who has a state budget in his control or multiple oil blocks strive for anything?

that statement "men are not bold to approach us" shows why they are not getting married soon. it means these women are rude and repulsive, which is why no man wants to ask their hand in marriage. how can you say men are afraid of you, are you a masquerade or something?

I think the reason for this is because police disturb these celebrities for money a lot. if you are rich and have a nice ride, you will understand what I mean. police like to extort or beg for money from well-to-do in this country.

this police case is a serious one in this country.

this couple were unable to manage the temptation of unprecedented financial success that bequeathed their marriage. they were unlike Bill and Melinda Gates. how can you divorce someone you have spent probably the most successful years of your life with, how can they keep up being apart?

well, since this is a peaceful divorce, we can look forward to a reunion in future.

but I think tonto dike has made this man a celebrity, who knows Churchill before tonto dike saga

backnbeta:
Nigerians will never revolt in this lifetime. We are too greedy, selfish and disunited to protest in one voice. Our leaders will always have the grace to misrule because they know our weakness.

Igbos will not protest with Yoruba because of our mutual hatred for each other
Hausa Muslims don't trust non- Hausa Muslims

We can't ever speak in one voice!

that means people deserve the same society that are complaining about. government can only implement institutional changes, the real change comes from the people.

everything is for showoff, this happens to thousands if not millions of other market women out there, so why picking on only this one, we all know how taskforce treat these low income traders, or another "success" saga loading?

every where they go they always constitute nuisance, I don't know why I came from this god forsaken country self. and the foreigners will always judge you based on these criminals.

but I think saraki passed this bill to shame the president, why did he hurriedly pass the minimum wage bill after losing his election bid to return to senate. after all, he been the senate president all these years with much debate going on about the minimum wage and he did nothing.

let us be frank, minimum wage is not the solution to Nigerian problems right now, civil or public servants are one of the greatest menaces this country is facing, those sectors need serious overhauling to drive efficiency, not by dashing them more money. we need more money in the industrial sector, infrastructures, youth empowerment scheme and the rest.

minimum wage could only bring more inflations to already fragile Nigerian economy, because there will be equal increase in the prices of goods and services in the event of wage increase.

but that thing dey sweet to clean, I can even say it is addictive.

nice move

Harmored:
their pictures

if this is the picture of police officers who killed the guy, I think they show guilt in their face, this is just a case of occupational hazard, otherwise known as accident. notwithstanding, they must be brought to justice for shooting carelessly in the civilian populated area.

Pkingman:
HELP! My Wife Is Abnormal

Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue.
I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.

I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.
The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.

It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type.
When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way.
She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her.
Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date.
She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings.
She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me.
On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them.
Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private.
The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.

By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave.
I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change.
What could be wrong with her?

I think your wife is a proud woman, there are many women like her who see themselves above the level society puts women like Opera Winfrey, Ellen Dgeneres, etc. I wouldn't call them feminists per se, but women of substance. Your wife would have been more proud to show you off if she had married you with nothing and she raised you up, then she would be proud to show you off as a piece of her handiwork. She got married in her 30s because of societal pressure and that is not because she is willing to subjugate herself for a man as a housewife by broadcasting the marriage to the world. Though I think there might be issue concerning you as her ideal man, the women like your wife are more committed to their professions than any conjugal obligations. Check her up in terms of her profession as a surgeon and her commitments towards it, you will see there is more passion in that than her marriage, reason why she wanted to travel overseas.

if you want to win your wife's heart and prolong your marriage, I think you will be better off by focusing on things that help her to grow professionally. so make yourself a part of things she loves to do professionally. that's my little advice.

czarina:
Why are they "dashing" her money sef What did she really do? Person just sit down, make one video she intended to laff over and she becomes a celebrity overnight? Something is wrong with Nigerians and they don't know it.


Mtchwwwwww!


Modified

All of you saying I'm jealous are insane. What of the other kids living in the same slum Success was picked? The prophet no see them before him dash this girl two million? What about them?

Nonsense and Nigerians!

forget it, everything is for showoff, if the prophet gives you N2m, will it make the headline in the news? that is the reality of today's world for you. the giver gives not because he likes the receiver but because he thinks it will make him better.