₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Oh boy! A person being obese is nor same as being sick.

That's where you still don't learn . I said and repeat " prone to some diseases" I never said obesity is a disease in itself.

Kobojunkie:
Rubbish! Fat or not, we are all prone to diseases abeg! Even slim people dey get and die from diabetes so cut the bull!

Maybe you don't know the meaning of prone and help yourself by searching for obesity using Google

shortgun:
She looked better before; a full packaged African woman with enough meat everywhere.
I don't know who told people that someone must become lean and malnourished to look beautiful

People must talk whether you are slim, lean, fat or plus size.

Lemme help you bro, the fat size is unhealthy and prone to several diseases .. Fatness is unhealthy

MrAbufayed:
This is not the way of Islam!!!

Nah my own way of not Islam way.

Dey play

Hardtotrust:
I am very very angry right now. I couldn't sleep last night. That is why I'm bringing this here this morning before I do something very bad. A father should be after the growth of his son and not after ruining him.

Please you guys should help me look into this matter. I understand that it was a matter of life and important concern.

I'm seriously struggling in the city to eck a living for myself and do the little I can for my family also. My father was a petty trader who hardly can provide adequate for the family. Some of us who come from a very poor background would understand this better. I mean coming from where absolutely nothing is kept for you. No support from the family and nothing, nothing and nothing. You are the one who die and same you would have to pour yourself water to come back to life. You, you and only you.

I buy fast consuming products and supply to people and make some gains from there. Sometimes I hawk the products. I was able to save up to N150k. Around May this year, I went to the village and bought some rubbers of palm oil and store them to sell around November/December and make gains.

Last week, I got a call that wind pulled off our house roof in the village. Since they are using small torchlight phone, I didn't get to see how serious the situation was. Even though I didn't have money, I sent N15k to help fix it. My father later called me and complained bitterly on why I sent just 15k, that according to the carpenter, that materials and workmanship would cost N65k. In my mind, I was just like, does this man even know how I survive here in the city?

For two nights, they didnt sleep in the house as the wind pulled off the rooof.

On Tuesday, I learnt my younger brother was being operated of Hernia. I know about the hernia but was under plan to raise money for it. And I knew there was no money to settle medical bills for operation. So I was shocked where they got the money to do operation.

As I traveled down yesterday to see them, dear Nairaland friends, all my rubbers of palm oil has been sold and the money spent on fixing the roof and paying for the medical bills for the hernia operation without my notice.

I am not taking this kindly with my father who engineered the whole thing and I want to arrest him to refund my money.

That is my life investment and it took me so much to raise the amount. Due to how things are now. I even wanted to sell two rubbers to invest back as the business is facing challenges now.

What should I do here to recover my money back? If I have another money, I would over look it but that is my life investment of my labour.

Just find solace in the fact that you were able to help bro. Forget what anyone is telling and let go off your anger. You saved a soul from pain and out a roof on your parents. The price was costly though but then , you did it.

Move on bro, their prayers can even open more doors

gannod:
Ordinarily, I would not have responded to you but from the insults in your comment I can infer the kind of parent you are and the kinds of children you are trainning. Best of luck!

I had to read the intro again and I must admit that I started wrongly. Pardon my error bro. I have edited it

gannod:
Yes. Spare the rod and spoil the child.

In your mind, the rod directly mean flogging right?? The poster did a good one by outlining the fkaws in flogging.

My kids , can't remember the last time I flogged then yet we'll behaved atleast relatively. I didn't spare them from punishments though but flogging, hell no and no teacher is allowed to beat my kids.

There are many other approaches bro..

Sasi54:
Where are those puppies that are saying Ukraine is winning the war.

What's wrong with people like you? You just celebrate anything anti USA. But when Ukraine used common Javelin to sink the almighty indestructible Russian warships, there was no price tag nor any noise about it.

But since it is the kind of news that sweet your ego, you rejoiced

ovieigho:
Be jubilating
As if you can live happily in China ..🤣


I remembered Nigerians that absconded during Russia 2014 World Cup !! Body tell them before they cried for self deportation


I wonder why people hate USA that have done so much for the world ….

The Nigeria mentality is evil if someone allows it to eat deeper into his or her mind. Imagine these set of people rejoicing at what ordinarily won't affect them. They just want to read everything and anything that will bring the USA down.It doesn't matter where it is coming from.
USA is a major power not only in currency and the freedom and growth that Africa as a continent has enjoined through them is enormous. These kids think everything is a joke to them.

Calibrator:
Nigeria is a secular state and all citizens have freedom of religion.


What is the legal reference for arresting someone with used diapers because last time I checked, the constitution does not acknowledge fetishism.


If there was no blood on the diapers to arouse foul play or intent to commit harm or any harm committed... This is wrong!

Too much english dey kee ooo.. Shey you get baby? U fit borrow boys any of the used diapers?? I just wan check something

AchrafHakimi:
What does this mean??

Dey play .. Sperm turns to water quickly after just a minute so obviously you are lying and just chasing clout...

Lovelyn451:
The name yoruba could mean thievery, scam, fraud, lies, who knows

At your young age, your have been cursed with bigotry. The generation you will brith are going to require grace to function to the optimal. I can bet my balls that you are under 26 years but unfortunately you are damn lost.

Crime anywhere is crime. It transcends beyond color and tribes. It goes beyond gender but you are already blinded by bigotry.

I don't pity you, I only pity the generation coming after you.

kelvine:
I am Christian, such posts shouldn't affect our belief or push us into a legal battle

Ode , that's his they will start denigrating your belief and faith. It's starts with little stuffs like this till it gets out of hand , then you will start shouting.

Isn't it better that it should be tamed and cautioned now rather than waiting till it gets out of hand?

VikingKing:
He said that the person who scammed him is a YORUBA GUY, how does that equate to him calling all Yorubas scammers?

And what if he fed from the soil, drank the waters and bleeped Yoruba toto, why should that hamper him from saying the truth?

This type of passive-aggressive bullying is what you Yoruba cows are known for.

Mr Narrator, how about the part where he said no Yoruba man has ever made it without scam? Abi chewing gum dey your eyes??

Kiddogarcia:
Oops, born and raised in the west, homed, feed by the soil of the west, taught the rudiment of life in the west and the only way you could think of repaying us is to tag everyone of us a criminal.
You can actually do better tho


Na we be your best plug for everything Sexual enhancement tho

That useless bigot will never make it on our land .. Awon Omo ale

MILLERMannn:
Yes, some few years ago by one Yoruba guy. He told me to register for Custom recruitment online, which I did, not knowing it is a fake site. I was requested to pay money to continue although the money was small. I paid the money only for the guy to come later and start laughing at me.
I don't think there is any successful Yoruba guy that made it without stealing other people's things or duping people.

Your kinds are the dimwits we want to send out of Lagos..

Richy4:
Nigerian Railway Association should not exonerate themselves over what happened... They got 48% of the blame in my opinion...
What safety measures did they put in place to make sure that citizens were safe on the road?

Was there a barrier or barricade in place that prevents motorists from crossing at every rail line intersections?
Was there an Alarm bell in place that warns pedestrians at railway intersections whenever a train is approaching the intersection?.. (incase they have earphones on)🔔🚨

It is really easy to point fingers but they failed in their own part to secure the lives of those motorists as well that lost their lives.. assuming there was a barrier that is automatically or manually operated, that driver wouldn't have attempted to cross 🚧🚷

Damn sure you don't know Sogunle in Lagos..... Even the blaring sound of the train could be heard some kilometers away.... That is enough measure. The train didn't derail of its track bro...

Many kids who are being spoon-fed on this platform. I pray for those kids blaming the man that when they grow up, they also will experience this such that we can check if they are right to blame the man.

Anger is to be tamed no doubt but then, at some points, you may require grace to tame it.

You don't even know Osun. You are giving PO 1.5%. Just siddon for one corner dey play

Osun will give PO nothing less than 25-30%. Nah there I dey and I am not a Politician in any way. The street loves Obi here and we ain't tribal bigots.

IamMobisola:
But when women start engaging in paternity frauds, you all will cry fowl. Mtchww

Let dem do it openly.... Guess you didn't comprehend what I apparently wrote

gaby:
Hmmm...

I am "words of short" as a man knowing I could get caught up in this kinda exploratory and adventurous hubris.

My only issue is how he(we) would take this sort of exploration should the case be reversed.

I no fit shout jare

Unfortunately for the female folks, it's the man's world. What we get away with as men, they dare not attempt them. It's the unfair part of life

adamusuleiman1:
Obi is popular within the Christian community.

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E pain you? Go hug transformers.

OnionBandit:
Restricting it doesn't mean it shouldn't be taxed. It's just a way of discouraging it because of the high volatility of the market and the unknown actors behind it.

Most of us who are into crypto will tell you the Government has been vindicated. More than 99% of investors have lost over 90% of their investment in crypto..Market has been bleeding for over a year now and the blood is still fresh and running.

I won't forget the day I woke up to see my investment of a million naira dropped to less than 50k. My own sef small..You need to see how a friend could not eat well for days because his own dropped from around 11million to less than 100k.

Well, all these story no concern Government. That tax must be paid. Tax and death are the only certain things in life

I sympathize with you and your friend. But when it was paying, you guys were in ecstatic mood. The loss you experienced is/was as a result of your unpreparedness. You still haven't understood the laws of chart. My uncle lost over 30 million to cryptocurrency but now he has bounced back after learning the nitty gritty. My dear, cryptocurrency isn't a get rich quick scheme. It requires thorough learning,not the bandwagon styles most Nigerians are deploying. Bitcoin is around 16,000 today and I can still tell you that the real traders are still making money while the fake are out of the market.

Government taxing cryptocurrency and betting is senseless. Where are the results from other taxes they are collecting? No security, bad roads , inflation, unemployment etc.

immortalcrown:
Instructional material and qualified teachers were never the problem. I don't know what the man means in his reference to these two factors.

Good. The problem is, how will the government ensure a child from tribe A living in tribe B gets proper lesson on tribe A language? For example, a Yoruba kid in the North learns Yoruba language properly in the North.

God bless you bro.

ElSudani:
Oponu ayirada, what stupid issues? Like changing the name of the state? I guess that will on its own bring health care, good education and good paying jobs for the people of Osun state. Alakori, alainironu.

I will be civil this time... And I won't call you names or abuse you. Now, when they changed it to State of Osun? Did it bring food to the table? Secondly there is a court order that reversed the name already so it is not Adeleke that reversed just verbally. Aside Osun, which other state is addressed as State of

Lukuluku69:
Not a fan of any of these guys but it was Aregbesola who came about the State of Osun thing and not Oyetola.

Well for me the people of Osun voted him, so let him rule them.

Is Aregbe not a former? I didn't say the immediate past governor.

ElSudani:
Baba e o ni ku re. You think being petty and fighting over inane issues is what governance is about?
For the sake of millions of Osun people I wish him success. I sincerely want him to succeed but that is entirely up to him.
As for your curses, that is strictly for your father.

Ti e ti kure na? Mind what you jump on when you don't understand the whole issues....

ElSudani:
Why is the new governor picking unnecessary battles barely 24 hours in office?
If care is not taken he will be bogged down by different crisis and won't be able to achieve anything meaningful. That is not good for him and the people of Osun state.

Are you in Osun to consider this unnecessary? And where is the battle? Former governor changed it from Osun State to State of Osun, then it was not battle but returning it back to the original state is a battle.. E ni kure. Battle with who?

There is a court order to that effect and you should read clearly.... Again, the state you are living which obviously isn't Osun , do you call it State of ?

CoronaVirusRelo:


Power still intoxicating Osun state Dancer!

He would cool down soon!

I am sure you just read but didn't understand what's on ground.

Carefully take your steps in the areas you don't understand especially when it is dark.

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post

I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.

So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.

This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.

They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.

The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).

So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.

I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.

Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

If you are the real person in this scenario, then you are stupid for posting this serious issues for kids to comment on. Most people that comment on NL are admission seekers and ain't matured. Some of these kids are not older than your first child.

By now you should be able to read sincerity from the body language of your wife after many decades together. If she's really sorry, why not forgive and help her to manage the situation after all , you have seen any reason to believe they had sexual contact.

Find a reason to forgive and move on and if you can't , in your best interest, divorce her.

emmanuelbrown26:
Own which Lagos? Do u guys even know how Lagos started? One idiot from one village in ogbomosho go dey claim Lagos Ian without knowing d history.

Cry me a river... An Ogbomosho man can still lay claim to Lagos... MAYBE you don't know that we see Yoruba first before our states unlike the east.