If u have sincerely repented, i believ God ld forgive u. if u are a muslhm u can give alms and fast to seek forgiveness. Anyway keep praying nd dont get furstrated. Be disciplined nd principled. Dont be a slave to ur passions. Let God rule ur life.

Sakeenath u make sense.

Dear poster,u need to take it easy wt hm. The issue of finincial responsibility, u need 2make hm realise esp now dat ur mariage is young, before he gets used to shiftn responsibilities.am nt sayin u shouldnt assist, but let him realise now. The ealier d better.

Try amala nd ewedu, uld be suprised.babies love it

I tot NL was 4mature minds. Y dont u pple make constructive arguments. U need to mature and stop slighting others religions. This is the most USELESS THREAD IVE EVER COME ACROSS. Only God kows who worships him, no religion preaches violence. Think islam means peace.christ doesnt preach violence either. Posters should learn to create constructive posts. PEACE

Dear, i know hw u feel. A sore has been created in ur heart. Be determind 2 let it heal. Uve been a good girl. Dont pay evil 4 evil. God apreciates u. Believ that ur faithfulnes is 4 Gods sake. One day God 'ld vindicate u. Just try to free ur mind because hypertensn is real. Keep urself busy. Find joy nd succor in ur jewels,{children}. Free ur mind. Pray 2 God to restore trust nd his love into ur heart. Dnt feel bitter. Just keep prayn 4him.

Dear, sory.i understand what u r going tru. Your mum convinced u that sex is evil. She sucesfuly washed ur psyche. Probably to prevent u from premarital sex. Now that ure married it is legitimate. BE DETERMINED TO GIVE UR HUBY QUALITY SEX, IF NOT UR MARIAGE IS AT STAKE, Be determinf to find pleasure in it, PLEASE AND PLEASE. . . . .A PROBLEM IDENTIFIED IS HALF SOLVED!!!

There is no perfect man or woman.Therfore, there would never be a perfect relatnshp. What matters is spirit of sincere luv and forgivnes and a strong determination to stay in luv.

Pls dont let him know u had such discusn wt ur huby. Inlaws could be terible.all d blame would go to u if he knows ure aware. Let ur huby discus it wt him.pls dnt be involved

The situatn of the health sector in Nigeria is pathetic. Sometimes d doctors r not to be blamed. They r usualy overworkf esp in govt hosp.there is obviously manpower shortage. They are always overwhelmd witq too many patients. Always under pressure. Moreover they r not motivated. They r not even well paid. Nigeria invests only 5% of d country's income on health. Grossly inadequate. More advancd countries spend 30 to 40%. The Govt is to be blamed. They dnt use these facilities, so dy dnt care.they prefer to spend d bilions of naira dat belongs to milions of pple to send their relatives abroad 4 medicatn. Am not in suport of majority nurses attitude anyway. Seems dy r naturaly rude nd hostile.

Poster,let your wife realise that the love ynu share should not be attachf to money. Always tell her the truth in any circumstance.this ld build he trust for whatever u tell her. Her kowing your income is no big deal. Afterall shes ure wife. Dont hìde things from her, Politely Let her realise she should'nt make irrational demands. Tel her u dnt have anyother family to cater for than this, Thats if u truely dont. I wish u gudluck.

Its true. They like claiming perfection.they dnt like acceptn faults to hide THEIR WEAKNEsses

Its ideal.however,it depends on d kind of wife u have.

U just havd to convince the guy not to be selfish.he can make anykind of orders after d wedin, that day is d pride of ur parents.HONOUR THEM

Sorry about d loss of the poor innncent child. Its unfortunate.the health delivery system in nigeria is so poor. The truth is there might have been negligence on the part of the nurses, but the truth is that they are usually overworked or overwhelmd wt ton many patients. There is obviously manpower shortage particularly in the health sector, WHO R THE PEOPlE WE WANT TO REPORT TO.?ofcourse they r awere of the situation, since they dont use these facilities they dnt care.THEY PREFER TO SEND THEIR RELATIVES ABROAD FOR HEALTHCARE, with the billions that is meant to serve millions of people. The life of a common man means nothing to them.LETS PRAY FOR OURSELVS AND OUR NATION.

Dear as everyone has said, dont take any oath. This issue is an issue of trust. Moreover position you are is a threat to him. I want u to kno dat he loves u,thats why he made such a request. Please respect him. carry him along in all u do. Give him the gist of your encounters in the day. Seek his advise on issues. Dont keep him at a distance.cary him along

U guys r jobless

I not just been a mother that matters but a honourable one. Ur friend would make it seem so intrestn so that u ld not mock her.dear she might be pretendn.she cant discus all with you. However what works for her might not suit u in practical.wait til u have a responsible man that is ready to father ur child.

Pray 2 God to give you what is best for you.Blessed children. Thats what matters. However, there r some pills that encourage multiple fertilitization. Atleast i know of one CLOMID TAB.However see a gyne doc Not 100%. U might only have twins anyway.it could also cause triplets,quadruplets etc.

Y is d 1st poster confusd.this segment is politics not religion. However we should try to be matured in our coments.its immature to try to ridicle another religious opinion or doctrines. Lets be matured.kaeem i love the maturity u've shown.keep it up.

Dear poster dont b persimistic.THERE IS NO PEREECT MARRIAGE.THER IS NO PERFECT MAN/WOMAN. Ur mom might never av told u she had tough times wt dad nd viceversa. They were both determind nd matured 2 make it work. I wish u suces .dont be persimistic.

Slepn together always doest mean d gud thins hapen always.it promotes unity and u bond better.pls encourage it.spend time in bed nd gist til sleep comes.let d kids giv u privacy.put dem aside(in baby cort or wt d maid.pls bed time is d best time 2 bond.let her slep in ur arms.use it bed time well.

Great tnx 2u all. I pray 4d strenght and courage never to check it again,

Tnx chaircover. I ld try to avoid touchn it asmuch as posible, But put urself in my shoes.some1 u wholeheartedly luv but u stil av somthing u feel unconfortable about him,its painful.its affectin many other things.

I copied this somewhere :We've been maried 4 three yrs now.its obvious we both luv. But whenever i use his fone probably 2send an sms, i always discover somtin that trigers trouble.like a sent sms 2some one he's mising.iv always called him 2 explain.he either says a colleuge used[code][/code] his fone or another excuse. I try to believe tho, I luv him with all sincerity.but this aspect always makes me unconfortable.what should i do?