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Christianity EtcRe: Oyakhilome, Oyedepo, Ashimolowo, Adeboye Et Al Should be Ashamed!!! by paris10(op): 12:46am On Jul 22, 2010
Acidosis:
This's your view and not God's!
This is exactly the point i'm making! Can't you for once say something or write something intellectual without involving God in it? Most Nigerians believe in God and so do I, but for God sake, use your God-given talent and come up with something more educational.

I have not in anyway say anything bad about anyone, but just making a statement.
Christianity EtcRe: Oyakhilome, Oyedepo, Ashimolowo, Adeboye Et Al Should be Ashamed!!! by paris10(op): 9:21pm On Jul 21, 2010
[quote author=Tonye-t link=topic=483135.msg6426026#msg6426026 date=1279729788]Paris10,

No doubt alot of the stuffs you said are true! but once a while lets try to take our eyes/minds/energies away from criticising these supposed Men of God and do ourselves(souls) the favour of knowing God on an individual basis. sometimes i ponder if the resources we put in to criticise these men are'nt enough to spend quality time with the spirit of God in us.

I keep reiterating that the problem aint with these men, the problem is with you, me and everyone who chooses to be deceived simply because we choose to be lazy regarding spiritual issues.

I personally do not see anything wrong in Adeboye's nor Oyedepo's neither Oyakhilome's lifestyle, these men can be real for christ sake and they could also be fake i still dont care, but you see i'll rather choose to use my precious time removing those 'big logs' on my eyes and in the process keep getting better than 'pointing at the 'specks' in anothers' eyes.

One area alot of us fail is that we look up to these men to be perfect as well as in their deeds, whereas folks like Apostle Peter even made several errors yet was loved by God.

on the note: 'your stand on tithing appears you dont read the bible, else you should know it has absoultely nothing to do with MOGs. cheers!
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Sorry to disappoint you. i'm not your regular Nigerian Church goer. I am a thinker. How do you expect to succeed without asking question? Pls cut the bullslot, don't tell me to read Mal 3:8-10, Mathew 23:23, Neh 7 and the rest in order to understand the tithe theory.
Christianity EtcOyakhilome, Oyedepo, Ashimolowo, Adeboye Et Al Should be Ashamed!!! by paris10(op): 4:04pm On Jul 21, 2010
Do I need anyone to tell me that these so-called are doing the ''work of God''? And when did criticising them now becomes 'touch not my anointed'?

Are we so blind and narrow-minded that we've failed to realise that God has given us  free mind to think and analyse? And why on earth would an inspirational and motivational words be taken as the 'move of the spirit'? Did you all know that Oyakhilome et al reads and study books written by unbelievers who believes that everything has principles and the keys to unlock that potentials and prosperity is you?

Why then are we so deceived? No, we are not! We are just so lazy and ignorant of the fact that consuming ourselves and spending almost all our time in church adds to our ignorance. Go to the 'STUDY' of these Pastors, you'd be amazed what you see! You shouldn't be silly enough to accuse me of not believing that serving God is good. Just that the manipulation and the brainwashing of the brethren got to stop!

Not so fast! You'd notice I haven't yet quoted from the scripture, I won't! I want us to reason together and use our common sense. There are countless and numerous solutions to most problem without necessarily going on hunger strike or letting it all out to our Pastors if we could just relax and think positively.

To the Issue of Miracles, It does happen and occur everyday. Getting saved, living on divine healing, seeing people surviving dangerous stunts and accidents are miracle wonders! Which is not Miracle?,  Camping people and housing them for weeks and making them believe that one day they'd relieve one is totally and mentally  a rip off, this is the work of a Psychiatrist and a Psychologist.

To the conscious mind, the moment you realise or told that something negative or positive is about happening to you, you react to that news in either way! Reaction formation is an intriguing defence mechanism. In Psychometric psychology it is considered to be an index of speed of processing. Lets not go too deep into that. What I'm saying here is, alot of these so-called Pastors mess up with the minds of their flocks so badly that they even get confused.

Believe this or not, Pastors only say 50% of the truth whenever they're on the pulpit, and the rest of the 50% to their wives and fellow bible scholars. Why would you know when you've never attended a theological seminar or even attempt to go to a bible school? But be very careful, not everything is also said in Bible schools especially when that Bible school belongs to that Church.

Poverty in big Churches,  More than 70% of all the big Churches congregational members lives below the poverty line. Check out your intercessors, look around you, study your group. The rich ones are the shrewd ones that lives on false pretence. Where are your tithes going?.Ps, I never mentioned your offering because it is use to maintain the Church.

Note: The Church gives to charity, no doubt about that, but on what percentage? 2% of the total offering and tithe. Aren't the Church suppose to level or bridge the gap between the rich and poor? I suppose not in this dispensation!!! Pastors now boast of the earnings and gifts, dedicating expensive cars week in week out, some of them are even buying jets. Lets cut the crap, ok, don't tell me or start quoting the Bible that ' the workman is blah blah blah'. Aint the workers in the Church part of the workforce? I've never heard a Church buying a car or building a house for its less privileged member! The only building they'd announce is another branch of the Church, your tithe contribution.


These Pastors never wanted to be this selfish, but subconsciously, they became greedy and arrogant.Wake up people! Criticize me if you want, we cannot deceive God. Wisdom is needed in whatsoever thing we do. I go to church, listen to pastors, get blessed under them but don't pay my tithe, all depends on your level of understanding of the scripture, topic for another time.


Are you now telling me that the likes of Bill Gates, Carlos Slim Helu,Warren Buffet and Lawrence Ellison (world richest men) who don't pay tithes but does only  charity works would not enter the kingdom of God?Think again!
Christianity EtcNigerians And The Mecca (hajj) Ignorance! by paris10(op): 5:17pm On May 30, 2010
With no disrespect to anyone's belief, I think most Nigerians (this time Muslims) are ignorant to the fact that going to Mecca or Hajj doesn't and will never be a pre-requisite to gaining God's favour.

Enough emphasis has been relayed to this issue and often times most Yoruba Muslims have been misinformed of this reality. I have of recent interviewed enough Muslims and all they say was "going to hajj would bring God's blessing on you", totally and utterly rubbish! Christians who go to Jerusalem are called JP's; Alhaja & Alhaji for the Muslims who visit Mecca. Visiting or going to these places doesn't give you an edge over your fellow brethren but rather gives you a title. A title is just a prefix or suffix attached to your name without necessarily changing God's opinion of you.

Jerusalem and Mecca are only historical places for reference purposes and not to be misunderstood with God's plan for your life. It does not make you more spiritual (except at the time of visiting), and after then you're back to your normal self. They are of no value than Museums and Art galleries which are used for reference and historical purposes. I however do argue that the fashion tooth's (gold or silver) these Alhaja's/Alhaji's decorate their mouth with are mere piece of jewellery with no spiritual undertone.

An average Nigerian spend close to #500,000 for hajj operations whilst looking forward to a drastic change of fortune after then. Thousands have been disappointed but still happy they made the journey; thanks to the double silver tooth.

My point: Going to Mecca is not and should never be a compulsory journey you have to make (, a lot of you would argue other wise and back it up with some hadith's). Our God is an awesome God and will never place such a task to one in a different country other than yours.

Pls note Yoruba Muslims, Arabic is a language and should never be placed above your yoruba language! God understands every language in the world and will never tell you to pray or seek Him in a particular language.


Enuff said
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do Yoruba Movies Promote Babalawos? by paris10: 5:34pm On May 20, 2010
medolala:
@IDINRETE u are totally ma Guy, keep the culture going wink

@TUDOR u are the BOMB !! totally unrelenting in your cause. i am with u 360 degrees

@ Bee444, u are a total bombastic animal! living the foools life without any recourse to intelligent thinking and african nationalism! how can u wake every morning and call yourself a human being talk less and of being African!!

A white man, yellow baby and an Arab tells you that u r black & all evil is black and yet your "black" brain is not taken aback!! but rather your brain remains bleak, like that of a goat!!,

I wonder what you'll do when you see a human being of green colour , >>>> of course u'll call it an alien (cuz d white man says so) & then u'll call it a demon (cuz d white man says so), forgeting that the white man called you evil cuz your skin is black (& though the slave trade has stopped, they stilll call all evil stuff back) and flogged you till you accepted the name TOBI (Kuntakinte)

Ogun bite that tongue u have used to call out and use such beastly language as: black magic, black power, black voodoo.
look at youir skin men, u r as black as they can get!
So wake up and promote your culture. never forget your past cz without it your future will never be. never forget your heritage cz they made you and made those Bee4444 u.

the babalawos have an equal right with them Pastors and Imams.

Besides, they all do things in common: PRAYERS & CURSES
I think the truth has definitely eluded you. Just because the Indians, brazilians and the Greek advertises their goddesses and gods doesn't make it any less better to that of the Yoruba's or Nigeria in general.

The fact that the western countries do portray themselves as sexual dogs on scenes doesn't give us that freedom to always showcasing our voodooism.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do Yoruba Movies Promote Babalawos? by paris10: 10:51am On May 20, 2010
@Poster

I tell you, these past few days, my mum is beginning to get worried about the same issue raised here. She is a great lover and supporter of quality cultural Yoruba movies and does rent upto 10 to 15 movies each week.

However, she's now beginning to get irritated by the amount of lack of self-belief of the producers and the use of almost same story line . She told me and I quote " Did you know that out of the 40 DVD's I've watched so far, only 1 doesn't contain a babalawo scene?" Oh boy, that was a lot!

I'm a lil bit concern as I don't know what message the producers are trying to get across.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do Yoruba Movies Promote Babalawos? by paris10: 7:54pm On May 19, 2010
@topic,

This thread is a very sensitive one, and a lot people are taking it personal; especially those that comes from a babalawo background or have anything to do with them.

Culture is culture and should be respected, no doubt about that. @poster is only soliciting for a reduced appearance of babalawos in Yoruba movies, let us therefore either support or be against it without being sentimental about it.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do Yoruba Movies Promote Babalawos? by paris10: 2:46pm On May 16, 2010
This is a huge concern on my part as well. The English version of the Nigerian movie industry are trying as much as they can to either reduce or eliminate the use of occults or black powers in their movies. I just wonder what is actually going on in the head of their Yoruba movie counterpart?

They seems to encourage rather than discourage the use of black powers. I believe Yoruba movie producers would rather stick to the status quo rather than challenge it. For they themselves are victims of these so-called traditional powers. I also do believe that education has a lot to do with it. For almost 60% of the Yoruba casts and producers/directors are half-educated.

The Christians amongst them are not strong Christians but those that believes in the use of black powers. For according to some of the actors/actresses, they said you have to protect yourself by all means to be successful or live in the industry.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastors Are Bias & Discriminate When It Comes To Giving by paris10: 4:59pm On May 06, 2010
Pastors are money mongers and selfish. They are greedy and boastful. They exaggerate always and often repeat testimonies you've heard from other Pastors.

They come to the pulpit and testify of the Lord's goodness and blessings in their lives, but often fail to bless thier sheeps with such blessings (money wise).
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I'm Coming Back To Nigeria Soon, Need A Decent Girl To Marry! Hook Me Up Pls! by paris10: 11:35pm On Apr 27, 2010
holla me my man, I get one fine girl for you, But you go pay me #100,000 naira o grin
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I'm Coming Back To Nigeria Soon, Need A Decent Girl To Marry! Hook Me Up Pls! by paris10: 1:22am On Apr 27, 2010
@Poster, I believe I do have a perfect match for you, my sister! grin
FamilyRe: I Will Like My Wife To Be Slim How Do I Tell Her by paris10: 2:01am On Apr 21, 2010
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FamilyRe: I Will Like My Wife To Be Slim How Do I Tell Her by paris10: 1:52am On Apr 21, 2010
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FamilyRe: Is It Ok To Repeat Same Meal In A Day? by paris10: 1:13am On Apr 21, 2010
Thank God for your family!  Who defines what is OK and what is not? Millions of people are out there looking and begging for what to eat (one square meal a day is enough for these people), you guys are busy contemplating on what to eat out of your abundance.

I believe it is God who has provided your family with the abundance, but don't let your happiness or abundance  make other people sad.

If I ate garri for breakfast, lunch and dinner, I should still be thankful; it does make me strong. We only eat to refresh ourselves. Don't believe the hype; the media and the nutritionists have made us to believe that repeating meal in a day is bad, I beg to differ.

However, eating 3 different meal a day is what all us desire and its definitely a blessing. wink
FamilyRe: Give Me 7 Different Reasons Why You Are Still With Your Current Lover. by paris10: 12:52am On Apr 21, 2010
7 reasons is too much 4 me! What about rounding it up to 1?

*We complement each other, full stop. wink
FamilyRe: Mama Sade Makes Me Impotent For Six Months! Must Read: True Life: by paris10: 12:46am On Apr 21, 2010
[quote author=tpia. link=topic=433341.msg5921273#msg5921273 date=1271732618]you need Jesus Christ in your life[/quote]You're a hypocrite! Was that all you could come up with?
FamilyRe: Mama Sade Makes Me Impotent For Six Months! Must Read: True Life: by paris10: 6:31pm On Apr 19, 2010
I know where you're coming from @poster. It's a shame you had to through all these. Thank God you've learnt your lesson. A lot of bad people out there you know.
FamilyRe: Marriage: What Part Of The Bed Should A Man Sleep On (right Or Left) by paris10: 4:45am On Apr 09, 2010
bee444:
You guys should just keep your quiet. @poster has raised a very sensitive but important issue here, and all y'all could say were the highlighted words above.

Psychologically, only dominants and dictatorial women chooses what side of the bed to sleep on. If your woman always say 'move inside' to you, then she's got an attitude; a hypothetical construct that represents an individual like or dislike for a thing. Authoritarian relationship lays emphasis on control and decision making.

My point, the edge of the bed should always be for the guys (that means you have an edge, you're in control, you're protective of her). When anything happens, the guy should be the one to get out of the bed first, then the wife. That means easy access for the guy to turn on the light, respond to emergencies and shield the wife.


If I came to your bedroom, I'd prefer to see your husband in the front, then you at the back. Forget about civilisation or equality watch, guys should always be at the front.

These biological concepts are relevant to both human and animal behavior, and they can be used to explain authoritarianism in scientific, rather than pejorative terms.
Hmmm, this really makes sense!
FamilyRe: If You're A Man, Would You Consider Living In Your In-laws House? by paris10: 12:55pm On Apr 05, 2010
Most times in-laws are just unbelievable and unpredictable. I wouldn't go there but rather go back to my parents house.
Foreign AffairsNew Uk Immigration Rules On Ilr/citizenship, What Y'all Think? by paris10(op): 8:32pm On Mar 30, 2010
The British Govt has introduced a new Immigration law which comes into effect from july 2011.


It is a three stage path to citizenship, including a new probationary period.
full access to benefits being delayed until migrants have completed their probationary period

A requirement for migrants to improve their English ability (if needed) before completing the probationary period
Migrants who commit offenses resulting in prison are barred from citizenship
Migrants who commit minor offenses have their probationary period extended
Migrants contribute to a new fund for "managing the transitional impacts of migration" and "providing extra financial help to communities experiencing change from migration"
Migrants who engage in community volunteer work are able to graduate to British citizenship more quickly

The government says it will continue to meet its obligations to migrants who entered the United Kingdom on the Highly Skilled Migrant Programme (HSMP) and had a legitimate expectation that they would be able to apply for and be granted indefinite leave to remain, in accordance with the Immigration Rules that were in place when they applied to the HSMP.

So, before you graduate from either your HSMP Visa or Work Permit Visa to Indefinite, these are the new three steps you have to go through,

1. Temporary leave (one year)
2. Probational leave(12 Months)
3. Indefinite leave to remain. * You could apply for your British Citizenship after 12 Months of you holding your ILR, or apply immediate for British Citizenship if you qualify (exception would be if you're married to a British Citizen) and fulfil the residential requirements.

Just think this is a form of extortion from the UK Govt. to rip Immigrant off their hard earned money. What y'all think?
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do Many Pastors Have Rings On Both Hands? by paris10: 12:45am On Mar 30, 2010
This is actually a very good question! Your Pastor is not in any way superior to you. Only in Nigeria would a Pastor remain unquestionable regardless of the doubt surrounding his behaviour or act.

Putting two rings on both hands is not a conflicting factor, but mounting the pulpit with such would definitely raise an eye brow. Let the pastors explain themselves. Let the congregation be pretty clear about some uncertainties in the Church. Be it spiritually, educationally or mentally, it has always been a human thing to question uncertainties.

If Jesus came down today and perform some miracles that are scientifically and humanly impossible once again, I'd question the source of his power. It is not a sin and neither is there a law or scripture that prohibits humans from asking questions and wanting to know.

Feel free to ask your pastor anything as long as you're not asking him if those children of his are really his. Take a tape recorder with you o, for evidence.
FamilyRe: Would U Allow Your Brother To Stay With Your Newly Wedded Wife Whilst U Travel? by paris10: 9:54pm On Mar 29, 2010
Don't know.

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