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andyanders:
YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A DOG. YOU POSSES THE SPIRIT OF LUST AND ONLY A TRUE MAN OF GOD CAN DELIVER YOU. WITH YOUR ATTITUDE, YOU CAN EVEN SLEEP WITH YOUR OWN DAUGHTER IN THE FUTURE. YOU ARE A RISK TO YOUR IMMEDIATE FAMILY. [b]ARE MY SURE YOU HAVE NOT SLEPT WITH YOUR OWN IMMEDIATE SISTERS WHEN YOU COME ACROSS THEIR NUDITY? YOU ARE SPIRITUALLY DEMONIZED.[/b]

I guess you're that my sister! What a silly and vicious way of thinking.

passyjango:
@poster, you may not know it, but your story suggests there are some baggages you are carrying from your past which you need to sort out. I still recommend a [b]psychologist [/b]for you. Yes guys feel attracted to girls, but they do not start touching them on the same bed as their girl friend. What pleasure do you derive just touching her. Your actions are purely childish and suggest that you still have issues to resolve with your past. You are still childish inside and need a psychologist to unlock the adult in you.

Psychologist? And of what use will one of them be, when even being a born again Xtian does not immune one from immorality or fornication!

passyjango:
@poster, If this story is true, you are obviously sick or immature. The fact that you lust after any of her friends that visits, confirms my theory. If you are normal, you will only be attracted to one of them. What that means is that if another of her friend sleeps over, you will still find that one attractive more that your fiancee.

For your own good, I suggest you submit yourself to a psychologist or even a psychiatrist, so that the origin of your problem will be found and solutions provided. If you do not hid this advice you may end up abusing your own children. This how it starts. To be fore warned is to be fore armed.

You're going too far my friend. Pls don't mention my unborn kids yet. And I'm not sick o

[quote author=tpia* link=topic=586503.msg7548889#msg7548889 date=1295270819]one of the daftest topics i've seen in a while.[/quote]I bet you are a saint! Be mindful of your self-proclaimed innocence. Only Jesus was said to have a faultless life

Nakele:
AND BETTER YET, I DO NOT WANT TO SAY THAT U ARE WICKED AND A VERY TALENTED FOOL, BUT YOU ARE,

PLS STOP FANTASISING ABOUT OTHER GALS OR LEAVE THE POOR GAL U CALL your WOMAN SO THAT SHE CAN BE TAKEN BY REAL MAN WHO WILL APPRECIATE HER,,,,,,,,,TJOOOH

Wicked and a talented fool, thats just too much!

bug24:
@Poster, u need to be caged. better still, relocate to a nearby zoo.

Na wa 4 u o. Which one come be this now. No abuse me again o

1one:
The Unfortunate thing about animalistic randy behaviour like yours is that it feeds the general 'soaked in black dye' opinion that girls have about guys.Guys are dogs they say,

I don't give much weight to the idea that it's difficult for a guy to control himself,it's all in the mind it's either you have a very weak mind(which can be worked on) or the person that swore for you is dead and it would take conscious spiritual effort for you to deliver yourself from this disease.Infact you have so much poo on your head already,you've been tagging her along this years and you know you don't love her,Pls for the greater good of your future allow her go.let her make peace with the greatest mistake she would have made in her life-meeting you-.let her go now so that even if she's going to curse you and the curse tarries on your head for 20years you'll have some years left to make something good with your remaining time.

Being a man is not about having a hard on when you wake up in the morning,Being a man is about having a strong sense of character.The will and the strength to say No even when your 'dd.ck' and 'hands' are screaming 'enter' and 'browse'.

Give her life back.Let her go.You don't deserve Her.A pig would never have any good use with diamonds.Who's the pig?.Your guess is as good as mine.

No be me you dey refer to. I get your mate for house

Phate07:
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Bloody Psychopath.
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Not me

Wislet:
you're planning on marrying her & starting a family, yet u have already started insulting yourself, mocking your girl especially wer her friends are concerned & disgracing your future family. Young man u are single handedly bringing shame to both of u even before u walk to de altar. It's a pity-a real pity. . If u know u have a weakness where girls are concerned, why dont u tell your girlfriend to stop her friends coming to your house & spending de night. Talk to her. Am sure your behaviour might be causing her shame outside, but she's sticking wit u cos u broke her virginity. Is it a crime 4 her to love u? There are men like u looking 4 de love of a good woman, but u have it wit u, yet u can't appreciate her & give her deserved respect. Wat morals are u going to pass on to your children? To behave like goats anytime they're close to any girl? U beta tell your girl your weakness. Am sure she'll do everything in her power to help u overcome, cos no right-thinking lady will share her man wit another woman. But u must be ready & willing to help yourself too. Am sure u'll not like anyone of dos girls to hear about u in future & tell de person closest to them, ''Ah! Dat man is a goat. I know him'', Or ''Dat family is nothing to write home about especially the head of de family''. START ACCORDING YOURSELF SOME RESPECT BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE!

Aah, your words are too strong o. You almost brought tears 2 my eyes. Don't know what 2 say again. Can't stop her from bringing her friends to my house, she would definitely want to know my reasons.

Akinagirl:
What you need to do is call off the wedding. You do not need to marry her. You are not ready for marriage and obviously you are not responsible because you still want to play around. You have even stated that you did not love her. So, in other words you are with her out of pity and that is going to be even WORSE when you all get married. You will blame her for your unhappiness. Never try to make someone else happy at your expense. If you don't want to marry her then please don't. You will be miserable and in the process make her miserable. She deserves to have a man that loves her just as much as she loves him, you my friend are standing in her way. LET IT GO!

Too late 2 let her go darlin. You want her spirit to taunt me 4 the rest of my life abi. I've twice drove her away in the past but she kept coming back to me. Wedding is fast approaching and have resigned my faith in marrying her. She claimed she's got a strong spirit and that if I left her I might regret it for the rest of my life. Can't joke around with that! Besides that, she's using the innocence thing as an excuse to want to be with me for the rest of her life. She can't see another man touching her. Just a bit confuse.

Osama10:
Really, so which one are you?

Abegi, read my post again!

Osama10:
Busted.

Nothing is busted jare my friend. Let them say.

asha 80:
the poster is a lady.check her earlier posts.

the scenario is likely to be the other way round.

And what part of my profile or post indicate I'm a lady? Get your facts right!

aminalib:
please kill yourself and do the world a favor,

No sense at all. Be more positive and constructive

chris01:
wait until u lose d beautiful tin u hav, den u'll keep your head straight, start puttn more attention on your lady and everytin wil be alryt, by d way stop telnl her to invite her frnds ova, u'r hurting her if u dont no, even if u fell like testing sumtin else,, my man it shudnt b your woman's frnds, just sit back and imagine wat they'd be talkn abt her, how long do u want to keep d secrect,

You make sense

My fiancee's got some very beautiful friends that I can't resist. They tend to appeal to me more than my woman. Just few weeks ago, my woman's friend came visiting and decided to spend the night because it was too late to go back home. I only have one room in my flat and we decided to share the double size bed. It was -2 degree celsius and couldn't have possibly slept on the couch on my own.

My woman slept beside me and her friend was beside her. In the middle of the night I found my hand stretching and touching Irene (her real name). I noticed she was well awake and knew what I was doing. I kept touching her backside and then every part of her body. Suddenly, my woman woke up and found my hand in her friends hips. I immediately pretended I was still sleeping and not aware of my action.

Another of her friend came days ago and I was attracted to her by all means. I kept asking my woman about her and told her to invite her again. She came again and I found myself lusting after her. I gave a kiss whilst my woman was away and she did not at all react to it. To my amazement, they all (the girls) enjoy me touching them and refused to tell my woman of my escapades. I even have a phone number of one of them and currently thinking of calling to meet with her at her resident.

Don't know what to do. Don't actually love my woman but would not want her to go. We have been together for five years and have shared so many things together. Leaving her for another would be a total travesty. She loves me with all her heart and even gave me her innocence about 4 years ago. But I can't stop liking her friends and lusting after them.

Pls help,  I think its a problem (just thought about it)

Some pastors and rev. in the US perm their hair. Oyak adores their style and inculcate it into his ministry. You have to look good for God and for the ladies. Those are the only reasons we guys do what we do, abi? Offering is good and tithe is better as long as you're a Pastor.

tolu001:
May Allah forgives his sins and grant him eternal rest. . . Amin

Y'all should be saying 'RIP' instead of your "May Allah forgives his sins". What kinda ignorant bullsh*t statement is that? Your sins are only forgiven when you're alive and not when you're dead!  And why using Allah in-place of God? Does that mean you guys accept that Allah is not God, or that Allah is the muslem god?

Anywaz, we'll all miss U Sikiru. Hope you're in paradise where we shall see to part no more.

bidemi12:
typical Zap.e.d up nigerians. We are so used to corruption. how in God's name would you criticize the english press for exposing corruption? Kai. . . . see mentality. Anyway God go save us one day.

What happened to critically thinking @bidemi? BBC's panorama programme was initially meant to create fear on the fifa executive committees in order thereby prompting them to vote for  England in order for the accusations to be dropped. It was a political strategy that backfired. You don't intimidate the governing body. England failed to win because they don't have representative in the committee.

It actually serves England right! They are bunch of complaining silly-arse people. They did not win because of their PM and media. Too much emphasis over their presentation. What have they achieved since 1966? I guess they will get the right to host the 2066 world cup, making it 100 years in the making since they last hosted one.

Their PM is hated because of his policies on education, EU laws, Immigration and anti-housing projects. David Cameron is not the most likeable PM that existed today. Fifa's question was, why did England need the world cup? They have everything already. Sepp Blatter's policy is the best there is; always looking for the opportunity to make good and enrich a downturn economy.

As for Qatar, world cup coming to the middle-east for the very first time (remember South-Africa 2010, first world cup on African soil). I welcome this development.

Andre Uweh:
Monkey, is all this crap because you were overfed with peanuts today?. If I may ask, how did you escape from the zoo to go and watch Nigerian idol?.
Clown, quit hating, quit watching Nigerian idol and pay attention to your one-eyed mother languishing in the village.

If you can't express your opinion in a very simplistic manner, you're not fit in the community. Stop cursing and be more civilize

, just like the American Idol, Nigeria is airing its own version now, its a music competition

Nigerian Idol is on now. Enugu hasn't got talent at all.

Enough ugly people in that town o

@All

What is wrong with our people? Why is the word 'chook' a problem of definition?

Chook in urban language means,

1. To wound or puncture using sharp object
2. An insult (Australian word for chicken), sentence, 'you bloody chook'
3. Lame or undesirable thing or person
4. Nigerian pidgin English for stab
5. Full of fail, not palatable

Nough said

Kobojunkie:
What the cud?

Sorry my dear, not you. I'll delete that line

@Ibobuigbo,what is wrong with you? Why don't you leave @oyinda alone and let her express her views? You're are not just what she's saying.

It is not only the responsibility of @poster to be his brothers keeper, its also our mutual responsibilities as Nigerians. I hope you realise that the 'Osun State' guy wasn't just abandoned during his difficult moments. He was abandoned long ago when he bought that car, and he was also abandoned - to murder and mayhem in the streets; to substandard environments; to inadequate care; to a dilapidated rottenness and to a pervasive sense of hopelessness .

This is the deeper shame  of what is happening around us. It doesn't have to be crisis like this to awaken us to the great divide that continues to fester in our midst. The fact that the guy got caught driving without all the necessary documentations doesn't make him lesser a good person. Driving offence is in no way different to any other offence committed, of which most of us are guilty of.

@poster lacks remorse. We don't need to wait for another Katrina before we know that it is our individual responsibility to look out for one another.

And to you @oyinda, keep your critical and great thinking ability to yourself for the sake of this thread, not everyone can analyse the way you just did.

@poster,

You're one of those Nigerians abroad who believes in the I CAME HERE B4 YOU SYNDROME, and who often get jealous whenever people who came to the country after you are doing well. With your stupid and gullible explanation of his misfortune, I can boldly say that you and your friends wished him bad luck in the first place.

Your friend is not the first and will never be the last to drive without insurance and licence. If you call yourself a friend, you would have asked him if he had these things before he got himself into trouble. Your friend is born to succeed in life, hence, the looking for alternative to survive. You know what I noticed; You're a typical Nigerian with a Nigerian mentality. Your friend will be fine and everything will be ok for him. In the morning the sun will shine!

mrlaconic:
@Tudor, as i read your post,the only thing that kept on coming out of my mouth is Lord have mercy on this person.You have just placed a curse on yourself by insulting God's Servant,i just pray that you encounter Christ and surrender to Him before you DIE! I weep for you because you are so ignorant!! When whatever is going to befall you start happening,you will come to this same Nairaland and retrieve your insults and apologise publicly,i wish you goodluck on the path you have chosen with your TONGUE!

You're one of the gullible Nigerians on NL. Why not weep for yourself as Jesus would say. And who told you @Tudor is not anointed? Opinion expressed is the observation of the intellectuals and those that reason.

You accept everything being said to you because you don't have a mind of your own. Expressing one's view does not and has never been a sin, especially when it comes to religion. Religion is what people want it to be. "Daddy G.O" should not be excluded from criticism and neither does anyone.

TeskyMan:
[size=13pt]@ brownciga

I am not against you supporting Tudor to be candid but i want to ask you what exactly has Adeboye stolen from you in particular for you to have lebelled him as a thief? Please, this is not an argument but an avenue for me to see issues from your point of view. I want to assume there are some things I am yet to understand about this man that you know. For you to have come out openly and give full support to what Tudor has said, I want to believe you have better evidences than accusing Adeboye of collecting other peoples 10% which you did not contribute. Those who had paid and are still paying the Tithes and giving the offering willingly, i repeat willingly did not complain neither have we heard anyone of them file a suit against Adeboye and his cohorts in competent law court. Kindly correct me if I am wrong. If what I have written is correct then, why have you labeled[b] the gentle man [/b]a Thief and a Criminal.

Kindly give convincing evidences on the bold part of your previous post.

Thank you. [/size]

Your hypocrisy is very obvious. You pretend not to support your 'DADDY', yet you're judging others of their comments.

I've gone back to University. Couldn't keep the job 'cause of the days and time requested. It clashes with my Uni time table.

I'm still trying to sort out the day of the payment with him on the phone. Can't see him face-to-face 'cause i'm at Uni now (not in the same town any more). I have his bank details already

I received a call from my former employer who happens to be the boss of my sister. He told me he just paid an equivalent of 100,000 naira into my bank account mistakenly. He said the money was meant for my sister and  that I should go and cash the money for her.

It happens that I still have some outstanding loan that I'm yet to pay my bank, and as soon as that money got into my account, the bank automation system took the whole money (still got to balance the bank with some few thousands).

I called my former employer (a Nigerian) and told him what had happened.  He called my sister, and my sister called my parents. The issue is now escalated. Although, he has of 2 days ago paid my sister the money, he threatens to go to Nija and do something against me if I did not pay him back the money this Tuesday.

I explained to him that although what happened was not my fault, I still promised to give him back the money as soon as I get the money i'm expecting at the end the month. My parents are now worried because the guy said I have to pay him this Tuesday else,

I tried convincing my parents that the dude can't do nothing as I was not at fault. Even if the case goes to court, I won't be asked to produce the money immediately.  I don't know what my account details is still doing with this dude, and how he managed to put the money in the wrong account.

He has to wait, else he will receive the money in pieces (10 naira a month) if the case goes to court.

And of his going to Nija to do his charm, I don't know, but one thing certain is that, God is the head and God of everything. HE will guide and protect me.

Joagbaje:
I think the question should have been, WHATS THE SOURCE OF THE MISINFORMATION

Just to point out few of the lies, Pastor chris was from a wealthy home, his father was one of the few people that used citron those days. Pastor Anita is not from Uk. Pastor chris posted her to Uk.The two families are from the same area. In Edo state.  Her father is from edo state, her mother is From Switzerland .
L[b]oveworld ,CEC started in Edo state, not Uk.[/b]

Tell whoever gave you the gist that it's not selling. Is it not people like you that claim that they were divorced? The man of God we know . Spends his time on the word, praying and seeking Gods face in intercession for the whole world. 

So has he gone home now?

I know you're a die hard supporter of Chris, Jesus would have been happy to have someone like you to have supported him when he was on earth.
And to your Chris coming from a wealthy family, sorry to disappoint you, ehhhhhhhhh, no. He came from an average home brother. Do you even know Chris at all?

If Chris spends all his time praying for the world, does that leave you out of it? And when does Chris become Jesus who took the sin of the world upon himself? Blasphemy! And who's doubting if Anita's mum is from Switzerland or not? Coming from Switzerland does not make you a residence of such, get that brother!

When you said in those days (Citron), when in particular are you talking about? Having a Citron in the 70's and 80's does not make you a wealthy person! Do you know what wealth means? Wealth alleviates a community from poverty. It is passed down from generation to generation. A white man gets wealthy, he builts a community and industries, A brother gets rich, he builds a Church and buys rims for his own selfish gains, ok.!

Rich is something you could loose within a short period of time. Nigeria is still ranked one of the poorest countries in world and you're here babbling. IBB is trying to be the next President and you lot can't even do something about that. Frauds operates in Churches and circular places in Nigeria. Poor people dominates the churches, Pastors buying jets and building mansions and luxury cars.

Intercessors are straining their voices and still accounts for the poorest in churches. They don't get paid but Pastors do receive salaries (a workman is worthy of his labour, abi?) Churches no longer share the meats( your tithe is meant to be meat for the poor to share) equally amongst the congregation but instead build another branch (as if that would provide for the needy at hand).