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oluwaniyi66:
I have noticed a trend in many people be it in public or private organizations, that they mostly find it difficult to disclose their monthly salary.

Is there any reason behind it? Why are people secretive about their salary?

You think I would be proud to tell you that I earn 20k and you won't mock me for that meager payment?
Now you know the amount I earn. Oya, start mocking me now and let me be laughing.

Guy you are corrupting the corrupt mind.

Deestro:
I've tried in the dark too and it's really cool lol

I bought mine 29k oo

Cool with the price. After all, what ladies are after in fone is it camera. Enjoy the phone my friend.

fati2001:
this position can suit any of ur female folks.... so get him one, don't be greedy.

That's why I'm advising you to grab this opportunity.

[quote author=fati2001 post=95389367][/quote]How far? Don't you think you should grab this opportunity?

Zzor:
what do you have to offer?or do you think any lady will just jump on you? market yourself and let buyers come in and price you

Marketer well done. I'm coming to advertise my own with you....

The camera looks clean and yourself ain't look bad but try it in the dark place and let's see how blur it goes with it camera.

By the way, na how much be the fone?

virginprincess:
Babe, you have tried, let go, a cheat will alway remain a cheat no matter how you try to stop him, even if the relationship leads to marriage, he will still cheat on you, so move on and be prayerful, God will surely give you your mr right.

I like your brain, let's chat, I've sent you PM

Hisense4life:
Good morning house

I have been dating a guy for close to two years now I have been faithful to him I have never cheated on him before .. but this guy has cheating on me , he lies alot , he slp with different girls have talk to him tired but still no change .. ������� what pain me is that I love this guy , I really want to end this relationship cause am no longer happy with the relationship am sad ... I pray that God should bless me with my own husband ... Am tired of crying everyday .. how can I move on from this relationship.

Please advise me on what to do ��������� ...

I've sent you a DM let's chat

rainlover:
Thanks! I sincerely appreciate your contributions. Are u currently in Oshogbo?

Nope!

Osun will be a great deal if you are a freelancer. Osun enjoys power supply, water supply especially in osogbo and Ede. Rent is cheap in Osun generally except in few areas where rent is high with great interest. Security wise, only God can protect but Osun is a state with less crisis or no crisis at all. Internet service is great, I think there is 4g everywhere in Osun especially in major cities like osogbo, ile-ife, Ilesha, Ede, etc

Jos would be OK if there are no crisis in that area. Anyone that lives in Jos should be able to give you details.

Bola146:
Some ladies don suffer, that is why you shouldn't start what you can't continue. Both of you are gigolo Oniranu No better plans for the future, both sex is the first thing

Why do you make sex a big deal? Do you want to blame God for creating sex? If you you have the opportunity to release the tension in you, you better get phucked.

This is getting serious in Osun State.

ladywealth:
well, you don't need to start being suspicious of her having affairs with other guys. it might be a change of mind to stay clean before marriage. just watch her closely. you can ask her why she wants to practice celibacy, that is if you guys give room for serious communication.
her thing is wide, abeg who wide am?

The girl is seeing another guy, there is no doubt that. She's using celibacy as excuse to deceive this guy.

Fero24:
Hi everyone... First time posting here cos i need your advice on a Lil issue

My girl friend of 2 years just informed me that she wants to practice celibacy.. That she wants to stay outta having sex for awhile and saying stuffs like.. Sex is overrated bla bla.. Meanwhile I've never for once heard of that from her..

I thought she was joking until she said it again in a stern voice.. And the way guys lament here on this platform about cheating girlfriends and how they neglect red flags is something else

So guys.. I just wanna know.. Is this a red flag? Because our last sex was like 4 months ago and we'll be seeing soon... Maybe her Congo have been shined by another nigga.. The thing is probably wide now and she is putting up some excuse... Who knows ...Though sex ain't food but I can't afford being cheated on ...
So please guys.. Is this a red flag I shouldn't neglect... Thanks..

FYI.. I'm planning to Marry Her.. She knows my family and vice versa..

If I told you to remove the thought of marrying her from your mind, you won't listen but act feebly.

You already know that's a red flag. If she says she wants to go celibate way, let her go but make sure you cut all the communication between you two while she is observing her celibacy. Don't call her, don't chat her, let her enjoy her celibacy. If she still means business with you she will call you to ask why you have stopped calling her, tell her you don't want to disturb her celibacy, just act indifferent to her. While doing this, pick up another girl you share similar idea with. If the former is seeing another guy, you will know by this time, this time know it's over between you guys. Make a paradigm shift to the latter girl. Life is simple sha!

Tyewolove:
Lol , maybe next time.

Won tunde o, when is the next time? I just want to have a chit-chat with you not for loving loving thing na. So, do reply the DM

Why don't you take me along with you? I have DMed you, let's talk about it.

Sunnyshinylight:
You sure want to park my life

Not really, I want you to preach to me and win my heart to yourself and to God, how about that?
I have DMed you do reply

Babara1994:
You want to give me something?

What something do you want and deserve babe?

Silentgroper:
. Alright bozz. Keep it up. Dnt let ur student down

I have observed that 90% of ladies on nairaland are single but are ready to tell you that they are not single(like I have a boyfriend) when they actually have no guy at all. If you are the serious type you can have a girl here bleeped in no time if you know how to play the game, trust me.

Silentgroper:
.. *claps hand*.

way to go bozz.

bt i dnt see any sign of begging to enta dm in dat write up

I don dey beg for DM since morning na I'm still on it.

It will be good you adopt your husband belief to avoid unnecessary family problems relating to differences in religious doctrine. I can't say you must not marry him because you are already entangled with him. So, weigh the option of adopting his belief or faith as you are going into marriage with him.

Sunnyshinylight:
Thank God for times of difficulties. They make us seek for solutions untold.

Don't give up! Someone is gone through where you're right now.



Folks think, oh when I am rich, nothing would trouble us again and everything would be fine. That's the deception of riches, don't buy it.

It's so hard for the Rich guy to be well, why, too many distractions are here and there.


Plenty of time wasting activities.

That would mean lack of glory connection to the inner Man

And he has a new master - Money.

And no one can be a servant of two masters. You see that,

Money begin to speak and truth which is Christ is disposed. It's so hard folks for proud rich guys. It's nearly impossible to be happy in the inside without reality dwelling in them.

How you need Christ in your thoughts in times when the bank is full of Cash. Folks think they only need God when they are poor, no, you actually need reality when you faced with lots of cash.

Christ gives you faith in poverty, to grow in loving God and Christ endlessly and God's children which is the greatest.

Money can't rule that kind of divine love

But, when you have Christ's love with money - which is the outpouring of grace combined, the people rejoicing. Many lives will be blessed and that's where the peace and rest emanate from.

Father of grace and truth, pour out lots and lots of your unfailing Love into our hearts,

That we might be informed of unspeakable signs and wonders of your truth,

The enemy thinks we can't see the kingdom of Christ, we do, Lord.

Our hearts and minds together meditate upon your blood poured out to wash and saved many.

Upon Zion, we are so complete, needing nothing. We focus on Christ, the author and completion of the Almighty.

So much Thanksgiving. Amen.



Would you accept this, if you were counseled

Sister, I like your sermon, you can do more of this in private with me. I just DMed you.

jodpoundz:
Experts on wooing babes pls i need your help, there is this girl i like i didnt know she like me until she told my brother bluntly that she like me about a month ago, but i dont know how to go about it becus i dont know wether she meant it or she just said it on a casual basis, she look strict on a normal day and i dont want to get the embarrasment of my life cus am not sure wether she feel the same, but i notice these days that she wear tight dresses when ever am around and she like asking me uneccesary questions maybe just to have a glance of my face but still am not sure, experts pls i need your experienced advise i dont want the girl to slip off my radar pls. abeg mature minds.

Why do you make ladies look demigod?
Call her to come over with the face that looks like you dominate the environment and the conversation and tell her that you like her, don't show too much seriousness to it so it won't make you look like simp or something just tell her "I like you", and I would want us to hangout together. That's it. The situation will further help you with what to say, don't let your voice shake or stutter. And if you saw any guy with her don't feel jealous otherwise you will appear insecure around her.

LilVast1:
Good morning NLanders
I'll try to be very brief about this

I was in a relationship with a girl for two years, unfortunately she left for reasons best known to her, I stayed alone for a year even when I came in contact with other girls who really liked me and would do anything to be with me but the scars my ex left still hurts
Now I've got another girl I really love and I'm sure she loves me too, but she's always complaining that I'm too *cold*
I really find it hard to engage her in a long conversation, I'm too shy to play with her, sometimes we stay together and all we do is get busy with our phones

I do not know how to handle this relationship and I'm really scared of losing this girl

You make it appear like you are the loser while your ex-girlfriend is the winner. If you keep it going like this, even if you have a good girl at hand, you won't know because you have allowed your past to cloud your mind that it affects your present.
Get over it, and engage your girl with all sincerity and love.

Let me add this to it, have some good number of sex but take your brain along as you dey do am.

You are on point my guy

rainerboy1010:
How you you do it?


if you find out after delivery its like this

Zzor is guilty of this I guess

virginprincess:
You just ended up saying nothing, thereby making a fool of yourself in a public forum.

I like your behind you displayed on your dp. I DMed you.

MhisTahrah:
This is not healthy, bro.

Why not, sis?

fieryy:
ZooOga, I already sent a message by the way and I don't think I crushed your ego

I like your dp, your moniker reflects on that dp. I ma DM you, you gonna reply and we gonna keep the conversation going in private, alright?

MhisTahrah:
Them plenty o!

Whoo! Thank you for counting me among the many. I have DMed you, let's keep it going in the private chat.

fati2001:
THE SENSITIVE ONE'S.

Sensitive or sensible ones?