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Bola146:
Some ladies don suffer, that is why you shouldn't start what you can't continue. Both of you are gigolo Oniranu No better plans for the future, both sex is the first thing

Why do you make sex a big deal? Do you want to blame God for creating sex? If you you have the opportunity to release the tension in you, you better get phucked.

This is getting serious in Osun State.

ladywealth:
well, you don't need to start being suspicious of her having affairs with other guys. it might be a change of mind to stay clean before marriage. just watch her closely. you can ask her why she wants to practice celibacy, that is if you guys give room for serious communication.
her thing is wide, abeg who wide am?

The girl is seeing another guy, there is no doubt that. She's using celibacy as excuse to deceive this guy.

Fero24:
Hi everyone... First time posting here cos i need your advice on a Lil issue

My girl friend of 2 years just informed me that she wants to practice celibacy.. That she wants to stay outta having sex for awhile and saying stuffs like.. Sex is overrated bla bla.. Meanwhile I've never for once heard of that from her..

I thought she was joking until she said it again in a stern voice.. And the way guys lament here on this platform about cheating girlfriends and how they neglect red flags is something else

So guys.. I just wanna know.. Is this a red flag? Because our last sex was like 4 months ago and we'll be seeing soon... Maybe her Congo have been shined by another nigga.. The thing is probably wide now and she is putting up some excuse... Who knows ...Though sex ain't food but I can't afford being cheated on ...
So please guys.. Is this a red flag I shouldn't neglect... Thanks..

FYI.. I'm planning to Marry Her.. She knows my family and vice versa..

If I told you to remove the thought of marrying her from your mind, you won't listen but act feebly.

You already know that's a red flag. If she says she wants to go celibate way, let her go but make sure you cut all the communication between you two while she is observing her celibacy. Don't call her, don't chat her, let her enjoy her celibacy. If she still means business with you she will call you to ask why you have stopped calling her, tell her you don't want to disturb her celibacy, just act indifferent to her. While doing this, pick up another girl you share similar idea with. If the former is seeing another guy, you will know by this time, this time know it's over between you guys. Make a paradigm shift to the latter girl. Life is simple sha!

Tyewolove:
Lol , maybe next time.

Won tunde o, when is the next time? I just want to have a chit-chat with you not for loving loving thing na. So, do reply the DM

Why don't you take me along with you? I have DMed you, let's talk about it.

Sunnyshinylight:
You sure want to park my life

Not really, I want you to preach to me and win my heart to yourself and to God, how about that?
I have DMed you do reply

Babara1994:
You want to give me something?

What something do you want and deserve babe?

Silentgroper:
. Alright bozz. Keep it up. Dnt let ur student down

I have observed that 90% of ladies on nairaland are single but are ready to tell you that they are not single(like I have a boyfriend) when they actually have no guy at all. If you are the serious type you can have a girl here bleeped in no time if you know how to play the game, trust me.

Silentgroper:
.. *claps hand*.

way to go bozz.

bt i dnt see any sign of begging to enta dm in dat write up

I don dey beg for DM since morning na I'm still on it.

It will be good you adopt your husband belief to avoid unnecessary family problems relating to differences in religious doctrine. I can't say you must not marry him because you are already entangled with him. So, weigh the option of adopting his belief or faith as you are going into marriage with him.

Sunnyshinylight:
Thank God for times of difficulties. They make us seek for solutions untold.

Don't give up! Someone is gone through where you're right now.



Folks think, oh when I am rich, nothing would trouble us again and everything would be fine. That's the deception of riches, don't buy it.

It's so hard for the Rich guy to be well, why, too many distractions are here and there.


Plenty of time wasting activities.

That would mean lack of glory connection to the inner Man

And he has a new master - Money.

And no one can be a servant of two masters. You see that,

Money begin to speak and truth which is Christ is disposed. It's so hard folks for proud rich guys. It's nearly impossible to be happy in the inside without reality dwelling in them.

How you need Christ in your thoughts in times when the bank is full of Cash. Folks think they only need God when they are poor, no, you actually need reality when you faced with lots of cash.

Christ gives you faith in poverty, to grow in loving God and Christ endlessly and God's children which is the greatest.

Money can't rule that kind of divine love

But, when you have Christ's love with money - which is the outpouring of grace combined, the people rejoicing. Many lives will be blessed and that's where the peace and rest emanate from.

Father of grace and truth, pour out lots and lots of your unfailing Love into our hearts,

That we might be informed of unspeakable signs and wonders of your truth,

The enemy thinks we can't see the kingdom of Christ, we do, Lord.

Our hearts and minds together meditate upon your blood poured out to wash and saved many.

Upon Zion, we are so complete, needing nothing. We focus on Christ, the author and completion of the Almighty.

So much Thanksgiving. Amen.



Would you accept this, if you were counseled

Sister, I like your sermon, you can do more of this in private with me. I just DMed you.

jodpoundz:
Experts on wooing babes pls i need your help, there is this girl i like i didnt know she like me until she told my brother bluntly that she like me about a month ago, but i dont know how to go about it becus i dont know wether she meant it or she just said it on a casual basis, she look strict on a normal day and i dont want to get the embarrasment of my life cus am not sure wether she feel the same, but i notice these days that she wear tight dresses when ever am around and she like asking me uneccesary questions maybe just to have a glance of my face but still am not sure, experts pls i need your experienced advise i dont want the girl to slip off my radar pls. abeg mature minds.

Why do you make ladies look demigod?
Call her to come over with the face that looks like you dominate the environment and the conversation and tell her that you like her, don't show too much seriousness to it so it won't make you look like simp or something just tell her "I like you", and I would want us to hangout together. That's it. The situation will further help you with what to say, don't let your voice shake or stutter. And if you saw any guy with her don't feel jealous otherwise you will appear insecure around her.

LilVast1:
Good morning NLanders
I'll try to be very brief about this

I was in a relationship with a girl for two years, unfortunately she left for reasons best known to her, I stayed alone for a year even when I came in contact with other girls who really liked me and would do anything to be with me but the scars my ex left still hurts
Now I've got another girl I really love and I'm sure she loves me too, but she's always complaining that I'm too *cold*
I really find it hard to engage her in a long conversation, I'm too shy to play with her, sometimes we stay together and all we do is get busy with our phones

I do not know how to handle this relationship and I'm really scared of losing this girl

You make it appear like you are the loser while your ex-girlfriend is the winner. If you keep it going like this, even if you have a good girl at hand, you won't know because you have allowed your past to cloud your mind that it affects your present.
Get over it, and engage your girl with all sincerity and love.

Let me add this to it, have some good number of sex but take your brain along as you dey do am.

You are on point my guy

rainerboy1010:
How you you do it?


if you find out after delivery its like this

Zzor is guilty of this I guess

virginprincess:
You just ended up saying nothing, thereby making a fool of yourself in a public forum.

I like your behind you displayed on your dp. I DMed you.

MhisTahrah:
This is not healthy, bro.

Why not, sis?

fieryy:
ZooOga, I already sent a message by the way and I don't think I crushed your ego

I like your dp, your moniker reflects on that dp. I ma DM you, you gonna reply and we gonna keep the conversation going in private, alright?

MhisTahrah:
Them plenty o!

Whoo! Thank you for counting me among the many. I have DMed you, let's keep it going in the private chat.

fati2001:
THE SENSITIVE ONE'S.

Sensitive or sensible ones?

UndauntedYOCA:
To be honest, I really do not care but if you think otherwise, no qualms.

Wait a minute! You don't care about being single? Come on! I know you care, but you just don't want to look and sound desperate about having a good guy like me. Trust me, I will make your every moment count with me. I ma DM you right now, you gonna reply ma DM so we get to keep the conversation going, alright?

Preciousgirl:
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

I am tired and stressed; tell me romantic things to relax

Well, if your aim is to laugh uncontrollably, I will DM you so we can talk on various topics to kill the boredom that is killing the vibe in you. Oya, reply my DM

Babara1994:
It is men with low esteem that turn down women's advances.

Which planet are you from? I have DMed you.

Silentgroper:
Lol.. I didnt call u here 4 dz shiit. Are u still pained? .. my niqqa 4get that shiit.
teach me hw u do ur begging, i need to beg dat shick. I swr down

Pained? Remember I whoop your ass in yesterday's banter? But that's not what I want today, I seriously want to start my DM begging today but you are disturbing me with your coward attitude towards girls. Just keep stalking around you will learn how to start a chat with any classy girl. Just stick around.

Nicenancy:
Anytime I see him, he will say I get him banana
And I am wondering
Is he speaking codedly?

You again?
What codedly are insinuating? You mean he wants to sample the banana on your...... sy?

UndauntedYOCA:
Lol, na but who cares? Na person wey get money dey get that kain time.

I know you care you are just waiting for the right guy like me to come and put smiles on your face. So, we'll keep conversation going on PM.

UndauntedYOCA:
Lol, I'm a little older, in fact, I add another year in 3 days time. I finished serving 6 months ago but covid hit and Nigeria isn't fun right now, should I kill myself? No! She shouldn't worry much, she should just acquire as many skills as she can, she should learn to save if she doesn't know how to but she must first run a business no matter how small. There are some businesses she can run with as little as 5-10k and she'll make some money. Make she save ooooo.

What about Bf? Do you have one? I will DM you right now.

Exciting:
will she marry herself?

Do you mind I DM you?

Silentgroper:
I can find my way back.

parkervero. Hwfa. Come teach me hw to beg. Cuz dz sweet missy must to accept my marriage proposal. 4 yday banters. Me nd u gada dey jor.

Market dey na. I never see your sister for DM na . I wan beg am for DM.

You will see more of my DM begging, trust me. Just keep stalking around my comments.

ZIINI:
Don't send pm I don't have access to that mail

I've sent you. Oya reply now

ZIINI:
Don't send pm I don't have access to that mail

I will send it, just do check it out. Are you scared?