Dearly beloved, be courageous! If you have a plan of learning to drive, you can do that in the evening after and weekend while you are still on your job.
Secondly, take a moment to have a quiet time, don't always dance to the tune of your wife in terms of spending. if N140k is for a flat, look for a two-room apartment, while working out your salvation (Phil. 2:12}. It is better to struggle before standing than to think that you are standing while you're down.
Let the word of God be your companion.

Every reasonable inlaw respects his brother, sister, main/mother-in-law... there4 at d sighting any of his inlaws, he would maintain/pretend as if nothing happened. on that single respect, you take him out to chart outside d case to wave away his mine at the moment till u find out 4rm ur sister/daughter wat transpired b4 action. (i.e, u must hold ur temperament.)

A man that surrender and later returned to carry Arms has no good plan for the community/state, because he had a mission for coming out the 2nd time. Nigerian Army owe no one apology. Anyone disturbing again for this matter deserve to be arrested. Dan. 11:32A

Guy sori i c dis msg late, but i hav 2 reply it.
Pls n pls guy, respect d girl's courage 2tel u dis witout deceiving u n run away at d end.
Just appreciate her courage, respect her n step up ur hustling so dat ur next babe can b a living testimony 4wher d runaway soldier is...

My dear tenant n Lawyers that wrote the letter, does it means the apartment doesn't have a size? is it a duplex, 3bd flat, self-content, face me - i face u
Pls be specific let me know where i can be of help, though i still have a question...

Nwannem u've tried, we r proud of u. ur case is very different bro! always have ur nation and super eagle in ur heart. more blessings!

My brother, it's d spiritual dat controls physical! It's not normal as u rightly said, U might have prayed lots of prayers u know, but u need someone wit higher grace to conduct a deliverance on u. It's forces dat fight against ur relationship in life, n dis can make 2remain single in life time! seek for a good deliverance ministry for deliverance.

The truth there my dear is that one might be opportune to associate to English people without being educated, he/she can speak English very fluently. That does not measure her level of intellect. Thanks

Thank you all, i really love you all 'nairalanders' you are indeed a friend, brother & sister your keen advise seriously i will say it's encouraging. The truth is without communication, no good relationship! Today is my 5th Years Wedding Anniversary. God Bless You In Jesus Name.

HAPPY BIRHTDAY MY PASTOR AND FRIEND! MORE WISDOM OF GOD AND INSPIRATIONS.

I love this woman with her style/swagalicious... though old age don dey knock pom pom pom on her side. one love

Dear Nairalanders, I've married for 5years now and from the year of marriage i have been spending money from one treatment to another for her to take in and she's a kind of woman that drugs easily react on her and that has makes me waisted a lot of money because she has never completed her prescribed dosses due to reaction. And i can't continue like this without a child. pls advice me. Tnx

Nne, we know you guys can do some wonderful, we are strongly behind you and praying for team. Carry on! No fear. Most importantly, you guys should not operates on the Naija team ideology by being more strong/serious after the opponent score first. Take your stand from the beginning, for our good Lord shall strengthen you all in Jesus Name!.

My dear, you speak as one with no thinking faculty!
Your level of understanding and Christianity, to me is in doubt.
Do you think it's every churches accept so call trousers for women and to keep your hair open?
You first and foremost know where you are going to and the nature/pattern of the area before making a move.
You don't walk to a place because you've gotten a new dress for yourself to show up. You were even lucky that you enter into the church before they asked you to leave. For me, you wouldn't have stepped to the premises. Be Wise!

My dear don't mix up issue with your life, either she committed abortion(s) it’s about you, if you love her. The remorse is the act of exposing the in-depth xter of whom she is. So decide!

Though the questions are tactical, but to surprise you all, there's no sex without communication!
No Romance without an initiation with communication
No Trust without discussion which is "Communication"
No Faithfulness without interaction that equals to "Communication"
There4, COMMNICATION is basic not as important as SEX...

My dear, it is not a story rather its carelessness and stupidity! Was the ring fixed to the finger by charm or by dream? How can a matured person be that forgetful to be freeing his/her finger regularly as she's taken her bath and at her free time. Its better let the entire hand be chop off.

I must sincerely appreciate each and everyone that contributes to my heart pouring grieve, your advice are fully accepted by me, i don't know about you out there that facing same itch! God bless you all...

THEY WANT TO TELL ME SAY AKWA IBOM STATE INTERNATIONAL AIRPORT NO FOLLOW?

What should you do as married man/woman when realized that your spouse actually was a mistake after 3years in marriage?
Also, when you the person you suppose marry doing fantastically well in life?

Madam, wat den will happn 2ur 1st daughter dat startd d fingering wit her small finger if ur flare at ur mate? Temper anger wit justice... if u r 2jail ur mate, den ur 1st daughter shall nt go court free! Think.

Miss Benue is my favourite!

IF our girls have made us happy, let us in return make them happy because of next time. This matter shouldn't be overlooked. As a matter of fact, someone or group of people can take it upon themselves 'if the head would not know their value, let the neck response to it. That's but a piece of my word!

What is the meaning of this? u no fit ask 4 fufu, semo evn eba? wetin mak u request 4 sea food, na sea u wnt follow come bck hom? Be careful!

Use the vehicle and appreciate our Nigerian made vehicle, stop complaining! @danot1030 mind your tongue before it clips to your teeth. Kudos my Igbo brothers; am not from there but I must commend you guys. I'm even looking for an opportunity to get one of Innoson's small car. Keep on my man! Long life Innoson,
Long life Nigeria.

Amen!

I must appreciate your effort dear, this's wonderful. more grace!

NOTHING WRONG AT ALL. BUT LET THAT GIRL BE MENTALLY AND NATURALLY MATURED HAVING UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT. YOU AS HER SISTER, SPELL OUT TO THAT MARRIAGE IS AN INSTITUTION WITH NO SEX TIME TABLE NOR DENIERS.

@bullet, my dear you really shoot this one at the head, it's very interesting and educative, I've never tried it before. But believe you me that I gonna try some of the apps right away. Moreover, guys always read the information about any app before installing in your phone because some app is designed for fraud with some attractive functions/features. Please, let's be wise and frustrate any fraudulent acts. Kum man!

That's foolishness! a colourful scar on his eyes. No pity!

Kudos to them, but all these pix are just same 2 persons... is that all they could kill?