₦airaland Forum

rampant:
sweetheart even my husband wont do this kind of thing,that is one thing im sure of

Prolly thats why you escaped my radar. Let your husband go and bag his degree. You will be so happy later in the future when you are both addressed as: Dr and Mrs Kadry.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=155158.msg2571642#msg2571642 date=1217278280]@ pataki

6 months is a sacrifice. . . 3yrs is not happening![/quote]As a chess player, a good and worthy sacrifice is always highly beneficial. View it from the long term perspective.!!!!

Hannibal:
I can't believe the reaction of the women on this forum.
Blimey. . . . . These women are the first to say MEN are too randy and cannot keep their stuffs in wraps.
3 years and they are complaining?? Jeeeeez.

Women are special beings seriously!!!!

syren:
@ post

I wonder how the wives of soldiers at war survive.

I wonder too. Maybe our fellow nairaland women can help us out.

[quote author=motun_rayo link=topic=155158.msg2571613#msg2571613 date=1217277973]2 months is even pushing it let alone 3 WHOLE [/b]years . . . . . . .[b]I wouldn't allow it [/quote]Can you undergo a one year training full sponsored by your Employer that requires you leaving your husband for some months?

I suggest you sit down with your husband and deny that offer.

Hannibal:
There are summer breaks now and studying in Ukraine does not prevent the wife from visiting.
3 years is not too much. . . . .She should let her hubby bag his degree.

EXACTLY!!!!

rampant:
its either we all go together or nothing else,simple

If I were to be your husband, I may not agree to you coming with me immediately.

rampant:
pataki i wont take it ,if d money is too much ,let him sit his ass down and work hard to study nearby ,i aint allowing the man leave me for 3 whole years now way

It will be more cost effective if he wants to do it somewhere like Ukraine. Circumstances differ, and sincerely it is for a better future for you, your kids and himself that he wants to undertake this quest.

Release him and before you know it, three years is already over.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=155158.msg2571518#msg2571518 date=1217276652]last i checked, its for better for worse till death do us part. . ,

no parting allowed oh, we will for better for worse in ukraine or wherever he wants to go [/quote]He is only going for some no of days not a whole lifetime. So three years is not a worthy sacrifice for you to undertake for your husband?

At least death is not parting you, and neither is distance. In this day of technology, make a video call to him every minute.

rampant:
pataki no let me vex send u some e-slaps oooo three whole years i go just quench,infact i go die thank God my hubby can't do that shit,instead him go say e better say him no go school than leaving his wife for 3 years,hell no

Just three years to advance his careers so that things can better for you all. What happened to the quote: Behind a successful man is a . . . . (devil?)

Let him go and advance himself. In the business world, they call it Continuing Professional Development. You should be proud he wants to undertake it at this point in time of your marriage.

onyinye2:
so pataki, you would allow your wife to leave you for three years to finish her studies??

Yes sweets I will allow her to go and finish her studies. It makes the relationship more fun.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=155127.msg2571509#msg2571509 date=1217276546]so now u blaming the ladies?

All I'm saying is ladies need to take the lead sometimes, then they can get bragging rights. . . its not so hard anyways, u guys make it so easy [/quote]It has always been the ladies world right?

Once a lady begins to take the bragging right, there is total calamity written with it.

Yeah right, we guys make things easy sure indeed.

Women and their insatiable quest.

What happened to for better for worse?

At least he is not going for the rest of his years.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=155127.msg2571468#msg2571468 date=1217275879]Its already a thing of the gender and bragging has set in for a while now. . .

I'm simply suggesting that the genders be switched for universal balance and world peace [/quote]Genders be switched for universal balance and world peace? Thats so funny.

It takes a lot of guts to be a guy. Can you take it all the way, if you are seeking for universal balance and world peace?

That being said, bragging comes into play when you ladies make it tough on the bruvas out there.

triistar86:
Well if you are that myopic as to suggest or imply that only lagbaja is actually original with his beats and songs in Nigeria then there is no point arguing with you.
You win shikenah. Hope u are happy now[b]_{(I now hand over the championship belt of Ignorance and Bad sense of Judgement to you)} [/b]

Well if you are a reasonable person who knows his onions, you do have stated your points in matters of which artists contemporary Nigerian artists create their own originality, rather than throw your cheap and silly ignorance belt away.

No point dressing issues with you. You are a WARLORD with ignorance.

Jayon again?

I just gbadun this guy. Crazy liar.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=155127.msg2571214#msg2571214 date=1217272490]But it should be. ,

I appreciate that u are seperating yourself from the pack but that doesnt mean that there are many out there who are this way and i think that what this topic is trying to address [/quote]It should not be sweets.

Once you start making it a thing of gender, bragging sets in.

triistar86:
Ma guy go do your research before you start talking and giving examples.

Research on MUSIC? If you are so well versed, you can give me those who are so original amongst the current Nigerian artist today. You can start with Gongo Aso.

Na wa o!

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=155127.msg2571139#msg2571139 date=1217271627]You might think so, but the way some men go about it tells another story. . .

the whole shagging and bragging concept only came about because the man believes that he scored making women feel used. . . if d woman did d scoring, that will eliminate all the shagging and bragging problems.

Ladies need to do some chasing and conquering of their own. . . problem solved![/quote]Men naturally love to explore and conquer their environment.

While you have a part of your argument right, the latter part is grossly wrong. Sex is not about the WOMEN. Bragging about scoring a girl is principally hinged on inferiority complex of the guy involved.

Ladies should know when to avoid such men.

@ Poster,

You have no reason to get married.

Good luck to you.

@ Topic,

It depends. If I placed the pressure on her, I accept it was my fault.

If she places the pressure on me, the relationship surely will not last long by me.

arianne:
bragging is an exaggerated and debasing form of it.

make u do come back, we dey wait!

It is still the same thing.

Come back and state it on nairaland? Haba!!!!! I am not like some YIM specialist who kiss and tell.

What happens in my life, stays with me.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=155127.msg2571023#msg2571023 date=1217270550]let me rephrase that. . .
if women make the sex about them, rather than about the men, they get bragging rights!


In other words,

women need to take more control of who, where, when and how it all happens. . . they'll be more satisfied and be secure in the knowledge that it was their decison and about them[/quote]You are still saying the same thing.

SEX is about the WOMEN.

Moyola:
naaa. . . . that juzz takz da pisz!!

such guys r 'Olorikorizzz'

n need a dic.k slayer, i mean a girl 2 knock sum sense into hiz di.ck hed!

Ewwwwww! You are so razzz


@ Topic,
It is so easy to identify guys who kiss and tell. Often times, ladies are too stupefied to use their senses and detect one when he is round the corner.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=155127.msg2570978#msg2570978 date=1217270092]the girls set themselves up for it. ,

if u make the sex about u rather than about them, u get bragging rights![/quote]Them? Meaning: WOMEN?

Since when did shagging become about them?

How many of the current Nigerian Artist are actually original with their songs and beat?

Prolly only LAGBAJA.

Is bragging not a form of telling?


Let me go shag come first.

This section is where you read of the sexual frustrations of people, and you get to see how desperate some peeps are just to hook up with the opposite sex.

sistawoman:
Lets be real when a woman meets a man she puts him in one of two categories:

F,uck able and
Unf,ckable

no matter how much she drinks he stays where he is put. 99.9% of the time.

Hmmmmmm! Interesting.

I am very sure, your fellow women will agree with this statement of yours.

sistawoman:
I still don't believe alcohal is going to make you do anything that you don't want to do. I have been so drunk out my mind that i was seeing double and throwing up. But I made sure I went home and laid down by myself.

I have had dudes that thought because i had some drink and smoke up in me i was going to do the do and I have had to cuss a few out because if i was not going to do it sober i am not going to do it in an altered state of mind.

Please people claim to black out and claim to not remember what they did just so they don't have to admit that they are really slutting with or without the influance.

Even a drunkard will always assert that he is in right senses.

@ Topic,

This is really hilarious.

Whats with the emoticons after my posts? Are you now beyond comprehension?

While in Uni, I attended a party where the girls were served a different kind of alcohol different from the guys for a deliberate purpose. It was highly concentrated to make the girls quickly loose their senses, while the the guys were served the regulars.

The decent girls declined the drink and opted for a simple fanta or coke. While those who were out for fun, drank just two filled cups and they were already beginning to misbehave.

@ Topic,
Yes, alcohol has a tendency to influence behavior of Women who tend to take it too much.

@ Topic,

No it does not.

nmadi:
Hi nairalanders,

If you have a problem with your guy and he brings in another girl to stay with him for two weeks and came back apologising, what will you do and I still love him

Two weeks - day and night camping of another babe. After two weeks, and the girl leaves he comes running back to you

Get it into your head girl, you are simply just another of the ''girls'' at his disposals.

My advice is, start flushing out every love mentality you have for him, it will not be easy, but you just have to do it. Unless you want to remain a mumu forever.

Chat2MeBac:
@topic
Dyed my hair Green, Blue and Yellow, wanted to show my boyfriend how patriotic I was

Even you too!!!

JasmineSie:
men me sef i don mumu gano

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[li]got a 100k for him 'because his mumc was to undergo an operation ended up not even getn introduced to the mum
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[/list]slept on the floor with him 'because his house was undergoing repairs
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[/list]entered bus to go see him and ended up not meeting him at home
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[/list]washed his disgusting laundry and cleaned up d house can't rember gettin even a thank u
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[/list]went clubbing d day before he was to leave d country with him just to please him n got some plenty insult<hoe,bitch,etc>
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[/list]eaten garri n suya because his ass was broke
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[li]cut ma hair because he likes 'em short[/li]
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but at the end if love comes ones way again we'd still do d same things n all that won't stop me from lovn

@NubianQ
we'v all beeen mugus,n mumus for those we love.

@ibkaye
m sure u must be kiddin else he musta jazzed u,i mean how na,

Jasmine, all for just one guy you did all this?!?!

Glad to read the positive post after your experiences. Keep up the positive spirit.

onyinye2:
What, do you have this perception of me that i wouldn't any chores in my own household??

Yes I do. But never mind, I am in the clear now.

_{Not that it matters though.}

onyinye2:
Yeah im a neat freak so yeah i would be doing chores too. and so would my husband.

Interesting to read this from you.

@ Topic,

It tickles their fancy.