₦airaland Forum

No remorse.

He is a political nomad! Looking for the next patch of vegetation

Make e explain himself nah abi e be deity. No be fellow Nigerians on a daily basis dey behind police counters explaining what they do not know about.

caprini1:
I tell you my brother,and they top it up by joining beard gang and getting a customized Arsenal or man u jersey,life don set be that

Well, every man and his aspiration.

When you discuss the need for anger management some interpret it as cowardice.

caprini1:
Beautiful edifice.....I hope they have very well equipped facilities to enhance science research? Enough of people going to school to just come out and sit in one office,take salaries ,drive a Honda EOD ,live in a mini flat,date Zainab and it ends there.

You captured the sequence very well!

tellwisdom:
Na this half plot of house wey look like dental clinic Dem dey celebrate??

Upload the one room you have built for your family.

Whizkidjay7:
wat about 15years old boy who scored 332 in jamb and 9 A1 in waec, he did not smash it abi? may God bless this Nigeria sha

Did he apply for the same scholarship?

Even a man will prefer 6 cars to his 6 packs.

enoch273:
Hope the dude is brilliant, else it would like trying to fill a basket with water.

No child is dull, it is all about teaching application.

Adebowale89:
African will always be african. we can tends to imitate whites but our originality will never depart from us

Having the number of children one can comfortably cater for is not imitating the whites! Abi you think say oyinbo no born as we presently do? The Canadian musical legend Celine Dion, her parents had 14 of them! Why she no born like her mama? Why do you think enlightened and financially comfortable Nigerians outside of religion are having less children even if their own parents had 10 of them?

It is all about quality not quantity.

I prefer to have 3 children that I will provide strong emotional support, health plans, feeding will not be a concern, life assurance policy, give the best education and get to travel out of their environment and experience the world rather than have 8 children I will struggle to feed, accessing poor quality public school education and may likely die out of pressure leaving my wife to struggle alone as I know extended family will not contribute to their upkeep as they have their own responsibilities rather they suggest some of my children be shared out to different people. Most 9 year olds who are house-helps, mechanic assistants, street hawkers etc come from such settings.

A child is entitled to basic comforts.

Adebowale89:
east cultural belief, infact Africa as a whole is quite different from white and we can never reason like them, same as whites we never replace their culture with Africa own

East believes in a male child which would be the one to hold the home back on the latter. they want to have a boy which they're entitled to and it came in multiple. that's not the man fault nor the wife. God giveth and taketh


so your rational belief cannot overhaul their knowledge of their cultural settings


in conclusion the babies are on earth already, if you're their father and it happen coincidentally, would you throw them away because you're just roaming on the circle of repetition. your analysis won't send the kids back neither would it provide for them? leave the rest to God and their parent

Of course I wouldn't throw them away. Let the parents take responsibility of raising them in comfort and make sure the man does not abscond as he had earlier thought rather embrace his blessings.

And talking about cultural setting, am igbo like them.

The law courts do not respect street levels. Come with your evidence and defend yourrself

Adebowale89:
and one rational decision making doesn't justify the end most time. man proposes but God disposes


we can continue reasoning as the most perfect person on earth but God had the final says



Dora akuyili don't have money to save his life? or tinubu don't have money to takecare of his dead son?


when is not your just your time, destiny had it takes in the race of life. that's why yoruba do pray that any wrong destinies I have chooses unaware should be remodified to the glory of God


á gbon to olorun

We can not be wise as God but God has given us the ability to rational decisions.

Applying the Psychoanalytic theory, most of those who have become sociopaths can be traced to their source...their family, childhood.

The circle of poverty will continue in Africa as long as Africans continue to procreate irresponsibly and hoping God will make a way. Those who are having the number of children they can comfortably take care of emotionally and financially will certainly not end up in hell for not having more and hoping on chance.

Is it an abomination to have the number of children that would not suffer basic material needs?

Adebowale89:
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God is a man of wonder, he doesn't reason the way human reason


they both think of having a boy and he surprised them. so should throw them away? those kids would open a way for their parent because God is involve



God that made someone with pass grade wealthier than first class, surely can be unpredictable

Why will such a reasoning only applicable to our setting? If it is about multitude of children opening way for their parents by now there should be near zero poverty in the North!

The loss of their two sons, is it not likely because of lack of funds to take care of their medical needs?

Is the man not already struggling fending for his 4 daughters and wife?

I believe in rationality in decision-making while I leave the rest to God.

Adebowale89:
they shall be a blessing to their parent. i love love babies so much

It is children properly catered for that have higher chances of becoming blessings to their parents. Na person born those streets urchins.

Ugosample:
it's one thing I hate about my people tho


the craze for male children


Igbo folks ard


now where is the money to take care of them

if they don't die of hunger

they will grow to be vagabonds

That is the grim reality, they expect obiano and Peter Obi that both only have two children each to contribute taking care of their 9 children.

In search of a male child after the 2 earlier ones died, they ended up getting 4 sons and a daughter......9 children in all.

Was it lack that led to the death of the two boys? Procreating should be tied to level of means of sustenance to avoid the repetition.

perdollar:
noooo!its called sex appealing for sexual healing. incest is gud for u. u can try it at home wt ur sister or cousins or mother or aunts. u WL enjoy it.

Go read up under which Paraphilia you fall under as it will help you with your self-awareness.

perdollar:
if ds woman na my mama, I for don kill my papa, n na everyday I go dey Bleep her

You are mentally and sexually disordered if you can frame your parents in such a way!

yeyerolling:
Some educated women have turned to quasi men as they bosses and ogas at work. Men run away from dem and go after 400l students or corpers. In other cases they take jobs of men leaving men to settle to lesser jobs and they cant settle down o that. Runs for cover

Taking the jobs of men? Was any paid employment ordained in heaven only for men or is it not for whoever is qualified and has something to deliver? Insecurity makes a man under productive.

cosmatika:
I didn't bother reading the long tweet, but this is wat I have to say;
All an average Nigerian lady can offer to a man is just sex.
Just this night I logged into In Messenger, one lady chatted me up, after exchange of pleasantries, she asked me if I wanted hookup? I told her no. She asked me why I'm on the platform if I don't want hookups, I told her I just wanted to make friends, that I'm not interested in sex as I have more productive things to do with my life. She started insulting me that I must be very stingy, that I'm looking for oshofree. I was just imagining, shey na person go marry dis one tomorrow?

Generalization is a dangerous mindset.

The West was once where we presently are.

He should come down to Nairobi to see if the Nigerian high commission go send am, yeye dey small! He should better call his family through any of those apps.

They sell and smoke weed on top of those coaches.

See gobe!

How this thread surpassed 2,000 pages still baffles me!

He that is down needs fear no fall.

hopefulLandlord:
I struck that part out cuz it doesn't matter if the person is an atheist or not. so long he/she judiciously utilizes resources then there's hope be he/she religious or not

Nigerias problems however runs deeper than what one person can solve

I responded directly to the OP's mention of an atheist and the implying from some responders that a person without religious affiliation is a no go area.

Yawns....

notoriousbabe:
This woman cannot tell me that since her husband died no man has sin her pants and pussssy

Can you think of your mom in that light?

Bobby4090:
Resign now let your son take over the church. The biggest mistake was to have given you a role you were never prepared for. Under your leadership Church of God Mission went from the No. 1 pentecostal church to almost an unknown entity.

Is it a business entity?