Family › Re: . by Pavore9: 1:40pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Beosten: I'm Godsent to her. Deal with that. Only decisions she had power to take backfired. Other decisions she had no power over but taken on her behalf by me are what she will be eternally grateful for. Signs that someone has Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
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Travel › Re: Plane Takes Off From 2020 And Lands In 2019 (pics) by Pavore9: 1:13pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Reverse gear!  |
Family › Re: . by Pavore9: 1:07pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Goodgod213: The only thing women in Nigeria knows are makeups and wigs with eyelashes.
Even to get dressed takes them 3 days. And you are talking of life changing decisions. Her own life never change na she wan make the life Chan hit decision for you.
Women are writeoffs honestly I believe you are referring to the females in your family who you grew up observing. |
Family › Re: . by Pavore9: 12:52pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
" but I have this gift of astral premonition and presaging dreams, and can tell, from miles away, the decisions that will backfire"....You had all these gifts and you were foolish enough to marry a foolish woman?  |
Family › Re: Procreation In Nigeria: An Open Letter To Every Mr And Mrs by Pavore9: 10:54am On Jan 01, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Dear Guys And Hubby.Act as a man.No woman will ever respect a weak man. by Pavore9: 4:48am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Sighs...... |
Family › Re: Is There Anything As A Destined Wife/husband. by Pavore9: 4:42am On Jan 01, 2020*. Modified: 5:10am On Jan 01, 2020 |
All these Prophets and Prophetesses that only see negatives, is it no one that said Funke Akindele with never have children? |
Nairaland General › Re: Happy New Year, Nairalanders by Pavore9: 12:02am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Same to you all. |
Family › Re: Procreation In Nigeria: An Open Letter To Every Mr And Mrs by Pavore9: 10:50pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Chapter1vs6: Leadership and Politics is a game of numbers..
. Have fewer kids if you like, the North will always be in charge due to numbers Should Nigeria split, what use it that number to the North if it is not economically productive and the continued low human capital development? |
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Family › Re: Procreation In Nigeria: An Open Letter To Every Mr And Mrs by Pavore9: 9:50pm On Dec 31, 2019*. Modified: 10:45pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Charleys: What powers do you have to tell people the number of children they should have?
Some NGO's have been paid to bring up all this fake stories about having kids and not able to feed them. Millions of Nigerian kids out of school is fake story? Those kids given out by their parents as househelps, street hawkers etc are fake stories? Stories we read and see where some men disappeared when their wives gave birth is also fake? |
Career › Re: Why Are Few Nigerians Studying Counselling Psychology by Pavore9(op): 9:22am On Dec 31, 2019 |
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Family › Re: I Don't Love My Wife Like Before, Advice Needed by Pavore9: 8:46am On Dec 31, 2019 |
jakandeola: dats choleric You read an explanation of what it is about or you can google search for more. |
Family › Re: Dear Married Men by Pavore9: 6:02am On Dec 31, 2019*. Modified: 9:05am On Dec 31, 2019 |
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Family › Re: I Don't Love My Wife Like Before, Advice Needed by Pavore9: 5:42am On Dec 31, 2019 |
johnkey: My uncle marraige is like this but more fierce because they go physical and destroy things, just yesterday phones got spoiled. I'm seriously contemplating on just having a baby mama next year, after breastfeeding my baby for 2 years I collect my child and give to my mom. Marraige is scary. Collect your child from the mother and give to your mom  As per the lady is a mad woman with no family of her own? |
Family › Re: Girl, 13 Dies Giving Birth To Her Father's Child In Brazil(Photos) by Pavore9: 5:18am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Ishilove: And the shocking thing is the girl looks like her dad. I wonder what the man's defence will be. Probably blame the devil who was minding his own business.
The news I read online nowadays leaves me sick to the pit of my stomach. The horror...
Mother's please monitor your children. These are terrible times we live in. There are incestuous relationships being covered up in families, it only gets to the internet when it blows up. |
Family › Re: Girl, 13 Dies Giving Birth To Her Father's Child In Brazil(Photos) by Pavore9: 4:41am On Dec 31, 2019 |
She lived under the same roof with her parents and was sexually abused by her father for four years and the mother is claiming ignorance?
It will be to the best interest of the baby boy to be given out for adoption rather than facing the stigma of his birth by being raised by the family.
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Family › Re: I Don't Love My Wife Like Before, Advice Needed by Pavore9: 3:48am On Dec 31, 2019 |
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Family › Re: I Don't Love My Wife Like Before, Advice Needed by Pavore9: 8:53pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Two Cholerics? Fireworks!
"One problem with people of this temperament is that they struggle to accept anything perceived as criticism. If they are criticized or even simply opposed, they will confront people and try to dominate those who they received criticism from. They will try to win through loudness and intimidation"
I suggest you both go for couples therapy.
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Family › Re: How Can I Get A Good Maid In Uyo. by Pavore9: 4:42pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
megatran: Planning on relocating to uyo next year and would be needing this service for the beginning months or until i have a girlfriend. i dont seem to have good information on jiji. i would appreciate any pointers.
Advice and comments are also welcome. Thanks A bachelor needing a house maid?  |
Family › Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Pavore9: 4:12pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
luluosas: You think so? I pray you don't fall a victim of satanic manipulations in your entire life. But if you ever do, Jesus is waiting to deliver you right there. In this given case, it is irrational thinking that is at play and leave satan out of it. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mass Evacuation In Australia As Heat Risk Rises by Pavore9: 2:27pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
ghettokid1: This is the only place wey Africa better pass oyibo We come up with our own disasters. |
Family › Re: Teach Your Kids Igbo In Just 7 Days-IGBO SCRABBLE FOR KIDS +FREE Igbo DICT.(Pix) by Pavore9: 1:38pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
It is not about the children going to the village someday but day to day communication at home.
Nice concept as they get to learn while playing. |
Family › Re: PLEASE HELP: My Employer Refused To Pay Me by Pavore9: 1:32pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Edithevans: The only picture taken with her children during the 2015 Christmas was sent to her as not having a phone was one of the conditions of working with them.
I have personal pictures taken in the house Pictures of you with her or her children would have served as a proof you had something to do with them but with no written agreement as all has been oral and her having left Nigeria, it would be difficult to get her to pay. |
Family › Re: Dear Married Men by Pavore9: 1:27pm On Dec 30, 2019*. Modified: 2:33pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
True, though women are more of caregivers but being a helping hand should be appreciated in words and actions, a wife helping out should not be taken for granted. |
Family › Re: PLEASE HELP: My Employer Refused To Pay Me by Pavore9: 1:23pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Edithevans: No. Everything was just oral between her brother and my family and a phone conversation.
The said brother said he can't help me too as they are no longer in good terms Did you take any picture with her or with her children while still with the family? |
Family › Re: PLEASE HELP: My Employer Refused To Pay Me by Pavore9: 1:14pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Was there any written agreement signed by you and her? |
Family › Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Pavore9: 12:00pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
healthserve: Maybe I didn't read patiently. Thanks You are welcome. |
Family › Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Pavore9: 11:52am On Dec 30, 2019 |
luluosas: Don't leave your marriage. The devil is the one motivating him to maltreat you in order for you to sin against God by becoming a divorced woman. Please, find your way to Jesus Christ Temple Ministry, Warri, second Wednesday of January, 2020, and be delivered. You will surely come and share your testimony. Cheers. Ignorance is motivating him and stop bringing the devil into the situation. She does not need any deliverance, it is not spiritual. It is no sin in leaving a marriage that is toxic and nurtures loss of human dignity. |
Family › Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Pavore9: 11:48am On Dec 30, 2019*. Modified: 12:07pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Excelento: Did you in the first place leave your matrimonial home with the consent of your Husband? Is your husband in support of you leaving him in the first place? Did your Parents also seek his permission before taken you into their house? One cannot hear a part of the story and jumped into judgment. If all these are known then one may know the type of advice to give not judgement or conclusion. A human being do not need the permission of his/her abuser before seeking safe shelter somewhere else. |
Family › Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Pavore9: 11:45am On Dec 30, 2019 |
healthserve: I think you both need to make more money to cushion the financial expenses of the child's condition. If you make this priority, the situation can be contained, the energy in the marriage and the tension can be doused.
Best of luck The child has no condition. It is a case of the man bailing out. |
Family › Re: Why Women Should Stop Emotionally Abusing Men. by Pavore9: 9:03pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
lilmax: You should always slap a woman when she enters that idiotic phase I hope you can also slap a Nigerian soldier or a Police officer when they behave like idiots towards you? |