₦airaland Forum

Beautiful family, May God continue to bless your home.

Is he building a house somewhere?

Congratulations to him.

When you are being beaten worth billions of naira and not all those free of charge beatings on the street!

“We tried to explain who we were and that our documents were in the hostel, but they took us to a police station,” ......Always have your passport on you. They should get a lawyer to sue for the violation of their rights

jidamsel43:
In 2020 , the name will not be just most popular in USA alone but in entire world.

Muhammad (pbuh)

I hear you!

It can be anywhere, anytime. May his soul rest in peace.

And they forget that power is transient.

Yawns.

Habby121:
No I'm not...I even try to help out at home with my own little money.. I'm the only daughter of my parents and I have 6 brothers so they opened a business for me after I got married, he is unemployed but he trys to hustle like every other man

....Threatening you with getting another wife, clearly shows that he place no value on your marriage. You two need to sit down and discuss the issues your marriage is facing, communicate your feelings and let him, his.

Habby121:
We have been together for 6 years and during these 6 years I haven't ever asked him for any money to buy anything.. I manage whatever I see but he has changed all of a sudden, he even threatens to get another wife..he is older with 6 years

Are you financially dependent on him?

Cyberknight:
Your budget is very high. Don't submit it to your company in that form; they will think you are out to cheat them. $5,500 for a five days trip is $1,100 a day. Only politicians do that.

I go to Kenya fairly frequently (have been there twice this year, and will be there again in February).

Your most expensive round-trip ticket to Nairobi is about $750 to $800 (Kenya Airways). Ethiopian Airlines and Rwandair are slightly cheaper. Taking Emirates doesn't make sense unless you want to go to Dubai for some other reason, as you save nothing at all and fly for 7 hours from west Africa to Asia and for 5 hours back to east Africa.

KQ has a direct flight 5 days a week that takes from 4 1/2 to 5 hours. Ethiopian Airlines has the disadvantage that it arrives around 2 am in Nairobi. Never flown Rwandair to Nairobi, only to Kigali.

Depending on what your company's travel policy allows you (we get 3 star hotels), then budget from $60 to 80 a day for hotel room accommodation, meals another $25 - 30 each. The Ibis Styles has a US$80 room rate. If you are allowed 5 star accommodation, then you can start to make a hole in your projected US$1,100 daily. The hotel I always use is in an area called Westlands, which is comparable to say Ikeja GRA in Lagos, with a good number of wazungu (oyibo) staying all around the area, so that gives you an idea. There are lots of malls and restaurants in the area where one can eat and hang out.

Your projected cost of transportation and feeding at more than US$3,300 for 5 days - my goodness, that's about 1.2 million naira you just budgeted there.

For moving around there's Uber (much better cars there than the clapped out and occasionally rickety Corollas we use here, and for inter-town transport, there's the train to Mombasa at $US10 economy class, and if you need to travel to Naivasha or Kisumu, that's about 2 and a half hours to 3 and a half hours driving distance respectively.

You haven't said whether your trip to Kenya will require you to travel round the whole country in five days by air, because that is the only way one can spend 1,000 USD a day. Even if one was going on safari, one wouldn't spend that much.

Well captured.

A good number of them from East Africa na church program carry dem go Nigeria...Shiloh 2019, TB Joshua etc

May he shepherd the flock well.

"He said that as governor, Mr Kalu administered Abia transparently and never defrauded the state"....Can he swear with the lives of his family members that Kalu never defrauded Abia State in any way?

It is better they were stopped from travelling through human trafficking arrangement than getting there and start crying for help.

"Some owners have also resorted to putting their fobs in the microwave or the freezer".

Am still laughing.....whoever did put his phone number on Iyare motors facebook page is really mean!

May his soul rest in peace.

Until he wears a prison uniform, it is still audio.

Blackmailing you for sending you to a private university? Is it not his responsibility as a father to have you educated.? Ask yourself, should your health (physical and mental) degenerate to the level you can no longer function enough to earn an income, what will your father do?

Be assertive with your finances, let him know what you can afford to send him on a monthly basis. A friend was in similar situation, the father never call to ask about his welfare rather it is all about money and during one of the father's calls, he lost it and reminded the father that as a kid he had to do menial jobs to pay for both his junior WAEC and SSCE fees himself while the father was a no-show. After that the father respected himself concerning the demands as my friend now placed the father on a fixed amount monthly.

Be friendly, be interested in people.

"Eye service" for personal interest.

Was a hit in Nigeria back in the 90s.

The property being in the village makes it dicey because it is the "umunna" that are supposed to help resolve it but sadly, truth is far from many of them. Going legal is the only option available in such situation while your dad and your uncles are still alive because your cousins may feel entitled to "inherit" where their fathers presently occupy.

Babaheekmat:
Who told you he's your son.

Smh

Who told you that you are your "father's" son?

The former Imo State Governor who expressed fear of having lawmakers from the North who cannot address the senate chamber in English, asked for an intervention in the educational sector in the region......

Such nurtures insecurity issues in marriages.

Correcting the examiner!

A NGO assist you in doing what? You are a full blown adult who is fully aware that sex can also lead to pregnancy.

Let your family know about it and if you know the guy's family, your family should engage his. I am hoping that baby will not be born with congenital malformations going by the medications you have taken.

Nice one.

SillyeRabbit:
Thread says "Pre-wedding photos". But no, majority prefers to attack their personality. To OP, God bless your union.

As at 4.00a.m Nigerian time when most of who posted on the first page of this thread, the title of the thread said "Now I Know She Is Not Joking. /PIC/". The mod helped in repacking the title!

ugwusunday:
We have been together for some years now, but i keep insist that she must get pregnant for me before anything.
I want the house to wish me well, as am about to start a new life next year.

The hypocrisy is that you as a father will feel like killing the guy who flaunts your daughter's pregnancy like a trophy as a mere boyfriend as you just did and it reeks of low self-esteem.