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Excuzeme:
Exactly, when my now wife used to handwash my cloths, she used to find leftover money inside my pockets but she will just pick it and keep quiet!
One day l found a forgotten #1,000 note in my pocket so l went to ask her to refund all the money she has seen in my pockets and she asked me if they were enough to what l pay the laundry man?

Such lose change belongs to her!

Back then I washed my father's clothes, the small small change in his trousers na confirm "money for the boys"

Hmm...

Liverpool fans supporting Man U!
Man U fans supporting Man City!

Kolomental!

amaniro:
Return the money. it's not yours.

Return to who? Bales packed in the US, shipped to Benin Republic and sneaked into Nigeria......where is she to start from?

Making efforts to look "street".

It is so wrong, why should your husband feel it is okay to outsource nurturing role that is the responsibility of you both at this stage of his life.

Imagining the gridlock tomorrow!

Sigh.

A father who has been comfortable with hugging his children from their infancy, will easily be hugged by his children even as adults.

Artistree:
That he's 27 doeowbt mean the father can't fend for him...he lost 5years and so doesn't have the prerequisites to get a job and fend for himself.
Stop shaming people for things they don't have power over.. it's wrong.

This no shaming but learn how to dissect sense of entitlement.

Should he learn that his father intends to sell all his properties, can he sue him?

He is not a minor where the court can mandate his father to make provisions for him, no sentiments here rather if it is only through his father he can get to stand on his feet, he should forget going to court!

Osondu agwuike, life no get photocopy.

Gridlock.

Kaffyquincy:
Please will my passport be stamped if I travel with a motor company to ghana

Multiple times.

"Nobody Holy" is a defense mechanism, many hide under to rationalize their own lifestyle.

Artistree:
This is why we never move forward...we always compare our situations with others, forgetting we were all born different...

Yes born different but how does it sound a 27 year old man suing his father for school fees when such a person is not dealing with a disability that is impairing cognition.

Even in the realm of psychosocial development, it is not appropriate. Just as some have earlier proposed, going through litigation is no way to go.

Ha!

majamajic:
the man on the left will like food wella

see the excitement on his face

See as e spread leg wella!

When that Naira Marley get picked, hmm....

Livecamp09:
Guy, you just finished the guy. You are wicked

The guy provoke me o, how can someone who have not achieve that much be diminishing the efforts of another!

oduademon:
They are Hausas, its probably some shitty school in a muslim country in Africa or ME

How many of your family members got their Doctorate from Harvard?

You are probably the first person to finish secondary school in your family and here you are showing off your bitterness over those who dared for more.

What Mathematics has joined together.....Congrats to them.

Chubhie:
Flogging is outdated. Teach them cause and effects and the importance of learning from their mistakes. It's always okay to make mistakes. The highest punishment I give is to make em write I am sorry in 500 words or more

You are so right about it being outdated. Some of us think we are better than the West when it comes to raising children, ignoring most of what we mete out as punishment on kids the West have done it centuries ago and evolved into more effective disciplinary strategies.

Here is an article that would make a good read.


What is the difference between discipline and punishment?


Discipline is a positive method of teaching a child self-control, confidence, and responsibility. The key to positive discipline is teaching a child what behavior is okay and what behavior is not okay. The focus is on what children are expected and allowed to do. It includes catching kids being good and encouraging appropriate behavior. It also includes modeling appropriate behavior. Punishment is quite different from discipline.

Punishment may be physical as in spanking, hitting, or causing pain. It may be psychological as in disapproval, isolation, or shaming. Punishment focuses on past misbehavior and offers little or nothing to help a child behave better in the future. When punishment is used, the person who punishes the child becomes responsible for the child's behavior.

Children who are raised in a way that stresses positive discipline will understand their own behavior better, show independence, and respect themselves and others.

Positive discipline is a process, not a single act. It teaches children how to get along with other people. Children are held responsible for misbehavior, but the consequences are meaningful and related to the behavior.

https://articles.extension.org/pages/35919/what-is-the-difference-between-discipline-and-punishment

oduademon:
Spare the rod and spoil the child

Guess abusing your child is a parenting goal for you

Her scenes will centre around food!

Broda Agbaya.

Paulpeterparker:
before applying she should have considered her financial power.

Getting an admission letter has its thrill even when there is no clear idea of funding.

With their being comfortable fighting outdoors, it is a regular at home.

Collabo of spirituality.

Mobsync:
What happened to the pot of soup?

E be like say na dat one dey worry you pass!

Very improper of her to dip her hand in the stew. Her type are those who dip their hands in their mother's soup pot and were not punished for it and now she took that outside.