Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.


I am sorry but i think this story is one sided. You only summarized. If i had the opportunity, i honestly would love to hear your wife's part before advicing either of you. I have learned to apply wisdom where necessary cos these days people only tell you their part of the story untill you hear both sides of the story, u will sometimes find out the first story was not the whole story and u might also find out a dog barks for no reason and there's no smoke without a fire. That bin said, i am not saying she did the right tin saying money passes thru her bfor you send it to your mother. All i am saying is the story is incomplete...

Thanks.

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.


I am sorry but i think this story is one sided. You only summarized. Of i had the opportunity, i honestly would love to hear your wife's part before advicing either of you. I have learned to apply wisdom where necessary cos thses days people only tell you their part of their stories and when you hear both sides of the story, u will sometimes find out the first story was not the whole story and u might also find oua dog barks for no reason.

Thanks.

Yugosng:

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Pls drop d addy I am presently in k.d and would really love to attend if u do not mind. You two look veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy beautiful



Na for KD o. You go like chop bomb?

Yugosng:

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Pls drop d addy I am presently in k.d and would really love to attend if u do not mind. You two look veveryyyyyyyy
Na for KD o. You go like chop bomb?

eyinjuege:
3 children is a lot.
Even if she is working and can financially cater for the children, it will still be a stressful job for the man in question, especially if he's young and doesn't have his own children yet.
I can't even advice a young girl to do such and marry a man with 3 young kids. Na stress go kill am.
Let yoir brother go and look for someone else, unless he has the strenght and mind to look after another person's child as his. Not everyone can do that
Love may be blind but marriage is an eye opener. I'm not questioning the integrity of the woman or why she is divorced.
I understand completely that marriage is not by force, and its better to be divorced with peace of mind than married with stress and psychological issues where death may even be a better option to you.
I'm just concerned for your brother that 3 young children may be too much.
What that woman needs is an older gentleman, with relatively grown children of his own, and isn't pressured to have a biological child with her. They need to marry for companionship and not necessarily for procreation.

onyekabe:
There is this my brother, he has never been married. But now he said he has seen a woman he wants to marry.

But the problem is that his family members are not in support of the marriage because the woman is a divorcee with 3 kids under the age of 10. The kids live with the woman.

The question is, is it wise for this man to marry this woman and take responsibility of the kids because the woman says her kids must be with her.

donbachi:
Mine was in the year 2013,january 8.when my wife entered the thearter for the delivery of my child.two hours later,the doctor came out.and told me that my wife and child didn't make it.i ran into the thearter and saw my son lying dead inside a bucket,i couldn't do anything,just stood there confused.the doctor at that moment asked me to go and get a carton to put the dead baby,while my wife was lying lifeless on the thearter bed waiting to be taking to the mortuary.to cut the story short...1hr 45mins later,God brought both of them back to life.may his name be praised.

BigSarah:
Got Admitted To the University 3yrs ago, my parents warehouse(balogun market and market street Marina road cms) got burnt and they had commitments with banks, the banks cared less came for our properties, still wasn't enough for all the banks, little Miracle a worker in one of the banks they owed paid the final debt, all these happened within the space of a year, no external help, except BABA GOD OF COURSE. Till date how my fees are paid Is Through God's Big Blessings In My Wig Sales.
Not Were I was in The Beginning But I'm Certain I'll End Up Better Than I Started.

Meanwhile Check My Signature Ladies

LieDetector:
so she called with a strange line and hung up again upon me picking. Just that I refused calling back this time and have hence refused picking calls from strange numbers. She now called with her main line just yesterday and I still didn't pick. Dropped me a message on fb which I'm yet to reply. Am I overreacting Sis?

wearley21:
God can use anybody. Don't judge

Drniyi4u:
A 12-year-old girl can finally smile and eat properly after surgeons removed the football-sized tumour engulfing her face that was killing her.

Known only as Kaltoumi, she was given three months to live as the mass restricted her eating and slowly suffocated her as it grew over five years.

But she was saved after medics aboard the Africa Mercy - a hospital ship providing care to third world countries - docked in Cameroon to perform surgery.

Kaltoumi - who can finally smile and eat properly for the first time in five years - said after the surgery: 'It feels like a heaviness has been lifted from me.'




Known only as Kaltoumi, she was given three months to live as the mass restricted her eating and slowly suffocated her as it grew over five years



http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5585403/African-girl-12-FOOTBALL-sized-tumour-removed.html

LieDetector:
I asked this girl out sometime and she told me she has a boyfriend and that the boyfriend doesn't stay in town. I honorably withdrew my advances and she got annoyed because I stopped calling her. The few times I tried she refused picking out of anger.

She would call me with a different number just to hear my voice and then hang up upon me saying "hello".

To cut the long story short, we agreed to meet which we did and I noticed she's still playing hard to get. I don't know what to do at this point honestly.

Should I withdraw outrightly or should I still talk about us starting a relationship especially considering that I didn't bring up the ish in our recent meeting.

Help guys!

LieDetector:
I asked this girl out sometime and she told me she has a boyfriend and that the boyfriend doesn't stay in town. I honorably withdrew my advances and she got annoyed because I stopped calling her. The few times I tried she refused picking out of anger.

She would call me with a different number just to hear my voice and then hang up upon me saying "hello".

To cut the long story short, we agreed to meet which we did and I noticed she's still playing hard to get. I don't know what to do at this point honestly.

Should I withdraw outrightly or should I still talk about us starting a relationship especially considering that I didn't bring up the ish in our recent meeting.

Help guys!

Djyucee1:
Rest in peace Bro. Kelechi elendu is my blood brother.

Ruggedpen:
The worst part of the gist is that their are reading this post now and will soon change tactics and op will fall into the trap and still give us the new tactics. Wicked world, God save us

Tchiman:
For sometime I have been wondering why many Christians pray yet many a time their prayers are not being answer. I began to seek answer to this mystery until one man powerful man of God by name Apostle Joshua Selman Nimmak revealed the reason behind this in one of his messages I listened to which is actually true.

He said the reason why our prayers are not answer most times is because of the MOTIVE behind the prayer. Many a time we pray for selfish reasons...take for instance we need financial breakthrough, which of course is a little thing for God to do, but the question is "are we going to use the wealth for the advancement of the kingdom of God or to show off?...If the reason of your prayer is not, first of all to glorify God, then you are not ready for your prayer to be answered...

Motive behind our prayers, is the reason why most prayers are not answered because God sees and reads your mind!!

Folzye:
People are really going through a lot in this country, God help Nigeria

Marcus01:
it's a two way thing bro. A submissive man will get a submissive woman. Check Obama well too. He puts his wife first. Have you seen the way he treat his wife? Go figure too. Not all these useless men we have everywhere

lightblazingnow:
When your eyes are opened, you will realise that life is more than meets the eyes

Tenniebae:
U can try palmers cocoabutter...it works,maintains ur skin colour

SalamRushdie:
i have come across 5 cases and that Rhogam injection helped all of the after their initial miscarriages ...

jashar:
It's true ooo... I learnt this in my Secondary school biology.

jashar:
It's true ooo... I learnt this in my Secondary school biology.

shortgun:
Very dirty environment.
They should expect more snakes, crocodiles, scorpions.

Goddygee:
I no come understand this epistle but make I sha shook mouth for the Mata... since the UK government dem take care of the pikin make d parents kuku leave dem na, if to say the boy don mature na him for even say him no wan come back naija... hope say Una they feel am...

Tynasparks:
Happiness is all that matters.