₦airaland Forum

IbroSaunks:
well I didn't know smartness and clubbing correlate. I better write that down somewhere!

brainpulse:
obviously you dont know what they do in the night club. What kind of networking?

Orikinla:
Yes.
Certified HIV/AIDS Counselor.
Once for a Lagos based NGO and later in the office of the GO of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG).

You can notice many examples of role playing in my posts.

Role playing can help patients gain insight into self and others. It is an enjoyable, intriguing, and powerful therapy tool.

neyostica:
Vanity upon vanity
Seat with your wife and read bible or quran or watch africa magíc.

Choicegirl:
♍γ̲̣̣̥ bf called me and said he is broke. I felt sorry for him cos I know his sister who he gets money from isn't around and he is still a student. I bought breakfast, lunch and dinner for him that day.
Sounds okay to me.
I bought him recharge card and gave him some money to go home. Its not like I have so much money but I realise that love is about sharing and helping.
aaw lovely and kind hearted girl.
He called me again and wanted to ask me for money but he changed his mind and asked me not to bother.
Am starting to get suspicious now
Now his sister is back, I was expecting that he would already have money by now but he J̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊t̲̥̅̊ called me again and said he needs money to buy[b] a shoe and he wants me to buy him lunch [/b]when he comes to school.
Now this is going overboard. The guy knows very well that you are struggling like him so what the heck with shoe demands?
Is he walking barefoot? How was he surviving b4 you offered to help? Seriously what would happen if he skips lunch? I personaly don't need lunch to survive.Breakfast and dinner can see one through the day. Besides a shoe is not a 'need'.

Told him ♍γ̲̣̣̥ ATM card was missing. He said he would follow me to the bank.
Halo?? such people just cant take no for an answer.They always have other needs to take care of with the money hence the pressure.Bad manners.
I feel somehow because I have never asked him for money and he has never asked me before that day and I feel like he is taking advantage of the whole thing. I thought a guy was supposed to be shy asking a girl for money.
Nothing wrong with begging.But persistent begging is a nuisance and suspicious.