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coogar:
>>they want to keep themselves enslaved.

>>in their eyes, yes! and i go with the method that works fast for me without hassles.

>>it depends on where the relationship has reached - if it has entered marriage, she has nowhere else to go!

>>in igboland, you don't even have to speak to the chic directly to get her. just drive to her father's house. state your intentions for their daughter.
peel some wads of pounds. sit back & relax and watch the power of money: within few days, the girl would develop natural love for you instantly!

>>maybe i didn't even plan to stay there in the first place. have you taken that into consideration?

>>the biggest spender with the best composure usually wins the race. the moment she chooses him - then the race is over!

>>but isn't that the normal naija attitude. the moment they see you are dining in a 5-star hotel, they heap that burden on you. because you are paying, they automatically become a fan of what you are eating. babes do it and sadly, the men do that as well.
you are their life-saver!

>>the men can't fix it cos the babes don't want to be fixed.
aristo business in nigeria is the fastest growing industry! be warned!!

>>matter of fact, most men want to save their money towards other stuff. i welcome your idea but it's not just applicable in nigeria.

>>if they don't want to be saved then let them burn!

>>seriously - most times, their demands don't bother me. it's nothing off my skin. you want this - you want that? no problem!!
i am only after canaan! the end always justifies my means. ;[/b]D

i hope they listen to you for the greater good.

kenyaman:
WHEN YOU COMPARE THE TWO, IN QUALITY AND DEPTH, YOU FIND THE NARROW MINDED NATURE OF upendo89, who claims to be a woman, but violets the dress in the mother land.

freecocoa:
Okay,and they guys seem to have been angered by the goal board,cork passes it to Reality and Reality to jackpot,jackpot passes it back to cork(and their coach shouts go forward boys,stop the back passes) and cork gives a through pass to 190,190 passes it lefool,lefool doesn't know what to do with the ball,he stands there mooping like the foool he is,jaybee rushes forward and takes the ball from him,he's running like a pregnant women with pendo closely pursuing,OMG he is scared he passes the ball to tellmumu who shoots a very weak short without direction and the ball rolls like an orange towards freecocoa who walks majestically to pick it up muttering"what a bunch of lazy a*s*s  dudes.  And the commentator says"this is shocking and a disgrace to the men of NL,I hope their manager sells them off to enyimba for 2k each,well done girls you rock".

mekaboy:
LOL, MR BROWN.

THAT IS WHY A YOUNG MAN WHO CANT TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF SHOULD FORGET GIRLS AND CONCENTRATE TO MAKE MONEY.

WHEN YOU TELL A GIRL TO MEET AT A RESTURANT YOU SHOULD BE PREPARED.

IF YOU READ WELL SHE IS READY FOR YOU TO COME TO HER PLACE YET WHICH IS RIGHT.

WHY WILL SHE ENTER BUS TO MEET YOU ON THE FIRST DATE( YOU BE MICHEAL JACKSON?)

YOU TELL HER TO HAVE DINNER AT HOME, YOURS OR HERS?

MEN, YOU HAVE NOT EVEN GOTTEN TO KNOW HER AND YOUR ALL ABOUT THE MONEY YOU WILL SPEND.

IMMEDIATELY YOU ENTER THE RESTURANT, SHE PICKS THE MENU, YOU SHOUT" I CAN ONLY AFFORD SOFT DRINK" .

IS THAT HOW YOU GOT YOUR GF ?

MOST GUYS THAT ANSWER LIKE YOU, MUST BE GREAT WANKERS, THEY WILL RATHER BUY A LONG BAR OF TRUCK SOAP FOR 150 AND self-service WITH IT FOR A WEEK THAN SPEND 1500 ON A GIRL .

Mekaboy you got a FAIL .

mekaboy:
SO IF YOU DID NOT SPEND A DIME SHE WILL LOVE YOU ? WHO SAID SHE IS AFTER THE MONEY? SHE JUST DECIDED TO MEET YOU. DID SHE ASK FOR ANYTHING?  WINNING A GIRL IS A GRADUAL PROCESS, THIS IS ONLY THE FIRST STEP. YOU CREATED AN ENVIRONMENT, NOW ITS UP TO YOU TO USE YOU SKILLS TO IMPRESS HER DURING THE MEETING. IF YOU DID A GOOD JOB, SHE MIGHT GIVE YOU HER ROOM NUMBER.

THE NEXT TIME YOU WILL COME TO HER ROOM AND SHE WILL COOK FOR FOR,  SHE MIGHT EVEN BE FROM A COMFORTABLE FAMILY, BUT BECAUSE YOU REFUSED TO SPEND THAT FIRST 10K YOU LOST HER.

EITHER WAYS , YOU HAVE TO SPEND.

YOU MONEY CREATED THE ENVIRONMENT  AND OPPORTUNITY, ITS NOW UP TO YOU TO LEAVE A LASTING IMPRESSION. BUT YOUR MONEY PLAYED A MAJOR ROLE.

2buff:
Foolish boys. 
All that came to my mind during all that calculation is how much money una for don get if una go open restaurant business.
Get your paper first, then look woman side. 

mobf:
Well said! Unfortunately some ladies have sort of programmed themselves that  the next guy they date will be their husband. Now tell me if this kind of person will even want to "waste precious time' getting to know the guy and letting the love grow.

tlops:
ladies should start proposing!

hasyak:
i believe it has been proven beyond any reasonable doubt that MONEY=LOVE here in nigeria for 80%, so when you hear a lady complains about love " he does not care" just know that is either the guy is thru with her or the money is not coming any more

adconline:
So wooing her  to kidnap her or to keep her as your " sister"?  What are u talking about? "It's often said that money will not buy you everything, but have you ever tried buying without money?" That's when you know the value of money.

badmrkt:
for what na , dem b goat?na only women we suppose drag go alter,cus dem no sabi road,

alex406:
If you guys have spent years without the utterance,then do the shooting,ask him to. Haba, must men do everything? we are in a civilised world for crying out loud.

coogar:
@ pendo89,

i dunno how things work where you reside but mekaboy has just told you the realities of wooing a babe in nigeria.
don't you ever think he's exaggerating or telling porkies.
you cannot impress any woman without spending in nigeria - even if you are adamant, your siblings or your parents would warn you sternly never to bring such abomination into their home.

without money in nigeria, a man is the same as a decomposing corpse. naija babes won't even sleep with a man if he's broke - that's the reality.
10 different babes wouldn't mind sleeping with a rich bloke - they don't care if their rich boyfriend has other babes in line. as long as he gives them a fraction of his attention - all his good and dandy. your theory can only be achieved in developed countries where couples have the culture of going dutch on dates.

a naija babe does not even go out on dates with her purse - cos she expects the man to pay outrightly!

mekaboy:
BEFORE WE CONCLUDE THERE MUST BE SOME PRACTICAL EXAMPLES. 
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PENDO I CAN WOO A GIRL WITHOUT MONEY, I HAVE THE QUALITIES, BUT THE QUESTION IS WILL THE GIRL FALL FOR ME ?

I am glad to hear that. She may or may not.
My point is yes there are girls who will love you for who you are.Whatever you do afterwards is up to you. You can spend all you want on her because you already won her heart. You did not buy it.

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MRbrownJAY:
@pendo98
nobody should be dragged/blackmailed into doing something they are NOT ready to do. some women believe they can MAKE men ready but they are simply fooling themselves. these men decide to marry them simply because they are weak and have no other choices. . . . . . . . .  they go into it half-hearted and, most often than not, the union fail due to it.

also, how can men be "users" when they are in a R/SHIP?are we not giving TIME and EMOTIONS as well? just because we dont show our emotions as you women do , doewnt mean we aint in it deeply.
you are talking as if men are just TAKING and women are solely GIVING, abeg! we also give equally and therefore we cannot be labelled as USERS.